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I Want Someone to Actually Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 307 People

    It'S What I'Ve Always Wanted

    I want someone that will love me for me. I don't want to be anyone's second choice and I don't want someone that is just settling for me because they can't have the one they want. I want to be his #1.
    Vbot123 Vbot123 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    I was dating my boyfriend

    for a little over five months and he ended up falling in love with my best friend. The entire time we were together he never told me he loved me. I want to get over him cause its been a month now but he was my first and i heard its always hard getting over your first. It seems...
    arielan arielan 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I want someone to ACTUALLY love me every day I

    walk down the hallway with a dead face &. Watching every one have someone,someone that loves them. I just think to my self "what's wrong with me?" "Why does no one love me" "why is every one so happy". And I know I will never feel the same way as they all do
    kamster001 kamster001 18-21, F Jan 30

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    Love?...

    I don't really understand it, but i know i've never been in love. I really want to find a good looking guy that i just click with...I want that companian that is not only someone your in a relationship with but is also your best friend. I want a guys to tell me im pretty and...
    alexalex92 alexalex92 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Late Night Musings

    I don't think I've ever been held or reassured that I was loved. I think my mom may have done this, but I feel like my whole life I was told that I wasn't good enough. I was too overweight, shy and awkward to have many friends growing up, and now I am getting old and havent even...
    enicole81 enicole81 31-35 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    Will Someone Love Me?

    Is there anyone out there who will love me?  My husband doesn't.  He's been lying to me about an online girlfriend and right now,  nobody loves me but my 2 little girls.
    hotmama911 hotmama911 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2008

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    Need Love

    One question:   What should I do to actually be loved by someone who I love back?
    JackerK JackerK 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I Think We All Want This....

    I think we all want this. We all want to have someone who truly loves us, and not for how we look, or how good we are in bed, or anything like that, but just because they Love the person who we are. I want that too. I want to be Loved for who I am, and I want to be actually Loved...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    Some Day..

    wouldn't it be nice?
    axeman66 axeman66 41-45, M Oct 3, 2009

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    I Want to Be Loved! ...

    I want to be loved! I want someone who actually loves me and acts like they love me because they do love me. I want someone who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. I don't want anyone to pretend to love me or fall out of love with me. I want a forever thing. I don't...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    Will There Be Someone?

    its not that i am in a rush, i just dont see that there is someone for me right now........
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Is There Love?

    I think it isnt just me who wants to find someone who really loves them for just who they are. To find someone who they think is cute/attractive/sexy. To have fun and we know that we are respected no matter what. And when the relationship moves forward, to having the first...
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2008

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    The Nicest Thing In the Wor...

    The nicest thing in the world is to know you are loved and the nicest thing you can do for someone else is to love them.
    MolleyMo MolleyMo 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2009

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    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 30

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    I just want someone to talk to. Someone who will talk throughout the day.. And about anything. Except no sexy talk. Preferably around the same age-I'm 23.
    jmas22 jmas22 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    jolieember12 jolieember12 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 21

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    I want someone to slowly get me addicted to eating more and more food. I'll slowly put on weight and not notice. Then when I do notice I'm too helplessly addicted to food to do...
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    I want someone to talk with. I will talk to anyone. Feel free to message :).
    apoorvgoyal apoorvgoyal 13-15, M Oct 11

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    Leeaaah Leeaaah 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 12

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    I feel so out it of it and I want someone new for once, a stranger.
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Oct 12

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