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I Want My Wife To Use A Strap On With Me

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    How To Get My Wife To **** Me With A *******

    I want my wife to **** we have strapons, double ended *****, vibrates, but we never use them she says she will **** me but we never do. So what do I do to get her to do it. I'm not gay or want to be but would love to feel her ******* me and her being in control during sex . Any...
    Nn1foru Nn1foru 31-35, M Jul 28, 2013

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    Stunt Doubles: Shared Desires, Shared Decisions

    Married persons - particularly married persons of  certain generation - typically consult with one another when making purchases.  They share joint bank accounts and when there's a decision to be made concerning money, particularly if it's a significant amount, they make the...
    milkynips milkynips 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Wanting The Real Thing

    I do my husband with a strap on, although I can't deny that it just isn't enough for me. I want to see the real deal. I want to see his *** get bent over and rammed by another man. I wouldn't want it to be someone that only likes men though, and I wouldn't want it to be someone...
    Crystalic Crystalic 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    New Years Gift

    My wife let me *** in her and eat her then she let me use a toy on her until she came again was great. I asked her to use the ******* on me but she said no, but she did use a toy on me what was great too. Not as nice as a ******* be nice. She used on me until I fell asleep. I...
    kenvisor kenvisor 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I Love Doing Him

    When I’m ******* my husband with the strap-on, I’m not so much concerned with his comfort as much as I am with his obedience.  Most heterosexual men are naturally inclined to resist anal penetration.  Love and discipline is what helps gets him over the threshold.  When he...
    ladygodiva110 ladygodiva110 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Something Different

    My wife had been giving me prostate massages on occasion for about 3 months or so. It was very interesting for me since it was the first time I had anyone play with my ***. One time she had all 4 fingers in all the way, I think she was going for the fist. It was a strange feeling...
    easttexascpl easttexascpl 51-55 3 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    Wife Did Me Twice

    One night I told my wife that I wanted to **** her *** but she said only if I let her do me fisrt. The next day I bought a ******* and brought it to bed with us. then I asked her again to let me **** her ***. She said again only if I let her **** me first. Then I took out the...
    kenvisor kenvisor 46-50, M 7 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    I'd Love To Use A Strap-on On My Husband!

    But he refuses to even entertain the thought. He's hot and he LOVES to ****. I've even licked him and fingered him there, but am not allowed to enter. Not even a small strap-on. I would love to **** him in the ***. The thought turns me on immensely. I'm sure he would *** while I...
    chloe2817 chloe2817 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    Gently At First

    I would love my wife to dress me in a gorgeous ballgown and the associated lingerie and stockings. Then she would do the same, next would be to share the same bright red lipstick. We would then caress each other and I would make love to her. As soon as she was satisfied, she...
    capeme capeme 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 13, 2011

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    Tonight Was Amazing

    I literally just got done about twenty minutes ago from banging the hell out of my husbands ***. I cannot believe he was comfortable enough to let me fully take control of him and do him as hard as I could. We have played around with anal play on him before but nothing ever...
    Crystalic Crystalic 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2013

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    Shipped

    I just ordered a strapless strap on to use with my husband. It is supposed to arrive tomorrow! I feel like such a freak by getting excited to bend him over. We have used ****** and an aneros and butt plugs. Wish us luck!
    Crystalic Crystalic 26-30, F Jun 24, 2013

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    Need Advice On How To Procede...

    I'm also interested in trying this, but have not approached my wife of 25 years yet. With two teens in the house, it's difficult to find time let alone be noisy or vigorous in our sex life. However, I spotted a sale a year or so ago on a harness with black nylon straps, and a...
    studfinder studfinder 56-60, M May 24, 2012

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    Need Some Advice On How To Procede:

    I'm also interested in trying this, but have not approached my wife of 25 years yet. With two teens in the house, it's difficult to find time let alone be noisy or vigorous in our sex life. However, I spotted a sale a year or so ago on a harness with black nylon straps, and a...
    studfinder studfinder 56-60, M 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    Strap On...

    Well, I finally convinced her to use a strap on on my ***. I don't know if she was scared she would hurt me of that she would like it. We got on that is about 10" long and 2" thick. The harness goes on like underpants and there is a pocket pouch for a bullet vibrator to stimulate...
    jackn12 jackn12 31-35 4 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    laughingsoul laughingsoul 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I just want it over with.... He obviously doesn't have the time of day for a relationship since he hasn't seen me in over a month and keeps avoiding me. I keep trying to make plans...
    kaymarie8 kaymarie8 18-21, F Jul 13

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    She neglects and neglects and neglects. When she wants she comes, if not she doesn't even remember me. I'm getting irritated of this..... I don't want to let her go, but I won...
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    NOT RIGHT NOW lol but when I'm older, have my life together, and am married then I want five children. When I was twelve I wanted thirteen kids but I came to my senses...five is...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Want to feel wanted and like I matter. Looking to flirt although I don't know how good I am at it
    Sarawynn2432 Sarawynn2432 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Always had better relationship with guy friends (no back stabbing no jealousy etc) but in the end they always wanted to bang me. Then of course I was doubting the real reason they...
    lifetails lifetails 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    She says she misses me. She says she loves me. She says she wants to be with me always. Why she always ignore me for days and always make an excuse about why she didn't talk with...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Me too. Is it really hard for people to listen without needing to give any sort of advice of any sort? Is no wonder I am becoming the same too. I have to stop myself before I...
    enragedmisfit enragedmisfit 26-30, F Jun 23

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    This is so accurate. I'm a pretty independent person in that way, I'm someone who follows my own instincts instead of just asking people around for advice. But sometimes one wants...
    Realitea Realitea 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I want a woman to play with on here! Is that too much to ask for?
    06Ford 06Ford 41-45, M Jun 24

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    Its really hard trying to find a woman that mature wanting a youngin like me
    future214 future214 18-21, M Jun 25

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    I've been in this group for about a year now and I have yet to corrupt anyone with my crazy weirdness. I'm still planning on it though. *look of fierce determination* >:3
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21 1 Response Jun 26

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    I am realizing you can't take everyone with you. Sometimes improving your life starts with letting go of the people who are closest to you, letting go of those who have hurt you or...
    Aly00cat Aly00cat 22-25, F Jun 26

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    I feel like they're slipping away and I don't know why. Am I doing something wrong? Am I too attached? I don't get it, I simply don't. I love the friends I have and I don't want...
    Faith716 Faith716 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    This is cute.. I want it! 😍☺️💜
    Makaila22 Makaila22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I really wanna run away with an older man I just wanna do something fun in my life
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    It must be so enjoyable to be on a walking trail with another naked person. Nothing sexual 0 just pure enjoyment of being in nature as nature intended us to be - NAKED
    wantonwanker wantonwanker 61-65, M Jul 3

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    There's this guy on tinder, he's older, nearly double my age, he's not that hot but decently attractive I'm looking for more guys on tinder but don't know if it would be too bad to...
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    One thing I want to try is getting ****** while I **** a guy. That sounds mind blowing...
    hardcoregay hardcoregay 18-21, M Jul 5

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    Oh yes I'd so love to go shopping with a bunch of girls, and just be treated as one of the girls. I can't think of too many things that'd be more fun. Maybe a bunch of us girls...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T Jul 6

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    Want someone who's willing to do anything for me caitsann17
    caitsann caitsann 16-17, F Jul 6

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    I really reallllyyy want someone to come play with me...
    raelynnCD raelynnCD 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 6

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