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I Want Someone I Can't Have

Ever wanted someone you could never have? 291 People

    I'm His Boss...

    I think I'm in love with my employee. We have an amazing professional relationship, and we;re developed a close friendship. I keep things professional and so does he, but sometimes I think we're flirting, and other times I second guess myself. I can't have him because I'd...
    lgoodmn31 lgoodmn31 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 18, 2010

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    I Can't Even Sleep Anymore

    I never like guys that much. People seem to fall in love at the drop of the hat, but I find it so difficult. Guys have to have something special about them to even catch my eye. And he certainly has. I've fancied him ever since I started working there. The crush grew and grew...
    markwahlbergfan markwahlbergfan 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    My Bestfriend, My Love

    He's my ex, and he's dating someone new for a while now. And I stay by his side because I still have strong feelings for him. We still flirt a whole lot and I know he likes what we do. But I also know he doesnt wanna be with me. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel so empty...
    NotyourBabygirl NotyourBabygirl 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2013

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    My Best Friends Brother Part Two

    I'm spending more and more time at his house. His sister is my best friend so I have a reason im not just hanging around like a crazy...... I can't keep away. Everything about him is amazing. He is such a good guy and I know he has a good heart. I want him to want me like I want...
    hopelessinlove22 hopelessinlove22 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    It All Started With A Text Message...

    Her name was Danielle. I barely knew her. Danielle hung out with my friends for as long as Ive known them but I never really got to know her myself. One day when Danielle was hanging out with a friend of hers and mine, she got my number from her and started to text me jokingly...
    BoomSickle BoomSickle 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    This is my first time on this website

    which I think is pretty cool. Sharing stories and reading them with other people who have interest. Anyways my story is about having a huge crush on a gay boy that was my age. We were in 9th grade. We were obviously both gay. We met because we had a class together Well I would...
    joeeshef joeeshef 18-21, M Dec 28, 2013

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    I love a her and she loves me too But i can't

    have her because she already have a boyfriend. And she's scared that our friendship might be ruin if we follow our feelings
    Harukami Harukami 16-17, F Jul 21

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    He's a friend, and I admit my feelings aren't

    too deep. He loves a girl who loves someone else. I've talked him through it. He just loves her so completely. I want someone to love me like that, to treat me that well. When i think about lying in his arms with his sweet, calm voice in my ear i almost lose it. I want him, but...
    whitemiddleclassteengirl whitemiddleclassteengirl 16-17, F Apr 20

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    My Best Friends Brother Part Three...

    So I still really like him. I haven't told my best friend yet because last time she told him -.- I don't know why, I just do. He seems so great. Not perfect, but great. We have chemistry, or heat, or whatever, so i dont see why things can't just be perfect. We are spending the...
    hopelessinlove22 hopelessinlove22 16-17, F Apr 25, 2013

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    I Am Quite Stupid.

    About three mounths ago i started to get involved with this guy. It started to get serious, so me being all stupid and afaird of commitment broke it off wiht him. Now only to realize i miss him and what him really bad. but i can no longer have him because he is now with one of my...
    XloveXinXbloodX XloveXinXbloodX 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2008

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    He's not over his ex.

    He flat out told me that and I still continue to talk to him. I still continue to want him. He's so sweet and honest and tall and perfect and nothing like the ******* guys I usually fall for. Why does he have to be hung up on his ex? I met him August 2013 and he broke up with...
    anonymous836 anonymous836 18-21, F Jan 1

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    DON'T WE ALL!It's been a part of life

    since the beginning of time and it will go on and on till the end of time.To live with this feeling in a healthy manner would be to have patience and a dream.You can't force something that just needs to happen organically.If you try do it could turn criminal or most likely...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Jun 12

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    The Guy At The Restaraunt .... Could It Have Been The Wish I Made A Few Days Before?

    I am usually a very picky person when it comes the type of guys that I find attractive. Since grade school (first grade to be precise), I never really had a guy I was really into physically or mentally. It even got to a point that I thought that I was asexual. Until one day...
    folkishedpagan folkishedpagan 22-25 3 Responses May 31, 2013

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    Lifefuckinsucks

    He is 18 and I am 14 he likes me only because i lied about my age i really wanna tell him my real age but That's to hard he might hate me for life.he loves me for who i am .i don't want him to go to jail or to prison so i guesss I'mjust gonna have to leave him alone:(
    sexyforever sexyforever 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    Distant Helper.

    I've known him for 3 years now, but I've never met him.We 'met' through a, shall we say, dodgy website. And since then we've never lost contact. He's funny, charming, handsome, caring, adorable, sexy and much more.We used to talk on the phone all the time, which often resulted in...
    Sinsirr Sinsirr 18-21, F Apr 21, 2012

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    I have been friends with this girl

    for over 4 years now, and I've always had like a weird relationship with her. I have always had some sort of feelings for her and I could never really do anything about it because she was always in a relationship or getting over a breakup. And I didn't want to get in between...
    underquarantine underquarantine 16-17, F Jul 19

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    {When You Love Someone} Self Motivation.

    When you love someone, they aren't like you. not in ethnicity, not in personality, Not in anything. They are the missing piece to your heart. Your metaphorical heart is split up into different pieces, each for a person you truly, genuinely care about, one of those pieces he or...
    Theatregirl2017 Theatregirl2017 18-21, F Jul 5, 2013

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    Why Do I Do This?

    I always want people I can't have... I always go for the girls who r WAY out of my league... recently something very strange happened: there's this girl named zoey she's REALLY REALLY REALLY!!! Beautiful and I've liked her since I met her so I've started to get to know her better...
    HeavenXD HeavenXD 13-15, F Nov 23, 2012

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    There's a guy; dark hair,

    beautiful bone structure, gym body, polite, nice eyes. And, I'll admit it, a cute butt. What, am I not supposed to steal a glimpse when he's stood with his back to me? Anyway, he's married. And a fair few years older than me. If I had to hazard a guess, I'd say he's...
    Sundance89 Sundance89 22-25, F Feb 5

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    You Oh You

    Hehe you oh you Is it me or fate that all the men I admire are either in different world and time zone I like you and really like you In my mind we are the perfect couple In my mind we meet and like two destined to be together meet and forge a great relationship Yet in...
    Coconutpalm Coconutpalm 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    I Love Him So Much But I Know I Can't Have Him

    i love my ex but i can feel like i can't have him...i tried everything to make our relationship great but seems its not enough till he said his tired. i wanted him so much and willing to do everything just to be with him..but what can i do if he pushing me away from him:-(
    rhizamarie rhizamarie 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2010

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    Maybe It's Taboo.

    William. That name rings so sweet in my ears, fills me with giddy feelings of puppy-love, and yet my anxiety brims at the mere mention of him. Why does this have to be so complicated? I'm only 18, my next birthday arising in less than a month. William... William is 28, his...
    emptyangelveins emptyangelveins 18-21, M Jul 25, 2013

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    We All Feel Like That Sometimes

    its all about the connections you have with people and sometimes it leads to affairs etc god is the world complex
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 15, 2011

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    My Closest Friend

    I've liked her for about three years now, since we first became friends. I remember her first (and second) boyfriends, her first breakup and all the problems in between. It's an 'I love her, she loves him' type of thing. Oh, the woes of being gay and whatnot. I'm sorta sad...
    TrafalgarLaw TrafalgarLaw 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 24, 2013

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    Uh Yeah

    I first met him 4 years ago through my sister. He is my sister's friends boyfriend. I didn't see him for a long time. About 2 years. Then I got my own place and my sister moved in with me, and her friend and her boyfriend started coming over. At first, it was rare...then they...
    angelbutterflies angelbutterflies 21-25, F 1 Response Feb 22, 2008

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    Thats Life.

    Is it wrong to think about somebody every spare second you have? fantasize about having the most perfect relationship with them and then opening your eyes and remembering it will never happen? wishing so badly you could be with them every moment of your life, and making the most...
    mollsy mollsy 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2011

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    My Best Friends Brother

    I can't help it, I'm in love with my best friends brother. I hate it because I know it would be weird, and even so he doesn't like me back.....she asked him and he said no...she also told him I liked him...so now it's gonna be awks. I'm so embarrassed I feel humiliated. I'm at...
    hopelessinlove22 hopelessinlove22 16-17, F Feb 15, 2013

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    Moods, Rules, Trick&Amp;Tips

    ok.. I'm a fast thinker and I have to be because if not my brain will ruin my days.Yesterday I've met this girl i like and things didn't went the way i expected because it looks like she didn't want to meet me...and it looks like she is crazy.Well, first I've felt bad, and sure I...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M Jun 1, 2013

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    Can't Stop Thinking About Him But Can't Have Him Either.

    I don't know why but I find myself drawn to someone I've known since last year. We aren't close by any means and have only spoken a few times and only formally. But I find myself wanting to be close to him and thinking of him all the time.He has a girlfriend who is far better...
    PinkRush PinkRush 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 13, 2011

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    Please Read

    PLEASE EMAIL THIS TO ALL YOUR OFFICIALS I AM ON BORREWD TIME AND THIS IS MY best effort i am capable ofS.o.S i am under supervision of satellite intelligence. made black i have been going on under reprimands for 22months since before dec. of 2011. During process i am unable to...
    ryan333 ryan333 26-30, M Sep 14, 2013

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    I Thought I Had Him...

    I started seeing someone in the early fall and we just clicked right from the beginning.  It seemed like everything was going sooooo well and we were both so happy with each other and then his band goes away for a few weeks (to record) and he comes home and everything's...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2008

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    I Am In Love With Someone I Can't Have

    I first met him through work, and we had a strong connection from the beginning.  We started flirting with each other online through chats and over the phone.  I known him for 6 months now but the flirtation has continued online only.   I ...
    toxiglitter toxiglitter 41-45 2 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    They Belong Together

    A little more than a month ago one of my close friends introduced me to one of her best friends. He and I immediately got along. Eventually we exchanged phone numbers and I joined FB to keep in better contact with my friends. He and I joked a lot so it came as a surprise to me...
    KurenaiKamui KurenaiKamui 16-17, F Mar 29, 2012

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    No Chance.

    I want him so bad, but he can never find out. If he found out, then my whole life, all my plans, all my hard work, all of it would be for nothing. If he found out that I like him, I'd lose it all. There is no chance of us ever being together. There never will be a chance. I know...
    NewAddiction NewAddiction 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2009

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    He is amazing and makes me feel so special. I know I can't have him like I want to but it hurts when I can't just pick up the phone and hear his voice. I need to be strong but I...
    LookingforLove63 LookingforLove63 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    We flirt(ed) all the time in person, we'd hug and sit together and have inside jokes at the back of the bus even though he's 3 years older and it looked slightly weird to all his...
    n4ta1i3 n4ta1i3 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    The boy i love, we send certain 'pictures' to each other but never actually got the chance to be with him or do anything in real. We've been talking since January ect i've...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Am I ready to let go of something I can't have???? I just want to cry!!!!! Can I accept the realization of him having another interest? I may have myself up for another heartbreak...
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    You got me caught.... In all this mess.... I guess, we can blame it on the rain.... My pain, Is knowing I can't have you.... I can't have you.... Tell me does she, look at you the...
    BENDrowned BENDrowned 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm in love with three people I can't have. Don't know how it happened. It just did.
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I am a mother at heart... I have cared for children since I, myself, was a child. At 7 years old, I taught myself how to make macaroni and cheese for me and my younger brothers...
    HiddenAnger HiddenAnger 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    Always happens to me. I'm attracted to those I can't have. And those who show interest, I'm not attracted to. At some point I wish there would be a match, but I'm getting older and...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    Seems I always fall for the ones I can't have. I'm starting to think it's more a of a defense mechanism and my way out of committing. If I never commit to anyone I won't ever get...
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I've always loved him since I met him. His sparkly brown eyes, his little soft-lipped smile, his tattoos, the way he dressed however he wanted and did whatever he wanted and never...
    Somejoygirl Somejoygirl 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    3 months ago I found videos & pictures of my husband having sex with another woman. I was devastated, as he had been emotionally abusing me for a year & telling me he wanted a...
    RayRoMac RayRoMac 26-30 1 Response Jul 28

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    What are we? gfbf, mate or Fwb? He just ended a long term relationship (and i heard they are in open relationship now) Obviously he is not that into me, he rejected to take the...
    wtsthiswtstht wtsthiswtstht 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Every woman wants her man to love her from his heart and soul. When a woman loves a man she wants to be the most important person in his life. When a woman truly loves you she will...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I am in love with a Mormon. Our relationship has been full of ups and downs, from the very start. We can't be together because of his religion and his family, but I am so in love...
    wpsiatwin wpsiatwin 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I had him and I ruined it. I got too jealous, too clingy, too demanding, too sweet. He moved on. He just wants to be friends and I can't do that when I love him so much on another...
    becxboo becxboo 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    I have fallen in love with this person who has so completely melted my heart it isn't even funny. I am not a romantic or mushy person by nature, but this man brings out the best in...
    Oldiesbutgoldies Oldiesbutgoldies 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    ...i asked God's permission to love this man, and to protect me to whatever it will lead me in loving this man...i can't bear the thought of letting him go...i love him every day...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F Jul 28

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