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I Want to Bannish Insecurity From My Life

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    I Know Better

    sometimes i feel like people will judge me and the way that i dress and the way that i act, so i think about what other people will think befor i buy the cute dress or say the funny thing, but i know better than that, i know that i should be confident and that i wont be judged or...
    shakenintonothing shakenintonothing 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    im 18 im finishing my last year at colege i want to join the army as a medic but recently somthing hit me when a teacher sed that i was insecure. I worry about what people think of me constantly even if they are people i dislike. I am never satisfied in life with what i...
    cresswel cresswel 18-21 1 Response May 19, 2008

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     More Than Anything &n...

     More than anything  want to be stable and happy, in a place where i can make happy those that i love the most.
    andries andries 31-35, M Jul 15, 2008

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    Dearest Insecurity.

    When did I become your door mat? The one to take on the others that no one else would give the time of day? The ones that play on you, with you, and pretend to be something they're not. Insecurity I set you free, I don't need you any more. You can leave the same way you...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    I'm Workin On It.

    I'm tired of being afraid and not knowing why. I'm tired of shying away from human contact but in some ways I'd just rather be all alone. Free to be myself without the worry of judgement. Everywhere I look I see people that in my mind are better than me at EVERTYTHING and deep...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2009

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    Ruining Me

    I do not know why i get jealous when my bf looks at girls. I feel like they are beautiful and mayb he will leave of for them? It causes so many fights and makes him pull away from me. I was not always like this. I wish i could just let it go and be ok
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    When That Old Feeling Comes Back...

    HI..Im new here..1st writing..I have felt insecure for as long sa i can remember..I have also been involved w/ suprt groups/12 step groups for 19 yrs now..these have helped tremendously..I have recently( over past few months) staretd to REALY bracnh out and do things for myself...
    tarotstar tarotstar 46-50, F Jun 10, 2010

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    Being Insecure.

    I hate being insecure. I've missed out on so much because of my insecurities. Worst is - it's absolutely fine by me when other people do things that I am too insecure to attempt. So why am I being insecure in the first place?
    whenn whenn 26-30 Sep 26, 2008

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    Alone In My Head

    insecure and so unsure what do i do with myself alone in my head. it feels like happiness is draining from me moment by moment is it my own fault? or do i have someone to blame? just leave me! leave me alone. dancing in my head singing songs filled with cruel words. unable to...
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    yes Please, Absolutely and ...

    yes please, absolutely and totally for ever and ever amen. How much will it cost, cause i'm willing to pay....no price is too much i hate it.
    foxtrotoscar foxtrotoscar 36-40, M Jul 15, 2008

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    Insecurity and Trustworthiness

    I have been married for 24yrs. My wife and I married young and brought a lot of our baggage into our marriage from our families. We have worked alot of the baggage out through counseling over many years, but we had a very difficult year this past year. My daughter...
    razor84 razor84 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    OHH Amen!!

    I've always been insecure, shy, withdrawn. Many reasons for this, None of which really truly matter. I've recently begun a self experiment to try to finally just get the hell over it.  Sharing stories here is part of it. Another is trying to talk to someone new every day...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 2 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Trying To Fight Insecurity N Loneliness

    In the process of trying to overcome all the insecurities that have held me back in life and stopped me from living how I wish to live. I'm a female early 20s who has always been the quiet reserved type due to my insecuruties. Even though I have friends I can hang out party wth...
    uniqueash517 uniqueash517 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    I Need Some Exercises

    I've been battling insecurity, shyness, basic fear my whole life. I've decided it's time to win the war. That's where you come in. I need suggestions, exercises, challenges. Activities that will help me, make me stronger. I've already done eyecontact, establishing and...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 4 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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    The Battle

    the battle that rages within you. feeling hopeless and defeated alone in the dark consumed by thoughts of failure driven by guilt.
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    Love Me For Me

    I just don't want it to be apart of my life anymore.I wanna love me for how I am.
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    Blushing

    I know this is strange, but sometimes my face will turn red for no reason at all. Sometimes it happens if I am in a store and someone I know calls my name out of the blue. I don't know what my problem is.
    venom777 venom777 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Goodbye! Be Gone!

    I want to banish insecurity from my life. Especially in the relationship I am currently in. I will not let my insecurity and ghosts from relationships past ruin what I have in this relationship. THIS boyfriend is not the one who mistreated me or cheated on me or tried to change...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2009

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    For many years now i have always wanted to write about my life but i never know where to start. My memory has faded and i have blocked a lot out so i worry that i will come to a...
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    Anyone from BC Canada want to runaway? Message me 14-17 :)
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    I am looking for a woman who wants a man to breastfeed from her in Washington State!
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    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 22

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    My family expects me to be a kid and an adult but I just can't they've pretty much ripped out my childhood and made me an adult I want to runaway so bad but I can't because I'm...
    runanddontlookback runanddontlookback 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm 16 years old and I want to runaway to the UK to meet my friend. I just need someone 18+ who can help me with the flight details. Thank you so much and please help me.
    kuroze343 kuroze343 16-17, F Aug 27

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    I mean i like having friends and all but i don't want a relationship my hearts not meant for love
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    I want him to be weird, unusual-like me, funny, joyful,interesting and intelligent, open-minded and good in the core . Gentle,yet with principals. A man. My man. God, i miss you...
    XyoXy XyoXy 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I too wanna experience friends with benefits :D Never had one :(
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    Working mother and wife. Stressed tired and lost. Wish I could runaway. Peacefully island or mountain side. I would crochet and invent things.
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    I make really ****** decisions and people get hurt because of them. I hate myself sometimes.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F Aug 26

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    You can't change the past and people might hate their past but it is what makes you you. I have a bad past but without it I would not be the person I am today
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    This networking program is kicking my ***!
    jmac331980 jmac331980 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    Hey .. Any Australian Indian here?
    rex06 rex06 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mSNvdLpLx-0 How do you know your real?
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    tips? If he divorces the same way he married...good god, Im in for a bad year! He is so passive aggressive that I actually fear this separation/divorce. He obstructs anything that...
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    afew months back i was in love but right now am not
    Americanlady8 Americanlady8 31-35 Sep 8

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    My Fren ran away but wit this guy she went to Colorado and she lives with him I okay talk to her sometimes but she seem happeir then when she get touched by her uncle and now she...
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