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I Want to Bannish Insecurity From My Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 440 People

    yes Please, Absolutely and ...

    yes please, absolutely and totally for ever and ever amen. How much will it cost, cause i'm willing to pay....no price is too much i hate it.
    foxtrotoscar foxtrotoscar 36-40, M Jul 15, 2008

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    I Know Better

    sometimes i feel like people will judge me and the way that i dress and the way that i act, so i think about what other people will think befor i buy the cute dress or say the funny thing, but i know better than that, i know that i should be confident and that i wont be judged or...
    shakenintonothing shakenintonothing 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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     More Than Anything &n...

     More than anything  want to be stable and happy, in a place where i can make happy those that i love the most.
    andries andries 31-35, M Jul 15, 2008

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    Insecurity and Trustworthiness

    I have been married for 24yrs. My wife and I married young and brought a lot of our baggage into our marriage from our families. We have worked alot of the baggage out through counseling over many years, but we had a very difficult year this past year. My daughter...
    razor84 razor84 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    Goodbye! Be Gone!

    I want to banish insecurity from my life. Especially in the relationship I am currently in. I will not let my insecurity and ghosts from relationships past ruin what I have in this relationship. THIS boyfriend is not the one who mistreated me or cheated on me or tried to change...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2009

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    I Need Some Exercises

    I've been battling insecurity, shyness, basic fear my whole life. I've decided it's time to win the war. That's where you come in. I need suggestions, exercises, challenges. Activities that will help me, make me stronger. I've already done eyecontact, establishing and...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 4 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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    Three's a charm. Officially banished 3 people

    from my life who were nothing short of toxic. I'm not healthy enough to allow poison to continue to stay in my life, my thoughts and my heart. I need a clear mind free of insecurity and the only way to accomplish that is to cut off and out bullshit people who do nothing but hurt...
    ClazzyGalXO ClazzyGalXO 31-35, F Nov 29, 2015

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    When That Old Feeling Comes Back...

    HI..Im new here..1st writing..I have felt insecure for as long sa i can remember..I have also been involved w/ suprt groups/12 step groups for 19 yrs now..these have helped tremendously..I have recently( over past few months) staretd to REALY bracnh out and do things for myself...
    tarotstar tarotstar 46-50, F Jun 10, 2010

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    The Battle

    the battle that rages within you. feeling hopeless and defeated alone in the dark consumed by thoughts of failure driven by guilt.
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    Blushing

    I know this is strange, but sometimes my face will turn red for no reason at all. Sometimes it happens if I am in a store and someone I know calls my name out of the blue. I don't know what my problem is.
    2hot443 2hot443 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    Alone In My Head

    insecure and so unsure what do i do with myself alone in my head. it feels like happiness is draining from me moment by moment is it my own fault? or do i have someone to blame? just leave me! leave me alone. dancing in my head singing songs filled with cruel words. unable to...
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    Ruining Me

    I do not know why i get jealous when my bf looks at girls. I feel like they are beautiful and mayb he will leave of for them? It causes so many fights and makes him pull away from me. I was not always like this. I wish i could just let it go and be ok
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Dearest Insecurity.

    When did I become your door mat? The one to take on the others that no one else would give the time of day? The ones that play on you, with you, and pretend to be something they're not. Insecurity I set you free, I don't need you any more. You can leave the same way you...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    Trying To Fight Insecurity N Loneliness

    In the process of trying to overcome all the insecurities that have held me back in life and stopped me from living how I wish to live. I'm a female early 20s who has always been the quiet reserved type due to my insecuruties. Even though I have friends I can hang out party wth...
    uniqueash517 uniqueash517 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    I'm Workin On It.

    I'm tired of being afraid and not knowing why. I'm tired of shying away from human contact but in some ways I'd just rather be all alone. Free to be myself without the worry of judgement. Everywhere I look I see people that in my mind are better than me at EVERTYTHING and deep...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2009

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    OHH Amen!!

    I've always been insecure, shy, withdrawn. Many reasons for this, None of which really truly matter. I've recently begun a self experiment to try to finally just get the hell over it.  Sharing stories here is part of it. Another is trying to talk to someone new every day...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 2 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    I'm so fed up with insecure friends

    and guys. I am having a complicated relationship with a guy and he makes me feel like ****. He actually told me that I'm not the only girl who fell for him!!! He has to let me know that girls like him. If I was such a ***** and arrogant I'll tell him that I got other pursuers...
    pangst pangst 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Love Me For Me

    I just don't want it to be apart of my life anymore.I wanna love me for how I am.
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    Being Insecure.

    I hate being insecure. I've missed out on so much because of my insecurities. Worst is - it's absolutely fine by me when other people do things that I am too insecure to attempt. So why am I being insecure in the first place?
    whenn whenn 26-30 Sep 26, 2008

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    :0

    im 18 im finishing my last year at colege i want to join the army as a medic but recently somthing hit me when a teacher sed that i was insecure. I worry about what people think of me constantly even if they are people i dislike. I am never satisfied in life with what i...
    cresswel cresswel 18-21 1 Response May 19, 2008

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    An asexual, looking for MOC I am 41 yrs British Asian looking for permanent MOC preferably with an asexual/ gay / or someone with medics issues. I don't want to be alone for all...
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    I'm suffering in here and I don't like here. No one understand me, no one support me and no one like me in here. They just judge everything I do. If I do something wrong they...
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    I'm the end, we all want the same things, even though we are all different. We want love, we want money... We want to fit in, we just want to experience the best parts of life. I...
    writingforlife6 writingforlife6 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I really want to change my life. But  first of all i want to change myself first. So here's 10 things that on my top list to change myself. 1. No more mast ur bate 2. No more p0r...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey, I am looking for a person or group to travel the world with and be free from the disappointment around me. I not only know how to live, I know how to survive. Message me to...
    Unknown1047 Unknown1047 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey, I am looking for a person or group to travel the world with and be free from the disappointment around me. I not only know how to live, I know how to survive. Message me to...
    Unknown1047 Unknown1047 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Anybody in CT or near it that has a car and wants to form a group? I'm 19M thanks
    LookingForTheOne123 LookingForTheOne123 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    If you do what you have always done, you will get the same results you have been getting. If you want to stunt your growth and feel stuck in the same place forever, keep making...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 5 days ago

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    Angelinawhitepromdresseveryday Angelinawhitepromdresseveryday 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I haven't had the good fortune of ever seeing a good aggressive fight between two women. But the idea has always interested me tremendously. I certainly don't know any ladies...
    ShortySammie ShortySammie 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    since childhood the movies teach us how to live when you grow up find women you love get married have kids same old story most people do this same old story repeat it i...
    lostpagesofM lostpagesofM 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I'm so glad that I don't have a passport and money right now because I'll be walking out of the door and I wouldn't be coming back. I just can't be doing with all the fighting any...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    off to Ireland lads XD (I'm 100% a Midwestern USA kid who has never left the country, but certainly wants to get out sometime
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I kind of just want to get up and go, and runaway, and fly
    ETph0neh0me ETph0neh0me 18-21, F a week ago

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    Hi Im looking to runaway Im 15 and I have a more then problematic home life and Im looking for travel and adventure if ur interested message me ill watch ur back and u mine
    TimRose TimRose 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago