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I Want Someone to Take Care of Me Every Once In Awhile

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    I Feel So Awful Admitting This...

    I need help too. I want someone to care about me for a change. It's so hard to admit because I spend so much time listening and helping my friends, and my sister and just a lot of people but I need help this time. Having to hear that a friend is suicidal, or that another friend's...
    bluesunshine bluesunshine 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2009

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    One Time....

    just one time. i want someone to take care of me, instead of me taking care of someone else =/
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 2, 2009

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    This is weird but I want someone to buy me a

    new pair of warm winter boots. In my mind, this act will demonstrate that I'm loved and cared for. Last winter, I waited too late to purchase a pair leaving only fashion boots in the store. I can't spend much time outside because my feet get cold and wet quickly in them. I could...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    Wishing On a Star

    This fits so perfectly with how I feel sometimes. I like taking care of myself most of the time, but occasionally I want to be taken care of instead. Is this wrong? I swear sometimes I feel like I'm the only adult in my life and all the others that are supposed to be adults are...
    UndeniablyConfused UndeniablyConfused 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 26, 2008

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    There Are Days...

    Just today I felt so uncared-for and when I logged in a person in circle has joined this group, I joined it too. There are days, spaced long apart though, when I feel extremely exhausted and just want someone to take care of me. I'm just tired of fixing everything; life and all...
    beyondrepair beyondrepair 22-25, F Sep 5, 2010

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    Just Hold Me

    God where do I even start. Usually I'm a very independent person, I had to be I was raised that way. You see, I am the second oldest of six kids. By the time I was five I already had five siblings. I had to be able to take care of myself waiting for one of my parents was not an...
    RoseC21 RoseC21 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2011

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    I've been the responsible one

    since I graduated high school. I got a job and took on providing for my mother, brother, and girlfriend with almost no help. Now that my girlfriend has left me I feel so lost. She took care of me emotionally and that is all I had.
    HypeZerauj HypeZerauj 18-21 Dec 26, 2013

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    I Am Crazy!

    This is only the end or is it? I ponder this everyday in my life. I have taken so many yet others have taken my friends. I live for the moment and do not focus on anything of importance as others think is. I talk in circles an riddles cuz that is my life. Start at the finish line...
    tuffsteel100 tuffsteel100 46-50, M Apr 2, 2012

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    Never Good Enough.

    I had love once. Or so I thought. When I look back, it was mostly one sided. Infatuation? Anyway, it lasted for seven years, and I got a beautiful baby girl out of it. The thing is...I've got him so built up in my mind, because he's been in Afghanistan, Iraq, etc. doing work...
    elliexxlights elliexxlights 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2012

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    Hypothetically Speaking, If I Had A Maid.

    Im tired of waking up in the morning, having to fix my own coffee and breakfast. My life would be so much better if someone would just do it for me. Clean the house for me, do my chores and finish my homework. I would be delighted if she would wash me and give me a backrub while...
    alexaclmn alexaclmn 18-21, M Mar 15, 2013

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    I Am Feeling So Sick

    ...and wish for just a little while wish my daughters and husband would take care of me like I take care of them when they are very ill.
    Francescanolonger Francescanolonger 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 5, 2008

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    I'll never be the kind of guy she'll like,

    I'm nervous, pretentious, and I'm not too good with feelings. She's emotional, outgoing and takes things to heart a lot. We're opposites. I take care of her, whenever she's down I make her smile, when she cries, I hold her, and when she doesn't know what to do, I reassure her...
    lukexb lukexb 18-21, M Dec 24, 2013

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    Before It All Changed...

    ...and it wasn't ok for us to even be talking to each other, he really upset me one night. He asked if I was still single, to which I said yes and I asked why he kept asking me. He said he wanted me to find someone, because I needed to be looked after. It pissed me off...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Freshness

    Haha the cold air blows through the trees it is as cold as my Heart. I love a good bone chill. Once in a while I will feel a good warm. Oh wait that is a burn from the Devil's Cut. Happiness is a myth unless you are dead then you are truly happy cuz your home.
    tuffsteel100 tuffsteel100 46-50, M Apr 2, 2012

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    Numb

    Well I have PTSD and I truly have become numb on Love, compassion, remorse and just about any feelings or emotions. I would happy just to have someone take care of me and not have to worry about anything! I dislike just about everything in my life. I am just going threw the...
    tuffsteel100 tuffsteel100 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 31, 2012

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    I Dislike Being Taken For Granted

    I have spent my entire life taking care of someone else. Not physically taking care of them; emotionally taking care of them. It all began with my mom's (still) undiagnosed depression. At too young an age, my mother depended on me to take care of her: to assure her everything...
    FeelingCrazy FeelingCrazy 46-50 Oct 26, 2008

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    You Care For Someone Who Doesn't Care For Me At All

    I want someone who will care for me even at once...i never experience that feeling...the feeling you are safe and you know someone even a little give his/her little love...but sad to say i didnt feel that...everyday i wish and pray that God will give miracle and he will touch the...
    somuchhurt somuchhurt 18-21 5 Responses Jan 6, 2009

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    Just For A Little While ~

    There are days that I am absolutely exhausted. Yet I keep on going. I have responsibilities, a demanding job, 2 children, a home, laundry, and the list goes on and on. Most mom's (no offense Dad's) know how this is because there simply isnt enough time for me to be sick or have...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 13 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    A Change of Pace Would Be Nice..

    i always seem to be the one helping my friends and family, which i absolutely adore doing but for once...i want to be the one taken care of. i am like a therapist to all of my friends and even some in my family...i cook dinner for my family of four..i take out my grandmas...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 1, 2009

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    Grrrr!

    Im in a relationship...for 6 yrs, on and off. Im going to be 35 and STILL waiting to be AT LEAST helped! Grrrr....We dont live together, hes always got something to do with his own life, which I get, but im on food stamps, dont work, (i have 2 kids) and he tells me I need to take...
    mlr3475080 mlr3475080 31-35 2 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    My Facade

    As a person, I value strength and independence. I often come across as a highly assertive and strong-willed person, almost to the point of being described "arrogantly self-assured." But most of the time, I'm just hiding behind the mask i wear, covering my insecurities with self...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 26, 2008

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    I Never Knew Anyone Could Feel This Lonely.

    I am thirteen years old. I have amazing family, which is kind to me and never would do something to hurt me and who loves me. But no one, NO one, has ever taken care or me. When I'm really sick, my parents tell me to suck it up and deal with it, take a pill and get back to chores...
    SavannahSage SavannahSage 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    I...

    am independent. I can look after myself. I know how to cook (like I need to....ha), clean, sort out bills, etc etc etc.     But I really wish someone was here now, just to make me a cup of tea, and give me a hug, and let me know that its ok...... that it will be ok...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F Jan 5, 2009

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    A Girl Can Dream

    I'm about to go home and just started fantasizing about how nice it would be to have someone there, taking care of things. I walk in and find dinner in the oven, and the kids are doing their homework. I comment on how good it smells and kiss everyone...
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    Help Wanted.

    i've always been a pretty capable, take charge sort of person but there comes a time when even the strongest of people need and want a helping hand. between working full time, living with and taking care of a disabled sister, paying the bills, etc i get tired both physically and...
    jerrica jerrica 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    Caretaker

    I love being my wifes caretaker. I married her knowing she needed to be showered with love and knowing that I had an abundance of love to give her. Still, once in a blue moon, she'll have to rise up and take care of me. She does a wonderful job and I love it.
    StressRelief4Me StressRelief4Me 26-30, M Jul 8, 2010

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    Busy Little Bee...

    i think im too nice and too much of a pansy. i swear the SECOND anyone of my family memebers calls me to ask me to do a favour, i will say yes, no matter the time of day or if  i'm busy. i feel really bad and like ive let them down if i dont. and when they never return the...
    ElectroGirlie ElectroGirlie 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2010

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    Promise, Promise...

    People always partake of my kinds, but never ever seem to come through when I need them. It is always promise, promise but no delivery. But whenever i say anything about that, they always feel like i am just being to needy and they are way to busy in life.
    carameldreams carameldreams 41-45 Feb 29, 2012

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    Just For Once

    it would be really nice to be taken care of ... because ive always taken care of everyone else .. my whole family treats me like im a therapist... i know things about my parents relationship that i shouldnt  and it has put a lot of pressure on me to try and help my mother...
    sothisisme sothisisme 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 21, 2008

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    Independent

    I am as independent of a woman as I have ever known. I pay for all my own everything, work three jobs and currently covering someone elses business this week so I am working 4. (these 15 hours days are toughies) Yes, I do enjoy being so independent and self-sufficient.. but...
    Beautimus Beautimus 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 4, 2009

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    Fight After Fight...

    God, Every fight we have, I feel like you don't care about me. Even after every fight. We had a big fight yesterday and made up, went to the casino, a lot of new feelings were woken up. And well, I realize that I love you more than I thought. But I don't understand you. Every...
    habibihayati habibihayati 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Sometimes.

    On days like today... when im exhausted. When im tired of worrying about the children, the bills, the messy house. When i dont feel like enslaving myself to this job any longer, or being the breadwinner any more. When i cant stand my own thoughts or trust my own emotions and i...
    Muse0001 Muse0001 26-30, F May 10, 2010

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    I kind of sick of being strong all the time

    for the people around me. I listen to their problems and lend them my shoulder. I'm the one who keeps everyone else from falling apart. If I have a problem, who's going to take care of me?
    Zetabyte Zetabyte 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 28, 2013

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    Missing

    My parents were never really around when I was growing up, which unfortunately is more common than some would like to think. It really didn't used to bother me much, but at times I feel like there is a hole in my chest from it. I feel like there is no one I can look to for...
    truenight99 truenight99 26-30, M Apr 8, 2013

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    I Want A Mom

    My whole life I've wanted someone to take care of me. Not just feeding, clothing me, etc., but someone that will listen to me and genuinely want to be there for me. My mom died when I was twelve from cancer which she had throughout the time I was growing up, so I wasn't very...
    Stormynight88 Stormynight88 13-15 1 Response Mar 31, 2012

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    Not Because I Need It...

    Sometimes I wish I had someone to help me out with life in general, just once in a while. Someone who was there for me because they wanted to be. Not out of a sense of obligation, or self gratification for them. Someone who knows me well enough to know when to step in. Someone...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    I'm Just Saying...

    i do so much for others.  just once or twice a year i would love a man to take care of me.  when you live alone, you miss the feeling of security.  i haven't found any one i wish to date, and it gets difficult sometimes.
    dreamraider dreamraider 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 4, 2008

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    Neshaxo Neshaxo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    marafaunt marafaunt 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Except the alcohol, smoking, narcotics (prescribed) and absorbent amounts of caffeine...I do everything I can to take care of myself. ;)
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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