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I Want Someone to Actually Love Me

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    Late Night Musings

    I don't think I've ever been held or reassured that I was loved. I think my mom may have done this, but I feel like my whole life I was told that I wasn't good enough. I was too overweight, shy and awkward to have many friends growing up, and now I am getting old and havent even...
    enicole81 enicole81 31-35 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    Need Love

    One question:   What should I do to actually be loved by someone who I love back?
    JackerK JackerK 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    The Nicest Thing In the Wor...

    The nicest thing in the world is to know you are loved and the nicest thing you can do for someone else is to love them.
    MolleyMo MolleyMo 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    I was dating my boyfriend

    for a little over five months and he ended up falling in love with my best friend. The entire time we were together he never told me he loved me. I want to get over him cause its been a month now but he was my first and i heard its always hard getting over your first. It seems...
    arielan arielan 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    Some Day..

    wouldn't it be nice?
    axeman66 axeman66 41-45, M Oct 3, 2009

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    I want someone to ACTUALLY love me every day I

    walk down the hallway with a dead face &. Watching every one have someone,someone that loves them. I just think to my self "what's wrong with me?" "Why does no one love me" "why is every one so happy". And I know I will never feel the same way as they all do
    kamster001 kamster001 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Will There Be Someone?

    its not that i am in a rush, i just dont see that there is someone for me right now........
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    I Think We All Want This....

    I think we all want this. We all want to have someone who truly loves us, and not for how we look, or how good we are in bed, or anything like that, but just because they Love the person who we are. I want that too. I want to be Loved for who I am, and I want to be actually Loved...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Is There Love?

    I think it isnt just me who wants to find someone who really loves them for just who they are. To find someone who they think is cute/attractive/sexy. To have fun and we know that we are respected no matter what. And when the relationship moves forward, to having the first...
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    Will Someone Love Me?

    Is there anyone out there who will love me?  My husband doesn't.  He's been lying to me about an online girlfriend and right now,  nobody loves me but my 2 little girls.
    hotmama911 hotmama911 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2008

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    Love?...

    I don't really understand it, but i know i've never been in love. I really want to find a good looking guy that i just click with...I want that companian that is not only someone your in a relationship with but is also your best friend. I want a guys to tell me im pretty and...
    alexalex92 alexalex92 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    I Want to Be Loved! ...

    I want to be loved! I want someone who actually loves me and acts like they love me because they do love me. I want someone who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. I don't want anyone to pretend to love me or fall out of love with me. I want a forever thing. I don't...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    It'S What I'Ve Always Wanted

    I want someone that will love me for me. I don't want to be anyone's second choice and I don't want someone that is just settling for me because they can't have the one they want. I want to be his #1.
    Vbot123 Vbot123 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Sometimes I wish the person I have designed in my head would just walk into my life one day and turn my life around. The person I've designed in my head isn't perfect at all, but...
    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I want someone to build a deep and meaningful relationship. I have to be one of two extremes, so I either want someone to have a sexual relationship with me-friends with benefits...
    shelley95 shelley95 18-21, F Aug 12

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    I want so much to be my self and have someone love me.. I have made to error of changing to please someone. Now I have become bitter that they can not accept me the way I was.. I...
    ReallyBill ReallyBill 36-40, M Aug 10

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    I hate people who use and lie and manipulate to get sex, people like that think there are so special and the truth is there not! The only part of them that was half decent was the...
    Ameliaaaa Ameliaaaa 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    someone sweet and passionaqte
    Ebony24PinkStars Ebony24PinkStars 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I know I'm not the most attractive guy in the world but I've got a great personality and I've been told I've got a fantastic sense of humor I can be the greatest person in your...
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I never felt such way in life :/ i guess people have different choices in life so they prefer to be with their similar kind of personalities, but i need someone who can hold back...
    rony989 rony989 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I have so much love I feel like I need to give it to other people. I need more people to share my love.
    embear embear 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    For who I am and not what they want me to be. Destined to be single I guess fall for the wrong guys
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F 21 hrs ago

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    Id rather everybody like people for personality and not looks... Because if you mess up with makeup or don't make your hair right (applies to some guys too lol) people might not...
    AlexSaysHi AlexSaysHi 13-15, M Aug 8

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    I have to many people judge me like a have a lisp on my ss but barely and I'm to small and short. People are so cruel. Like they try to push me around but just because I'm SMALL...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 20 hrs ago

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    I want someone to love me. just the way I am and even thought I cut. I want someone to kiss my scars and love me, I want them to hold me and tell me you love me. Please someone be...
    mypoetryissad mypoetryissad 13-15, F Aug 4

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    When I was seven my dad met another woman and had a child. He cheated on my mom, most importantly he cheated on me. That was seven years ago. He just called me and told me that my...
    amanda1919 amanda1919 13-15, F 12 Responses Jul 30

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    Don't we all want someone to love and be loved in return? ;-----; but I'm only 15 so I can't really complain. Haha
    creepypastafan creepypastafan 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    i admit a have some trust issues but that doesn't mean i dont want everyone getting the hell away from me. i need someone to talk to even though i usually am the one who listens...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 18-21, F 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I want someone who i can actually talk to and tell anything
    isacake isacake 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Have you just ever wanted to be held for a very long time or maybe even just be happy with the thought that when no one in the world but your partner feels some type of way about...
    insanebeauty insanebeauty 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I want someone to tell me that I am beautiful (and mean it) when they see my keloids all over my chest. I want someone to tell me that everything is going to be okay. I want...
    shasharokuhs shasharokuhs 26-30 1 Response Jul 31

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    When I fall in love with someone I want to stalk them 24/7 and be with them every minute of my life but I calm the **** down! I'm a obsessive person. Anyways, I just really really...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Is anyone every going to love me or am I stuck a loner who everyone hates, am I the reason why everyone is sad, have I became te insanity everyone despises? Why won't anyone love...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    Basically, I want someone to be in my life where we can depend on each other to be there no matter what. I mean, life always has it's ups and downs but sometimes it's hard telling...
    madaline254 madaline254 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    I want someone who won't care that I'm incapable of sitting still. Someone who won't mind that I can't grasp the concept of cleaning. An that I refuse to be the most ladylike...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    When I joined this group, I didn't mean it's okay for someone to just approach me saying "hey, you know you can tell me anything." No. That's not how it works. You can't just...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want be loved by someone... I want someone to hold my hand, play with my hair and cuddle me whenever they feel like it. I try and act as though it doesn't bother me but the truth...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well ya me , how doesn't believe in love needs it . They r just like my suicide except I just can't take them away . I wanna fall in love with someone but someone that loves me too...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    It may sound silly, but I'm a huge hopeless romantic. I love all the cheesy romantic movies about staying up late and eating pizza with someone that loves every single thing about...
    outcastsavvy outcastsavvy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    It's just what it is. I want to be loved by someone who cares. I'm not asking much, just for someone who really cares about me to love me.
    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I want a real friend that is true to me all the time. I get along with just about anyone but I don't have any close friends anymore. I don't have anyone that I can just be open...
    fishin4eyes fishin4eyes 31-35, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want someone that I can talk to that isn't gonna sit there and be a perv or be an *** to me I want someone that I can talk to about everything and anything and just see where it...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I really want to have great mind blowing sex with someone I love.
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    I want somebody to love like the moon and the star's. Someone who will steal my heart and keep it locked away safely in theirs. someone to cry with laugh with play with go on...
    Feistywizard Feistywizard 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Is it good or bad that "I would do anything for someone I love" makes me instantly think of Meat Loaf... and is it good or bad that people younger than 30 years probably have no...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M Aug 4

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    I dont want someone that forces me to tell them something. I just want to know that someone will listen if i need them to
    madixson madixson 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I am not usually an angry or violent person, although if you want me to become one, the best way to do that would be to hurt someone I love (I wouldn't recommend it).
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M a week ago

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    I like the idea/concept of having someone you can tell anything too without having to lie, embellish, be ashamed or embarrassed. I've met some great people on here but still feel...
    SocioNarcc SocioNarcc 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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