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I Want Someone to Love Me, Without Being Told How

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    P6 - Can A Marriage Work If One Person Is Religious And The Other Is Not?

    My husband and I both grew up in highly Catholic families. I did CCD (i believe it means Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) as a child and received my communion. As I furthered in education and learned a lot about scientific matters, I began questioning religion. i believe in...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    Just Love Me

    Just love me without a how or why or maybe or possibly.  Love me with everything and love me like nothing else really matters.  Give this to me and I'll give it to you.  Just don't give me your love with circumstances and boundaries.  Love should always be without bounds.
    Pooh1608 Pooh1608 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2011

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    Realisticly.....

    Makes me think of that scene in the Breakup with Jennifer Aniston "I want you to want to do the dishes" Everyone is different, if you don't communicate and share with your partner then how do you expect them to know exactly how to do everything perfectly.
    PossiblyNormal PossiblyNormal 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2011

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    My Hope....& Oneday Dream Fulfilled

    I am a romantic, I am passionate, I am caring, thoughtful,intelligent, beautiful....but I am also single, have never been in love. I want someone to love me, without being told how. I've had interest...but was it a interest at all when you must ask? When one feels confused about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 12, 2012

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    Sounds Simple Enough

    I don't think it's too complicated to love someone without being given instructions. I mean, how difficult is it to show someone respect and consideration....to give affection freely...to treat them the way you want to be treated in return? To me, it's simple....love is about...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 6 Responses May 1, 2012

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    I Do

    I want someone to Love me without being told how. When I think of this story, I think of the song "Soulmate" Incompatible, it don't matter though 'cos someone's bound to hear my cry Speak out if you do You're not easy to find Is it possible Mr. Loveable Is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13, 2009

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    Sometimes i wonder if I'm just expecting too

    much. Why can't I find a man who gets me, who loves me for my brain, who sees the world the way I do. It just feels like men play their moves and expect it to work. I am so incredibly tired of the male ego. I just want someone to be real and genuine with me, rather than acting...
    danii92 danii92 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    It's Hard But We Apprechiate It

    I know you can't read minds, so how can I expect you to love me right when I don't tell you how? Simple, you don't have to be a mind reader you just have to be considerate. Think a little bit, you'll be surprised at yourself.Still hard to understand? take this for example. It...
    XioBlue XioBlue 22-25, F Jan 31, 2011

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    Something True

    i just want to be loved in the right way. it's so hard to find someone these days who knows exactly what to do when it comes to love. knows the right things to say and do. without me telling them what i want.
    countingshadows07 countingshadows07 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    I Know It's Cliche....

    I've never been in love.  I had one "girlfriend" when I was 18 for about a month.  It was just one of those pointless, let's get together because.  I feel like I've never needed to be in love so far.  I feel like now I do though. I don't know if it's just because I'm lonely...
    disillusionedkid disillusionedkid 18-21, M Sep 10, 2011

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    Why Did You?

    Why did you lie to me?Say you would never hurt me.Why did you say that?Say that you loved me.Why did you break it?Ripped my heart in two.Why did you leave me?I actually loved you.Why did you come back to talk?I was happy again.Why did you say those things?I can't get them outta...
    Bvbaddict Bvbaddict 13-15, F Mar 16, 2012

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    P3: That Crazy Little Thing Called Love...

    I think I need to get a bite to eat. Heating up some food in the microwave right now. Running my mind through the incredible love session that I just had with the husband. I am so lucky to have a person in my life who makes it a mission to satisfy my body in every way he possibly...
    airzm airzm 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    I'm Mrs. Sean Mehaffey

    I'm completely and totally in love. Sean-Thomas Leif Mehaffey. He was my first everything so far. I have given him everything that i could possibly give to a person. Only recently did i give him something else of mine: my promise. I wouldn't want to give it to any other person...
    emfire911 emfire911 16-17, F Jun 6, 2011

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    Amen

    Please someone love me right. A little guidance along the way is fine but love me like a woman you can't live without.
    countrycutie101 countrycutie101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2013

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    One Day...

    I want someone to love me for me, without being told how, someone who gets me, my falliblilties, my weaknesses and my strengths..... Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    Me Too !!! :-)

    I AGREE.... THIS WOULD BE GREAT !!!  I'D EVEN HELP GIVE CLUES AND SHARE ANSWERS WITH SOMEONE SPECIAL JUST TO BE THAT MUCH MORE AHEAD !!!
    JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 JEEPWRANGLERGUY95 41-45, M May 13, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    i posted before about how my brother and i are being abused by our oldest brother... i wanted someone to talk to but everyone told me to go to the police... while he was out today...
    whatyourheartisfor whatyourheartisfor 16-17, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with. I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 10

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with. I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    strong bond where we could tell each other anything and everything without any judgment. Our relationship was great physically and emotionally. I am however a virgin and he wasn't...
    Simplylove25 Simplylove25 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Time to vent or whatever. Enjoy. January 28th, 2014... I met him. Where? Tumblr! Of course. I was typically following back some blogs and answering messages. Well, gosh, I...
    captivateyourlife captivateyourlife 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I'm new to this site so if I ramble please forgive me. I have tried to take care of mine and everbody else's problems. A couple of years ago I decided to just worry about me. Yeah...
    Kimmie56 Kimmie56 56-60, F Aug 18

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    It's hard to just walk away from a person you've spent five almost six years of your life with. There's been so many firsts with that person.. So many memories. But what if things...
    tayf tayf 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I am engaged and going to get married in December. My fiancé is working in abroad. It’s our arranged marriage. Everything is going well but the problem is that he has a very...
    swatidec30 swatidec30 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 7

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    So I was dating a soldier for almost a year (one month from a year when he broke up with me). We were perfectly happy before he let for annual training. Two weeks into it he calls...
    ArmyNakata ArmyNakata 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    When I was seven my dad met another woman and had a child. He cheated on my mom, most importantly he cheated on me. That was seven years ago. He just called me and told me that my...
    amanda1919 amanda1919 13-15, F 12 Responses Jul 30

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    Well I met this guy online he seemed so nice so we went and met each other and I found out he was nice hot and all that but after 10 minutes of being with him we did a few things u...
    JC6596 JC6596 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I want to talk to someone about my experiences of violence without it changing how they see me. I always think I'm finished with it but it then comes back and I feel alienated and...
    TBpancakes TBpancakes 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 14

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    I have known this colleague for 9 years. He is married so I am. For the past years we have been talking and confiding each other's with our life stories. There came a moment when...
    sisi77 sisi77 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Seems to me that alot of men I am around want it all A wife , a mistress , a freak , a mommy , a nurse I can only be ten things at one time I'm afraid I will never find a man...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Hey, I just joined EP... I guess I need someone to talk to. I feel devastated and alone at the moment. My girlfriend left me on Saturday... She is Brazilian and I am Irish. We...
    Padraig2014 Padraig2014 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    It's been about 8 month now, that I cling to a guy that doesn't love me back. At first he even wanted something, but hen somehow I managed to ruin that feeling and everything...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F Aug 4

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    He was older. He was my friends brother. And oh every girl in school must of wanted him. And gosh I thought I could never impress him. He made me want to like cars and motorcycles...
    Cozie Cozie 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    I had a first love when I was 14 with a boy. But then I had my first love with a girl. I thought she loved me. I should have known she would never choose me when she would get mad...
    brejack07 brejack07 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    what does tht mean exactly i often wondered about tht we share things with our BFF but some of those things we share are about our partners how can we be a best friend with our...
    AlexT45 AlexT45 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    We were half asleep cuddling face to face, and I could've sworn I heard you say 'I really want to be open with you right now.. I love you' but I soon realized it was one of my half...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Okay so I was in love with my best friend problem is he is also the (best friend of my ex),which is probably the worst thing ever but my ex didn't love me anyway so I guess that...
    maryamtssn24 maryamtssn24 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I know we are all complicated beings and I'm no different. However I complicate my life further by not being honest about my sexual orientation. I can admit to close friends that I...
    licwineoffurbody licwineoffurbody 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I want be loved by someone... I want someone to hold my hand, play with my hair and cuddle me whenever they feel like it. I try and act as though it doesn't bother me but the truth...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Title:Song For You By:GingerSlim (Chorus) I just can't get passed the fact that I lost you Knowing how d*** hard that I tried I would have been there for you baby I blew it and...
    GingerSlimSTL GingerSlimSTL 18-21, M Aug 4

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    Well today was a real eye opener as well as yesterday. I hope that what's happening isn't just my wife telling me what I want to hear. In other post I talked about us having to...
    heartbroke73 heartbroke73 41-45, M 5 Responses Aug 5

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    I like the idea/concept of having someone you can tell anything too without having to lie, embellish, be ashamed or embarrassed. I've met some great people on here but still feel...
    SocioNarcc SocioNarcc 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i really want someone i can tell him or her anything i want :( i dont want be lonely being a lonely is sucks 💔
    darkenss darkenss 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 31

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    It kind of sucks. You don't realize how crappy it is because you've put so much effort in-so clearly anyone would love that, right? Wrong. Loving him was so hard. I might not have...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F Aug 7

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    Do I continue to feel these feelings for you? Knowing that you might not feel the same. Do I run and heal my heart or continue to be there? Am I able to deal with this situation...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    When I joined this group, I didn't mean it's okay for someone to just approach me saying "hey, you know you can tell me anything." No. That's not how it works. You can't just...
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Not sure if I am a generous person in general or not, but usually, if I give something (anything), I don’t like having it returned to me on another occasion, and it is also...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    He is amazing and makes me feel so special. I know I can't have him like I want to but it hurts when I can't just pick up the phone and hear his voice. I need to be strong but I...
    LookingforLove63 LookingforLove63 51-55, F 4 Responses