I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid
    18-21, M
    Sep 10, 2011

    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    36-40, F
    May 21, 2012

    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks
    46-50, M
    May 13, 2012

    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Feb 24, 2012

    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2013

    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict
    13-15, F
    Mar 16, 2012

    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2012

    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue
    22-25, F
    Jan 31, 2011

    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

    Love is... being happy

    for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The Source Of Strength Love is... being honest with yourself at all times telling, listening, respecting the truth...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 8, 2015

    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2011

    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 12, 2012

    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911
    16-17, F
    Jun 6, 2011

    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 1, 2012

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    How would you make me pee myself if i would challenge you for doing it?^^
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