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I Want Something Deeper Than Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 259 People

    I Didn't Realize It.

    I always had equated sex with love throughout my dating years. But I've finally come to realize that was not correct. And I think I may have found something so different now. I've been talking to this person for about a year. We've just gotten extremely close in the past few...
    SomeOneInTheWorld SomeOneInTheWorld
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2007

    Yeah Its Great

    but it gets old im looking for something that can incorporate sex and something ive never felt before.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 9, 2008

    A True Relationship

    I want a real relationship, with sex as an additive.  I want to be best friends with my partner.  I have no interest in one night stands, I couldn't do that to myself.
    boudica1224 boudica1224
    22-25, F
    Sep 22, 2007

    Like What?

    Not sure what it could be, maybe just that amazing connection or true love. Maybe that's why I want it to see what it could really be.
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2008

    My First Explosive O

    You see it in movies and you roll your eyes because it just looks plain silly--better yet, unrealistic. A boy and a girl (best of friends) rolling around on the floor tickling each other unceasingly. All of a sudden the unbroken stream of giggles comes to a halt when boy's eyes...
    Fuknhugme Fuknhugme
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2012

    My Sexual Viability

    One of the first things I did, after separating for the second, and final time, was to throw myself headlong into the sexual arena. Twenty years of fidelity on my part, and feeling unattractive because of my spouse's addiction and habitual prowling, left me feeling incapable...
    mierje mierje
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 22, 2008

    Sex Is Great But.....

    So I will admit,I am not the most innocent girl I know.I adore sex,think about it alot,it used to be the only thing I wanted from a man.But now I am looking for something much deeper and satisfying,something that will keep me warm after the ******* is over.I want to make love...
    blackcat blackcat
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 11, 2007

    I Like to Make Love.....

    OK....I don't want to have sex....anyone can have sex...I could get up from my chair and go in the bedroom and have all the sex I want with myself (and safe sex too) No....I don't want to have sex... I like to make love!!!! Spine tingling, toe curling, wet with sweat...
    InTheNameOfLove InTheNameOfLove
    36-40, M
    8 Responses May 22, 2008

    Not To Suggest That I Don't Want Sex At All

    Sex is pretty damn important. To Me, it's pretty much a necessity. But it comes second to some much more important things.
    aktor1970 aktor1970
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2011

    Would Be Nice...

    I have always wanted something more meaningful....but i have trouble letting people get close. I know it's horrible but i'm like a guy in a sense...after sex i lose interest.  Thats not what i'm after....it's just things get complicated....and i have to distance myself. Its...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 6, 2009

    Sex Is Great But.....

    So I will admit,I am not the most innocent girl I know.I adore sex,think about it alot,it used to be the only thing I wanted from a man.But now I am looking for something much deeper and satisfying,something that will keep me warm after the ******* is over.I want to make love...
    blackcat blackcat
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 11, 2007

    I Want and Demand Respect

    I've had so Many  men in and out of life ...because all they wanted  was sex , and i refuse to give it up any more .. I want to know someone .. I want them to know me ...and Respect me .. and get to where they love me and if its not possible then i have lost nothing but...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2007

    Hollow Acts

    Don't get me wrong, I love sex but I'm not willing to have it just for the sake of satisfying an urge. The act has always been something special to me and I would like to keep it that way. I kept my virginity until I was 21 and at that point I was dating someone. It wasn't like...
    Linxer Linxer
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 12, 2010

    Deep...deeper, Please!!!

    I have had sex with a handful of men. I am very good in bed (according to them!) Everytime they're pushing their way inside my system, I keep on saying, "Deeper, deeeeeppperrrr!" I never get enough so I embed my nails in their back to make them feel that they are doing...
    evergreen evergreen
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2008

    A Bit Sensitive With This One

    I positively bristle at the idea of shallow sex and I really fear being used.  I can usually tell the difference between a sexual attraction right off the bat (not that it happens that often) and the sexual attraction where you've known them for a while and the desire for...
    Ariella Ariella
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 13, 2008

    Yes... Deeper...

    I don't believe in casual/shallow sex. I want to feel emotionally connected when I have sex. I want emotional intimacy with physical intimacy. I want a best-friend connection with my partner. I respect my body and I want to take care of myself, and I want my partner to respect...
    paperalias paperalias
    22-25, F
    Jul 6, 2008

    I Don't Care If That Makes Me Crazy

    This is important to me.  I will never just have sex to have sex.  I've never had sex and I'm 30 years old!  I want to have some depth in my relationships first.  I've had a couple of deep relationships, but not deep enough that I was ready for sex.  I've...
    InvisibleRodney InvisibleRodney
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 30, 2010

    Although

    sex wouldnt go amiss, but since me and dan broke up ive slept with a few random guys.... and its not the same.... i want to go back to what we had.
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    Sep 7, 2008

    My Personal Take.

    Its quite rare I guess in this day and age for a mostly attractive 20 year old to still be a virgin, but I am. I guess that this is largely for the reason that I want something deeper than just sex. It doesn't have to be love, but just some sort of mutual friendship and respect...
    bluemooon bluemooon
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2007
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