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I Want to Be a Father

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    I keep feeling the urge to become a daddy,

    I want to be the kind of daddy to play with my child, make sure they're having fun. I want to have a good rather-kid-relationship with them. I also believe in not hitting your children, that'll only give bad results. I really really want to have a child, I want to do the father...
    Resoner Resoner 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Hey! Dad? Can I Borrow the Keys?

    Hey! Dad? Can I borrow the keys? I may never know what these words feel like. :( I'm forty one, divorced, and lonely. If I met someone today, it would not be just to hang out, and though I've only been with one woman, and I really don't know how to approach a lady, I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Living With Regret

    I am not giving up on becoming a father. I do not have a wife or girlfriend to even be the mother of my children. I am extremely remorseful and ashamed. My dream was to have a family.  I will have one someday, but it will have to be soon. Im no longer a youngster...
    RichaGolfer RichaGolfer 56-60 2 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Should Accept It ...

    I know I should accept that I will never be a father. When I was 8 years old, I was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, and even then, I said I wanted to be a daddy. That has been my dream. And over the years, I've seen other people achieve it ... sometimes when they don't...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2010

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    I really want to be a be a dad.

    But I have really bad luck with relationships. Is there any women who would want to have kids with me? Either raising them together as single parents or maybe even ending up together. Who knows. Message me
    Shenron88 Shenron88 22-25, M 1 Response May 5

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    One Day Perhaps

    It amazes me how I still don't have a child yet. I mean let's be honest, I didn't always practice safe sex. Now though, I'd really like to have one. At work when I see my employees it kind of makes me sad, I see the joy in these new fathers faces and not being able to feel...
    mrpancho mrpancho 31-35, M 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I am 20 yeas old I am at a point in my life

    where I wan to be a father and it honestly I no its wrong but I wan to be a dad so bad that I would sleep with anyone just to be come a dad
    roachD roachD 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I absolutely do want to be a father.

    I wish I was a father already. I want a wife and kids to love
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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