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I Want to Bannish Insecurity From My Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 393 People

    Ruining Me

    I do not know why i get jealous when my bf looks at girls. I feel like they are beautiful and mayb he will leave of for them? It causes so many fights and makes him pull away from me. I was not always like this. I wish i could just let it go and be ok
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2010

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    Alone In My Head

    insecure and so unsure what do i do with myself alone in my head. it feels like happiness is draining from me moment by moment is it my own fault? or do i have someone to blame? just leave me! leave me alone. dancing in my head singing songs filled with cruel words. unable to...
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    The Battle

    the battle that rages within you. feeling hopeless and defeated alone in the dark consumed by thoughts of failure driven by guilt.
    charmed88101 charmed88101 31-35, F May 26, 2011

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    Blushing

    I know this is strange, but sometimes my face will turn red for no reason at all. Sometimes it happens if I am in a store and someone I know calls my name out of the blue. I don't know what my problem is.
    2hot443 2hot443 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 7, 2013

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    :0

    im 18 im finishing my last year at colege i want to join the army as a medic but recently somthing hit me when a teacher sed that i was insecure. I worry about what people think of me constantly even if they are people i dislike. I am never satisfied in life with what i...
    cresswel cresswel 18-21 1 Response May 19, 2008

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     More Than Anything &n...

     More than anything  want to be stable and happy, in a place where i can make happy those that i love the most.
    andries andries 31-35, M Jul 15, 2008

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    Dearest Insecurity.

    When did I become your door mat? The one to take on the others that no one else would give the time of day? The ones that play on you, with you, and pretend to be something they're not. Insecurity I set you free, I don't need you any more. You can leave the same way you...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2010

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    When That Old Feeling Comes Back...

    HI..Im new here..1st writing..I have felt insecure for as long sa i can remember..I have also been involved w/ suprt groups/12 step groups for 19 yrs now..these have helped tremendously..I have recently( over past few months) staretd to REALY bracnh out and do things for myself...
    tarotstar tarotstar 46-50, F Jun 10, 2010

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    Goodbye! Be Gone!

    I want to banish insecurity from my life. Especially in the relationship I am currently in. I will not let my insecurity and ghosts from relationships past ruin what I have in this relationship. THIS boyfriend is not the one who mistreated me or cheated on me or tried to change...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2009

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    OHH Amen!!

    I've always been insecure, shy, withdrawn. Many reasons for this, None of which really truly matter. I've recently begun a self experiment to try to finally just get the hell over it.  Sharing stories here is part of it. Another is trying to talk to someone new every day...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 2 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    yes Please, Absolutely and ...

    yes please, absolutely and totally for ever and ever amen. How much will it cost, cause i'm willing to pay....no price is too much i hate it.
    foxtrotoscar foxtrotoscar 36-40, M Jul 15, 2008

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    I'm Workin On It.

    I'm tired of being afraid and not knowing why. I'm tired of shying away from human contact but in some ways I'd just rather be all alone. Free to be myself without the worry of judgement. Everywhere I look I see people that in my mind are better than me at EVERTYTHING and deep...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 1 Response Aug 22, 2009

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    I Know Better

    sometimes i feel like people will judge me and the way that i dress and the way that i act, so i think about what other people will think befor i buy the cute dress or say the funny thing, but i know better than that, i know that i should be confident and that i wont be judged or...
    shakenintonothing shakenintonothing 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    Being Insecure.

    I hate being insecure. I've missed out on so much because of my insecurities. Worst is - it's absolutely fine by me when other people do things that I am too insecure to attempt. So why am I being insecure in the first place?
    whenn whenn 26-30 Sep 26, 2008

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    Love Me For Me

    I just don't want it to be apart of my life anymore.I wanna love me for how I am.
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F Aug 22, 2009

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    Trying To Fight Insecurity N Loneliness

    In the process of trying to overcome all the insecurities that have held me back in life and stopped me from living how I wish to live. I'm a female early 20s who has always been the quiet reserved type due to my insecuruties. Even though I have friends I can hang out party wth...
    uniqueash517 uniqueash517 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2013

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    Insecurity and Trustworthiness

    I have been married for 24yrs. My wife and I married young and brought a lot of our baggage into our marriage from our families. We have worked alot of the baggage out through counseling over many years, but we had a very difficult year this past year. My daughter...
    razor84 razor84 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I Need Some Exercises

    I've been battling insecurity, shyness, basic fear my whole life. I've decided it's time to win the war. That's where you come in. I need suggestions, exercises, challenges. Activities that will help me, make me stronger. I've already done eyecontact, establishing and...
    sarahdavids sarahdavids 31-35 4 Responses Aug 2, 2011

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    Just about that time in my life to find myself focus on me and what I want to do in life. And if someone comes along good if not oh well it ain't the end of the world to be alone...
    misunderstood2012 misunderstood2012 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Okay, so, I was born in November. My name is Allicia Mae, but nobody says my name right, so people call me Lacey, I'm 17 years old. I was born in Houston TX, but when my dad...
    LacyMaee LacyMaee 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I just started reading into it for my Saturday night reading. Interesting stuff http://personalityspirituality.net/articles/the-michael-teachings/reincarnation-the-35-steps/ .
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I hate living I don't want to be here But I'm afraid to hurt her
    kidkid240 kidkid240 16-17, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    For starters, I don't like the term "Twin Flame." I prefer the use of the term "Twin Soul." I wanted to join the group but I firmly believe that people who cling to this particular...
    AKLady15 AKLady15 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    So here's the thing. I have no mental illnesses I do not have depression. I have a good life, parents that love me and great friends at school. I do not have a girlfriend but I'm...
    JaySmith9999 JaySmith9999 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm a 15 year old transgender female you all can call me Jamie I wanna run away with some one I'm willing to go any where I'm in buffalo NY and I'm just looking for some one I can...
    jamiekat6 jamiekat6 13-15, T 3 days ago

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    I try to but I fail so much till I can truly succeed in something. Things don't come easy for me :( I have to work harder at everything than the average person. Oh well.
    sydneyrosza sydneyrosza 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    ... I can't take all the pain.... I want to end it all... I can't take the pain.. I can't take crying every night, being constantly afraid and hurting.... I want to cut again...
    Raytheshapeshifter Raytheshapeshifter 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Tell me if you are a aries man or tauras woman,what happen when either sign gets angry,both have temper tantrems
    puffahoness puffahoness 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I personally don't. I don't feel like I'd enjoy raising kids. The thought of changing diapers is pretty repulsive, and I don't think I'd make a good mother; I don't think I would...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I am addicted to Sims. I like playing and controlling their lives because I can't control mine due to my limitations.
    sharestry sharestry 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Difficult People Help You Grow Stronger
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F 6 days ago

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    Hello, My name is Nicole, i have been a psychic since i was 15 years old, i have been helping people with there love lifes, finance’s, Jobs, and just being there for there...
    psychicnicole psychicnicole 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I didn't have the best childhood. My mom remarried three times. The first time she had a son who is four years older than me. His name is Ash and his dad left him. My dad died when...
    cinnamontea cinnamontea 41-45, F a week ago

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    Been stuck in a "holding pattern" for 18 years. So sick of being here, just want to move on to the next chapter.
    AddMeNot AddMeNot 46-50, M a week ago

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    I had a recent situation and i often do this. Where I seek to know what I didn't do right at a not so good out come. I really have become more mature when it comes to accepting my...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Have been unable to find steady work for years. I get very depressed even looking for and applying for work. My "retirement savings" and 2 small bequests from now dead family have...
    Bilbeaux Bilbeaux 61-65, M a week ago

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    All i do is sit at home while my family laughs at me, says I'm useless, that i should kill my, I'm a waist of space on this earth, and a soon to be drop out. And the more i hear it...
    alternative2324 alternative2324 16-17, F Jul 25

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    Frankly, my relationship with my mother sucks. I do not want it to suck. I do not want to be angry with her, but I am so tired. I moved back home over a year ago to get my life...
    DV527 DV527 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    The careers I wanted to do growing up! When I was younger a child I was obsessed with soldiers and wanted to be in the army I love the camouflage gear you have to wear and the...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    If you are truly looking for a way to make money I can help. No scam!
    VanessaIaso VanessaIaso 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I am looking for motivated people who truly want to make money giving people their confidence back and making yourself wealthier in the process
    VanessaIaso VanessaIaso 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    to escape reality would seem to be ideal until you realize your reality shapes your existence......
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23

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    For as long as I could remember everything has always been a struggle. Even now everything is a struggle, I don't know what it feels like to not struggle. I just want to escape it...
    chy08 chy08 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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