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I Want to Bannish Insecurity From My Life

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    Dearest Insecurity.

    When did I become your door mat? The one to take on the others that no one else would give the time of day? The ones that play on you, with you, and pretend to be something they're not. Insecurity I set you free, I don't need you any more. You can leave the same way you...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    Ruining Me

    I do not know why i get jealous when my bf looks at girls. I feel like they are beautiful and mayb he will leave of for them? It causes so many fights and makes him pull away from me. I was not always like this. I wish i could just let it go and be ok
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    OHH Amen!!

    I've always been insecure, shy, withdrawn. Many reasons for this, None of which really truly matter. I've recently begun a self experiment to try to finally just get the hell over it.  Sharing stories here is part of it. Another is trying to talk to someone new every day...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 2 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Goodbye! Be Gone!

    I want to banish insecurity from my life. Especially in the relationship I am currently in. I will not let my insecurity and ghosts from relationships past ruin what I have in this relationship. THIS boyfriend is not the one who mistreated me or cheated on me or tried to change...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2009

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    The Battle

    the battle that rages within you. feeling hopeless and defeated alone in the dark consumed by thoughts of failure driven by guilt.
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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     More Than Anything &n...

     More than anything  want to be stable and happy, in a place where i can make happy those that i love the most.
    andries andries 31-35, M Jul 15, 2008

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    Blushing

    I know this is strange, but sometimes my face will turn red for no reason at all. Sometimes it happens if I am in a store and someone I know calls my name out of the blue. I don't know what my problem is.
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Trying To Fight Insecurity N Loneliness

    In the process of trying to overcome all the insecurities that have held me back in life and stopped me from living how I wish to live. I'm a female early 20s who has always been the quiet reserved type due to my insecuruties. Even though I have friends I can hang out party wth...
    uniqueash517 uniqueash517 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Being Insecure.

    I hate being insecure. I've missed out on so much because of my insecurities. Worst is - it's absolutely fine by me when other people do things that I am too insecure to attempt. So why am I being insecure in the first place?
    whenn whenn 26-30 Sep 26, 2008

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    I'm Workin On It.

    I'm tired of being afraid and not knowing why. I'm tired of shying away from human contact but in some ways I'd just rather be all alone. Free to be myself without the worry of judgement. Everywhere I look I see people that in my mind are better than me at EVERTYTHING and deep...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2009

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    Alone In My Head

    insecure and so unsure what do i do with myself alone in my head. it feels like happiness is draining from me moment by moment is it my own fault? or do i have someone to blame? just leave me! leave me alone. dancing in my head singing songs filled with cruel words. unable to...
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    I Need Some Exercises

    I've been battling insecurity, shyness, basic fear my whole life. I've decided it's time to win the war. That's where you come in. I need suggestions, exercises, challenges. Activities that will help me, make me stronger. I've already done eyecontact, establishing and...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 4 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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    Insecurity and Trustworthiness

    I have been married for 24yrs. My wife and I married young and brought a lot of our baggage into our marriage from our families. We have worked alot of the baggage out through counseling over many years, but we had a very difficult year this past year. My daughter...
    razor84 razor84 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    :0

    im 18 im finishing my last year at colege i want to join the army as a medic but recently somthing hit me when a teacher sed that i was insecure. I worry about what people think of me constantly even if they are people i dislike. I am never satisfied in life with what i...
    cresswel cresswel 18-21 1 Response May 19, 2008

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    I Know Better

    sometimes i feel like people will judge me and the way that i dress and the way that i act, so i think about what other people will think befor i buy the cute dress or say the funny thing, but i know better than that, i know that i should be confident and that i wont be judged or...
    shakenintonothing shakenintonothing 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    Love Me For Me

    I just don't want it to be apart of my life anymore.I wanna love me for how I am.
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    yes Please, Absolutely and ...

    yes please, absolutely and totally for ever and ever amen. How much will it cost, cause i'm willing to pay....no price is too much i hate it.
    foxtrotoscar foxtrotoscar 36-40, M Jul 15, 2008

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    When That Old Feeling Comes Back...

    HI..Im new here..1st writing..I have felt insecure for as long sa i can remember..I have also been involved w/ suprt groups/12 step groups for 19 yrs now..these have helped tremendously..I have recently( over past few months) staretd to REALY bracnh out and do things for myself...
    tarotstar tarotstar 46-50, F Jun 10, 2010

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    I want to kill some time by writing few things happened in my life. I will share just to be honest as the dates can't be included for privacy issue and also will skip few things...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M Aug 7

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    i think ive been on hiatus from life long enough. ive been in seclusion for 9yrs now. i think its time to get back to real life. lol 9yrs is way long enough to disappear from...
    000SadisticBitch000 000SadisticBitch000 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I want to change my life right now for the better leaving the mistakes I made in the past and learn to live with complete happiness. I need to forgive myself. Even if it means...
    ashless ashless 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 12

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    Through the vail of anonymity that is "The Internet", I am -as I press the letter keys in real time- apprehensive to share this part of me. I am alone in a bedroom full up with...
    homesickalien87 homesickalien87 26-30, M Aug 7

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    Life doesn't seem to want to give me a break here lately. It's seemed to gradually get worse day by day. I'm probably more depressed now than I've ever been. I'm starting to lose...
    addictionbarbie addictionbarbie 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    He stared into the steady glare of the LCD display of his laptop screen in the darkness of the night, as he typed out those words.. his last ever creations. The fingertips that had...
    pretender2687 pretender2687 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    I'm tired of the government trying to manipulate us and distract us from what's really going on. We have TANKS in the streets of AMERICA right now and it WONT be on the news...
    ShmittyFLA ShmittyFLA 18-21, M a week ago

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    I want to change myself. I want to be the bad boy girls want and not the ugly virgin guy that has no tattoos. I know I'm going to join the marine corps after high school but I want...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Yes indeed I want to change some aspect of my life. My outlook on life,the person I aspire to be,the way I live my life. I am realizing some things I thought I love is harming me...
    temptedtotouch temptedtotouch 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 4

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    The littlest things can ruin my day.... I have always been a happy person until my dad cones around....its always him that cause the problems. No matter how hard times i try to be...
    izzyalmond izzyalmond 13-15, F Aug 7

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    To all teenagers such as myself: Our generation loves to complain about inexistent struggles. We direct so much of our attention to things like popularity, social status and...
    alviseb alviseb 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    If you've seen any of my posts, you'd know that I haven't been the most positive person lately. I'm ready now to accept the fact that I'm going to be hated by a lot of people and I...
    IamGods IamGods 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Getting real tired of it taking so long to meet minds like my own. Endlessly scrolling through experiences and profiles, scrutinizing every detail that a person shows of their self...
    MohnJarston86 MohnJarston86 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I hate my work, and I do not feel comfortable with more than 80% of the people I deal with on daily basis, what the hell my life is !
    zolito zolito 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    Sometimes I wonder "why I'am I still here u should be dead by now" I will figure this one out with no help at all no matter if someone want to on my own
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F Aug 3

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    When I fall in love with someone I want to stalk them 24/7 and be with them every minute of my life but I calm the **** down! I'm a obsessive person. Anyways, I just really really...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    He's guilty all the same to sick to be a shame he wants to point his finger your guilty all the same
    killerinstinke killerinstinke 13-15, F Aug 3

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    I don't want people to recognize me for who I am right now. I want to make huge changes that will shock people and make them wish they stayed by my side. I'm done being treated...
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I used to have so many hopes and dreams for what my life would be like, but none of them came true. My mother became disabled and had to quit her job as a federal employee when I...
    troubledinparadise troubledinparadise 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    For many years now i have always wanted to write about my life but i never know where to start. My memory has faded and i have blocked a lot out so i worry that i will come to a...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My life will start to change when I will change my thoughts and my view on life.Life is already beautiful.
    Heaventohell1 Heaventohell1 18-21 Jul 23

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    I woke up today with a strong mentality today. I have always complained about being overweight and whatnot and well today will/is the day that I'm going to change my life and my...
    beyondthebluesea beyondthebluesea 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Time to wake up and kicks life's ***! :)
    TeddyOrTeddie TeddyOrTeddie 13-15, M Aug 1

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    I have hit a rut in my life! Things where I am have not been great, and I really need to make a change!! Not sure how, but i have always found changing location works good when I...
    Panth69 Panth69 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    For being 18 years old, I have a lot of health problems. I'm 5'8" and 170lbs. I'm uncomfortable with the way I look and feel. I'm a hypochondriac, so naturally when I have an...
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Jul 23

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    I'm feeling very meh lately. I don't know how else to describe it. And I shouldn't feel that way. Because I have a good life with good people in it. But I can't help it. I feel...
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm feeling bad...kind of a mixture of anger, sadness, disappointment... and can't blame other than me, I keep telling myself I should know better... I should stick to my never...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want to leave where I am. I am miserable here and want a new start. I would like to gather a group of people who also wish to leave. I think this will make it easier and better...
    Donnelly2 Donnelly2 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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