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I Want to Be a Father

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    I absolutely do want to be a father.

    I wish I was a father already. I want a wife and kids to love
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Having seen what my own father went through in

    his life at first I didn't want to be father and it scared me but after words of advice from someone I realise that I can make my own fatherhood experience difference and write new history as I go along..........problem is having that special person to share it with- a partner...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 23, 2014

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    I want kids I want to be a dad

    and have a baby I wanted this for so long
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom 18-21, M Aug 6

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    Should Accept It ...

    I know I should accept that I will never be a father. When I was 8 years old, I was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, and even then, I said I wanted to be a daddy. That has been my dream. And over the years, I've seen other people achieve it ... sometimes when they don't...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2010

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    Hey! Dad? Can I Borrow the Keys?

    Hey! Dad? Can I borrow the keys? I may never know what these words feel like. :( I'm forty one, divorced, and lonely. If I met someone today, it would not be just to hang out, and though I've only been with one woman, and I really don't know how to approach a lady, I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    My biological clock has officially started

    ticking... As I slowly reach my mid 20s, the idea of going out for a drink and looking for random women to hook up with seems dull. I've had my share of alcohol. I've had so much fun and made so many amazing memories. I experimented with drugs for fun. I did everything a wild...
    Danimmortal Danimmortal 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    One Day Perhaps

    It amazes me how I still don't have a child yet. I mean let's be honest, I didn't always practice safe sex. Now though, I'd really like to have one. At work when I see my employees it kind of makes me sad, I see the joy in these new fathers faces and not being able to feel...
    ImToolazyforaWittyUseName ImToolazyforaWittyUseName 31-35, M 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I keep feeling the urge to become a daddy,

    I want to be the kind of daddy to play with my child, make sure they're having fun. I want to have a good rather-kid-relationship with them. I also believe in not hitting your children, that'll only give bad results. I really really want to have a child, I want to do the father...
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2014

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    Ever since I was 18 I've always wanted to be a

    father and now I'm 25 I just can't find the right woman who wants to have kids with me
    Jamie8925 Jamie8925 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    I am 20 yeas old I am at a point in my life

    where I wan to be a father and it honestly I no its wrong but I wan to be a dad so bad that I would sleep with anyone just to be come a dad
    roachD roachD 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 22, 2014

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    This is probably the craziest thing I will ever

    say, but I am 16 (turning 17 November 20th) and since September I have been feeling this over whelming desire to be a father. Now of course I am not crazy and stupid so I am not going to be getting my fiancée pregnant anytime soon (yes I am engaged.. <3 but by reading this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 19, 2014

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    I really want to be a be a dad.

    But I have really bad luck with relationships. Is there any women who would want to have kids with me? Either raising them together as single parents or maybe even ending up together. Who knows. Message me
    Shenron88 Shenron88 26-30, M May 5, 2014

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    Living With Regret

    I am not giving up on becoming a father. I do not have a wife or girlfriend to even be the mother of my children. I am extremely remorseful and ashamed. My dream was to have a family.  I will have one someday, but it will have to be soon. Im no longer a youngster...
    RichaGolfer RichaGolfer 56-60 2 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    I want to have children of my own someday

    but growing up abandoned by my father and don't have a clue what its like so I fear Id be a terrible parent :(
    JayQuill JayQuill 16-17, M Aug 6

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    I'm still trying to figure out how to cope with not having a father in my life. I have 3 older siblings, the oldest being 25. My father left when I was almost 2 years old. And...
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    My son will be 1 son and he's never met his father. He's met plenty of other people that fall in love with him immediately, and his father has even admitted to being totally...
    ros89 ros89 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I never met my real father and sometimes I wonder if he just didn't want me he never talked to me I never saw his face,and he never saw mine I wonder if he was nice or just a jerk...
    Devonrucker1234 Devonrucker1234 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'll try to make this short and simple for those of who do not like to read long paragraphs. I'm writing my story because it has been locked up inside of me for so long. I want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    Do you really? My story has lots of flaws like most. Not something people want to hear about. But here it goes: When I was born, I was upside down, I got stuck in my moms pelvis...
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    Liftofferik Liftofferik 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    i dont know my birth father, it's not because he was a dead beat, its not because he walked out, it's because my incubator (birth mom) slepped with everyone. you see she was a...
    goodstarmiller goodstarmiller 22-25, F a week ago

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    I feel a void in my heart for never having a normal relationship with my dad though I have always tried but he is a very selfish and egocentric man who is also controlling and...
    yorah yorah 18-21, F a week ago

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    One Horrific Night In the Old Eastern Bloc- A little child should be nothing except peaceful and safe sleeping beside his mother. Unless this little 8 year old child is with his...
    DanteRhymes DanteRhymes 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    Well my father is a pleaser? Or what ever you called someone who love to pleased other people. The main problem is he only love to pleased OTHER people and not his wife or...
    Whiploo Whiploo 18-21, F Aug 16

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    This... is something I've never shared out side of my significant other. But I feel, if it's out there, someone somewhere will begin to read this very text and be witness to the...
    Discordiah Discordiah 18-21, F Aug 15

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    Lies,lies,and lies! My Uncles Were My Role Models and I Owe My Life To Them- My younger sister and I resided in the home of our paternal grandparents with our grandmother as...
    RunEun RunEun 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    And there was my master….. Three years ago during a routine depressing day of my life I was forced by my father to go to a college for some vacancy, which he wanted me to avail...
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    Today my father used me as a table, literally used me as a table. He put a glass of juice on to of me without permission, and it accidentally spilled on my clothes and floor. Then...
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    When I was a child my dad used to beat me over little mistakes I didn't intend to make. Throughout my life he's always been abusive. Up until now he calls me names and slams me all...
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