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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    Love is... being happy

    for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The Source Of Strength Love is... being honest with yourself at all times telling, listening, respecting the truth...
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M Feb 8

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    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks 46-50, M May 13, 2012

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Last night I got told how to feel. I suffer from really bad depression. I can't just be happy. I just can't snap out of it. That person on here was judged me. I really hate being...
    themagijudal themagijudal 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Right now I just want someone to care enough to notice me. I want someone to notice when I'm not around and how I feel. I want someone show me that they care, that I matter to them...
    DreamingOfSparrows DreamingOfSparrows 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    stupid bastard. I hate him bc I love him loved him thought I loved him. I hate him bc I felt he was trying to love me wanted to love me. if it would have been a postcard it was...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I had a girlfriend that always said she loved me and we would have some of the best times together. I never laughed so much or quit smiling. I did everything with her but we had...
    Muleboy Muleboy 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I'm not sure this fits me exactly, seeing as how I am still in this marriage But in many ways I think I fall into a different type of love I fall out of being "in love" with my...
    lu7998 lu7998 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    You have to love yourself. We're told this as we grow up, as we go through the changes in life. We're eventually pushed through enough obstacles in life that we learn that we...
    undefinable1295 undefinable1295 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    My story is such a cliche one. I fell in love with a guy (Marc)who already had another girlfriend(Dina). Apparently Marc suspected that Dina was cheating on him so he felt free to...
    Habeshagirl Habeshagirl 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 11

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    though I had no idea that this would happen but still, me and my best friend started talking in August 2014, she used to and still studies with me in my class in my coaching centre...
    SyedMohammadAsjad SyedMohammadAsjad 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I hate being told what to do. Someone I live with likes to tell me how to eat. She is not my family. Even then I dont like it.
    themagijudal themagijudal 22-25, F Feb 11

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    All throughout the two decades I have existed on this earth, I have struggled with men. All the men just seem to fade out. My father divorced my mother when I was young and ever...
    DreamCloud17 DreamCloud17 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I have been dealing with severe depression since the age of four. I have spent years being told , and eventually believing, that I will beat this and live a long and happy life...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Known hubby for 10yrs now. Married for 3yrs. I love him dearly but he is such an angry bird. Really. It's as if my love has gone to waste to such an undeserving heartless beast...
    lonelyhumanbeing lonelyhumanbeing 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I want to talk to someone about everything. I want to develop a deep friendship where I feel comfortable starting the conversation and being able to be myself. I want someone who...
    SkyPierceThe SkyPierceThe 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    I have a lover who was also my best friend. Introducing love into our friendship really changed the dynamics. My boyfriend claims that I'm still one of his best friends (overlook...
    InsaneFlowerGirl InsaneFlowerGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I had someone with whom I was completely open and honest, about everything. For seven months we literally talked every single day except one (due to her being sick), and we talked...
    TinyPenisFatMan TinyPenisFatMan 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    I had a girlfriend for two days and when I kissed her I got a nose bleed. She broke up with me through text and told me she wasn't gay and that gay weekend she had with me was just...
    Kklala1414 Kklala1414 13-15 Feb 10

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    The picture above will be explainedSince May of 2014 I have been in love with someone (The Zebra) will be explained later.  The Zebra and I were in a creative writing class...
    jschertz jschertz 16-17, M Feb 17

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    He told me he loved me constantly, and fairly (too) quickly, like at the very beginning of the relationship. I suppose when you physically hear "I love u", then respond back "love...
    Lthayer2011 Lthayer2011 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 18

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    I think most of us women know the awkwardness of dating a guy for months on end, waiting to hear those three precious words. Between his long gazes into your eyes and you think he...
    evollove evollove 41-45 Feb 23

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    I just want someone to care i guess..the people who i thought cared i duno they stopped being there.its almost ******* 8 am right now and i havent even gone to bed i dont know what...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    When people say they love me I make sure to look them in the eye to see if they mean it only a few people did and neither of my parents made that category I always feel alone I...
    sadnesskillsme sadnesskillsme 13-15, F Feb 11

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    The post I've seen in this topic is sad as hell. But I can honestly say I've been in a similar experiences than you reader. I was in love but she didn't love me. Looking back I...
    Sienga Sienga 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I just want a guy that is always up for a chat, is always willing to help me with my problems, and one that SHOWS they love me. Compliments are great and all, and I'm sure they do...
    Vicruiz Vicruiz 16-17, F Feb 17

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    so I'm just gonna say it... I was (just) sleeping with someone for over a year and of course fell in love and after doing exactly what he asked and always giving him his space he...
    sissieblue sissieblue 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    no one loves me. my family would leave me to fend for myself if I didn't remind them I was with them. I feel alone. my friends talk behind my back and don't care for me anymore. I...
    unfairlives unfairlives 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    To have a woman as such would be a dream come true. Having mutual likes wants desires. Cherishing each others likes being open honest sincere. In time who knows. I patiently wait.
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Well, our story is unique. I loved him so much thou i knew for a fact that he's a BI...1 day i decided to let him go without a word....coz i felt that i am not the right person for...
    EmoQueen EmoQueen 41-45, F a week ago

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