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I Want to Allow Myself to Be Loved

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    Sometimes I Wish I Understood....

    Love makes people weird, they act weird, they forget what's even going on sometimes. They go along thinking they like someone and they like someone else. It is hard to understand. I hope that in the future I can understand what love should be. I am confused a bit. I have an...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F Oct 31, 2012

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    Made a Lotta Progress

    A LOT!  I mean, if you had told me 5 years ago I'd be with an amazing man and letting him explore the depths of my heart, I would have laughed in your face because there was no way I was gonna let somebody come that close to me.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    To Love Or Not to Love

    Hi, through life I have made friends ,lost friends, and not have any friends at all calling to ask me to do things. I loose friends because they ether move away or die. Right now my friends live to far away and are to busy for me. My social life consist of when I see people at...
    Luv4SouthAfrica Luv4SouthAfrica 21-25, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2007

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    Me And Love Don't Mix Well

    I never feel loved by myself, my god, by my friends or family or whatever. I can never feel love, it's so weird. It's like I am immune to love
    HeavenHearts HeavenHearts 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2011

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    I'm Getting Stronger

    Well my boss left the office.  I guess yesterday was his birthday.  I would say something.  I swear I would try and be nice but I feel like if I do then he'll take it the wrong way. My boss is a nice guy.  I think he thought being a business...
    nique26 nique26 36-40, F Jan 18, 2009

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    Pizazz

    I think I'm too romantic. Without the pizazz of a fairytale romance I won't let myself fall in love. I need the stability and assurance that comes with the unconditional love of love at first sight in nearly all romance movies.
    CleoShilu CleoShilu 18-21, F Jan 17, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    My girlfriend relapsed. She has become a completely different person. We were working on building a life together. I've always been a strong hearted person, not letting a lot of...
    lefttomyself lefttomyself 26-30, M Mar 22

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    I am fat. I am short. I have a dark complexion. Curly hair, crooked teeth. In other words I am not beautiful. Says who? Says a guy who I thought was a friend. I am not on the...
    spilledinklove spilledinklove 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I feel like i am so trapped as the one i am in love with ...don't seem to feel me how much i hurt when only when write on her wall...she talk with me and what is worse is that i...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I just want to be loved. If someone loves me it's so much better than sex. Just the simple things like cuddling, or holding hands, snuggling under a blanket together watching tv...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I want to be loved and be wanted and be happy for once...
    babyg7798 babyg7798 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they...
    abhisham001 abhisham001 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I'll never forgive myself- I've known for months that he really cares for me, but it wasn't until he made it plainly clear that it was more then that. He loved me. He's fantastic...
    pinkromance pinkromance 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    More correctly, loved and desired as much as I love and desire them. Physical intimacy and affection are of paramount importance to me; it borders on the verge of physical need. I...
    roMANtic14 roMANtic14 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Growing up in a dysfunctional family I never really knew what it was like to feel loved. To feel wanted and important to someone. I wonder what it feels like to be loved. I crave...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I ask myself on many occasions why my true Clark Kent hasn't strutted his stuff towards me, and swoon me with his charm. With his cape he shields me from predetors, and his words...
    GodsPrincesseOrchidee GodsPrincesseOrchidee 26-30, F Mar 25

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    When we met, sparks flew and my heart would skip beats at the mere thought of you. I thought the world of you, and when I was with you I realised that nothing could make me...
    pensive1029 pensive1029 26-30, M Apr 9

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    I do but I can't imagine anyone would ever love me the way I wished to be loved. I don't believe that someone will ever love or want me. Forever alone I shall be.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I was driving alone, like i always did for d past 4weeks.. and there was this car ahead of mine, we're moving at 50-60km/hr (busy street).. He wore a shade (sunny day), and a cap...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 9

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    I want someone to love me sio much taht would literally take a bullet for me.. Someone who would make me feel better when Im at my lowest.Someone to make me laugh when im about to...
    HealingAngel2 HealingAngel2 16-17, F Apr 11

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    I still remember the way it felt when i woke up with my wife in my arms and knew she loved me. I would move and she would turn to me and kiss me before cuddling up against me and...
    caer caer 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    why cant i find someone who will love me for who i am .. i want to love n be loved.. y is that too much to ask for
    surrender713 surrender713 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    You know you are truly loved when that special person is so consumed by you that he doesn't care what you wear or what your hair looks like. He doesn't care about your weight or...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I love him so much that it hurts, he doesn't even know I wanna be loved by him
    anyomunos anyomunos 18-21, F Apr 4

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    My grandparents loved me unconditionally. She's my angel now. My grandfather fought in the Second World War. He was gone for 5 years. I miss them everyday.
    Sonny02 Sonny02 41-45, F Apr 9

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    Because currently I don't feel cry loved anymore....
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Man, I don't even know where to start sometimes! I've been looking for true love for a long time, I've met some great people, but I've never found it. I've also met some not so...
    Fasstang2010 Fasstang2010 18-21, M Mar 29

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    I don't try to spend too much time thinking about love but it's hard not to. I can't help but watch movies and wish I had someone to give love to and receive love from. I love...
    lolabaybee lolabaybee 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I miss romance,lust,attraction,chemistry,someone wanting me.Getting there attention and affection.I hate feeling lonely and alone unloved,i want a guy already someone who wants me...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I have all of these feelings inside me, I want to have somebody to hold and somebody to love, I want a girlfriend so much. I have friends that love me to pieces, and I love them...
    WandererJay WandererJay 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Love me without fear Trust me without questioning Need me without demanding Want me without restrictions Accept me without change...
    liberosis liberosis 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I have friends and some family, but I want romantic, heart stopping love. The kind of love that makes you forget everything else. I really think it's out there somewhere!
    ILIKEBIGBOOKS1982 ILIKEBIGBOOKS1982 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 23

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    I want to be in your arms each an every day To feel your warm embrace It makes me feel so safe from harm Plus, I Love to touch your face I Love to look into your eyes To look...
    EvilBoys EvilBoys 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    Allot of guys nowadays are just in a relationship for the frills of it. I want to be there for all of it. I want to meet someone that I can give my all too, and someone who I can...
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M Mar 23

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    Is it wrong for you to want someone just to love you how you are and what you are Why is it so hard to fine people who understand . They say love is hard It's hard to find...
    Lisalocket1225 Lisalocket1225 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    <3 regardless of what I deal with one a daily basis. Somebody who's gonna love me for me. I get told I'm a great, sweet, amazing girl who deserves the best but all I get a...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Not necessarily romantically but I just want to have a person who is able to make me feel like I'm wanted and not just a waste of space
    hebr0 hebr0 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    The one thing I want most in the world is to have someone in my life I am connected to, and the love between us is mutual.
    mongo275 mongo275 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I want to love some one but they say I am clingy and push me away
    lonelyloner10 lonelyloner10 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I want someone who will love me for who i'am, someone who will never leave me, take care of me, someone who is proud of me and someone to spend forever with.. All i want is love...
    mhyne mhyne 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I Just Want To Wake Up In Someone's Arms., And Feel Safe And Wanted. And When He Looks Into My Eyes And Say I Love You I Know He Really Means It.
    Janelle69 Janelle69 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 9

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    i want a boyfriend who is." 1.bisexual or homosexual 2. 13-15 years old 3 taller than me(taller than like 5'1 i believe) 4. who is of any ethicnicity but black(my prefference...
    Findingme7 Findingme7 13-15, M 6 Responses Apr 11

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    My intensions are uneasy and shallow. My kisses were the underlining hints of pain that lingered on his mouth. I undress to expose the wounds of my past and present, only to...
    Xingouttheos Xingouttheos 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    That's all I want. I have an ache in my heart that won't go, until I find that special person again that will make me feel like his princess.... I lost the man of my dreams. I...
    frances91 frances91 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 13

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    I spend my life making other women feel good about themselves, loving themselves for everything about themself. I take women on a few times a year and change their life for the...
    pensive1029 pensive1029 26-30, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I had crush on my teacher .I wish he was interested in me too but unfortunately he was never.
    babydoll007 babydoll007 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    No hate, just love ❤️ lol
    airerin airerin 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Tell me you love me and mean it. Don't be perfect just be amazing.
    MookieTheBezt MookieTheBezt 13-15, M Mar 21

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    I have partially given up on the idea of "love." We live in a world with too many conditions. You're too fat, too skinny, not the right skin tone, weird, etc. I would probably...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 21

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    Imagine this: on Instagram, your crush posts a 'like for a rate' picture. (They rate you 1-10, ten being the best) you like it. A couple minutes later, your crush responds and...
    kkkkbieber kkkkbieber 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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