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I Want Someone to Actually Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 335 People

    It'S What I'Ve Always Wanted

    I want someone that will love me for me. I don't want to be anyone's second choice and I don't want someone that is just settling for me because they can't have the one they want. I want to be his #1.
    Vbot123 Vbot123 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Love?...

    I don't really understand it, but i know i've never been in love. I really want to find a good looking guy that i just click with...I want that companian that is not only someone your in a relationship with but is also your best friend. I want a guys to tell me im pretty and...
    alexalex92 alexalex92 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    I Think We All Want This....

    I think we all want this. We all want to have someone who truly loves us, and not for how we look, or how good we are in bed, or anything like that, but just because they Love the person who we are. I want that too. I want to be Loved for who I am, and I want to be actually Loved...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Is There Love?

    I think it isnt just me who wants to find someone who really loves them for just who they are. To find someone who they think is cute/attractive/sexy. To have fun and we know that we are respected no matter what. And when the relationship moves forward, to having the first...
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    I want someone to ACTUALLY love me every day I

    walk down the hallway with a dead face &. Watching every one have someone,someone that loves them. I just think to my self "what's wrong with me?" "Why does no one love me" "why is every one so happy". And I know I will never feel the same way as they all do
    kamster001 kamster001 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2014

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    I was dating my boyfriend

    for a little over five months and he ended up falling in love with my best friend. The entire time we were together he never told me he loved me. I want to get over him cause its been a month now but he was my first and i heard its always hard getting over your first. It seems...
    arielan arielan 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    Need Love

    One question:   What should I do to actually be loved by someone who I love back?
    JackerK JackerK 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    The Nicest Thing In the Wor...

    The nicest thing in the world is to know you are loved and the nicest thing you can do for someone else is to love them.
    MolleyMo MolleyMo 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I hear it all the time "I love you.

    " But since I was a child I have never felt it. Being an outsider to my family, a loner in social cultures, even my girlfriends have told me the loved me, but they've never made me feel love. And what's love without the feelings? It's like war without the guns.. just a word. I...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    Will There Be Someone?

    its not that i am in a rush, i just dont see that there is someone for me right now........
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Will Someone Love Me?

    Is there anyone out there who will love me?  My husband doesn't.  He's been lying to me about an online girlfriend and right now,  nobody loves me but my 2 little girls.
    hotmama911 hotmama911 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2008

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    Late Night Musings

    I don't think I've ever been held or reassured that I was loved. I think my mom may have done this, but I feel like my whole life I was told that I wasn't good enough. I was too overweight, shy and awkward to have many friends growing up, and now I am getting old and havent even...
    enicole81 enicole81 31-35 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    Some Day..

    wouldn't it be nice?
    axeman66 axeman66 41-45, M Oct 3, 2009

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    I Want to Be Loved! ...

    I want to be loved! I want someone who actually loves me and acts like they love me because they do love me. I want someone who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. I don't want anyone to pretend to love me or fall out of love with me. I want a forever thing. I don't...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I want someone who can treat me like a lady not a *** toy I need a guy/girl who can take charge in our relationship but be kind and gental hatred I don't care about age I think age...
    Omglolhaha15 Omglolhaha15 13-15, T 2 Responses May 3

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    um hi there! I'm very antisocial, and shy so I dont known what to say. I might seem like a normal person but I'm actually depressed, I would love to make new friends, but I don't...
    thefallenangel643 thefallenangel643 13-15, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    if I counted my recent relationship. ive had 1 gal. that's it. I have no experience dating but id like to learn. just wish someone would give this country guy a chance.
    jackdragon22399 jackdragon22399 16-17, M May 22

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    Its all I ever want. ❤️❤️
    angelkinzz angelkinzz 16-17, F May 9

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    People constantly give me suggestions on what I should change about myself as though who I am isn't good enough. I always tell them I'm not here to please anyone...love me or hate...
    Deeplyflawed89 Deeplyflawed89 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    wouldn't it just be amazing to wake up and have the person next to you call you beautiful/handsome *sigh*
    skittlequeen skittlequeen 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate this...ive been single for a while now and im still not used to it..I want someone to love
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 12

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    I want someone who loves me. I will be loved and the other half ...
    www666 www666 41-45, M May 19

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    I want to be loved,i know i cant force anyone to love me because if i force anyone then it wont be called as love.So i want someone to love me from the bottom the heart and i know...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 1 Response May 11

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    I don't know why lol... I guess it's just a nice feeling knowing that someone actually likes you...
    GoddessKaiya GoddessKaiya 16-17, F 4 Responses May 25

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    i think every single person wants to be loved but not all get it i dont know when i am gonna get loved all i can say currently still awaiting in the line of people who want...
    Mdesires Mdesires 18-21, M 1 Response May 22

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    I need someone that can come over whenever we felt the need. Someone I can talk to, smoke with. Someone who doesn't want sex, or to be all over me all the time. I want someone that...
    constancerainey constancerainey 18-21, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I can even put into words how lonely my soul is... I crave and ache to feel it sparked by another. Absolutely would give anything to find someone who loves me for me, with all my...
    SophisticatedPsychopath SophisticatedPsychopath 22-25, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Just as soon as I got my wish, it was gone. I got too happy and needy....and ended up pushing him away. Today I called him. He was with a friend and kept dodging talking to me...
    PersistentRage PersistentRage 16-17, F 4 Responses May 8

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    I basically just wish I had someone I could talk to all of the time and tell anything to. I guess I just want someone that'll be there for me and someone that I could talk to for...
    ThatGirlAllAlone ThatGirlAllAlone 13-15, F 8 Responses May 17

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    I want a someone who loves to talk and is 13 yrs old.
    averyherrin averyherrin 13-15, F 23 Responses May 18

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    And tell me that I did great... That I did great trying to survive. And that it's okay to let go and cry, though I probably can't anymore.. I just want someone to hold me and make...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat 13-15, T 1 Response May 20

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    it is like I cannot find this special someone you know. And I really really really really really do need someone to love me for who I am , and to love me more everyday and to love...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 2 Responses May 15

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    Doesn't everyone want someone they can tell anything too? My husbands ex-wife still tells everything to my husband. I'm ok with that but she was the reason they broke up. Now she...
    UltraRunnerMom UltraRunnerMom 31-35, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's been about 4 years since I was a dumpee of an 11 year relationship. I learned many things with this relationship including extreme pain and love. Since then I've dated but...
    Bellaboo83 Bellaboo83 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I just don't know what to do anymore. Just returned from the psychiatric hospital for depression and anxiety and yet I still feel the same and feel unwanted by everyone. I'm not...
    TheMaskedPoet TheMaskedPoet 16-17, M 1 Response May 8

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    I just want someone to talk to. Anyone? :D
    KoalaWallaWaffles KoalaWallaWaffles 13-15, F 4 Responses May 9

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    Usually a man will feel pity & date a fat chick. Once he realizes her issues are even bigger than her weight he will walk. What self respecting male wants someone to destroy his...
    Thelaughingman34983 Thelaughingman34983 31-35, M 4 Responses May 14

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    I want someone to chat with... I'm here at school and I'm bored to my mind. No work since finals are next week...
    SpaceQueen09 SpaceQueen09 13-15, F 2 Responses May 19

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    I'm a "good girl," per say, but there's nothing but troublesome guys around these parts. My mom wonders why I fall for guys that are no good for me, it's because outside of the bad...
    jellolia jellolia 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I want someone I can trust but the problem is I dint know what I'll share. I'm used to keeping my secrets to myself and only sharing what I want others to know. I'm afraid of being...
    tomh11 tomh11 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I just want someone to hold me right now. I'm hurting so much and feel so broken inside.
    Yasmin567 Yasmin567 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    i want someone to talk to because i am bored
    phaselove86 phaselove86 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want someone I can tell anything to and they won't tell anyone
    PinkyChristina PinkyChristina 13-15, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago