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I Want Someone to Love Me As Who I Am

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    Anxious

    I need a guy that won't mind my stupid complaining, won't care that I beat him in video games, doesn't care that I PLAY video games, that doesn't pressure me, that loves me for all my randomness and insanity.   ~ChunChun^_^
    ChunChun ChunChun 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    Mixed feelings..yeah i would love to have

    someone love me for me,maybe not love my imperfections but accept them and still love irregardless..At the same time I dont wanna just settle for being this person I feel still has a lot of growing up to do and that if she really committed to it could change for the better at...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    Still Alone

    maybe someday i will find that uncondional love that i crave, that love i can give to another
    canttakelife canttakelife 36-40 2 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    Is Love Available?

    My whole life has been a struggle for finding pure love without conditions. It seems that everyone I get involved with puts conditions on me and don't accept me for who I am and who I am not. I come from a family of six siblings including myself. We lost our parents when I was...
    pethealer pethealer 46-50, F 23 Responses May 7, 2008

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    Want Someone

    I want someone to love me as I am. im happy with who I am, but I still want someone by my side, there nothing wrong with that. im tired, frustrated with girls at times. im an outcast . I feel like one.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I would love to meet someone

    who really really adores me. Who makes me laugh, enjoys deep conversations, loves buying me retro and vintage gifts like old books, hunting out old 50s brooches, large leather gloves and hats, someone who admires my caring nature
    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    Because This Is Me

    I Want Someone to Love Me As Who I Am :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    Hopefully

    I still have some hopes that I will meet an amazing person who can transcend the mental standards I've set for them and make me a better person. Everyone does. It doesn't seem like a stupid wish when I see old couples while it does seem stupid when I see two year divorcees. If...
    speakingtheloudest speakingtheloudest 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 14, 2013

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    I'm Different-can Someone Accept That?

    I want someone to love me with all my scars, and pains, and disorders, and my personality because all of those add up to who I am. I don't want people to go just by my look. No one should talk about me if they haven't talked to me. Just because they know my name doesn't mean they...
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Maybe Unlovable

    I have never been loved. I don't know what it is like to be loved or to love. Is it when you fear the emptiness when they leave? In order to really love, I believe that you have to be loved. I mean, obviously my parents love me, but they would love me even if I was mean and...
    nahald nahald 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    faraz68 faraz68 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I just want someone to accept me

    for who I am, someone who will look past my body but within the soul, just venting. -
    Idontlike Idontlike 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    Will I Ever Love Again?

    WIDOW the word even sounds strange on my lips, alone for the rest of my life. But I feel like I still have something to offer, why I don't know. Maybe because being a wife is who i was for so long. Loving someone so deeply is painful. My hubby was no saint and hurt me in so many...
    mommaceitta mommaceitta 51-55, F 1 Response May 15, 2013

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    I thought if I tripped really hard to bet the

    person he wanted me to be,I'd be happy- wrong. Never again did that turn out bad.
    mylisa75 mylisa75 56-60, F Apr 9

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    Just Me

    I am me and that's that. I can change provided I'm changing because I want to better myself. I can also adapt to my situation as need be. But please don't expect me to do a major over haul just because you want something more. If I'm not good enough for you then maybe you should...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    Luck

    Finding someone like that is about as likely as hitting the lotto I'm 63 and still looking.
    shelle48 shelle48 61-65, F 4 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    What I’M Looking For

    I’m not a ***** looking for sex. I’m not stupid and I know that won’t bring me love or anything I could actually want in life. I’m a 17 yr old girl that only wants to have fun when it comes to a relationship, but I’m not looking for sex. Sure I want that someday like...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 10, 2013

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    Its Harder Than It Sounds.

    I dont understand. I see couples who are abusive to one another and they stay together for years. I treat my girlfriends like princesses, and i cant find love. I want someone to love me, and to show me that they love me. Its the little things that matter. I want someone who looks...
    L0neWolf L0neWolf 26-30, M 10 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    I know I'm shy and anime freak

    and a large size woman. I'm learning to be ok with that. Why can't you?
    BigPretty78 BigPretty78 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    Still Chasing That Unicorn...

    Simply put, I am who I am. I am the sum of all of my experiences and traits, both negative and positive. I'm past the point in life where I'll even consider trying to stuff myself into a box or label that I just don't fit; it's something I won't do for myself or for anyone else...
    DoctorBastardo DoctorBastardo 26-30, M 4 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Love Me As Who I Am

    sounds reasonable. but sounds only. who is not loving u the way u are?
    hprfws hprfws 46-50, M Jul 4, 2013

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    Love?

    I think i contradict myself on this. I say i don't believe in love and i don't think i will ever LOVE someone. BUT i know deep down inside, it is ALL I want. It scares me so much, all these things come to my mind when i think about love.... why am i single? why isn't there a guy...
    marisduhh marisduhh 18-21, F Aug 7, 2012

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Taking One Another To Where We Need & Want To Be...

    We all have what we envision as our penultimate in our minds in terms of experiences, individuals, etc...Some days or evenings, it's easier to drift to those imaginings....Truly though, sit back for a minute, close your eyes... Go to a place in your memory or what you would like...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2012

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    Lonely

    Why is it so hard to find a good woman to share my life with just because I'm on disability???
    wayat wayat 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2013

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    Well, How I wish. It's kinda hard.

    .. Waiting lol. People say we shouldn't find love, instead we should wait, well, what do you think? Wait or find?
    Thatssoawesome Thatssoawesome 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Love Me How I Am...

    To be loved the way I am would be AMAZING. I'm not even sure I've been loved at all let anone for who I truly am. If you're not sure who that is, it's okay I'm not always sure either. All I really know is that I have an extreme problem with conforming. It doesn't matter if it is...
    ArtistBoi ArtistBoi 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 5, 2013

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    Why Are There Always Conditions?

    I wonder why people are always trying to change me. I'm sure they think they will make a better me, but If I change, then I wouldn't be me. I grew up in a home that most people can't even begin to imagine, I'm not looking for sympathy or pity, those days are long behind me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Who Dosent Want Love

    i just want to be excepted is that to much to ask??? i try so hard to make guys like me but maybe im trying to hard  
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2008

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    When Will Someone Love Me?

    I just don't understand why it is so hard to find someone in this great big world who will love me as I am for who I am. Just about everyone I meet thinks I am funny, artistic, loving, caring, kind giving and just an all around fun person to be with. But I am not one to go out...
    prettywomanNautumn prettywomanNautumn 51-55, F 6 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    Ugly? Pretty?

       Okay, I am a guy. I know it must be a dream to have girls over you for your looks all the time, but when you actually have sensetive emotions it's a nightmare. All I get all the time is: "You're hot" "You know you're really sexy" "I love your...
    Wraetheck Wraetheck 16-18, M 6 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Who Doesn't?!

    I am me and that's always who I'm going to be flaws and all. Maybe someday eventually I'll find someone who will accept me as I am. I'll hold on to that hope but who really knows...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    I am not rich and I am black woman

    and I need to love and been loved
    uzuri84 uzuri84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    To you I give a rose.

    A symbol of my love, for it always grows.
    JADodd JADodd 22-25, M Feb 25

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    Teach Me How To Love Me

    i wish i had someone that loved me enough for me to learn how to love myself. right now i am so insecure but i put on a charming and lively front to hide it from people. i want a guy that understands me and loves me for all the things i hate about myself. i am loud, shy...
    LonelyThoughts LonelyThoughts 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    Can't Take It Anymore.....

    I am sick of living like this. If my own mother can't accept me and love me as I am, what chance do I have? If the one person who is meant to love you unconditionally feels that way then it can't help but hurt deeply. I know I am an embarrassment and that I bring shame to her...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    I already had that...

    ....but diabetes took her away from me.
    dasher73 dasher73 36-40, M Jan 15

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    Acceptance

    It would be great if some one would love me the way I am.  I find that they want to change me or I find myself trying to change so they will love me.  You know that never works.  My husband has a live in maid, cook and I still have a job to go to.  It get...
    flaggermom flaggermom 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    Never Happen

    For obvious reasons I will never find someone that will love me as I am and not who I can or cannot be.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 16, 2007

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    Pretty Pretty Please...Don't You Ever, Ever Feel..."

    It's fascinating how we come to the realization of what is most important in our relationships after a series of life's experiences. We come to value the importance of open communication more, the tenderness of the heart, and the beauty of individuality as we come to know...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Yeah I'm a guy and I want to be loved

    and cared about . All my ex girlfriends have only lied and cheated on me and I'm tired of being hurt.
    niceguy5107 niceguy5107 13-15, M Feb 24

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    Im not rich ., I don't have a perfect body

    and yes sometimes moody and bossy but I still deserve love and respect and in return will do the same
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    More Than Anything.

    I want someone who knows and understands me. Someone that I love and loves me back. Doesn't have to be romantic, I just want a true friend. Someone who cares.
    KindZombie KindZombie 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    Confused Heart.

    For the last month roughly I've been falling for this girl. She's my age, 17. She's an outstanding individual, a truly one of a kind that I think very highly of and respect. The problem is, she was or is dating a distant friend of mine, I'm not even sure and haven't been sure...
    InconvenientHeart InconvenientHeart 16-17, M 1 Response May 11, 2013

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    You Have To Be Willing To Give In Order To Get

    I'm engaged to a woman who calls me me her hero. I'm definitely NOT the most attractive guy, although I've been called cute and handsome, I just don't see it. My lady, to me, is awesomely beautiful, and I tell her so often. I'm not going to be critical, but truth is, everyone has...
    wayfarer64 wayfarer64 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    I Want Someone To Love Me Without Judging Me

    I just want a guy to love me for what I am no matter what I want them to like my body now and still when I lose more weight not care that I have horrible skin its like im not fat enough for bbw lovers but not thin enough for the others I just don't fit in to any category why...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    Like A Book....

    On my travel through Europe, North and South America, Asia and now Australia I became to realize, that people are like books for me. I call my little world library because same as books have different covers, people have different colours of their skin, same as the books have...
    Azazel9111 Azazel9111 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    Think I've Found One, But...

    I found him, he knows me very well Yes, things seems to be so wonderful, until... One day, he shouted at me.... And he promised won't do the same thing anymore... But things are getting worse... After he abuse me, no matter physically or mentally, he will feel guilty and hurt...
    foolishangel foolishangel 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    Faults and all. I am not a perfect person,

    but I don't think that makes me unlovable.
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    mylisa75 mylisa75 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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