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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    Just Love Me

    Just love me without a how or why or maybe or possibly.  Love me with everything and love me like nothing else really matters.  Give this to me and I'll give it to you.  Just don't give me your love with circumstances and boundaries.  Love should always be without bounds.
    Pooh1608 Pooh1608 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2011

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F May 21, 2012

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Ok, I have this list, you know? Of people I need to forgive who hurt me... Well, it suddenly occurred to me, that I also needed to make a list of people I may have hurt, some I may...
    SanitySister SanitySister 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I have a fear that I will never have someone love me friendly and romantically.. A person who was very close to me from my pass once told me I would never find someone and I hope...
    musicgurl11 musicgurl11 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I can probably be most of you'll, older sister... Before today, I didn't think of responding to most experiences here on ep, because I can tell when some really wants help, or...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Latey, I've been feeling like my whole life has been a big joke and I've been being played from day one. My family was a joke. They didn't even want me. So I ended up in group...
    franhigg franhigg 41-45, F Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I dont know if this post is still working, but I want/need to share my story. I was married to a guy who was a psycho when I was not even 18. Coming from India, thats like a death...
    kindredspirit75 kindredspirit75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    We were together for two years and I swear I've never felt this way about anyone else. He is the love of my life...I can't ever deny that. I fought long and hard for our...
    chescafrxn chescafrxn 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    That would be nice, eh? Then the few people who give a shitt about my existence wouldn't blame themselves. But sadly, it's not that easy. If I want out, I'm going to have to grow a...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    it seems all my life that I am meant to be the good friend, the good lover, the one person who cares about every single person I meet. unfortunately it seems that I cant find...
    zesta zesta 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I first encountered him as a crush. I have always had a crush on him. He is white I'm native so their is a big difference in our popularity scale. Of course I am not as pretty as...
    Inlovewithtecher Inlovewithtecher 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I really want to talk with someone without being so positive :/
    Levi2 Levi2 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I can't describe my feeling about her I can only think of it and think of it. This feeling is so frustrating and yet so calming. When you show someone what you feel and she is only...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I have been told my whole life "watch your mouth" and am still told i should watch my mouth around my son, **** you i will ******* talk anyway i want around whoever i want! why...
    ashgurl71 ashgurl71 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I'll never forgive myself- I've known for months that he really cares for me, but it wasn't until he made it plainly clear that it was more then that. He loved me. He's fantastic...
    pinkromance pinkromance 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I just broke up with a gf of 4 years. We lived together for 2 years. She is a bi and she has fallen in love with a guy at work. I am crushed when I caught her lying to cover up her...
    miknat miknat 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Everything came down to this, her answer.. Her answer to be mine? Was a yes. I was thrilled, so was she. A week or two went by and we already exchanged I love you's. I meant it...
    irespectyou irespectyou 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I have been working with photography for 5 years and the owner of the company betray me because of people wanted to hire me at the side to do work for them..i told him about it and...
    shaney868 shaney868 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    The fire time I saw him, I swear I heard some music in my head. He was simply beautiful. He had these gorgeous thick eyelashes, which underneath were hidden the cutest emerald eyes...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I don’t want normal and easy and simple. I want painful, difficult, devastating, life-changing, extraordinary love. The kind that aches when he’s far away, that makes oxygen...
    AwkwardnessCentral AwkwardnessCentral 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Can't figure out what happened in our marriage. It was so perfect to the both of us, until a year ago. Since than he has stopped telling me he loves me and tells me he loves me as...
    OneWayHisWay OneWayHisWay 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    My parents divorced when I was four, my father left when I was five. He had visitation rights and one day simply didn't show up. My mother called, he had emigrated. I didn't...
    MonaO78 MonaO78 36-40 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I am an attractive person and honestly guys do like me but the kind of guys I want don't seem to stick around. I'm afraid I will have to settle for a guy that really loves and...
    mimileelee mimileelee 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I like one of my best friends. I've liked her since I saw her in 7th grade, and now she is dating my best friend. I told her about how I feel, and she told me that she loved me as...
    ThePainedBoy ThePainedBoy 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I sit in my room thinking of a way to change things, I'm in the friend zone of every girl I've ever wanted even the one I want now. I'm sick of being called bro and smelling your...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    I want you to call me without me telling you to. You should just want to call me just to hear my voice or to see how my day was but everyone seems to be self-absorbed in their own...
    cklein245 cklein245 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Every time I like a guy or develop feelings for a guy or fall in love with a guy, I'm never liked back. Never. For once in my life, I want to be liked back. I want someone who...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 23 Responses 6 days ago

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    I loved someone that didn't loved me. He used to chat on me everyday. He used to tell me 'goodnight' evernight. He played guiter for me. He gave the big doll to me. He talked to...
    preawsm preawsm 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I need someone to be my sounding board, I am always a shoulder for people, always accommodating and happy because I understand... I always understand. I want someone I can connect...
    TerrifiedoftheUnknown TerrifiedoftheUnknown 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    same story as told before time was counted I suppose LOL.. been with him for 13 years, this year would have been 14.. i loved a man who taught me that not every man cares about...
    sister11 sister11 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    i just need to get my feelings out...so me and this guy were dating for a couple of months and he would always tell me he loved me, one day after we spent the night together and...
    BlueChapsGreen BlueChapsGreen 16-17, F 9 Responses Apr 8

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    I want to give you what I have, but I don't have anything to give. I can keep you and hold you and torment you and play with you, but i can't love you. I can say the words, but...
    RKLawrence RKLawrence 31-35 Apr 9

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    I really do... i think it's because I love writing them as well, and letters written by your own hands feels more real... I just want to share a letter written by my ex girlfriend...
    Iknowsomethingnow Iknowsomethingnow 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I don't know if I should still love them or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was...
    Alice1998 Alice1998 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Well he says he loves me but it truly doesn't feel that way. I've been with him for quite a while now and everyday gets harder. It's difficult trying to keep up with him. Meaning...
    KlassyKay21 KlassyKay21 18-21 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I have often thought of killing my self but like a lot of other people just can't do it. I don't deserve to live. I have done things that I will not even post on this site. I...
    Vjmade Vjmade 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 21

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