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I Want Someone to Love Me As Who I Am

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    Ugly? Pretty?

       Okay, I am a guy. I know it must be a dream to have girls over you for your looks all the time, but when you actually have sensetive emotions it's a nightmare. All I get all the time is: "You're hot" "You know you're really sexy" "I love your...
    Wraetheck Wraetheck 16-17, M 6 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    I have a best friend

    that I meant on her and she is so nice her name is Lindsey and i really like her she is the nicest person ever ❤️(:
    Lillyanna123456789 Lillyanna123456789 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I want a lover who will want me

    for who I am plz there is someone out there for me!?best photo I have
    jeniffer200 jeniffer200 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2014

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    Acceptance

    It would be great if some one would love me the way I am.  I find that they want to change me or I find myself trying to change so they will love me.  You know that never works.  My husband has a live in maid, cook and I still have a job to go to.  It get...
    flaggermom flaggermom 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    everyone expects something.

    they expect me to behave this way, or think that way. and I'm ridiculed for the person I am. the core of my being. I think I got to the point that I was appreciative that anyone 'loved' me. that because he was there through thick and thin, that was enough. I owed him a marriage...
    loveandlight29 loveandlight29 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    Okay so this won't really be well written

    because at this very moment I am broken an damaged so sorry. My best friend, my comrade who I have formed a bond with for the past years of my life as recently been betraying me. We don't talk often and the only times he's been being nice to me is when we are in a physical...
    writtendevil writtendevil 18-21, T 2 Responses Jun 9

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    My dearest love Look at the deepest heart of

    me Like a river without water As my heart without a lover I was lonely Since happiness had left me And now i am still lonely By the pure of love, i declare Come with me, my love I'll show you about the green grass along the riverside Look, they are so happy As the view...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 8

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    Would you take me just

    as I am? love me for me let me love you for you.....true love dont see nothing else but the true you
    ojeezy ojeezy 22-25, M Apr 23

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    Im not rich ., I don't have a perfect body

    and yes sometimes moody and bossy but I still deserve love and respect and in return will do the same
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 21, 2014

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    Someone who will love me unconditionally;

    as who i am physically, emotionally and mentally.
    sexydivide sexydivide 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm Different-can Someone Accept That?

    I want someone to love me with all my scars, and pains, and disorders, and my personality because all of those add up to who I am. I don't want people to go just by my look. No one should talk about me if they haven't talked to me. Just because they know my name doesn't mean they...
    Shadowspider15 Shadowspider15 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    I know my husband loves me.

    but that doesn't me he loves all of me. when he says I need to lose weight, it kills me. that is something I know I need to do...so him saying that only makes me feel that he sees the imperfections I see when I look at myself. not a good feeling.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 23

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    I don't need someone to complete me

    because I am a complete work of art! I am crazy, kind, just, weird, messy, lovable, and so much more. When i got married I changed that awesome person I was for someone who I thought loved me for me. Maybe I really felt like no one would ever really love me so I changed who I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I would love to meet someone

    who really really adores me. Who makes me laugh, enjoys deep conversations, loves buying me retro and vintage gifts like old books, hunting out old 50s brooches, large leather gloves and hats, someone who admires my caring nature
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 9, 2014

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    I want someone to love me

    for who I am. Like my body, the way I laugh, the way I dance. Just like me for me
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm new on here and I guess it might be a good

    way to meet people. I am very introverted and I feel like nobody will love me because of that.....it's hard me to open up to people. I guess I need someone to take me by the hand and encourage me to get out there, but how can I meet that person if I'm not ready out there?
    Ponyprincess Ponyprincess 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    one of my faves... She stood

    before him just as she made to be, no lies, no judgement, no fake smile. She showed him the storm that ravaged within her, the strength o her heart, the stuborness of her will and the soul that buried like fire and he... ...He took all she had to offer...saw the beauty amongst...
    flamesandicicles flamesandicicles 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    um hi there! I'm very antisocial,

    and shy so I dont known what to say. I might seem like a normal person but I'm actually depressed, I would love to make new friends, but I don't know how. Maybe i'm not supposed to have friends?? I don't know, just wanted to say that I exist I guess.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 29

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    I'm too weird. Too much.

    No one can love someone like me. Self-destructive, insecure, eating disordered, depressed, anxious... The good in me is overshadowed by my darker side.
    Littlegirlblue22 Littlegirlblue22 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    If I show you my passion.

    ..will you love me? If I show you my beliefs...will you love me? If I show you my faults...will you love me? If I show you my fears...will you love me? If I show you my heart...will you love me? If I show you my body...will you love me? ...For me? If I share my heart...will...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F Dec 1, 2014

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    I want someone who likes me through my quirks

    and weirdness.. I want someone who doesn't so much as add stress to my life.. But takes it away.. Someone I can call here and there and have a dorky conversation with.. I also want someone I can please.. Sexually and regularly.. I wanna please.. Someone a big of a dork as me...
    codyvilla99 codyvilla99 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Just Me

    I am me and that's that. I can change provided I'm changing because I want to better myself. I can also adapt to my situation as need be. But please don't expect me to do a major over haul just because you want something more. If I'm not good enough for you then maybe you should...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    I just wanted one person

    who loves me for the way I am... I know that I have dark places in my heart, my mind and in my soul, but I want someone who'll never refuse to fight... I just want somebody who won't walk away in the middle of visiting my dark places
    RagingDemon29 RagingDemon29 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kayccaa kayccaa 26-30, F Apr 16

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    People constantly give me suggestions on what I

    should change about myself as though who I am isn't good enough. I always tell them I'm not here to please anyone...love me or hate me.
    Deeplyflawed89 Deeplyflawed89 26-30, F 2 Responses May 30

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    minacc11 minacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 12

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    here are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    anneluna anneluna 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    I was naive and hasty

    that I got in a relationship with someone who was just playing around. He was the cutest man I've ever met and surely never meet again. After our break up I was just in mourn. Later (quite some time) I realised that I'd rather be on my own than being in a relationship with...
    nguyen23 nguyen23 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    i am a 12 year old girl

    that is looking for a boyfriend the age 12-14 years old.
    justinegrant justinegrant 13-15, F Feb 28

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    Luck

    Finding someone like that is about as likely as hitting the lotto I'm 63 and still looking.
    shelle48 shelle48 66-70, F 4 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    So today I met the best friend a person could

    have. Her name is lilly an she is awsome and kind and nice all in one.
    lindseygreypat3 lindseygreypat3 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 17

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    Pretty Pretty Please...Don't You Ever, Ever Feel..."

    It's fascinating how we come to the realization of what is most important in our relationships after a series of life's experiences. We come to value the importance of open communication more, the tenderness of the heart, and the beauty of individuality as we come to know...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Idk it my boyfriend loves me

    for who I am all the time he tells me what I shouldnt do and what I shouldn't wear and I have kiss a girl before a long time ago and he calls me names and be like your gay but I just want him to love me for me
    teenworldgonebad teenworldgonebad 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    when your ex text you i love you

    so much ? like you just cussed me out a week ago . but i fell for it and been on the phone for three hours like really . then he told me I'm on a 90 day probation . i don't even want to be with him. our friendship slash relationship is so w e i r d . any advice ?
    brittany111 brittany111 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 27

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    Sometimes I wish the person I have designed in

    my head would just walk into my life one day and turn my life around. The person I've designed in my head isn't perfect at all, but he's perfect for me and that's what I want. I want someone who could make me laugh by saying the stupidest things, I want someone who would have my...
    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    You Have To Be Willing To Give In Order To Get

    I'm engaged to a woman who calls me me her hero. I'm definitely NOT the most attractive guy, although I've been called cute and handsome, I just don't see it. My lady, to me, is awesomely beautiful, and I tell her so often. I'm not going to be critical, but truth is, everyone has...
    wayfarer64 wayfarer64 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    Why Are There Always Conditions?

    I wonder why people are always trying to change me. I'm sure they think they will make a better me, but If I change, then I wouldn't be me. I grew up in a home that most people can't even begin to imagine, I'm not looking for sympathy or pity, those days are long behind me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I Am Not Perfect, Not Even Close

    I have some bad flaws but i hope my good traits outweigh the bad. I am a what you see, is what you get kind of person. I am authentic, i am not a manipulator. I shoot straight from the hip. Never ask my opinion. I will give it straight up..no thrill or frills. I have an ugly...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 10 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    here are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    anneluna anneluna 26-30, F Feb 27

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    Is Love Available?

    My whole life has been a struggle for finding pure love without conditions. It seems that everyone I get involved with puts conditions on me and don't accept me for who I am and who I am not. I come from a family of six siblings including myself. We lost our parents when I was...
    pethealer pethealer 46-50, F 23 Responses May 7, 2008

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    i want someone to love

    as I am..why people cant regret what we do for them? I just somebody who can fill me and I fill him
    marcia15 marcia15 16-17, F Jun 13

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    Can't Take It Anymore.....

    I am sick of living like this. If my own mother can't accept me and love me as I am, what chance do I have? If the one person who is meant to love you unconditionally feels that way then it can't help but hurt deeply. I know I am an embarrassment and that I bring shame to her...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    Kodeeconner13 Kodeeconner13 13-15, M 5 Responses Jun 11

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    Being loved for who you are is hard

    now days . People think it's all about having a big butt big boobs and a perfect belly , that's not true . A real person would love someone for who they are and their personality , looks aren't everything , everyone wants someone who will treat them with respect , love them...
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    this is me all of me

    and like every human am not perfect so if u aint loving my imperfections then u dnt call it love but mayb cos it takes the good and the bad in me to be awhole human. Love should just cover it all when you love me as me. My humanity
    ojeezy ojeezy 22-25, M Apr 15