I Want People To Stop Adding Me Without Ever Talking To Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 430 People

    My Cynical Plan Is Working...

    Now that I have this as my top experience both creepers and friend number addicts have all buzzed off. Take my advice, you're sick of all the invites and just being another number on someone's circle? Join this group, and put it on your top experiences for every passing eye to...
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    2 Responses Jan 26, 2012

    Good morning :) And honestly!

    This is SO annoying! I keep being added by random people who never even bother to message me. Plus I DON'T LIKE BEING RANDOMLY ADDED. I've been going through my list messaging people and trying to clear myself out from their circles. Me: Please un add me from your circle. I don...
    CutiePie199 CutiePie199
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    Maybe not so much not talking

    but only sending sex messages and then bitching when I block you. I want nothing to do with people who only see females as a sexual object and that is it. I am a female, I do like sex, but that doesn't mean it's all I want to talk about. In fact, I usually don't want to unless I...
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    1 Response May 31, 2014

    I find that some people will add me to their

    circle without any prior contact and without any subsequent contact either. I find this to be a bit annoying, as I use my circle and fan list for people who want to engage with me, not for lurkers. I feel no qualms removing the people who lurk from my list of fans. Others are...
    rebekahanastasia rebekahanastasia
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2016

    I'm flattered and amused

    but guys, literally men, do not add me. I do not want to subdue you or meet with you and your wife. I appreciate your support.
    DomCA DomCA
    36-40, M
    Aug 1, 2015

    Saying Hello....

    I've added people to my circle in the past, who've never even contacted me... I've never quite understood how you can ask someone to join your circle, and not even have the decency to say hello....after all you took the time to check out my profile.....drop a short line and say...
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2011

    Just Doesn't Make Sense

    I don’t understand why people ask to be added to my circle especially if we have never had any form of interaction previously. It would be nice if you took the time to comment on my stories at least. I just doesn't make sense to me and I certainly don’t need it. We need to...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady
    41-45, F
    7 Responses Nov 27, 2011

    Just A Little Fan Note On My White Board Will Suffice

    In all honesty I do get a ever so slightly miffed when it happens. Although, some folks who seem cool/compatible with me, i just add them and write to them notifying then of my acceptance and thanks for their friendship. So the process is that I snoop their profiles etc and...
    Lunadelobos Lunadelobos
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2011


    I have many friends on EP and many in my circle but hardly ever find friends who want to chat .Please come and talk to me on yahoo or msn .There is alot more to me than just sex.
    beastman111 beastman111
    46-50, M
    Aug 28, 2011


    I am in the process of deleting people in my circle. Please don't add me if you don't have time to talk to me either through my whiteboard, PM or simply by commenting to my stories. I want to be closely knitted with people in my circle. I don't want any photo in my profile with...
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2011

    if i am interesting enough to add,

    then you should at least interact/talk once in a while, even if it is only a comment on an experience or question now and then.i dont add anyone 21 or younger. you can comment or respond to questions, but i just dont think it's appropriate, to add you as a friend, considering...
    deleted deleted
    May 29, 2014

    Not Ever Going To Chat?

    Why do you add me if you don't like me enough to carry a conversation with me? It hurts my feelings, so please don't add me at all.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    7 Responses Aug 23, 2010

    Seriously. You have to have a clear,

    valid reason before you add me. I get some really weird perverts adding me and it's so annoying. If we have absolutely nothing in common, then don't add me. And also, don't add me if we're not going to have an actual, beneficial, intelligent conversation at any point in time...
    karenoohhh karenoohhh
    18-21, F
    May 31, 2014

    I agree with this. I am a new member

    and people add me without ever mailing me to talk...
    AGirlNamedKim AGirlNamedKim
    22-25, F
    Jan 20, 2016

    Yes...glad I Found This Group!

    This seems to be a common problem on EP.  People add you without as much as saying "hello".  So then you (the one added) has to search through their profile and try to figure out based on that alone if you should add them back.  A more courteous method would be if you want to...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 5, 2011

    i find it very annoying went people add me just

    to make there cycle bigger and i don't like small talk don't message me like saying hi or what up or sup etc cause i just ignore you if u want to be my friend i don't mind but show personality and don't be fake and don't just added me to make ur cycle bigger if i do add u i...
    XDHyperGirlXD1 XDHyperGirlXD1
    26-30, F
    14 Responses Aug 3, 2015


    I am not a celebrity so i dont need groupies. I am a real, honest, dysfunctional and damaged human being. I need FRIENDship...
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 24, 2010

    It's Getting Annoying.

    I deleted my old account just to start fresh again.And then some people just come adding me for no reasons.Some even had nothing in common with me,but they still add me. Tell me. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU GUYS!?Stop adding me!I do not want any friends at all,I have far...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 20, 2013

    Just Stop Already!!!!!!

    Unless you talk to me in any sort of way, I WILL NOT be adding you. I am tired of being a number to people.
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    24 Responses Aug 11, 2010

    I don't allow it. When people add me out of

    the blue.... I block and unblock them. I do not allow anyone to follow me. You're either in my circle because you and I have common interests AND have exchanged some private exchanges... or we are passing strangers. Feel free to join the groups to which I...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    I don´t understand how to add someone to the

    circle without ever having contact before. I just add people to my circle where I had contact before. My circle is not for the statistic to show how many hundred or thousands persons are round me. I even just have a very tiny circle, but all persons who belong to my circle are...
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 16, 2016

    please, save yourself the trouble of adding me

    to your circle if youre not going to talk to me, ok?
    noaht43 noaht43
    46-50, T
    Mar 2, 2016

    So many seem to add me

    but never talk. It seems like just having numbers is something people want these days other than simple conversation. It confuses me.
    Ejoyh97 Ejoyh97
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2016

    At Least Read A Story

    I maybe the evil spirit of Voldemort back to revenge his untimely death. Don't want to check that first?
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2010

    Seriously I don't understand it.

    three people have done it and it's annoying. that's why I don't add people. they would add me we would talk for a bit then I'd never hear form them again yet they'd post many experiences and questions. it's beginning to become a pet peeve. don't add me to your circle of your not...
    SladeBolinLeaderofEp SladeBolinLeaderofEp
    18-21, M
    Mar 22, 2016

    It's not that people add me

    and don't say anything. It's when I say "hi" or something and every response I get from them is one worded.
    Yubitpo Yubitpo
    22-25, F
    May 31, 2014

    Letting Go....

    I want to downsize my circle and keep the few friends who are constantly communicating with me through mail or through my stories. I hate to say goodbye but I can't keep people whom I really don't know. In real life, I have few friends but they last longer than 20 years because...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Nov 17, 2010


    If you are only adding me, because of a sexual story I wrote once upon a time, or even more, when you have NOTHING on your account! And don't think by just saying "Hi" to me, I am going to want to add you, I'm not going to want to, and I won't! Also, I hate people who add me...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2010

    It's damn creepy. That's

    why I hardly ever add anyone to mine. If I add you and we never speak then you getting removed.
    insanecrazyweird insanecrazyweird
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    People, if you add me to your circle

    but don't say anything I simply wont add you to mine. Thats weird and I don't understand it. I only add people whom I really like. And for that we need to talk!
    littleayeaye littleayeaye
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 22, 2014

    Yep! Lol! I get notifications

    that I have been added to peoples circles and I wonder why. Lol!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 3, 2016

    It is because of this reason

    that I had to clean out my friend list. Because I only communicate with ONE person, I reduced my friend list from 80 down to 18. If you are adding me just to pad the number of friends you have, don't bother.
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2016

    Friendship Is Mutual!

    Please do not add me in your circle of friends without my consent!!!!!!! How can anyone add me without even sending me a message asking to be included in my group of friends is beyond my understanding.Unless two people talk for sometime they can't realize whether they gel or not...
    Aliva Aliva
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Aug 25, 2010
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