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I Want Someone to Love Me

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    Have you ever talked to someone

    who made you so needy ? I've always been needy, that's a fact, but I usually never let it show. But with him, I just can't. I want him. I want to know everything about him, I want to talk to him, for endless hours. I want to kiss him. I want to make love to that man. I...
    Thelightinthesky Thelightinthesky 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 19

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    Christmas Eve and I'm on the couch with my cat.

    No, I am not a crazy cat lady. I am a married woman. I wish my husband would snuggle up with me in front of the tree and fireplace. I opened the wine. I lit a candle. I am still sitting here alone. I know.... I'm married. I have someone that "loves me." I guess the problem is...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    ...Impossible Dream...

    I've always had to go it alone. When I get sick, I only have myself to take care of me. Go to the movies?..nah..because I'd have to go by myself. Anything I do I do alone. I'm so sick of it. I would love to wake up in the morning and have the one I love beside me..love to feel...
    Misfitbrokentoy Misfitbrokentoy 46-50, F Jul 7, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 26

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    I don’t want normal

    and easy and simple. I want painful, difficult, devastating, life-changing, extraordinary love. The kind that aches when he’s far away, that makes oxygen meaningless without him. I want someone that’s as broken as I am so we can both rebuild ourselves together. The kind that...
    AwkwardnessCentral AwkwardnessCentral 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Where Is The Love?

    There's no love in the world, nobody cares about anyone, everyone's just out for themselves. I believe in the dystopian view of society, as the years go by things will get worse and worse...it's inevitable. No money, more poverty, economy's gone, more insecurity...it's just bad...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 11 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Trust

    I got married to a woman who ended up cheating on me and had a baby from amother man. I was blinded by my love for bc she was the first girlbivevervfell in love with. Im losin my home and font get to see my home3 yr old son as i want. I just want a person i can trust and love...
    Daniel1984dlg Daniel1984dlg 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    Scared Of Being Alone

    I am a single girl turning 30 this May. I had a 6 yr relationship with a guy i really loved and he loved me back (i think). We lived together the 6th year and then i had to break up with him because i felt pressure from his side and his family's side. His father wanted us to get...
    H0pelessR0mantic H0pelessR0mantic 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    My Queen

    I wish I could change things, knowing that a person I could love very much could love me. I'm tired of going from house to house looking for my chance at stability. I mean in theory I could live as long as I am meant to, but I would be sad. I look, I look, and I look. I never...
    GamingWolf GamingWolf 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Love Lost

    Ok well am 16 years old and i have never had a girlfriend in my life, its not cause am ugly. i have been called a good looking person before and i have had girls liking me but for some reason .everytime i get close to a relationship with a girl that i do like. I CHOKE! i know...
    Sadperson12345 Sadperson12345 16-17 2 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I Want Love, But I'm Incapable Of Loving

    Apart from my parents- who only love me because they have to- I've never been loved.  I've always yearned for a true friendship or someone who I can grow old with.  Throughout high school, I've met some people who are my best friends to this day... However...
    TherapyIs4TheWeak TherapyIs4TheWeak 18-21, M 6 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Wouldn't it be nice to have someone

    that loved me. The pure and simple kind of love that you see in the happiest couples. The trusting and intimate love that gives you security and confidence. Yeah I know, all relationships take work, but true love does not. True love is just there, and makes it worth the work...
    Travel4work Travel4work 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    ...I Want

    I want someone to… Kiss in the morning even before brushing Offer the last slice of pizza too Fold the laundry with me Let me sleep in Cry with Laugh with Hold during a scary movie Cook dinner for Go on picnics with Pack...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    Jus need someone who actually wants to b

    there/here. Not because it's convenient but because it's actual love.
    aries1214 aries1214 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Just need a chest to lay on,

    and someone tell me every thing will be ok.
    rjh3 rjh3 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    L Do Know One Thing For Sure .....

    family loves me, my 1st gf loves me(friends love), and today a present gf loves me, and being christian l know there is lots love from others within the church .... but l feel empty for not having the love from society. seem no one will love me and accept me for me being me. l...
    cyclemania cyclemania 51-55, M Mar 16, 2013

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    A Child Again.

    Sometimes i wish I were a child again. With real parents. With parents who love their child.I want to curl up in a tiny ball while someone holds me. Kisses my forehead and smooths my hair. They promise they will make everything better.I don't want to be someone's all. I don't...
    BeteNoire BeteNoire 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    I don't want money, power,

    or fame. I don't want sex, possessions or buildings. I just want someone to love me. I want them to grab me, hold me close, and whisper "I love you. I love you so much it hurts. I would die for you. Ever since we met I knew we belonged together. I want to have you for the rest...
    TheLonelyHelper TheLonelyHelper 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    I want unconditional love.

    Pass my flaws, bank account, and physical features. My display picture may seem otherwise but it's more to the picture than the *** you see. Plus it's not me. It's just a picture I relate to
    aries1214 aries1214 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Saudi Lesbian Couple Looking For Gay Moc's

    two lesbian girls looking for two gay Moc'sمثليتين نبحث عن زواج مصلحة من مثليين !! زواج بالاسم فقط !!عرب !! must be arab!!Saudi lesbian couple looking for a gay husbands (MOC) Marriage of Convenience ,to be each other's social cover...
    lesbiancouple lesbiancouple 18-21, F Sep 11, 2013

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    Hold Me

    Hold me closeI need that feeling of being safe and secure, I need that validation of self worth that i mean something to someone and im NOT just a mindless minimum wage drone. I NEED that experience again. I need to lose this feeling of neglect and self pity. I need to be loved...
    slashbslash slashbslash 22-25 1 Response Mar 13, 2011

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    You are my inspiration.

    When I wanted to talk to you, You were there.. But I didn't know what to say Your perfect presence made me Forget everything... When I wanted to die, You said you'd come with me Be it through the blue Or little beaded cloak. And I believed you... I wish I'd died a little...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 18-21, F Feb 2

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    Like Not Love

    Hi, this is my first post and the first time I think I've ever written down how lonely I feel. I'm 18 and I've never been in love, or been loved by another. It's not like I find it hard to communicate with people, generally I'm pretty likeable, and not unattractive... But I never...
    Blondiejb Blondiejb 18-21 3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I just want to fell wanted

    and loved, desired and cared about, is that too much to ask?
    anton88 anton88 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Just A Couple Wants

    sometimes i feel a tingly feeling wash over me and i cant help feel like this is the sensation of a warm hug from someone that just isnt there what i want is all quite simple a protective embrace.. a good laugh with each other... late night phone calls.... a memory at the...
    paradoxkey paradoxkey 16-17, F Jul 30, 2013

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    ArtemisAncestor ArtemisAncestor 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I Want Someone To Love And Care For Me

    ive never had someone to love me or take care of me its always just been me. i hate my family for messing me up. all ive ever known and to feel is depression. ive always had to deal with them beating me up.ialways stood up for me brother and sister when they got hit. i would take...
    riskky riskky 18-21 1 Response Apr 3, 2013

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    Is That A Lot To Ask For?

    I just want someone to Love me, I want to be in a relationship with someone who truly Loves me, and who Loves all of me, and all about me, and doesn't want to change me, and doesn't just want me for sex, or to show me off as a damn trophy. I just want someone to truly Love me, is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 20, 2010

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    Show Me Don’t Tell Me

    I don’t want you to tell me that you love me, I need you to show me. Often the simple things are the things that mean the most. There is not always a need for grand gestures. Go scrape the ice off my car in the middle of winter and warm it up so that I can run out of the...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2011

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    Love Me..

    I miss the feeling of being loved by someone. I want to feel the care, the understanding and the warm hugs. It's been a while that i haven't felt the feeling of being loved.
    UnderMyPillow UnderMyPillow 31-35, F 1 Response May 24, 2012

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    I Want Someone To Love Me

    Because at some point of time, nothing matters any more, you skill your task, stand alone, in the empty field, and your brain gets exploding. You get your alcohol, light a cigerrate, but you brain just QUITS. You can not fight alone for yourself any more. Every day, goes by...
    diamondlens diamondlens 22-25, M May 20, 2012

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    Why We Fear To Be Alone

    i dont know why i am here.... why am writing this..... i have people who loves me... like me..... but... they dont understand me.... why we dont get what we expect...r we really dont know what we want.... i just need someone to be like me.... just give me as much i give them...
    lalitdd lalitdd 36-40, M Mar 8, 2013

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    I just wanna be loved by someone

    who sees me for me and not for what I do.
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Lover Who Endure..

    I'm not a perfect person, I make lot of mistakes,But, I still love those persons,who stay with me after knowing how I really am...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2013

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    Fighting To Want To Live

    I'm 22 and a guy. My name is Mike and I'm Australian. I've been through countless small & large relationships. My dad comitted suicide when I was 13. I have a loving family but I'm so alone and broken, my major depression is eating away at my soul. It started when my dad died...
    nothingleft655 nothingleft655 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    It Could Be Anyone

    We don't really know who we'll end up falling in love with or even marrying, if anyone. For this reason, I'm completely open. I may have met people that I've chosen to love and many that I wish felt the same way. But none, at least so far, do. Somewhere out there, heck, it could...
    Zorkdeath Zorkdeath 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2013

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    I really want a boy who has an amazing

    personality, who's nice, sweet. cute and funny and just my ideal perfect boyfriend. I feel it will help me out so much. I'm obssessed with love I admit but I will work on it.
    allytoledodiaz allytoledodiaz 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Oh to Be Loved

    I want someone to love me not only that I want someone who will let me love them and not take me for granted. i want someone who will respect me and my love and who wil do the same for me.
    ladygoldenstar ladygoldenstar 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2007

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    I'm just wonder if a guy would ever accept me

    for who i am. What if I'm never good enough for any guy
    tiffaniamber95 tiffaniamber95 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 18

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    More Than Anything

    I wish I could feel love from other people..... Or even myself but thats another story completely. I want someone to just give a damn about me. I really need love . No one has ever really cared to show me much.
    Tacit Tacit 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 23, 2010

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    Hygienist From Heaven

     I've known for a long time that I've wanted someone to love me. But it wasn't until the last few weeks I realized what I truly wanted. It's a long story, but I'll try to make it as concise as possible. In June of last year, I went to my dentist's office for a cleaning. I...
    rustyguy rustyguy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 26, 2010

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    N To Love Him Too..

    i wish id love someone n he'd love me too..n i'd be sure i wouldn b afraid of love.. kind of love that exists in movies.. i watched ''center stage:turn it up'' n the last dance(the video im posting) made me think bout love--that i find somethin that makes me feel good...
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 22 Responses Oct 31, 2010

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    I Just Wanna Feel Loved

    I've had a life full of rejection.  Everyone i come into contact with hurts me. I no i only have myself to blame at the end of the day, prob because i dont love myself enough.  I cant let anyone get too close to me either just in case... I've had 4 relationships and...
    Angeleyes777 Angeleyes777 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 20, 2009

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    Come Infront Of Me My Beloved

    Sweet heart... Don't hide your face from me,why r u not speaking in front of me,i wanna listen to your voice.....your love is so sweet.....your name is like ointement forth, therefore all virgins & lady's are loving you....... I am here a virgin loving u a lot... i am just...
    spienee spienee 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    It May Not Be As Crystal Clear After All...

    Growing up, my parents were never really there for me, they never loved me or wanted me, i was a mistake in their eyes.And into my teen years i was an outsider a girl obsessed with fashion and a dreamer, hoping that one day i could meet some guy that could sweep me off my feet...
    sabby21 sabby21 22-25, F Jun 1, 2013

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    People always use the 'your still young, be single, don't worry about it' when I say I want a relationship! I don't get it, were you never wanting a relationship at 16? Well I'm...
    shaebears shaebears 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I am in a loveless marriage .I feel lonely ,rejected and unwanted all the time .I know its wrong but I want someone to chat with .Someone who doesnt mind texting me all day long .I...
    Theright1 Theright1 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm the ugly friend. I'm and fat and not the prettiest. I never get asked out on dates and never get drinks bought for me at the bar. Guys never tell me I'm beautiful or hot or...
    IPutOnMyLeftShoeFirst IPutOnMyLeftShoeFirst 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I want someone to force feeding me 'till i'm pass out cause I'm a pig and i want to expend my stomach 'till i can't stop eating and i'm fattening up just to seen me.
    piggybilly piggybilly 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    i want someone to talk to heart this ill message you
    lukew1503 lukew1503 18-21, M Mar 27

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    I'm really lonely and I want someone nice and understanding to talk to
    kahle01 kahle01 13-15, M Mar 29