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I Want to Be a Father

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    I am 20 yeas old I am at a point in my life

    where I wan to be a father and it honestly I no its wrong but I wan to be a dad so bad that I would sleep with anyone just to be come a dad
    roachD roachD 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 22, 2014

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    Should Accept It ...

    I know I should accept that I will never be a father. When I was 8 years old, I was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, and even then, I said I wanted to be a daddy. That has been my dream. And over the years, I've seen other people achieve it ... sometimes when they don't...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2010

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    I keep feeling the urge to become a daddy,

    I want to be the kind of daddy to play with my child, make sure they're having fun. I want to have a good rather-kid-relationship with them. I also believe in not hitting your children, that'll only give bad results. I really really want to have a child, I want to do the father...
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2014

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    My biological clock has officially started

    ticking... As I slowly reach my mid 20s, the idea of going out for a drink and looking for random women to hook up with seems dull. I've had my share of alcohol. I've had so much fun and made so many amazing memories. I experimented with drugs for fun. I did everything a wild...
    Danimmortal Danimmortal 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    One Day Perhaps

    It amazes me how I still don't have a child yet. I mean let's be honest, I didn't always practice safe sex. Now though, I'd really like to have one. At work when I see my employees it kind of makes me sad, I see the joy in these new fathers faces and not being able to feel...
    ImToolazyforaWittyUseName ImToolazyforaWittyUseName 31-35, M 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I really want to be a be a dad.

    But I have really bad luck with relationships. Is there any women who would want to have kids with me? Either raising them together as single parents or maybe even ending up together. Who knows. Message me
    Shenron88 Shenron88 26-30, M May 5, 2014

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    Living With Regret

    I am not giving up on becoming a father. I do not have a wife or girlfriend to even be the mother of my children. I am extremely remorseful and ashamed. My dream was to have a family.  I will have one someday, but it will have to be soon. Im no longer a youngster...
    RichaGolfer RichaGolfer 56-60 2 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    This is probably the craziest thing I will ever

    say, but I am 16 (turning 17 November 20th) and since September I have been feeling this over whelming desire to be a father. Now of course I am not crazy and stupid so I am not going to be getting my fiancée pregnant anytime soon (yes I am engaged.. <3 but by reading this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2014

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    I absolutely do want to be a father.

    I wish I was a father already. I want a wife and kids to love
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Having seen what my own father went through in

    his life at first I didn't want to be father and it scared me but after words of advice from someone I realise that I can make my own fatherhood experience difference and write new history as I go along..........problem is having that special person to share it with- a partner...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 23, 2014

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    Hey! Dad? Can I Borrow the Keys?

    Hey! Dad? Can I borrow the keys? I may never know what these words feel like. :( I'm forty one, divorced, and lonely. If I met someone today, it would not be just to hang out, and though I've only been with one woman, and I really don't know how to approach a lady, I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Ever since I was 18 I've always wanted to be a

    father and now I'm 25 I just can't find the right woman who wants to have kids with me
    Jamie8925 Jamie8925 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    I personally don't. I don't feel like I'd enjoy raising kids. The thought of changing diapers is pretty repulsive, and I don't think I'd make a good mother; I don't think I would...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I knew, from an early age that, my father had cheated on my mother 15 years ago he actually showed me a video of him with another woman under his arms as if it to say it was a...
    Synapse81 Synapse81 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    it was eight years ago when i saw myself holding a degree and lots of hopes and aspirations attached to that moment. but yes i definitely was not mature enough to understand the...
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Wow I don't even know where to start….but in a nutshell, my father has been emotionally manipulative and abusive for his entire life. I did not really feel the wrath of his evil...
    kimalee77 kimalee77 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I am 62 and just found out that my father was not my biological father. The man I thought was my father died when I was four years old I always grieved loved and yearned for the...
    jjames7118 jjames7118 61-65, F 3 days ago

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    Ugh for 13 years I have been in this akward halfway-moved out spot. Like being an criminal whos at one of these houses right befor making it on his own? and fuctioning in the real...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    thebroken16 thebroken16 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If we demand that congress defund Planned Parenthood (as we should), we cannot expect God to hear our prayers and give us success in this if we do not simultaneously with all of...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just had a DNA test to prove that the man on my birth certificate is not my father. I am 46 and knew my whole life, but my mother was in deep denial. The man who is my father is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 22

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    I'm so scared of becoming a father. Really I want to have a kid so bad but I'm not sure I'll ever be mature enough to handle the responsibility. I hope I'm wrong about that though...
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M Jul 21

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    I see all of these people posting about how they hate their fathers. Honestly, I could never comprehend what its like to even have a father. Most of my life has been without that...
    Mightyzaxor Mightyzaxor 18-21, M Jul 21

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    My family both on my dad and mom's side has not see a good father for some time now. I don't know any man in my family that has been a good father. My step dad is a good one, the...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I know I will get slated for this by a lot of people. But hopefully a few may have some advice. I am 27. I have been with my husband for 8 years (married 3). We have 2 children. I...
    paytonmommy paytonmommy 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    So, my girlfriend and I just got into a big argument. My girlfriend has a child. A sweet little girl that i try to treat as i would my own child. That baby's father is in prison in...
    KadeemRossi KadeemRossi 18-21, M Jul 20

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    I never appreciated my father the way I should have through my teen years. I rebelled against his rules, his strictness. It would eventually get so bad that I would leave home on...
    BebeMac BebeMac 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 19

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    very nice messages A famous writer was in his study room. He picked up his pen and started writing : **Last year, I had a surgery and my gall bladder was removed. I had to stay...
    bvaghela bvaghela 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 19

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    This is somewhat comforting knowing that there are so many other women out there that are having the same problems with their father in laws. I have been in my relationship for 10...
    Katiemiss Katiemiss 26-30, F Jul 19

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    I am gloriously 40 next month, genuinely looking forward to it. I also have a 23 year old daughter from a previous (read, teenage fling) relationship. I love my daughter...
    milotank milotank 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    How can you live with a bad man who has affected your and your mother and sisters' lives so negatively. I cannot find away to calm myself. His rude and bad words in his speaking...
    maryam85 maryam85 26-30, F Jul 18

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    At age 24 I want to have a baby. I'm 20 right now. I want a baby at that age because i can grow up while my baby growing up. I might be the girl who's having twins because my dad...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 18

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    I have a family but still I feel so lone. My father never said no for any luxury I demanded. Mother is mentally ill. Brother is arrogant and blames me for everything wrong in his...
    acoolstud99 acoolstud99 22-25, M Jul 18

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    He doesn't have to be a child's biological dad. You can spot a good father, in the making, just by how he treats your kids. To be honest, I find guys like that to be very...
    CreoleItalianwoman CreoleItalianwoman 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I go back and forth between living with my mother and father every few years. My father runs his very own tractor repair shop all on his own! He gets about three new machines each...
    nadiabowls nadiabowls 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    My father was a great successful person worked hard all his life so his family could live a nice comfortable life. My father is as Important to me as mother
    maj32 maj32 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I hate him so much, I never know I had the ability to hate someone before I met him! he's a horrible father, stepfather and husband. he makes the kids and my mom clean the whole...
    SpideyAlyx SpideyAlyx 13-15, M 11 Responses Jul 15

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