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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 573 People

    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    CBRguyspanks CBRguyspanks 46-50, M May 13, 2012

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 7 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    Love is... being happy

    for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The Source Of Strength Love is... being honest with yourself at all times telling, listening, respecting the truth...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 8

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 16, 2014

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    Blakebell Blakebell 18-21 Apr 14

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    I have a great example for this one. In middle school we were required to read books for language arts as expected. I have no issue with reading. I've consistently read above the...
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    WifeOfVegeta WifeOfVegeta 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Just wanted to feel appreciated and loved. I have two children by the same man and he never was romantic or loving. I know my children love me But sometimes it would be nice for me...
    Shyvon5 Shyvon5 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I lost a boyfriend . Thought I could move on after he died but after a string of badly failed relationships and soul sucking jobs and utter disappointment and making it on my own...
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    it feels sad when you love someone but they dont love you back. its actually heartbreaking. I had a boyfriend. and I know I fell in love with him deeply but our relationship didnt...
    lindseygreypat3 lindseygreypat3 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    The other way round. Last year I went out with a guy for 5 months, he was fantastic; attractive, funny, interesting, caring and he took me on some really amazing dates. We did...
    Toniommi Toniommi 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    All I want is for someone to really, truly love and care about me. I thought I had somebody like that. I want to be someone's top priority for once. I hate feeling like I'm in...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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    So me and this guy were a thing for two years. He made me feel special. He made me feel wanted. He made me feel beautiful. He was all I wanted and I was so happy with him. Then one...
    Iwontgiveup97 Iwontgiveup97 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My best friends brother. We dated on and off 3 times and i really did love him, but i know he didnt love me. My other friend started dating him and he loved her to death, but she...
    TheRebel17 TheRebel17 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Sometimes my own thoughts make me panic, but having someone tell me it's going to be okay makes a lot of difference. When I try to tell it to myself, it's not as powerful, like it...
    soul7 soul7 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    "For You" By:Stained "To my mother, to my father, It's your son or it's your daughter, Are my screams loud enough for you to hear me? Should I turn this up for you? I sit here...
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I assume a lot of other people just want a relationship that will last forever, well I'm bi and i just want a relationship with a girl, I want to come home with her and lay on my...
    isabelbradley isabelbradley 13-15, F Apr 14

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    The first cut is the deepest. I'm so hurt by him. We met when I was 12, he was 14, up until a couple days ago, I would have called him my childhood Romeo. When we met as kids, a...
    Chrysii Chrysii 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    Isn't this everyone's ultimate dream. Lately I've been thinking is it really necessary?Why can't the passion in the bedroom be all it could be without being your lovers best...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now, but it always been me changing for him, I left my friends because he didn't like them, I stopped going Out because he would get...
    ox97 ox97 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    that honestly sucks. i was in a really bad place emotionally and physically so i was chatting and i met someone. we chatted almost 24/7 for 5 months and i evencknewcwhat wed talk...
    kyanitestone186 kyanitestone186 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 2

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    Love can be the best and also the worst thing ever. For I have loved someone who doesn't love me back But I don't know how I'm still holding on... For he is the first and last...
    leftunloved leftunloved 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I wish I had someone to love but also someone to love me but I have felt insecure, inadequate, and unappealing to women for as long as I have desired women it just seems like our...
    brock144 brock144 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I have helped others and have been happy to do so. I have had some very tough, life changing events take place in my life. I have felt the need to talk and for once, I just want...
    txvoice23 txvoice23 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    This was my first lesbian affair. We started off as friends until she wondered if I'd pleasured her, somehow like sex. After of agreeing, she asked me out and said so many things...
    MotionlessinH MotionlessinH 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    oooh yeah. It was the first boy to gibe me a no. he was loving at first but than suddenly stopped. he made me hopes but than never reached out to me again. that really hurt and i...
    energymustmove energymustmove 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    As I have gotten older I know more of what I want,need. I want to love and be loved passionately. Where you can't wait to get home and see each other, hold one another. Where we...
    bedrock70 bedrock70 41-45, M 5 Responses Mar 31

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    Last night I let go of the pain, I stopped holding everything and stopped looking at situation blindly. I've been in love with someone for 7 years, and I finally realized they did...
    dancingyogi114 dancingyogi114 22-25, F Apr 5

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    I'm new on here and I guess it might be a good way to meet people. I am very introverted and I feel like nobody will love me because of that.....it's hard me to open up to people...
    Ponyprincess Ponyprincess 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I met him in high school and he was sweet with a good family. I made him break up with me and he moved on quickly. I felt myself go crazy and I regretted losing him and I lashed...
    ashb3r ashb3r 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16