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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 334 People

    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M Jan 25, 2012

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    We (me and my husband) very different. We use to talk in the beginning and we could share some ideas or opinions. Now we don't talk unless we complain or remind that something...
    LeahNl LeahNl 31-35, F 3 Responses 55 mins ago

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    I found myself having an affair with a man who has a girlfriend. I wanted it to be just that one time because I get attached, but he kept instigating and I kept seeing him. He has...
    earthyogi earthyogi 41-45, F 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Personally from past relationships, the relationship ends as lovers but we are still great friends. I always go into a relationship with a great friendship because a relationship...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I would love for him to be my best friend first and then slowly overtime we fall madly in love. He would be my homie, my bestie, my lover. Our relationship would be far from boring...
    CheyenneScott CheyenneScott 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    Okay, maybe I kinda over exaggerated about everything in my Long distance relationship. We'll my "boyfriend" posted a picture on Instagram and it said he took the photo at some...
    sweetlove2014 sweetlove2014 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    An age different couple married 20 years knows the meaning of how to be lovers and BEST friends at the same time....I love that 6
    dextermlap dextermlap 46-50, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think that is very important in any relationship
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I wish my bestfriend(girlfriend) would be able to come over and spend the night without any suspicions
    Drea0o0 Drea0o0 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I have liked this girl ever since junior high. It's so bad that they appear in my dreams. She's a really good friend of mine and i'm afraid of losing her by taking it too far...
    dantheman0118 dantheman0118 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I just keep thinking of Jenna and Matt from 13 Going on 30 ❤️
    GigiCoeli GigiCoeli 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    lol, this is dream since i was teenage
    keflo keflo 36-40, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    is it too much to ask????????looking for 13-15 girl
    mustafakhattak mustafakhattak 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    You inspired the deepest most profound poetry I never thought I had the ability to write. You inspired the deepest most profound feelings that led me into an obsession with you. As...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 29.. But until now, I cannot truly say that I have fallen madly in love with someone.. Yes, I am married and I may have loved him somewhere in between but I cannot really say...
    purplefreespirit purplefreespirit 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I hate fighting so much! There's nothing great about it unless you are fighting for the one you love, but I'd rather talk things out and hope for the best.
    faithomfg faithomfg 16-17, F 1 Response 23 mins ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    so my husband and I are trying to have our 2nd baby. I had the most real vivid dream ever last night. My childhood centered around my great grandparnets. The partys we had there...
    melly0727 melly0727 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I like coffee anytime of the day !! I can finish a cup 5 minutes before I go to bed and still sleep !! I like BLACK Coffee: no cream, no sugar, no syrup, no whipped cream.... I...
    MysticTraveler MysticTraveler 51-55, M 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Attention please! Attention please! 'Attention please! Attention please! Don't dare to talk! Don't dare to sneeze! Don't doze or daydream! Stay awake! Your health, your very life...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    Come on ladies, you are no bundle of fun either. We men like to explore, have fun, travel, and be with our buddies much more than being with you. Why is that? Most every man I...
    mbb50 mbb50 61-65, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Hi, I am faced with a problem for my cousin who shared this following story with me about a game some tricksters played posing as love. I am burning to hit these guys in the face...
    jwalasingh jwalasingh 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    one look into her dark eyes, and i am lost with happiness, she's got the greatest smile of all, her sweet voice makes all my weaknesses resurface, she knows how to comfort me, how...
    womanonly womanonly 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I just want someone to talk to late at night and just someone who is nice and has a great personality. Also someone who won't judge me, who's smart and who's just chill.
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    1. I’m a 17 year old girl going into my senior year. 2. I’m 5 ft 6,” and I have dark brown eyes and wavy hair. 3.I have yet to meet someone that has said/spelled my name...
    mairesequin mairesequin 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    Part 1 It was the lunch hour for Sister Angela Marie's third grade class and one child could hardly eat the noodles his mother had packed. He would fork some up to his mouth and...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M Jul 14

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    The Restless Heart of Ones Soul: Trinity Has it been that long since I have set foot upon these great halls of life's chapters? I come not bringing Hope and Faith but thoughts...
    GateKeepersLight9 GateKeepersLight9 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I was in an abusive relationship as a teenager. We met in high school, he was a few years older than me, and for the first 4 months it was wonderful, then he moved away, and slowly...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Whenever im in a relationship, in about 2 months or less i feel already non- exited anymore. I become more quiet and the whole magic of the flirting and laughing is gone , and then...
    mcalderon89 mcalderon89 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    Is this you? If you look for things in a lover, you fail to see the lover. These are the things I find, when I am not looking - they are so much more precious that way! A...
    yulico yulico 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 27

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    Hi how you doing you look great
    Rampersaud Rampersaud 13-15, T 1 Response Jul 1

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    Can't get the lovely ladies out of my mind. Life would be great. <3
    ichellemay ichellemay 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    This doesn't really have to be a serious thing, but I just want an online wife. A kind and innocent girl who I can just talk with as if we are a close friends. I don't really want...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    The sights, the sounds, the smells - I just love being in nature. It's a shame the cities and suburbs are taking over the beauty and majesty of this great land. Once peaceful...
    sassystacey sassystacey 22-25, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a coffee snob. I roast my own coffee. Once you've start you'll never go back. The other thing I do cold brew , this is great it take 66% of the acidly out of the coffee I've...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love cats cause my mom is a cat lover so I some what became one. I have my own cats. We saved her kind of. Her owner want to put her asleep cause they were to lazy to look for...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F Jun 23

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    He is the light of my life. He makes my life worth living. We've never met , but I'm sure it will happen one day because we both want it. We are not just lovers. We are good...
    ascentofawoman67 ascentofawoman67 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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