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I Want Someone to Actually Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 344 People

    It'S What I'Ve Always Wanted

    I want someone that will love me for me. I don't want to be anyone's second choice and I don't want someone that is just settling for me because they can't have the one they want. I want to be his #1.
    Vbot123 Vbot123 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Need Love

    One question:   What should I do to actually be loved by someone who I love back?
    JackerK JackerK 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I want someone to ACTUALLY love me every day I

    walk down the hallway with a dead face &. Watching every one have someone,someone that loves them. I just think to my self "what's wrong with me?" "Why does no one love me" "why is every one so happy". And I know I will never feel the same way as they all do
    kamster001 kamster001 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2014

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    Will There Be Someone?

    its not that i am in a rush, i just dont see that there is someone for me right now........
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Will Someone Love Me?

    Is there anyone out there who will love me?  My husband doesn't.  He's been lying to me about an online girlfriend and right now,  nobody loves me but my 2 little girls.
    hotmama911 hotmama911 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2008

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    I was dating my boyfriend

    for a little over five months and he ended up falling in love with my best friend. The entire time we were together he never told me he loved me. I want to get over him cause its been a month now but he was my first and i heard its always hard getting over your first. It seems...
    arielan arielan 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    Some Day..

    wouldn't it be nice?
    axeman66 axeman66 41-45, M Oct 3, 2009

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    I hear it all the time "I love you.

    " But since I was a child I have never felt it. Being an outsider to my family, a loner in social cultures, even my girlfriends have told me the loved me, but they've never made me feel love. And what's love without the feelings? It's like war without the guns.. just a word. I...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 14, 2015

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    The Nicest Thing In the Wor...

    The nicest thing in the world is to know you are loved and the nicest thing you can do for someone else is to love them.
    MolleyMo MolleyMo 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I Think We All Want This....

    I think we all want this. We all want to have someone who truly loves us, and not for how we look, or how good we are in bed, or anything like that, but just because they Love the person who we are. I want that too. I want to be Loved for who I am, and I want to be actually Loved...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Is There Love?

    I think it isnt just me who wants to find someone who really loves them for just who they are. To find someone who they think is cute/attractive/sexy. To have fun and we know that we are respected no matter what. And when the relationship moves forward, to having the first...
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    I Want to Be Loved! ...

    I want to be loved! I want someone who actually loves me and acts like they love me because they do love me. I want someone who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. I don't want anyone to pretend to love me or fall out of love with me. I want a forever thing. I don't...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    Love?...

    I don't really understand it, but i know i've never been in love. I really want to find a good looking guy that i just click with...I want that companian that is not only someone your in a relationship with but is also your best friend. I want a guys to tell me im pretty and...
    alexalex92 alexalex92 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Late Night Musings

    I don't think I've ever been held or reassured that I was loved. I think my mom may have done this, but I feel like my whole life I was told that I wasn't good enough. I was too overweight, shy and awkward to have many friends growing up, and now I am getting old and havent even...
    enicole81 enicole81 31-35 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Feeling alone. Can someone please love me? :(
    wendybunny wendybunny 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Ok, you (half) want to block them from everything? But there's a part of you that then worries what if they tried to and couldn't.......just because YOU'RE in no contact you still...
    Tingletips Tingletips 31-35, F 16 hrs ago

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    Do you love me because what I can give you? Do you love me because I can make you feel good? Do you love me because I can relieve your pain? Do you love me because you like the...
    ForMyLegMan ForMyLegMan 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    Help! So there's this guy I really, really like. He lives 4 hours away, but my crush on him is intense, so I'm committed. He's given lots of signs that he likes me - he wants to...
    thelupine thelupine 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    i asked before and chosen to be loved but honestly i hate love by every painful pain i feel right now!!!, i hate it i hate it and i never hated something in my life but it...
    GamesBOSS GamesBOSS 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I wish that for once, I could find a good man who will actually love me.
    wendybunny wendybunny 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have always craved love and affection. Never quite got what I needed from my father and that has left me with a skewed outlook on men. Unfortunately it has been quite a challenge...
    babeusa babeusa 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    don't fall in love just maintain friendship and simple relationship don't go for long relationship if u want long relationship just marry that girl first and then enjoy the life
    venkat432 venkat432 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I want someone I can have a good conversation with.
    deathbysprinklz deathbysprinklz 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    ~I want a f*cking storm. I want sleepless nights and endless conversations. I want passion. I want madness. I want someone who is able to make my whole body shiver from a distance...
    GraesSparrow GraesSparrow 51-55, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've been though hell recently I need a girlfriend to talk to cause my life is so bad I'm going though pain and happiness but it's hard to keep it balanced so I hope one of you can...
    Chasegeithner123 Chasegeithner123 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    hi dis is Ananya n i want 2 share smthng dat most of u hv experienced mayb ya cmng 2 da point my scl recently celebrated annual day and studenrs of 9th class shld attend it. Its a...
    kajal1234ananya kajal1234ananya 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i want to be loved by a good man someone who will take care of me and be there for me and not play childish games with me take care of me and our future kids. that's all i ask for...
    Proud102315 Proud102315 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sick day as a toddler teen One day a few months back I woke up not feeling well. ACHOO! I sneezed without covering my mouth. Most toddlers I see do not cover there mouths when...
    coalburn coalburn 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm a INFP personality.I have this complex mind and I get frustrated way easily.I'm much a thinker than a talker.I hate small talk but I'm very good at talking what I'm passionate...
    felicia123angel felicia123angel 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    even if im not sexy or skinny ... i ll never let someone who need me alone, i ll never let someone down .. i ll never let someon who love me after the first obstacle i ll never...
    hanios hanios 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Randomly stumbled across this. Yeah, I too want to be loved. Valentine's Day is not exactly helpful, although I try not to be one of those anti-Valentine people and just try to...
    starling156 starling156 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I just want someone to love me...
    ashlenamya66359 ashlenamya66359 22-25, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    I met someone like that once. His name was Randy. He knew I struggled with mental illnesses and rook advantage of it every moment I spent with him. He would always say I was the...
    Nmetb Nmetb 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I apologize for the long bible I wrote here haha. I just need to write it all down somewhere. So.. most of my life and my childhood, I had no parents or family, like a lot another...
    ninacu ninacu 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm looking for a woman to that wants to chat with a nice attractive man. I'm a decent guy but lonely and a little attention starved. I'd love to be able to just chat with someone...
    bgood79 bgood79 36-40, M a week ago

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    I am with the love of my life. In 2002 we were good friends, then dated each other for a while, fell in love, only for us to get into a huge argument, part and go our separate...
    MartiniMagic MartiniMagic 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Cześć! I am a female, 17 now and 18 in August, who is looking for a girlfriend, preferably another Polish girl whom I can share my culture with. I live in the USA and mostly...
    ZytkaKubala ZytkaKubala 16-17, T Feb 3

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    I want someone to cuddle with
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M Feb 3

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    All I want is to love and be loved. I want to cherish the person I'm with and be happy with them. I want to be appreciated and cared for the way I deserve. I want someone who will...
    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I want to fall in love with someone who is equally yoked
    Aprildawnmarie Aprildawnmarie 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    this is a huge turn on to me. I love the feeling of having no control of my bladder, being at the mercy of when someone will release the clamp. the intimacy of someone sliding the...
    intersexgirl intersexgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    So the first thing I thought of when I read this experience..... Well, DUH. Why would I want to fall in love with someone who doesn't love me? Unrequited love is one of the most...
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