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I Want Someone to Actually Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 332 People

    Need Love

    One question:   What should I do to actually be loved by someone who I love back?
    JackerK JackerK 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Some Day..

    wouldn't it be nice?
    axeman66 axeman66 41-45, M Oct 3, 2009

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    I Want to Be Loved! ...

    I want to be loved! I want someone who actually loves me and acts like they love me because they do love me. I want someone who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. I don't want anyone to pretend to love me or fall out of love with me. I want a forever thing. I don't...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I hear it all the time "I love you.

    " But since I was a child I have never felt it. Being an outsider to my family, a loner in social cultures, even my girlfriends have told me the loved me, but they've never made me feel love. And what's love without the feelings? It's like war without the guns.. just a word. I...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M Jan 14

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    It'S What I'Ve Always Wanted

    I want someone that will love me for me. I don't want to be anyone's second choice and I don't want someone that is just settling for me because they can't have the one they want. I want to be his #1.
    Vbot123 Vbot123 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    I was dating my boyfriend

    for a little over five months and he ended up falling in love with my best friend. The entire time we were together he never told me he loved me. I want to get over him cause its been a month now but he was my first and i heard its always hard getting over your first. It seems...
    arielan arielan 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    Is There Love?

    I think it isnt just me who wants to find someone who really loves them for just who they are. To find someone who they think is cute/attractive/sexy. To have fun and we know that we are respected no matter what. And when the relationship moves forward, to having the first...
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    The Nicest Thing In the Wor...

    The nicest thing in the world is to know you are loved and the nicest thing you can do for someone else is to love them.
    MolleyMo MolleyMo 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I Think We All Want This....

    I think we all want this. We all want to have someone who truly loves us, and not for how we look, or how good we are in bed, or anything like that, but just because they Love the person who we are. I want that too. I want to be Loved for who I am, and I want to be actually Loved...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Late Night Musings

    I don't think I've ever been held or reassured that I was loved. I think my mom may have done this, but I feel like my whole life I was told that I wasn't good enough. I was too overweight, shy and awkward to have many friends growing up, and now I am getting old and havent even...
    enicole81 enicole81 31-35 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    Love?...

    I don't really understand it, but i know i've never been in love. I really want to find a good looking guy that i just click with...I want that companian that is not only someone your in a relationship with but is also your best friend. I want a guys to tell me im pretty and...
    alexalex92 alexalex92 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Will There Be Someone?

    its not that i am in a rush, i just dont see that there is someone for me right now........
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    I want someone to ACTUALLY love me every day I

    walk down the hallway with a dead face &. Watching every one have someone,someone that loves them. I just think to my self "what's wrong with me?" "Why does no one love me" "why is every one so happy". And I know I will never feel the same way as they all do
    kamster001 kamster001 18-21, F Jan 30, 2014

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    Will Someone Love Me?

    Is there anyone out there who will love me?  My husband doesn't.  He's been lying to me about an online girlfriend and right now,  nobody loves me but my 2 little girls.
    hotmama911 hotmama911 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2008

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    I want someone to love me as a person. I'm very beautiful and attractive and it's hard to find someone who will love me. I want that special someone to love me as I am.
    winnie19 winnie19 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    I just want someone to love me for who I am completely with no hesitation. Someone that makes me there whole world. Someone that cares about me and always knows how to make me feel...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    i know that i am young but i fear being alone, that no one will love me. i want someone to love that will love me, i don't like being alone. i have my family but that's not the...
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    Im a little crazy, but I want someone to love me the way I am.
    rosejonescr rosejonescr 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    I want someone that belongs with me so bad < 3
    rosejonescr rosejonescr 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I miss having someone to love me and for me to love them :( I feel so alone
    pix78 pix78 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    Idk it my boyfriend loves me for who I am all the time he tells me what I shouldnt do and what I shouldn't wear and I have kiss a girl before a long time ago and he calls me names...
    teenworldgonebad teenworldgonebad 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I want a person to love and care about me. I don't want him to judge me cause of my flaws. I want us to motivate each other to do better things and I want us to be successful...
    arestlesssoul arestlesssoul 22-25, F Jan 8

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    I guess I have felt loved...but I want to be cherished. Not put on a pedestal but not treated like I'm expendable. To be told I'm irreplacable and trust when he says it.
    amazingmo amazingmo 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I'm new to this. But I saw this experience and I had to post. Idk of I'm bi, gay, or straight. Me being a Christian tells me no along with my family. While everything else points...
    JakeSalazar98 JakeSalazar98 16-17, M Jan 6

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    Love S ... And news exper...ces if yu're inters.....just sende txto
    Ibiskiss Ibiskiss 26-30, M Jan 6

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    Does anyone live without sex?
    rubysmom rubysmom 51-55, F 5 Responses Jan 11

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    out the bottom of my heart, a tender sprout only waiting for a warm smile to develop.
    Ibiskiss Ibiskiss 26-30, M Jan 18

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    one of my faves... She stood before him just as she made to be, no lies, no judgement, no fake smile. She showed him the storm that ravaged within her, the strength o her heart...
    sunnywinter sunnywinter 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I want someone to love me with every fiber of their being. I want their love to be passionate and almost chaotic. I want them to be afraid and unafraid all at once. I want them to...
    Dreamerrrrrrr Dreamerrrrrrr 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I only want someone to love me for who i am, not what i got. I want someone to cares about me, appreciates me, nice to me, and accepts me for who i am.
    annaambrose annaambrose 16-17 Jan 12

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    Sometimes I just want someone to love and care for me no matter what
    princessalicia princessalicia 22-25, F Jan 6

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    I'm really tired of being alone. I want someone to love me. ):
    lonesome95 lonesome95 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I want someone to love me for who I am. Whether or not I have a disability. D:
    whatupdoc54 whatupdoc54 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Of course I want someone I could tell anything to. But the more I think about, the more difficult it is for me to believe that it is actually possible. I sometimes feel like there...
    booky1234 booky1234 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want Someone who actually cares, someone who doesn't judge. money doesn't matter, only we matter Only we see each others eyes, only we know each others secrets, someone that I...
    1Freeyourself1 1Freeyourself1 18-21, M Jan 15

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    Although I have a friend who always tell me that he understands me but Im not really sure that he really understands!! Actually I highly doubt anyone can understand me but I still...
    rainsnducks rainsnducks 18-21, F Jan 17

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    Why is it such a bad thing that I don't want to be alone Why is it so bad that I want to be loved and taken care of Why is it wrong that I want someone willing to invest in me...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I long to be loved the way I do. Unconditionally. I have no boundaries. I'm real. I just want someone. Need someone. I know that I don't need to have someone to be happy but I...
    WildWoman25 WildWoman25 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I just can't see how someone can love me, how someone can accept me for who I am and what I've done, I wanna forget about my past but I can't, I want someone that can help me...
    leiloup leiloup 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I always want someone to tell me "I Love You." I always hear guys tell me I love you whom I've never met. I always hear the words " I Love You" from my parents. I really would like...
    winnie19 winnie19 41-45, F Jan 5

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    The Troubling Subject Most all of my 35 years, I've known deep down what I needed. I was going through my divorce before I could verbalize it, and now, 3 1/2 years after my...
    Sweetphoenix35 Sweetphoenix35 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    Sometimes I just want someone to talk to. Someone who I don't know that is open minded. I don't really care what is talked about. Anything will do. I love listening to what...
    4Rae 4Rae 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    I want someone to message me and just tell me their story. I will listen. I have always loved stories, it's how I learn, through listening and reading. I want to learn something...
    HandsomePrince1 HandsomePrince1 16-17, M 4 days ago

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    I've always wanted a simple life. I am a companion by nature. I've always taken care of others. I've put others above myself. I feel very tired. I envy housewives in a way...
    SKDel SKDel 26-30, F Jan 2

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    long long time i am waiting someone who loves me without change my self .....
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    why does love have to be so complicated??? it makes me wonder if love even exist???!!!.... can i have love???.. is having someone to love unconditionally,wholeheartedly so wrong n...
    tiiedrope tiiedrope 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I want someone who cares about what I have to say. I want someone I can tell everything without feeling judged.
    MagicEyes95 MagicEyes95 22-25, F 14 Responses 5 days ago

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