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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks 46-50, M May 13, 2012

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    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    Love is... being happy

    for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The Source Of Strength Love is... being honest with yourself at all times telling, listening, respecting the truth...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 8

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    "Do you love me?" , he asked. I don't know. "Yes or no?" I don't know. Maybe no. No i don't. I lied. Like always. "What is love? What is it to you?" He asked I don't know what...
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    I've been seeing a guy for 10 months who is newly divorced and he has talked about a future, I've never been so comfortable with someone before in every aspect of my life, except...
    mesarav mesarav 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    7 months ago, I met this guy and I felt like we clicked. Unfortunately, we had sex the first time we met. I learned that he was going through a divorce. We got close very quickly...
    EmberBishop EmberBishop 26-30, F 13 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was previously seeing someone who I fell for. Cut the long story short, he woo'd me and done everything to make me fall for him. I was in a really bad relationship before I met...
    cancerian19 cancerian19 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    And it made me never want to love someone like that ever again. I'd actually met this guy when we were both in first grade. He and I attended the same elementary school for a while...
    Curlatte3845 Curlatte3845 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    My name is Sebastian, I am a 16y kid from Europe and I live together with 2 alcoholic parents. It affects me very much and they don't give me the support I need. Now I'm in high...
    Sebastian10 Sebastian10 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    My first experience of love was begin when I was in 11th standard.. he was my classmate from 6th class to 12th class.. but till 10th class we've never talked,but in 11th class we...
    Cutieeshweta52 Cutieeshweta52 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think I need to explain my whole situation. I'm a part of a group of three. Me, another guy, and a girl. I've known the guy for a few years but we were never very close before...
    pkmncq pkmncq 22-25, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I'm confused. my best friend.. the one I grew up with, just told me she is in love with me..? she ignored me for weeks, pushed me away and didn't want to see me. I love her so...
    ssweetdisspositionn ssweetdisspositionn 18-21, F 23 Responses a week ago

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    well I don't think she did, It basically started when our IT teacher told the boys to sit down but make sure that a seat was available next to us, then she told the girls to sit in...
    Ralbarda Ralbarda 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    So I recently went out with someone I've been crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've...
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M Aug 25

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    So I recently went out with someone I've been crazy about for nearly 4 years (I know cuz she made mention of it) and we had an incredible night together; in the past when I've...
    qeust24 qeust24 22-25, M Aug 25

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    I think we all hope for this...yet it's not the easiest to achieve. We all have flaws but the question becomes how hard are we willing to work to be in a relationship with the...
    Beyoutiful056 Beyoutiful056 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Well it started when I was in middle school his name was Nelson and I can say that I love him. Although I never told him how I felt...he was just a good friend haha yeah. All of my...
    Taniays Taniays 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    It's like being on a long plane ride and I panic. I need someone to distract me. Not have an in depth conversation or someone to tell me things I already know and will never feel...
    rick4545 rick4545 36-40, M Aug 23

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    My past makes me who I am today. I have had many awful experiences occur throughout my life, and while I haven't forgiven all of those involved, I have forgiven many. Yet I'm told...
    GlitterCheeks GlitterCheeks 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I honestly don't really know whether he loves me or not right now. However, I made the mistake of believing that my ex never loved me. I was wrong then and I won't make that...
    cherryxblossom cherryxblossom 26-30, F Aug 20

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    I want someone I can tell anything to....... Is that even possible???? I mean, words get misunderstood, twisted, bent backwards, people get offended. How do you tell someone...
    gerlp gerlp 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I love my boyfriend and my I am sure my boyfriend loves me too... But I can't help but feel that I love him more than he does.... I really don't want to think this way because love...
    charicealpaca charicealpaca 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I really don't like being told to smile. I'll smile when I darn well feel like it! If I walked around with a giant grin all the time, I'd look insane. It reminds me of this story...
    XlizrocksY XlizrocksY 22-25, F Aug 17

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    I love being controlled when ******* off
    captainmac44 captainmac44 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Correction, love. I love a woman who is far older than me and with whom I play golf on a regular basis. She kissed me once, but she denounced it as a mistake since she is dating...
    beautifulbizarre beautifulbizarre 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    "I Need to Find Someone Like Me", that's quite a dream isn't it? When I turned 20 I had a life altering revelation. I finally knew who I was and what I wanted in life. And now...
    elsamuel elsamuel 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I want someone who can be my friend before my lover. I want someone who knows me better than I know myself. I want someone to love me just the way he loves me in my dreams. I...
    BreakingTheRules BreakingTheRules 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    My mom today asked me to clean at least one room in the house and I was reluctant and the subject ‘marriage’ came up. I told her that, no one can ever love me more than my...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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