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I Want Someone to Lean On When Things Go Bad

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    Someone to Lean On

    I have been the leaning post for so long. I'm ******* sick of it. Just for once, I'd like somebody, in the flesh ( At 18, at least, 28-29 would be better) who II could ******* lean on. I'm sick of being everybody else's hanky. But all the same, I don't think I could do...
    Socklord Socklord 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 3, 2008

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    i sing this song when i am down..........   Bill withers---lean on me Sometimes, in our lives We all have pain, we all have sorrow But, if we are wise We know that theres always tomorrow Lean on me, when youre not strong And Ill be your friend, Ill help you carry...
    ccdo ccdo 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Well Yeah

    I think everyone needs someone to lean on sometimes. I know I sure do. It's hard going through this mess called life on your own. Sometimes you just need someone there for you. I wish I had someone like that.
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2008

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    I Don't Always Have to Be Strong

    Life has been very trying lately. Emotions have been rather intense due a lot of factors in my life and also in the life of someone very dear to me.  I was being strong for my friend and felt good about this. Still do more than ever.  My life has been demanding. ...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    And They, In Turn, ...

    ...can rest assured that I will always be there for them when they need me.
    eleanorssong eleanorssong 56-60, F Nov 29, 2011

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