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I Want Someone to Care About Me

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    Somebody....anybody.....please?

    Is there anybody out there that can and will truly care for me? I do not mean just say you do and pretend to listen and placate me. I mean really care. I desperately crave and need to be cared for and about. I have spent my life searching and not finding the someone that coulda...
    huggies2383 huggies2383 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    I Can't Be Cold Anymore...

    I used to try to be 'cold' to avoid loneliness and needing someone. But it just isn't working anymore; it's backfiring on me. I am very depressed about needing someone now, and I can't have this facade of being OK on my own anymore. Avoiding emotions never works at all. It never...
    SylphNoir SylphNoir 18-21, F Aug 17, 2011

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    I Just Want Someone To Care About Me

    Just for once, i think it might be nice. I can't keep saying i don't care anymore, ive bottled up every problem and masked it with coping mechanisms. Drugs are the easiest. Ive been in a mental fog for years just trying to find happiness, but it never lasts. I feel so empty and...
    Interstate88 Interstate88 22-25 2 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    It's Been Awhile

    I dunno what it is about me that sometimes I just feel like I can't have a relationship with a good woman to save my life. Sure there have been bad ones, but, for the most part things don't get that far. They usually end up with me in the friend zone, and being unable to be...
    TheMarlboroMan07 TheMarlboroMan07 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 27, 2013

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    If Only You Cared...

    Ever since I was young I have always felt unloved, I'm the youngest of the family, and for some reason my parents believed that the youngest child should never get attention or love at all, I was constantly told by them that I was an mistake, and that I don't belong. I would...
    Fezzii Fezzii 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I like clingy. I like double texts.

    Phone calls. Goodmorning and goodnight texts. I like knowing someone cares. I like knowing they try. #stolen
    Monami13 Monami13 13-15, F May 20

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    Is Anyone There....

    I feel like I need some unity around me. I can't find anyone, even the people around me to act as a group and help us along. I feel like I'm doing everything alone. I have a husband who is always separate from me even though we are in the same room. I want to pursue...
    seekerX seekerX 41-45 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    I Dont Care I Just Want Someone to Care

    i thot i was looking for love. so i started ******* everything with a *****. i thot i wanted friends. so i became suicidaly lonely. i thot that my parents breaking up wouldnt mean anything, and i thot it didnt for about a year after. i mean my mom always hated my dad, and he...
    IanMAloe IanMAloe 16-17 3 Responses Nov 22, 2008

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    It'd Be Nice...

    More than anything, at least when it comes to people, I'd like to find someone who actually cares about me as much as I care about them: deeply.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 21, 2011

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    Just Sometimes

    I use to think that there isn't a soul out there that cared about me. So one day I decided to just observe how everyone acted towards me. I found out there are enough people, friends and family around me that cared about me. It's not that they were never there, it is because they...
    mrfern mrfern 22-25, M Feb 19, 2012

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    It's Been Like This For Too Long.

    I have been alone for so long now. Sometimes I wish I could figure things out. I have been closer to my mom and lived with her, though I did have a relationship with my dad, I feel like something is missing right now. Well please get to know me, I am friendly once you get to...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    Love Just Doesn't Apply To Me

    15 years old and I've never had my first kiss..and I'm not going to lie I have no idea what love is or how it feels to be in love. I thought I was in love once but Idk..it could have been nothing but just wanting to feel needed and loved for once but I guess he just wasn't the...
    darkspiritedangel darkspiritedangel 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2012

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    I Don't Even Believe I'm Worth Anything.

    I've had several terrible experiences with other people. Long, long story, and I won't go into it. But because of that, I have trouble trusting anyone. Like, at all. When I came here (to college), I thought at first that I'd finally found some people who legitimately wanted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 12, 2011

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    I can't believe I actually got here by trying

    to google "search for someone ready to care", whatever that means, and then "I want someone to care about me" because yes, at that moment I was so desperate for this that I wished I could stumble upon some place online where you just browse through people who are sitting there...
    Soligem Soligem 18-21 Jan 18

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    I Want To

    I want to feel other than my family love me.. and care about me..
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25, 2013

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    I Need Someone To Talk To

    Is it pathetic that I want to hear someones voice on the phone and not just see lifeless text on a screen. I just need someone to talk to
    Lenina1 Lenina1 18-21, F Jan 23, 2012

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    Blind Is the Eyes of Those In Love...so They Say!

    They all laugh when you say "I want someone to love me." They tell you that love's not worth it. However, when I see couples walking with each other and they're so caught up in each other I can't help but want some of that. To just have a glimspe of what love feels...
    justawish justawish 16-17 4 Responses May 27, 2009

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    I Am Here To Look For Someone To Care For

    All my life i was told you are a caring person . but right now i have no one in my life and i miss it so if you are in need of CARE and LOVE let me be your man
    Ravens522006 Ravens522006 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 23, 2012

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    Someone Please Care

    I want someone to care that i breath.   I want someone to tell me everyday that i mean something to them and that they love me. But i know that wont happen Why cant someone just love me why cant i be cared about why am i always too little too late.   why cant he...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 26, 2009

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    I really wish someone would stay up all night

    with me, and tell me everything was going to be okay... It seems so impossible now, so far away.
    cherrychillz cherrychillz 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 11

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    I Need Help Please

    Hello, my name is Bruce Varnum and Iā€™m having a trouble time with my financial problems. My past 7 years have been (hell); I have buried several of my close relatives. About 2 years ago in October of 2010 Virginia, Jenny, Varnum Handling of "Jenny" Varnum's Abuse Complaint to...
    wtfbruce wtfbruce 46-50 2 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    Sick Of The Fights

    I've been fighting with my bf for a while now... and the emotional strain is getting to be to much. It feels like I'm always the one who has to say sorry and be the bad guy. It's feeling like how I feel doesn't matter, and I don't know. I'm starting to think maybe I really am the...
    LostLotus LostLotus 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2, 2011

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    Someone to Care For and Look After Me

    I feel so lonely.  I just want somebody to care for and look after me.  Surely that isn't so bad is it?  Until now, I have been caring for my mum but she died a few weeks ago.  My sisters are trying to evict me from my home as it was owned by my mum and they...
    rintyg rintyg 36-40 6 Responses Apr 29, 2008

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    Alone And Lonely

    Due to a Traumatic experience as a child at the age of 8, and abused from age 4 to 12 physically then mentally from age 12 to 18 when i finally moved out. I know I have people that care about me but I guess it's hard for me to realize they care. I am 35 now and have been single...
    Olafman Olafman 31-35, M 3 Responses Dec 11, 2011

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    I feel as if I have so much love to give I want

    someone to build with not be in control of. I want a love that makes me smile nonstop and can connect on different levels. I feel so lonely and hurt. I just want someone to care for me like I can care for them
    Brittany2390 Brittany2390 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    Sadness

    I wish there was someone out there that would listen to all of my problems and tell me it will be ok. I wish someone would listen and not feel plagued by all of my sadness.
    meh3 meh3 18-21 3 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    Lost

    hey i lost everything and have no money no job, no car and no home i owe the courts alot of money and have 1 year of jail time over my head. i have no way to sign up for probation and if i fail to sign up i will go to jail. i was thinking about killing myself. for now i am...
    babyshreck babyshreck 18-21 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    I Want Someone To Care About Me

    someone who actually cares about me and where my life is going. someone who enjoys being in my company as we hold hands and talk about stuff how i see other couples do. why does nobody want to kiss me like other guys.Maybe i am ugly i dont know, im a shy guy i lack confidence...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Jul 22, 2013

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    No One Will Ever Care About Me

    I feel lonely. I want someone to care about me, truly and not because they are obligated to do so. I have these people in my life: my parents, the school staff, and my so called friends. Of course my parents probably care to some degree, but they never show it, and would dedicate...
    Melankitty Melankitty 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2013

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    I never get enough sleep thinking about my

    horrible life. I don't have real friends when things get real serious they leave and act like nothing happened and like they didn't know me or see my pain. I hate everyone who left. It hurts me more and you don't realize how it's not helping me at all so thank you for leaving me...
    javshabsb javshabsb 13-15, T 1 Response Mar 11

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    Just A Few Minutes

    I love leaning against him. It makes me feel safe. And our legs were touching, and it was warm. I love the feeling of his head resting on mine. Like, maybe it's a yes, I love you too. And our hands were so close, knuckles barely brushing every time we breathed. And suddenly he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 16, 2011

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    All Of These People Around Me

    They see me cut and break down mentally, physically, and emotionally. They say, "Think of everyone that loves you. Think of how you're hurting them." But not once do they ask me how I'm holding up. How I feel. Not once are they curious about my story. Not ONCE has anyone ever...
    BlenderDear BlenderDear 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I want someone to care about me.

    Someone who is not obligated by blood. Someone who is not doing it for their own benefit. I just want someone to care about me and truly care. No bullshit.no lies. Just to listen and care for once about me.
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I Feel Lonely All Of A Sudden

    This school year, i have made a new best frd, so i have been sticking with him all time. Even though we sometimes still hang out with other frds, it was mostly me and him at all time. And i feel completely okay, becoz its fun hanging out with him. Then i started to fall for him...
    lemong lemong 22-25 2 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    I just want someone I could call mine.

    I don't have to share him with other people. I want someone that will tell me I'm beautiful text me good morning and appreciate what they have. I want someone I can talk to at night when I'm sad or lonely. I just want someone who wants me. I someone to care about me. Is that to...
    Schamma Schamma 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Find Someone To Chat

    Hi, I'd like to find someone to chat. I would really love the experience, I've been feeling this void and this need. I want to be friends with someone, I really do. Thanks.
    malibe malibe 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    I'm Hanging Onto To Him Because He Cared..

    I had a boyfriend for 11 months. He was amazing and loved and cared for me, and he definitely showed it.. He made me feel like I was a princess, when I'm the farthest thing from it.. He was cute, when I'm not, but he truly thought I was! I was amazed... But I was so stupid, for...
    circasaurus circasaurus 16-17 3 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    Who Cares

    Who really cares enough about me and what I think? To respect me and to be kind to me. A lot of people I have found all ways want something from me and doesn't really care about me. I want someone to who really cares for me and wants to know me. Someone that I can be me with. Who...
    koolkatjossie koolkatjossie 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    I Really Want This...

    At work I have such a draining job working with kids and sometimes I need to be cared for myself. I am human. I also have a second job working with older kids and don't always like some of my co workers as they are 2 faced. However, one time there was a lovely guy called John...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2011

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    i really want someone i can tell him or her anything i want :( i dont want be lonely being a lonely is sucks šŸ’”
    darkenss darkenss 18-21, F 9 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I miss being in love. I want to be there so badly again. I just LOVE the jump in my heart, when I look into her eyes - and I can see that she's looking at me with love too... The...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    In grade four, I feel in love with a boy in my class.I had a crush on another, so he slowly lost his feelings for me and I paid less attention to him. Now in grade nine I realized...
    arcticSoul97 arcticSoul97 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I snooped on someone I really care about. it is hurting and it is depressing me. I came clean to her but the hurt is too much, she does not trust me and she thinks am still doing...
    iwilllistenandhelp iwilllistenandhelp 26-30 1 Response Jul 7

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    I just want someone I can depend on and trust. I have a family and I have acquaintances, but no once I can trust, and no one who would want to listen. I talk to people about their...
    beautyfromthis beautyfromthis 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Everyone thinks I'm crazy, or weird, because I don't hold back on my feelings or thoughts very often, I hate the fact that people , generally people you meet online (no afence to...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I mostly care about the persons personality, but I can't say I don't care about looks. People always say that they don't care about looks at all and it doesn't matter.. But really...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    In this case, it's a dog. I want a puppy. A female Border Collie mix. I want to train and spend time with an adorable little bundle of fur and devoted love. I want to have dirty...
    LEMONkinks LEMONkinks 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    It is so difficult to have a heavy secret that you need to just be able to speak out loud to someone who cares. The repercussions could be so damaging and hurtful to people I care...
    tyrantsparky tyrantsparky 36-40, M 7 Responses Jul 19

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    I want to meet a dominant girl whom I can console to, and talk to like we are close friends. someone caring and who really cares about me and won't hurt me. I'm the same way, but...
    treyabxo treyabxo 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Kyoko Mogami from the manga Skip Beat! If you ever cared about someone and worked your *** off for them because you loved them, had them treat you like crap and toss you aside like...
    meincarnated meincarnated 22-25 Jul 2

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    My best sister who I care about
    Houri Houri 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 5

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