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I Want to Bannish Insecurity From My Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 383 People

     More Than Anything &n...

     More than anything  want to be stable and happy, in a place where i can make happy those that i love the most.
    andries andries 31-35, M Jul 15, 2008

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    Love Me For Me

    I just don't want it to be apart of my life anymore.I wanna love me for how I am.
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    I'm Workin On It.

    I'm tired of being afraid and not knowing why. I'm tired of shying away from human contact but in some ways I'd just rather be all alone. Free to be myself without the worry of judgement. Everywhere I look I see people that in my mind are better than me at EVERTYTHING and deep...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2009

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    Ruining Me

    I do not know why i get jealous when my bf looks at girls. I feel like they are beautiful and mayb he will leave of for them? It causes so many fights and makes him pull away from me. I was not always like this. I wish i could just let it go and be ok
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Being Insecure.

    I hate being insecure. I've missed out on so much because of my insecurities. Worst is - it's absolutely fine by me when other people do things that I am too insecure to attempt. So why am I being insecure in the first place?
    whenn whenn 26-30 Sep 26, 2008

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    I Know Better

    sometimes i feel like people will judge me and the way that i dress and the way that i act, so i think about what other people will think befor i buy the cute dress or say the funny thing, but i know better than that, i know that i should be confident and that i wont be judged or...
    shakenintonothing shakenintonothing 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    Dearest Insecurity.

    When did I become your door mat? The one to take on the others that no one else would give the time of day? The ones that play on you, with you, and pretend to be something they're not. Insecurity I set you free, I don't need you any more. You can leave the same way you...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    The Battle

    the battle that rages within you. feeling hopeless and defeated alone in the dark consumed by thoughts of failure driven by guilt.
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    Insecurity and Trustworthiness

    I have been married for 24yrs. My wife and I married young and brought a lot of our baggage into our marriage from our families. We have worked alot of the baggage out through counseling over many years, but we had a very difficult year this past year. My daughter...
    razor84 razor84 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    OHH Amen!!

    I've always been insecure, shy, withdrawn. Many reasons for this, None of which really truly matter. I've recently begun a self experiment to try to finally just get the hell over it.  Sharing stories here is part of it. Another is trying to talk to someone new every day...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 2 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Goodbye! Be Gone!

    I want to banish insecurity from my life. Especially in the relationship I am currently in. I will not let my insecurity and ghosts from relationships past ruin what I have in this relationship. THIS boyfriend is not the one who mistreated me or cheated on me or tried to change...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2009

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    :0

    im 18 im finishing my last year at colege i want to join the army as a medic but recently somthing hit me when a teacher sed that i was insecure. I worry about what people think of me constantly even if they are people i dislike. I am never satisfied in life with what i...
    cresswel cresswel 18-21 1 Response May 19, 2008

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    Alone In My Head

    insecure and so unsure what do i do with myself alone in my head. it feels like happiness is draining from me moment by moment is it my own fault? or do i have someone to blame? just leave me! leave me alone. dancing in my head singing songs filled with cruel words. unable to...
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    When That Old Feeling Comes Back...

    HI..Im new here..1st writing..I have felt insecure for as long sa i can remember..I have also been involved w/ suprt groups/12 step groups for 19 yrs now..these have helped tremendously..I have recently( over past few months) staretd to REALY bracnh out and do things for myself...
    tarotstar tarotstar 46-50, F Jun 10, 2010

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    Trying To Fight Insecurity N Loneliness

    In the process of trying to overcome all the insecurities that have held me back in life and stopped me from living how I wish to live. I'm a female early 20s who has always been the quiet reserved type due to my insecuruties. Even though I have friends I can hang out party wth...
    uniqueash517 uniqueash517 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    I Need Some Exercises

    I've been battling insecurity, shyness, basic fear my whole life. I've decided it's time to win the war. That's where you come in. I need suggestions, exercises, challenges. Activities that will help me, make me stronger. I've already done eyecontact, establishing and...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 4 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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    Blushing

    I know this is strange, but sometimes my face will turn red for no reason at all. Sometimes it happens if I am in a store and someone I know calls my name out of the blue. I don't know what my problem is.
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    yes Please, Absolutely and ...

    yes please, absolutely and totally for ever and ever amen. How much will it cost, cause i'm willing to pay....no price is too much i hate it.
    foxtrotoscar foxtrotoscar 36-40, M Jul 15, 2008

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    I think this whole reality thing is a lark really. It’s vastly overrated. I mean, if I didn’t subscribe to reality I could’ve forgotten about responsibility - who needs jobs...
    Iamhere4me Iamhere4me 36-40, M 5 Responses Nov 27

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    All future possibilities collapse to one unstoppable unchanged ultimate reality: DEATH A heart transplant cannot save your life. It just allows you to live longer. The risks of...
    susipsikopat susipsikopat 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I got bad grades for once in my life and have not heard the end of it. My mom yells at me and tells me i am a useless, ungrateful spoilt brat. She even yelled the F word at me. She...
    MayIToo MayIToo 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Often the people who criticize your life are the same people who don't know the price you paid to get where you are today.. I've changed my life around tremendously and I'm sick of...
    Anngeleyes Anngeleyes 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    I'm so bored with my life right now. I have to keep living in fear almost every day. I'm tired of society and almost everything else. I'm tired of waking up and its the same thing...
    Hotspicychilli23 Hotspicychilli23 18-21, F Dec 13

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    arentwe all?but I feel like my life its missing something I need to find it
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Dec 2

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    I want to you relax and enjoy life. Don't take life too seriously. Smile and squeeze a stress ball every now and then.You only live once. Life can be hell sometimes but not all the...
    Outofeden Outofeden 31-35, F Dec 5

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    The wonderful thing about being flawed is that I have so many things to work on. Although I would love to have been born perfect, or at least to have become perfect, I do quite...
    PhresnoPhoenix PhresnoPhoenix 36-40, M Dec 6

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    I was once a young beautiful woman, who believed in love being magical. A power that defy all odds and invincible. What I learned was that I was foolish and arrogant. I didn't...
    cl0udyskies cl0udyskies 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I DO thru MUSIC, and become IT...🎵🎶🎼🎤 Music is a big part of my Life!
    Katie419 Katie419 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I live in Washington. I hate this life and want to end it soon, like really really soon. I have been researching on all sorts of methods. I want something least painful. I want to...
    adasth adasth 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 25

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    The day has turned out to be one of those days when I think, "Why in the **** am I still here? There's got to be more to my life than heartache".
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 28

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    Wellp jus quit my job.. I hated everything about that job aside from good coworkers. Customers made fun of me, and I just worked too slow I couldn't concentrate or work fast enough...
    Bshsjsj Bshsjsj 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Hey guys, I've posted on EP plenty of times about how unhappy I was with my love life, etc.. Well, now I have turned a hobby into making money. You won't get rich, but you will...
    Shanyyyy18 Shanyyyy18 22-25, F Dec 6

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    After working in a nursing home and seeing how much taking care of your body plays a part in your life later, I'm afraid of the damage I have already done. My teeth are rotting and...
    jussme91 jussme91 22-25, F Dec 13

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    I've decided I will always do the things that scare me most so that I can look back on my life without regrets. I will travel the world and meet people, learn about their culture...
    thisISalessa thisISalessa 16-17, F Dec 2

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    If it was only as easy to delete my life as it is to delete EP. Just one click and no one would notice.
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 9

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    Please God take me back to being 12 & let me start again & mess up my life in an entirely different way. I have fresh ideas.
    ThePinkPowerRanger ThePinkPowerRanger 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just want to disappear. I want to vanish. I want to run away. The problem is I think I might only want to run away from myself.
    iwanttofeelbetter333 iwanttofeelbetter333 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'm running away from home, I have a car and can pick anyone up, so ever is suffering and wants to run with me just message me, I have a small group so it won't be as boring
    11MARK11 11MARK11 16-17 Dec 5

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    here where my twisted mind comes into play . I just want to be the man guess I'm very egocentric deep and down . I feel like I want to survive and be able to kill anyone no...
    Mizo0217 Mizo0217 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I am here to save lives and set them free. I have a planned and I just need help with bit. My plan is to do a kick start and Facebook Group to raise money to leave my hell with...
    Unknown1047 Unknown1047 18-21, M Dec 7

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    A.k.a. my father. Easier said than done!
    equestrianmad equestrianmad 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    God, would you forgive me if I killed myself?
    pleadingsorry pleadingsorry 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    I am 50 years old-that's to old to run away. I am a responsible, strong person, I keep saying to myself. But there are days when it all seems too much and I feel like just getting...
    GailC240 GailC240 46-50 Dec 2

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    Anyone in Toronto use Gifthulk? I need someone to verify my Swagbucks account via text message in exchange for hulk codes. Total value of the codes is 263 hulk coins. I can't...
    VioletWhisper VioletWhisper 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Sometimes things get so complicated...wanna f*** everything and fly to Alpa Centauri to booze with little green guys...
    AmarieOfTheVanyar AmarieOfTheVanyar 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I wish I could go back in time. I've made so many bad decisions in my teenage years hay have affected my adolescence.. sometimes I think if I just could change one thing Id be...
    Ensane Ensane 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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