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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 347 People

    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    i want a lover who is also my best friend but all the time i found people who just want sex n horny ... i want polite people but wat i get are rude people .... i am sad no one love...
    HalleluiaIauwe777777777777 HalleluiaIauwe777777777777 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    I want a lover who can be here for me forever,understand me,like my best friend.who will never let me worry about being abandoned.it is such a romantic and beautiful dream.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would love him unconditionally and give him all of my heart, he would do the same in return. I will look after every part of him. His body mind spirit and his soul. As what I...
    Mindaqueen Mindaqueen 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 6

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    im looking for a future husband or a boyfiend...i am a lesbian lover before..
    loulady loulady 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 6

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    every time i see this experience posted on my home screen, that song by John Mellencamp I Need A Lover (that wont drive me crazy) pops in my head.
    ThePastIsDead ThePastIsDead 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    my lord, yes...a best friend and a lover in one: perfection.
    mycatisbettrthanyurs mycatisbettrthanyurs 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    Yes I really really do! So badly. Somebody who knows me with the drop of a hat. Who can read me INSTANTLY. Somebody I can share and talk about anything with. But also somebody that...
    23kk23 23kk23 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    Nowadays, Its difficult to find a Lover who become your bestfriend. Specially when you are in dating site, There are fake and scammer people. If not, they're asking your nude...
    gnehs28 gnehs28 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 11

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    When you're young and just discovering your sexuality it's mostly about the thrill. As you mature you fall in love, but your first love is often not your best or even truly a...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I'm so so close to this... But it seems even with these things, we won't be in a relationship for some time. But this week, we're together. He flew me thousands of miles to him...
    prettyprude prettyprude 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I did date my best friend. We had/have been friends for four years now. We always had a special connection. We dated for over a year, I thought we were okay, but then he suddenly...
    whispersweetnothings whispersweetnothings 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 4

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    My best friend asked me out. 😍 I wanted him to do that forever
    immarunner13 immarunner13 16-17, F Mar 7

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    i want a woman that explores intimacy with me where we are both quivering and pulsating after s*x but also somebody who i can love and care for as i watch her smile light up the...
    CrazyAussieGuy CrazyAussieGuy 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    once upon a time i fell in love with a girl who i never really talked to but became best friends with in a matter of weeks. after a month passed, i made a move and we dated. that...
    ThatOtherGuy17 ThatOtherGuy17 16-17, M 6 Responses Mar 11

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    I want a man that will be my best friend, spoil me like a princess and treat me like a queen. Be my other half.
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 15

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    Well I can't really say that I WANT one anymore Because I have one At least in my view
    CosplayPotato CosplayPotato 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm looking good friends to make sharing my happiness.. if any want to be friend.. plz message me
    immanul immanul 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 22

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    I want a girl who I can call my gf bit also my best friend someone I can be weird with and just be comfortable around her but until that time I can wait..
    LuisB3344 LuisB3344 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just want a boyfriend, that i could play GTA V or other games on my PS3, practice wrestling every Sunday, share a pop tart together and take our dogs to the park and walk them...
    annaambrose annaambrose 16-17 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Everyone keeps asking me why I'm single. Well it's simple really ... Mr. Charming and I have yet to meet
    girlznglitter girlznglitter 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    I would really like to share the human experience with someone equally as curious and whimsical about life as I am.
    Floramundi Floramundi 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I feel like im never going to receive genuine love from a girl and that scares me :( usually girls talk to me because I'm not bad looking but iv never connected with a girl on a...
    omganime omganime 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 5

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    My best friend and I actually did fall in love with each other over the summer, and it was awesome to know that someone feels that way about you, but the situation was terrible...
    QueenTea QueenTea 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 5

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    plzzz...i need someone who can give me a baby..hahah
    loulady loulady 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 6

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    BestFriend or GirlFriend... The Confusion... Hello Charming Guys and Beautiful Girls of EP... My book 'A Tryst With Hell' is free on Amazon Kindle for three days... If anybody...
    themercator themercator 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 6

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    This is pure bullshit. People who live in Fantasy Land think this way.
    mom4ce mom4ce 51-55, F 6 Responses Mar 6

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    I am committed life to living to the fullest and in growing as a person. Having fun is very important to me and I am looking for someone with whom I can share life's experiences...
    karangie karangie 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 6

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    http://youtu.be/4kHl4FoK1Ys
    ImForYouOnly ImForYouOnly 36-40, M Mar 8

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    Yeah that would be good, just a beautiful life of love between me, her, and god almighty.
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M Mar 8

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    i am not gonna pursue women. Its overrated to be quite honest. im gonna self-improve, and the romantic interests and losses on the way arent my problem. **** having a broken...
    Tarxarin Tarxarin 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 8