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I Want to Be a Father

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    I am 20 yeas old I am at a point in my life

    where I wan to be a father and it honestly I no its wrong but I wan to be a dad so bad that I would sleep with anyone just to be come a dad
    roachD roachD 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 22, 2014

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    I absolutely do want to be a father.

    I wish I was a father already. I want a wife and kids to love
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 24, 2014

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    Having seen what my own father went through in

    his life at first I didn't want to be father and it scared me but after words of advice from someone I realise that I can make my own fatherhood experience difference and write new history as I go along..........problem is having that special person to share it with- a partner...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 23, 2014

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    Living With Regret

    I am not giving up on becoming a father. I do not have a wife or girlfriend to even be the mother of my children. I am extremely remorseful and ashamed. My dream was to have a family.  I will have one someday, but it will have to be soon. Im no longer a youngster...
    RichaGolfer RichaGolfer 56-60 2 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Ever since I was 18 I've always wanted to be a

    father and now I'm 25 I just can't find the right woman who wants to have kids with me
    Jamie8925 Jamie8925 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    This is probably the craziest thing I will ever

    say, but I am 16 (turning 17 November 20th) and since September I have been feeling this over whelming desire to be a father. Now of course I am not crazy and stupid so I am not going to be getting my fiancée pregnant anytime soon (yes I am engaged.. <3 but by reading this...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M Oct 19, 2014

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    Hey! Dad? Can I Borrow the Keys?

    Hey! Dad? Can I borrow the keys? I may never know what these words feel like. :( I'm forty one, divorced, and lonely. If I met someone today, it would not be just to hang out, and though I've only been with one woman, and I really don't know how to approach a lady, I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    I keep feeling the urge to become a daddy,

    I want to be the kind of daddy to play with my child, make sure they're having fun. I want to have a good rather-kid-relationship with them. I also believe in not hitting your children, that'll only give bad results. I really really want to have a child, I want to do the father...
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2014

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    I really want to be a be a dad.

    But I have really bad luck with relationships. Is there any women who would want to have kids with me? Either raising them together as single parents or maybe even ending up together. Who knows. Message me
    Shenron88 Shenron88 26-30, M 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    One Day Perhaps

    It amazes me how I still don't have a child yet. I mean let's be honest, I didn't always practice safe sex. Now though, I'd really like to have one. At work when I see my employees it kind of makes me sad, I see the joy in these new fathers faces and not being able to feel...
    ImToolazyforaWittyUseName ImToolazyforaWittyUseName 31-35, M 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    Should Accept It ...

    I know I should accept that I will never be a father. When I was 8 years old, I was asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, and even then, I said I wanted to be a daddy. That has been my dream. And over the years, I've seen other people achieve it ... sometimes when they don't...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2010

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    My biological clock has officially started

    ticking... As I slowly reach my mid 20s, the idea of going out for a drink and looking for random women to hook up with seems dull. I've had my share of alcohol. I've had so much fun and made so many amazing memories. I experimented with drugs for fun. I did everything a wild...
    Danimmortal Danimmortal 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    Maybe you guys can help me sort out what's happening with my family. I'm not really sure if my father is narcissistic, or if he has some other problem, but I know that he...
    Cocoona Cocoona 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    I never got to know my father as a child since my parents separated by the time I was a year old. My father then moved from ATL to Pittsburgh where he met his second wife and her...
    mlemieux19 mlemieux19 36-40, M 10 hrs ago

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    What is the measure of a good father? Is it the toys he can buy? The rubber shoes from a thrift store? Tell lies about their mother? The few minutes he jokes with them, then leaves...
    Leeza1964 Leeza1964 46-50, M 1 Response May 17

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    Since I was 17 after finding out my father cheated on my mother I have yet to forgive my father for what he did to our family. This is not the only issue that has led me to resent...
    claribel8318 claribel8318 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Let me first say that I and my father don't have a close relationship. He has controlled my whole life ever since I was born and treats me like some slave. This happened a few...
    KatieLynn13 KatieLynn13 18-21, F Apr 30

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    I don't have a relationship with my father, I mean, he calls me once in a while, but besides that, nothing. I recently reached the age in which I yearn for a father. Before, I didn...
    heylolno heylolno 13-15, F 2 Responses May 6

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    Why are there so many fathers who just don't want to be fathers? There are way to many boys nowadays with no father figure and way too many single mothers that struggle because the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses May 13

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    Last year I went all out for father's day. I invited my husband and his kids to an event, and it cost me a pretty penny. I considered it a success, it was laid back and...
    wickedtornado wickedtornado 36-40, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I'm not sure where else to turn... When little one was born her father decided he didn't want to be bothered. So I petitioned to take him to court to submit his DNA for a test...
    conflicted2012 conflicted2012 22-25 May 20

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    I hate my father. He was a drug addict, and an abuser. He terrorized me, dragged me through poverty and hell, he ruined my credit (he stole my identity and put two evictions, a...
    rkmarco rkmarco 36-40, F 3 Responses May 8

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    Hi guys, This is my first post on anything and after reading about a 1000 stories and experiences, I decided to post mine on here. I promise not to right a mini novella... I was...
    Slither12 Slither12 16-17, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Now that Singapore is Fatherless, I wish to appoint myself as the new father of Singapore from this day, to guide the future. In fact, no father of any nation was self-appointed...
    NewFatherofSG NewFatherofSG 46-50, M 1 Response May 16

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    Mothers are the soul of our homes………whereas fathers are their very existence. But have we given much thought to the nature of this existence? Little is written or said about...
    valha11a valha11a 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Father keeps an important place in our life. Our father teaches us how we should survive in this world. Father makes us educated and tells us the reality of life. Father always...
    muslimboy123 muslimboy123 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm torn, as I think sometimes fathers are important. I dream of the day I can cut my abusive SOB father out of my life for good. That would mean letting go of my mom and brother...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Happy Mothers Day to all mothers!!! A much more special Happy Day to men out there like my Father raising children on their own without the help of a parent. A mother is given the...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F May 10

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    When I was a teenager and I was a sixth former ,I had couple weeks left until my exams came up. One day I was revising for my sociology exam, then my heck of my father came in and...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 1 Response May 3

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    What do you think this chapter is saying, Is Jesus god ? or considered god because God is his father, and he is the son so they share the same nature ? :ACCORDING TO JOHN 1 In the...
    Thelaughingman34983 Thelaughingman34983 31-35, M 1 Response May 19

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    I don't know if there is any Irish people here on experience project. I am hoping there is at least one or two that may know what to do after I explain what is going on in my life...
    naainaii naainaii 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Hi my name is Cat! I am trying to start a fresh off the press campaign that brings a controversial topic to light from a less conventional platform. I seek refuge in a new yet old...
    cat0329 cat0329 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I know some people never had father and maybe worse, just hear me out. i don't really hate him i just don't like him, he is always angry always yelling at me since i was a kid, i...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    JESUS PREDICTED HIS OWN CRUCIFIXION AND DEATH. Jesus was not afraid to die. In fact, He predicted His own death and resurrection Matthew 16:21 - From that time on Jesus began...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 5

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    Around the time when I was 8-10, my father was diagnosed with the Bipolar disorder. My father was really depressed and me and my mom started to notice it. Sometime before or after...
    MyBFFLovesTurtles MyBFFLovesTurtles 13-15, F 1 Response May 6

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    I am a father myself. I grew up with a father who was present but wasn't there. As a result, i had trouble with my identity as a man. Got into the wrong crowd. Got into trouble. A...
    a1v1n25 a1v1n25 31-35, M 3 Responses May 14

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    I cannot describe it, I just do. And I know it's not completely normal to want to be alone, and by alone I mean really just by myself, just me. It's because I feel like the people...
    Mstootiredtocare Mstootiredtocare 18-21, F May 15

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    While I would never dismiss the endless work of a single parent raising children, I truly admire the family that has a good father as its leader. The children and wife seem to be...
    bunnigirl bunnigirl 46-50, F 2 Responses May 19

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    Growing up, my father was very strict. I used to hate how he would correct everything I did, yell, scream, spank, and every other manner of punishment. Made me do chores, get a job...
    digitaloverload digitaloverload 36-40, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ever since I was a child, age 5, my father made a promise to me; one that kept close to my heart. He told me 'No matter what, I will always be there for you.' and I believed him...
    AmaterasuNoOkami AmaterasuNoOkami 16-17, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    How to Quiet the Mind - By Gina Lake The mind is a wonderful tool for thinking, but it has a dark side. There is an aspect of the mind that is not useful but pretends to be...
    imurfriend imurfriend 26-30, F May 2

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    1. I don't drink coffee. I like the smell, but the taste is something I just never truly enjoyed. 2. Arcade Fire and The Killers wrote songs that are about VERY SPECIFIC problems I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 8

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