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I Want to Allow Myself to Be Loved

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    I'm Getting Stronger

    Well my boss left the office.  I guess yesterday was his birthday.  I would say something.  I swear I would try and be nice but I feel like if I do then he'll take it the wrong way. My boss is a nice guy.  I think he thought being a business...
    nique26 nique26 36-40, F Jan 18, 2009

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    Allow Myself To Be Loved...

    Maybe that's why most people who I allow to love me, end up back-stabbing me.and maybe, that's why I back-stab some people. and maybe, it's because they allow my love, that they get back-stabbed by me.Love...such an interesting feeling, it can make you want to die, laugh, be...
    PuppetArtist PuppetArtist 13-15, M Feb 1, 2011

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    Me And Love Don't Mix Well

    I never feel loved by myself, my god, by my friends or family or whatever. I can never feel love, it's so weird. It's like I am immune to love
    HeavenHearts HeavenHearts 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2011

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    Sometimes I Wish I Understood....

    Love makes people weird, they act weird, they forget what's even going on sometimes. They go along thinking they like someone and they like someone else. It is hard to understand. I hope that in the future I can understand what love should be. I am confused a bit. I have an...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F Oct 31, 2012

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    To Love Or Not to Love

    Hi, through life I have made friends ,lost friends, and not have any friends at all calling to ask me to do things. I loose friends because they ether move away or die. Right now my friends live to far away and are to busy for me. My social life consist of when I see people at...
    Luv4SouthAfrica Luv4SouthAfrica 21-25, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2007

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    Pizazz

    I think I'm too romantic. Without the pizazz of a fairytale romance I won't let myself fall in love. I need the stability and assurance that comes with the unconditional love of love at first sight in nearly all romance movies.
    CleoShilu CleoShilu 18-21, F Jan 17, 2009

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    Made a Lotta Progress

    A LOT!  I mean, if you had told me 5 years ago I'd be with an amazing man and letting him explore the depths of my heart, I would have laughed in your face because there was no way I was gonna let somebody come that close to me.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    Me

    give  me the love ..im always pushing people away
    HeLpLeSsPiXiE HeLpLeSsPiXiE 13-15, F Apr 27, 2009

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    I just want to be loved by someone who will accept me for me not who they want me to be or judge me for I associate myself with on a daily basis....
    LovelessTeen LovelessTeen 16-17, F Aug 18

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    Have you just ever wanted to be held for a very long time or maybe even just be happy with the thought that when no one in the world but your partner feels some type of way about...
    insanebeauty insanebeauty 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Is anyone every going to love me or am I stuck a loner who everyone hates, am I the reason why everyone is sad, have I became te insanity everyone despises? Why won't anyone love...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 4

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    It's just what it is. I want to be loved by someone who cares. I'm not asking much, just for someone who really cares about me to love me.
    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    i just want to be loved and cared by someone who love me
    Agung12 Agung12 18-21, M Aug 16

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    How I honestly feel about myself is not something I have really shared with ppl because it seems like ppl don't care about others anymore and everyone always seems to come to me...
    Noturninback Noturninback 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    This boy and me started talking around May. I had talked to him before but it was never to serious. This time we kept talking steady and eventually I like him and he liked me. His...
    Cindayyy Cindayyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I sent this to my SOS. What do you think if you got it ? Just curious ... Good night babe. You're on my mind. I was thinking... Do you think I write you here too much? To you...
    dsuzy dsuzy 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    My best friend (lets call her kylee) of three years has this other friend (we will call her felicia). Felicia and I do not always get along too well, but I have always tried to be...
    imaginediamonds imaginediamonds 18-21, F Jul 30

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    COLLISION To every one whom is reading this, please don’t take it for granted, it tells a very sensitive subject of mine and somewhere hurtful, i hope you’ll like it for it is...
    samaien samaien 16-17, M Aug 16

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    But then again i have to want love someone they are and i often ask myself wonder what i will have to love and accept about them . Isn't it a scary thought . Guess i will stay...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I want more than anything to love and be loved. Truly though, I don't want anymore muck arounds. I don't think I could handle another one. I just want someone to share my anything...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    I am a good girl....I have kept some parts of me for the one overrated 'the one' Some days I just wish I could get a text saying I miss you....or hey beautiful...sometimes I wish I...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I want to love and be loved for who I am. I don't have the looks and I hope for my mr. Right to look past my retardedness. Which is so rare. I'd probably die before that happens...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I am something and everybody loves something so therefore I am loved for who I am :) I think...xxx
    AmberFenning AmberFenning 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    No one has ever said i love you or i like you to me -__- I'm not even that bad, man! I know i'm not cute or beautiful like all of other guys and i'm fat too but i'm human too. Even...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I loved you to death, but to you, I'm already dead.
    Dantescircle Dantescircle 36-40, M Aug 18

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    Wouldn't it be wonderful if the ones who we love always loved us back?
    Gracelessness Gracelessness 31-35, F Aug 18

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    All my life i've admired the image of love. A man and a woman happily doing something. Smiling. Laughing. Holding hands. Cuddling. But now, the image of love has changed for me...
    CanYouHackettt CanYouHackettt 13-15, F Aug 2

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    Everytime I start to like someone or fall in love with someone, I always build a wall in between me and them so I don't get hurt again even though I want to get through and be with...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I want someone to love me. just the way I am and even thought I cut. I want someone to kiss my scars and love me, I want them to hold me and tell me you love me. Please someone be...
    mypoetryissad mypoetryissad 13-15, F Aug 4

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    I want to feel love and love someone so much. I feel like love is lacking from my everyday life.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZg3ibOt964 "Somebody To Love" (feat. Robin Thicke) Paris, France to Michigan London town and through Berlin I can't believe this place I'm in...
    somethin2say somethin2say 22-25, F Aug 6

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    But am quite the flawed saint. Bi or polyamorous. Rage. Possible attachment disorder. Ethical. Poor. Giving. Anti wealth. Anti jerk. Prome to tantrum...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 7

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    I'm not like most girls. Yeah I like to paint my nails, I like to wear some nice clothes, but I love being outside and doing crazy stuff. I love riding horses and 4-wheelers and...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    By the right person of course... I've grown sick of the games and bullshit that comes with dating or holding on to something that's fake in all honesty I've been told a thousand...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    Every waking moment I try to be the nicest person I can be. I respect girls more than any of my friends. I'm always open to listening to them, I'll hold the door for them, if we're...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Someday someone will marry me and and love me with all of him. Give me a baby and a ring. Someday I will be happy he will listen to my problems and needs. I will love him and be...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I just want a love like Ali and Jack in Burlesque 😩 ):
    Livvy2 Livvy2 18-21, F Aug 16

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    There are two things that I want most in life, one is to be able to play drums in a successful rock band. There other, I'd trade being able to play drums at all to have. And that's...
    wildmike1998 wildmike1998 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I want someone who won't care that I'm incapable of sitting still. Someone who won't mind that I can't grasp the concept of cleaning. An that I refuse to be the most ladylike...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Is it really so hard to ask for a man to love you the way you are and want to show you that he does everyday?
    kns62 kns62 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I have so much love to give, but no one wants to take it or share theirs with me. Why am I so hard to love? I take care of my man when I'm in a relationship and I can't even get an...
    FierceAsFire05 FierceAsFire05 18-21, F 23 Responses Aug 21

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    I want somebody to love like the moon and the star's. Someone who will steal my heart and keep it locked away safely in theirs. someone to cry with laugh with play with go on...
    Feistywizard Feistywizard 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I want to have a gf. I want someone to say I love you at school everyday. I want to say good morning everyday to da person I love. But for some reason that love doesn't find me. I...
    IamDonatello IamDonatello 13-15, M 6 Responses Aug 22

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    My husband almost broke the door for me to come out and speak, there was a lot of crying from my side, but after that we had the most amazing sex ever, I was at my grandparents...
    Gemma3sahara Gemma3sahara 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I'm married, and love my husband. He's my best friend, and I love spending time with him. Sometimes though, I just don't get that warm feeling that he loves me (although I don't...
    crystalclear85 crystalclear85 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Deprived of human attachment, intimacy, love. That was the case with me, but I did not know it. If someone had asked me 10 years ago, or 30 years ago, or if they had said that...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M Aug 4

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    I'm unlovable, serious Even my family find it hard to love me so never mind someone else
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    It's a normal Autumn day. You sit alone on an old wooden bench in the park, admiring the leaves. Someone comes along and asks, "Can I sit here?" It's a chilly Winter night. You're...
    thelastfirstchoice thelastfirstchoice 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6