Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 574 People

    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks 46-50, M May 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 24, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Love is... being happy

    for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The Source Of Strength Love is... being honest with yourself at all times telling, listening, respecting the truth...
    ImForYouOnly ImForYouOnly 36-40, M Feb 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Am tried of being let down or hurt by my partner am at that point were i want to love me an built strength in my heart but don't know where to start. help
    andreaAnna andreaAnna 26-30 1 Response Mar 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    All pretenses aside, I miss a part of me that use to answer to someone. I pretend I am doing alright, but I am not. I miss the companionship. There I said it, I am human too.
    AcousticAnne1 AcousticAnne1 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Right now I just want someone to care enough to notice me. I want someone to notice when I'm not around and how I feel. I want someone show me that they care, that I matter to them...
    DreamingOfSparrows DreamingOfSparrows 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    stupid bastard. I hate him bc I love him loved him thought I loved him. I hate him bc I felt he was trying to love me wanted to love me. if it would have been a postcard it was...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now, but it always been me changing for him, I left my friends because he didn't like them, I stopped going Out because he would get...
    ox97 ox97 16-17, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I plan to beccome an effective communicator as a way to make it up to those years that i suffered slight selective mutiny that i hide under the blanket of rudeness and directness...
    WifeOfVegeta WifeOfVegeta 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 18 right now, about to go off to college this August an still living with my parents now. I had a girlfriend 3 years ago almost now who I would have over almost every weekend...
    justinm96 justinm96 18-21, M Mar 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was 13 years when I first saw this guy (let's name him as Karan) in my new school. I liked him the very instant I saw him. I am a very shy person so I talked to everyone very...
    aisha59 aisha59 18-21 Mar 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well yes, after me putting up with him all these years he decided its time to move on, i always got the sense that he didnt love me as much as i did, he said he did way too much...
    peabophile peabophile 18-21, M Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I remember the first time I saw your face, broad and handsome and full of disdain. You sitting there in the dark with an old tshirt on that you had cut the sleeves off of, I'd...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    As much as I speak about positivity, I can't help but feel hurt. I've been in a relationship for almost three years and while it has had its ups and downs, we still can't get it to...
    anita627 anita627 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So dramatic, no? And yet so cynical. Se que tu piensas en ella cuando lo lees, y mientras yo pienso en lo que senti por ti. "When you lose someone, someone you love, when they...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 70+, F 4 Responses Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met someone wen I was 15 going through a really rough time. I am best friends wit this guy still to this day. I loved him like no other than wen we were 20. he told me that he no...
    jazzyphay2 jazzyphay2 22-25, F Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    These things may have many things in common and many differences, but I have to agree that these beautiful things have a similar end. It may end as "Happily Ever After" but what...
    sunlight61 sunlight61 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I thought these words for so long. Looked at myself and cursed my flaws. Wondered what it was I had done. What I could do. Like the dog that gets kicked and keeps coming back for...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    All I want is for someone to really, truly love and care about me. I thought I had somebody like that. I want to be someone's top priority for once. I hate feeling like I'm in...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just want someone I can tell anything to. I know I have God and my family but sometimes, it's making me think that I just need someone that I can tell anything to preferably...
    SophieBeatrix SophieBeatrix 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The other way round. Last year I went out with a guy for 5 months, he was fantastic; attractive, funny, interesting, caring and he took me on some really amazing dates. We did...
    Toniommi Toniommi 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The best night ever. Was on snap chat talking to my crush aka my guy best friend and right before he was going to sleep he told me that he loves me. My day just got ten times...
    dimplesgirl17 dimplesgirl17 13-15, F Mar 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sorry i have to let this out I fell for this guy way too fast. Ugh his smile, his laugh, the way he speaks it replays in my head all the time. Im so attached to him. The way he...
    mybeatingheart20 mybeatingheart20 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met this guy , we were friends at first , we stopped talking for a while , then once we started talking again I started getting feelings for him , I told him , he said he cared...
    girldevil123 girldevil123 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I did date my best friend. We had/have been friends for four years now. We always had a special connection. We dated for over a year, I thought we were okay, but then he suddenly...
    whispersweetnothings whispersweetnothings 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Those who send dirty pictures.If you are in my circle and you do that I will block you.But I go my how you message me and not what someone tells me.I would also ignore people who...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love the rush of being scared. My heart beats fast, it's hard to breathe, I react quickly.
    stephyjane stephyjane 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I honestly love Zayn Malik more than anything and it's not just a teenage girl thirsting for a celebrity I actually love him. I long to see how he looks first thing in the morning...
    Zjmsmyking Zjmsmyking 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want a Lover that won't drive me crazy,..... Well first things first, divorce,..( due to a series of very, very unfortunate events, the marriage that is) .......then I...
    PrettyOldSoul PrettyOldSoul 41-45, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Love Fishing, 4 Wheeling, Being Athletic, Boating
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel