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I Want Someone to Love Me As Who I Am

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    everyone expects something.

    they expect me to behave this way, or think that way. and I'm ridiculed for the person I am. the core of my being. I think I got to the point that I was appreciative that anyone 'loved' me. that because he was there through thick and thin, that was enough. I owed him a marriage...
    loveandlight29 loveandlight29 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2014

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    If I show you my passion.

    ..will you love me? If I show you my beliefs...will you love me? If I show you my faults...will you love me? If I show you my fears...will you love me? If I show you my heart...will you love me? If I show you my body...will you love me? ...For me? If I share my heart...will...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F Dec 1, 2014

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    When Will Someone Love Me?

    I just don't understand why it is so hard to find someone in this great big world who will love me as I am for who I am. Just about everyone I meet thinks I am funny, artistic, loving, caring, kind giving and just an all around fun person to be with. But I am not one to go out...
    prettywomanNautumn prettywomanNautumn 51-55, F 6 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    Anxious

    I need a guy that won't mind my stupid complaining, won't care that I beat him in video games, doesn't care that I PLAY video games, that doesn't pressure me, that loves me for all my randomness and insanity.   ~ChunChun^_^
    ChunChun ChunChun 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 26, 2007

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    I don really like some guys attitude towards me?

    ?? I have a complished a lot of things they were not able to and I guess that makes them to act rude to me :(
    abd105 abd105 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I want so much to be my self

    and have someone love me.. I have made to error of changing to please someone. Now I have become bitter that they can not accept me the way I was.. I feel I abandoned my own dreams to fit theirs, and now it is crashing down.. Leaving me abandoned..
    ReallyBill ReallyBill 36-40, M Aug 10, 2014

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    I know I'm not the most attractive guy in the

    world but I've got a great personality and I've been told I've got a fantastic sense of humor I can be the greatest person in your life If someone would just give me a chance (Although you probably still choose a good looking guy
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Aug 8, 2014

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    Who Dosent Want Love

    i just want to be excepted is that to much to ask??? i try so hard to make guys like me but maybe im trying to hard  
    justjessica justjessica 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2008

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    I want someone who likes me through my quirks

    and weirdness.. I want someone who doesn't so much as add stress to my life.. But takes it away.. Someone I can call here and there and have a dorky conversation with.. I also want someone I can please.. Sexually and regularly.. I wanna please.. Someone a big of a dork as me...
    codyvilla99 codyvilla99 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    I'm far from perfect.

    When it comes to looks, I'm not a model. I hope I find my dream guy. ❤️ No I don't mean a Ken doll, I mean the guy who will love me just the way I am.
    esmer2496 esmer2496 18-21, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    jeniffer200 jeniffer200 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29, 2014

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    I want a lover who will want me

    for who I am plz there is someone out there for me!?best photo I have
    jeniffer200 jeniffer200 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 28, 2014

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    Think I've Found One, But...

    I found him, he knows me very well Yes, things seems to be so wonderful, until... One day, he shouted at me.... And he promised won't do the same thing anymore... But things are getting worse... After he abuse me, no matter physically or mentally, he will feel guilty and hurt...
    foolishangel foolishangel 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    Is Love Available?

    My whole life has been a struggle for finding pure love without conditions. It seems that everyone I get involved with puts conditions on me and don't accept me for who I am and who I am not. I come from a family of six siblings including myself. We lost our parents when I was...
    pethealer pethealer 46-50, F 23 Responses May 7, 2008

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    I have to many people judge me like a have a

    lisp on my ss but barely and I'm to small and short. People are so cruel. Like they try to push me around but just because I'm SMALL doesn't mean i wont stick up for my self. But i am called alot of rude mean names when i would never do that to any one.
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M Aug 28, 2014

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    Can't Take It Anymore.....

    I am sick of living like this. If my own mother can't accept me and love me as I am, what chance do I have? If the one person who is meant to love you unconditionally feels that way then it can't help but hurt deeply. I know I am an embarrassment and that I bring shame to her...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2011

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    one of my faves... She stood

    before him just as she made to be, no lies, no judgement, no fake smile. She showed him the storm that ravaged within her, the strength o her heart, the stuborness of her will and the soul that buried like fire and he... ...He took all she had to offer...saw the beauty amongst...
    sunnywinter sunnywinter 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Idk it my boyfriend loves me

    for who I am all the time he tells me what I shouldnt do and what I shouldn't wear and I have kiss a girl before a long time ago and he calls me names and be like your gay but I just want him to love me for me
    teenworldgonebad teenworldgonebad 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I want someone to love me,

    for who I am not for how I look.
    TheDyingButterfly TheDyingButterfly 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2014

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    Im not rich ., I don't have a perfect body

    and yes sometimes moody and bossy but I still deserve love and respect and in return will do the same
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 21, 2014

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    Its Harder Than It Sounds.

    I dont understand. I see couples who are abusive to one another and they stay together for years. I treat my girlfriends like princesses, and i cant find love. I want someone to love me, and to show me that they love me. Its the little things that matter. I want someone who looks...
    L0neWolf L0neWolf 26-30, M 10 Responses Nov 10, 2009

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    I Am Not Perfect, Not Even Close

    I have some bad flaws but i hope my good traits outweigh the bad. I am a what you see, is what you get kind of person. I am authentic, i am not a manipulator. I shoot straight from the hip. Never ask my opinion. I will give it straight up..no thrill or frills. I have an ugly...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 12 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    Id rather everybody like people

    for personality and not looks... Because if you mess up with makeup or don't make your hair right (applies to some guys too lol) people might not hang with you anymore...
    AlexSaysHi AlexSaysHi 13-15, M Aug 8, 2014

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    Yeah... Not gonna happen though.

    Still, it would be nice, so I'll dream on. :)
    TheDarkVerse TheDarkVerse 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My whole child hood my dad was abusive

    and then he just abandoned me. I made mistakes with guys and then I found out I am mentally ill and now I have no one becuase of the things I did before I got put on meds. I just want someone to love me and accept me for me.
    Dhess1198 Dhess1198 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2014

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    Luck

    Finding someone like that is about as likely as hitting the lotto I'm 63 and still looking.
    shelle48 shelle48 61-65, F 4 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    R0GUE R0GUE 70+ 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Never Happen

    For obvious reasons I will never find someone that will love me as I am and not who I can or cannot be.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 16, 2007

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    Being loved for who you are is hard

    now days . People think it's all about having a big butt big boobs and a perfect belly , that's not true . A real person would love someone for who they are and their personality , looks aren't everything , everyone wants someone who will treat them with respect , love them...
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    I never felt such way in life :/ i guess people

    have different choices in life so they prefer to be with their similar kind of personalities, but i need someone who can hold back and understand me
    rony989 rony989 22-25, M Aug 18, 2014

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    I'm not judging any relationships out there

    but I hate seeing couples that have only been talking for a few weeks say I love you. In some cases it makes sense to me but most leave me completely clueless. People who have known me for years don't even know every side to me. In a relationship you will eventually get to know...
    Alyssa5977 Alyssa5977 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2014

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    Pretty Pretty Please...Don't You Ever, Ever Feel..."

    It's fascinating how we come to the realization of what is most important in our relationships after a series of life's experiences. We come to value the importance of open communication more, the tenderness of the heart, and the beauty of individuality as we come to know...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Ebony24PinkStars Ebony24PinkStars 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2014

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    For someone like me in my situation I'm

    beginning to think it's impossible. I always have to hide part of who I am or pretend there is a entire part of my personality that doesn't exist. I sincerely wish to find someone who is as open minded and kind as me some day. I'm just not sure if it will happen any time soon.
    Yeci Yeci 22-25 2 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    Approximately three years ago I made a profile

    on a dating site. I met a male on that site who was around my age. Maybe three or four years younger than me. We communicated on-line for two or three days and then we exchanged numbers. We communicated through texts for about one week and then we met in person. I found him to...
    ValentinePena ValentinePena 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 31, 2014

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    Ugly? Pretty?

       Okay, I am a guy. I know it must be a dream to have girls over you for your looks all the time, but when you actually have sensetive emotions it's a nightmare. All I get all the time is: "You're hot" "You know you're really sexy" "I love your...
    Wraetheck Wraetheck 16-18, M 6 Responses Nov 8, 2007

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    Sometimes I wish the person I have designed in

    my head would just walk into my life one day and turn my life around. The person I've designed in my head isn't perfect at all, but he's perfect for me and that's what I want. I want someone who could make me laugh by saying the stupidest things, I want someone who would have my...
    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I want him to love me in every way.

    Love my sense of humour, love my laugh, love my smile..but most of all...love my heart.
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    Just Me

    I am me and that's that. I can change provided I'm changing because I want to better myself. I can also adapt to my situation as need be. But please don't expect me to do a major over haul just because you want something more. If I'm not good enough for you then maybe you should...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2007

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    Some guy I really liked asked me out,

    and I said yes, but the first thing he asked me for were pics of my body
    Zoex3 Zoex3 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I don't need someone to complete me

    because I am a complete work of art! I am crazy, kind, just, weird, messy, lovable, and so much more. When i got married I changed that awesome person I was for someone who I thought loved me for me. Maybe I really felt like no one would ever really love me so I changed who I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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    Why Are There Always Conditions?

    I wonder why people are always trying to change me. I'm sure they think they will make a better me, but If I change, then I wouldn't be me. I grew up in a home that most people can't even begin to imagine, I'm not looking for sympathy or pity, those days are long behind me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    You Have To Be Willing To Give In Order To Get

    I'm engaged to a woman who calls me me her hero. I'm definitely NOT the most attractive guy, although I've been called cute and handsome, I just don't see it. My lady, to me, is awesomely beautiful, and I tell her so often. I'm not going to be critical, but truth is, everyone has...
    wayfarer64 wayfarer64 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 17, 2011

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    Acceptance

    It would be great if some one would love me the way I am.  I find that they want to change me or I find myself trying to change so they will love me.  You know that never works.  My husband has a live in maid, cook and I still have a job to go to.  It get...
    flaggermom flaggermom 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    I would love to meet someone

    who really really adores me. Who makes me laugh, enjoys deep conversations, loves buying me retro and vintage gifts like old books, hunting out old 50s brooches, large leather gloves and hats, someone who admires my caring nature
    TreeHuggingHippie000 TreeHuggingHippie000 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 9, 2014

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    My dearest love Look at the deepest heart of

    me Like a river without water As my heart without a lover I was lonely Since happiness had left me And now i am still lonely By the pure of love, i declare Come with me, my love I'll show you about the green grass along the riverside Look, they are so happy As the view...
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    I was naive and hasty

    that I got in a relationship with someone who was just playing around. He was the cutest man I've ever met and surely never meet again. After our break up I was just in mourn. Later (quite some time) I realised that I'd rather be on my own than being in a relationship with...
    nguyen23 nguyen23 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    I'm not a size 6. I'm not going to always agree

    with you. I'm clumsy, awkward, say things I don't always mean. I will put my foot in my mouth. I will **** you off. And you will **** me off. But the few things I know I will always do is love, support, care, and have patience. I will love you even when we are both mad. I will...
    StemLyfe StemLyfe 18-21, F Jul 20, 2014

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