I Want to Be a Father

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    I've always said I wanted to be a young father

    (like 22 years old or something), but I'm 31 now and I have no kids yet! I do love kids and I really want to be a father (I also think I will be a great one :) ) ! There is actually something I really want to do.. maybe some of you will be able to do it first, if you like my...
    zezitch zezitch
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 18, 2015

    Hey! Dad? Can I Borrow the Keys?

    Hey! Dad? Can I borrow the keys? I may never know what these words feel like. :( I'm forty one, divorced, and lonely. If I met someone today, it would not be just to hang out, and though I've only been with one woman, and I really don't know how to approach a lady, I would...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

    I keep feeling the urge to become a daddy,

    I want to be the kind of daddy to play with my child, make sure they're having fun. I want to have a good rather-kid-relationship with them. I also believe in not hitting your children, that'll only give bad results. I really really want to have a child, I want to do the father...
    Resoner Resoner
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 16, 2014

    My dad was not around much growing up

    so i made a vow that no matter what happens with the person i have kids with i will always be there for my child no matter what.
    ZingySpirit ZingySpirit
    22-25, M
    Nov 8, 2015

    I want to have children of my own someday

    but growing up abandoned by my father and don't have a clue what its like so I fear Id be a terrible parent :(
    JayQuill JayQuill
    18-21, M
    Aug 6, 2015

    Living With Regret

    I am not giving up on becoming a father. I do not have a wife or girlfriend to even be the mother of my children. I am extremely remorseful and ashamed. My dream was to have a family.  I will have one someday, but it will have to be soon. Im no longer a youngster...
    RichaGolfer RichaGolfer
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2009

    This is probably the craziest thing I will ever

    say, but I am 16 (turning 17 November 20th) and since September I have been feeling this over whelming desire to be a father. Now of course I am not crazy and stupid so I am not going to be getting my fiancée pregnant anytime soon (yes I am engaged.. <3 but by reading this...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 19, 2014

    I really want to be a be a dad.

    But I have really bad luck with relationships. Is there any women who would want to have kids with me? Either raising them together as single parents or maybe even ending up together. Who knows. Message me
    Shenron88 Shenron88
    26-30, M
    May 5, 2014

    Should Accept It ...

    I know I should accept that I will never be a father. When I was 8 years old, I was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, and even then, I said I wanted to be a daddy. That has been my dream. And over the years, I've seen other people achieve it ... sometimes when they don't...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 6, 2010

    I am 20 yeas old I am at a point in my life

    where I wan to be a father and it honestly I no its wrong but I wan to be a dad so bad that I would sleep with anyone just to be come a dad
    roachD roachD
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2014

    Having seen what my own father went through in

    his life at first I didn't want to be father and it scared me but after words of advice from someone I realise that I can make my own fatherhood experience difference and write new history as I go along..........problem is having that special person to share it with- a partner...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 23, 2014

    Ever since I was 18 I've always wanted to be a

    father and now I'm 25 I just can't find the right woman who wants to have kids with me
    Jamie8925 Jamie8925
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

    I want kids I want to be a dad

    and have a baby I wanted this for so long
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom
    18-21, M
    Aug 6, 2015

    One Day Perhaps

    It amazes me how I still don't have a child yet. I mean let's be honest, I didn't always practice safe sex. Now though, I'd really like to have one. At work when I see my employees it kind of makes me sad, I see the joy in these new fathers faces and not being able to feel...
    ImToolazyforaWittyUseName ImToolazyforaWittyUseName
    31-35, M
    2 Responses May 22, 2012

    My biological clock has officially started

    ticking... As I slowly reach my mid 20s, the idea of going out for a drink and looking for random women to hook up with seems dull. I've had my share of alcohol. I've had so much fun and made so many amazing memories. I experimented with drugs for fun. I did everything a wild...
    Danimmortal Danimmortal
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2014
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