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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

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    Love is... being happy

    for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The Source Of Strength Love is... being honest with yourself at all times telling, listening, respecting the truth...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 8

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks 46-50, M May 13, 2012

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    How about everyone? Does that Count at all? I've loved husband children parents .... People.. And in the end no one can really be trusted to support me. I will love with all my...
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    I recently noticed someone I work with, who has been appointed to a new position, and I'm having conflicting feelings of attraction and weariness. I feel like I'm in HS again, and...
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    After a recent separation I am not ready to love. I need space to think about things. I do not feel like loving anybody now. A woman has been very close and provided counsel but...
    quongun quongun 51-55, M 22 hrs ago

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    It was amazing when the most handsome guy at school asked me to be his girlfriend. He was so kind to me and told me every time we talked or texted he loved me. I loved him so much...
    Becky2002 Becky2002 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    And that is what I do have. I was reflecting on his and my first date together, which last month was a year ago. Our first date was in July, but we made our relationship official...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't follow orders, I follow my hear and my common sense, you want to tell me what to do? You're better off reconsidering instead lol
    Azureal Azureal 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I'm shell shocked today. I came across a hard drive with all my computer pix dating back to 2004. My wedding, the births of my children, our moves from house to house, our...
    BrandysGood BrandysGood 31-35, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well, I suppose it really just depends on how you see it. Yesterday, I told my boyfriend I loved him--I told him, but I had a feeling he wouldn't say it back, and I was right...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    So were going to start the next part. So after that, McDonald's episode. Everything went back to normal or as normal as things can be when you're in love with a guy, you can't...
    MissOreoX MissOreoX 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm in a long-distance relationship at the moment and the possibility that my boyfriend doesn't love me back scares the **** out of me. Being constantly terrified that I'm not his...
    Liviaaaa Liviaaaa 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I don't really know which group should i post ? Since i am in love and cursed and she loved me back but too late ! I was 19 young and stupid spoiled by all these teenage girls...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 days ago

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    How do you get over a situation like this?? I fell in love with someone who didn't honestly love me back. But he always said he meant it until the last time he got mad at you and...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    No, I hate when people says 'I'd like to find someone who loves me, who treats me like I deserve, someone who loves me for who I am not because how I look'. No, I'm sure you don't...
    JustAnotherGirlOnEP JustAnotherGirlOnEP 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was totally in Love and he still does not even know I exist!!! Jan-Micheal Vincent was a hunky hollywood leading man the first time I saw him in 1980. The Movie was Defiance...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    You never loved me at the start like you told me. You show me different. I have shown you I loved you more than I could tell you. Now I know where I stand with you and I can't...
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I'm writing this really upset. Maybe because it's raining and I stood in the rain, upset. Please don't judge me. Hear me out. I posed as this random woman on tinder. I guess I...
    jenniferking123 jenniferking123 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    am I doing the right thing my husband and I r working on things we play poker on line but the ex is still there and buying love potions for herself I told my husband I go to...
    tinytinytoes53 tinytinytoes53 51-55, F Jul 27

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    He told me he loves me!! He told me the other day but only in a friendly way now he said he has fallen for me. Shame the distance between us are way to many 😘😍😘
    lucylou13 lucylou13 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I have been in a merry go round relationship with the father my children for over 7 years now. we break up and he goes back to his ex and then once they are not in a good place he...
    Hilltrini Hilltrini 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 26

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    Back when I was in Middle School. I knew this boy he was a sophomore. We went to school together he eventually left the school obviously because he was older. I didn't feel pretty...
    Mustbethesneaks Mustbethesneaks 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    I am a married girl to a guy I love... I only ask him to show me that he loves me and cares about me. I do not ask for anything he is to far away, cold and careless! It's hurting...
    layalshannak layalshannak 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    One day I hope to get to a place where I practice loving kindness in all that I do. I want to forgive others and accept that they are not headed down the same path as me. Each...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I sometimes feel that my best friend is in love with me. He might not be expressing it because I am in a relationship with someone else. But sometimes he just becomes indifferent...
    radhika90 radhika90 22-25, F Jul 21

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    He convinced me he loved me. He told me every morning, night, and in between that he was in love with me. But then he got what he wanted from me; and I picked up bad habits. Since...
    lilacbunny lilacbunny 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    If you ever fall in love, fall in love with someone who wants to know your favorite color and just how you like your coffee. Fall in love with someone who loves the way you laugh...
    Pinaybarbie Pinaybarbie 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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