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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 556 People

    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks 41-45, M May 13, 2012

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Such naughty fantasies about this... and they pretty much all begin with being led in reluctantly on a choke chain and leash.
    KinkyLittleFatGirl KinkyLittleFatGirl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 15

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    I really don't care how you are raise but don't tell me how to live my life.
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I dont want to be rude or mean, but i totally hate it when someone messages me and says hi, hey, how are you. I will always say: "hey/hi, im fine. Thanks for asking. How about you...
    kindahipsta kindahipsta 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 12

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I am not sure what all to put in the so I will just write things as they occur to me. I have been married for 14 years and have two awesome kids and a very beautiful wife. A wife I...
    simonlabond18 simonlabond18 46-50, M Jan 6

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    I hear it all the time "I love you." But since I was a child I have never felt it. Being an outsider to my family, a loner in social cultures, even my girlfriends have told me the...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M Jan 14

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    My best friend and I met five years ago and started getting close three years ago. We both love gaming, reading, art, and being lazy. Lol. We talk everyday but I haven't been able...
    striccolm striccolm 18-21, M Jan 1

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    It started with her name. She was a friend of a friend, and when her name was first mentioned I remember thinking: “*****, that is a gorgeous name.” It would be a while before...
    SpaceTurtle SpaceTurtle 31-35, M 18 hrs ago

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    I don't know how I am going to focus on work today. I didn't want to leave my bed. All I can do is cry all day and all night. How can I go on like this. I feel like I want to leave...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I miss you so much this kills me not being able to talk to you anymore..you were my best friend and I was in love with you, I miss how you made me feel more special then your other...
    Scarsdontfade Scarsdontfade 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    He tells me love everyday...with sincerity. The other day a issue arrived for the 2nd time. I had hoped it wouldn't come up again but it did, and my heart went to my knees. I can't...
    wanthimtoNEEDme wanthimtoNEEDme 41-45, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I just want someone to love me for who I am completely with no hesitation. Someone that makes me there whole world. Someone that cares about me and always knows how to make me feel...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I just want someone I can talk to without being judged
    Yoloswag2211 Yoloswag2211 16-17, M 4 Responses Jan 3

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    Don't get me wrong, I help people, I've spent hours trying to do my bit to help people like me, but now its breaking point, there is a limit to how much I can take, anyone can take...
    MikaHina MikaHina 13-15, F Jan 6

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    This is a fat story I just made up Hayden has always been a skinny athletic girl. She's prettiest in her class and is loved by every guy at school. In the middle of October a...
    peculiarghostly peculiarghostly 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I just told my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years It was over because she tries to please her mother and me and we are different like today is her day off and she told me last night she was...
    lovebelts lovebelts 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 12

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    long long time i am waiting someone who loves me without change my self .....
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    i know that i am young but i fear being alone, that no one will love me. i want someone to love that will love me, i don't like being alone. i have my family but that's not the...
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I guess in life, we may look to things such as romance and constant togetherness to fill a void in ourself. This will immediately cause suffering. If you unconsciously expect to...
    beautifulbutterfly2 beautifulbutterfly2 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 3

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    If I'm being told to calm down, I'm probably very upset. And that will only make me more upset.
    1forHIM 1forHIM 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    At one time I thought you loved me, an cared for me like nobody else could. I was wrong about you. In my mind I knew who you were and how you could be, I just never thought you'd...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    If you want someone to talk to who is actually real, then don't block them when they're being real with you. Seriously- dumbasses.
    RedRidinHood1 RedRidinHood1 18-21, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    so well I'd just moved into a new house and my dog went missing, the neighbors had found her and he was standing outside my dog and his son who is 24. me and mum started talking...
    GeorgiaRhodes GeorgiaRhodes 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband, literally, will tell me that I am the best wife in the world, he can't live without me, and that he is the luckiest man alive one day & two hours later start telling me...
    Trapped5879 Trapped5879 31-35 1 day ago

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    This is sort of a resolution, but I think it qualifies more to be placed here. I know my boyfriend loves me, but I really want to show him how much I appreciate him aaand show him...
    SupernovaxxGirl SupernovaxxGirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I have dreams that I want to achieve but no one to believe in me. I am constantly told by my stepdad that I am stupid and will never achieve anything and my mom doesn't stop him...
    BelieveinLove94 BelieveinLove94 18-21, F Jan 4

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    I would love to have someone care enough to write a song for me, I can't say how good that would make me feel, lord knows its been a long time :p
    Animelife300 Animelife300 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    So.. I almost dated a satanist. I didn't know until we hung out a few times. He ran away from his problems, from me, from his roommate and such. We just saw each other on Friday...
    LookItsKinz LookItsKinz 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Having someone watching me have sex makes me very horny
    juliespiteri juliespiteri 36-40, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    its been 2 weeks since we've split up. We were together for four years and it was a long distance relationship. It was working out so well and we were so happy! I graduated from...
    ambi1991 ambi1991 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    I want to be in a relationship with a Christian gentleman who doesn't cheat on me and treats me so wonderfully. We wouldn't see each other at any private place because of the...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Jan 13

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    I absolutely adore my boyfriend and he adores me back. He's the most loyal, caring, and loving guy I've ever met and he is perfect for me in every way. Last night my boyfriend was...
    kittytanmay kittytanmay 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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