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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    Just Love Me

    Just love me without a how or why or maybe or possibly.  Love me with everything and love me like nothing else really matters.  Give this to me and I'll give it to you.  Just don't give me your love with circumstances and boundaries.  Love should always be without bounds.
    Pooh1608 Pooh1608 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2011

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 41-45, M May 13, 2012

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    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Seems to me that alot of men I am around want it all A wife , a mistress , a freak , a mommy , a nurse I can only be ten things at one time I'm afraid I will never find a man...
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    I love her so much. But she has feelings for someone else. I haven't stopped crying sense Saturday. Actually writing this right now my eyes are watery. I went back to school today...
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    I realize now why nobody can ever love me. I was a bastard, the product of sex without love. My mom allowed my dad to have sex with her because she was disabled and needed his...
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    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I have known this colleague for 9 years. He is married so I am. For the past years we have been talking and confiding each other's with our life stories. There came a moment when...
    sisi77 sisi77 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    As it says, I loved someone who didn't love me. I tried to fight my feeling from the beginning and stay friends. It didn't help. My jealousy got the best of me and I eventually...
    IrMe IrMe 26-30, M Sep 3

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    I just don't know anymore who to trust, who loves me, if I would even recognize love if i had felt it. I have been through so much, so much numbness, i feel like everyone is just...
    tylersean tylersean 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    what does tht mean exactly i often wondered about tht we share things with our BFF but some of those things we share are about our partners how can we be a best friend with our...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 16

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    August 31, 2014 Sunday I've realized that in our 10years of being together maybe I give too much, there wasn't anything else for him to take and he got tired of me making him my...
    justwannabeliked justwannabeliked 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    I cant even talk to my own family without being cruelly judged. Someone please? Message me or something.
    NoxEstelle NoxEstelle 13-15, F 11 Responses Aug 30

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    I've known her for fifteen years. She thinks of me as a friend and brother. She is beautiful, smart, kind, strong and funny. I want to be with her, help raise her children, support...
    Nightshade777 Nightshade777 31-35, M Sep 8

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    licwineoffurbody licwineoffurbody 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    Approximately three years ago I made a profile on a dating site. I met a male on that site who was around my age. Maybe three or four years younger than me. We communicated on-line...
    ValentinePena ValentinePena 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    it's the third day of classes and honestly high school is very stressful for me. I don't know what it is, but as soon as I step foot in my school. I immediately become depressed. I...
    Angrybread Angrybread 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I like the idea/concept of having someone you can tell anything too without having to lie, embellish, be ashamed or embarrassed. I've met some great people on here but still feel...
    SocioNarcc SocioNarcc 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I want someone I can trust. Someone I can tell my deepest darkest secrets to. Someone to make me smile and laugh each and everyday. Someone that can make me smile just by hearing...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 1

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    I met him online and we were instant friends. He's gay, I'm bi, so I thought that this could be a real relationship. But recently, when I was being flirty with him. He was like...
    matagorta5 matagorta5 13-15, M Sep 1

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    I want someone to tell anything to without getting judged. Boy or girl, it doesn't matter. Please message me someone..? ):
    NeedForBones NeedForBones 13-15, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    A few years back, I fell in love with a friend of mine, another guy. I didn't understand the feeling I had, and I confessed to him, not to get with him or anything, but to expose...
    thecr00cible thecr00cible 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When I joined this group, I didn't mean it's okay for someone to just approach me saying "hey, you know you can tell me anything." No. That's not how it works. You can't just...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    Not sure if I am a generous person in general or not, but usually, if I give something (anything), I don’t like having it returned to me on another occasion, and it is also...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Aug 28

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    I'm completely alone without friends or family literally and I just wish I could find someone who was loyal to me for once in my life. If I had a girlfriend or boyfriend who was...
    oliviatee oliviatee 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I love this guy and I told him that And I ask him to go out with me He said that I loves me too But he can't do this because he doesn't want to broke my heart And I want to ask...
    lovewhatweneed lovewhatweneed 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Two weeks ago a good friend kissed me after almost two years of skinny love. We spent the whole night together, holding hands, making out, talking, laughing and smiling. The way he...
    burgerqueen37 burgerqueen37 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    I can't stop thinking about him. He's an amazing guy with a big heart. He makes everyone laugh when he's around and he is kind and gentle. I know he will never love me or think of...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    There was a guy I really liked, or should I say loved. I guess you can say that I was truly, madly, deeply in love with him. I'd do anything for him. But he didn't like me back. He...
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