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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 344 People

    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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