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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 338 People

    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    i want a Lover, to talk about all my problems....to keep me company when im stressed or upset.. sigh* to be close to me always....like my best friends
    joethangbali joethangbali 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 4

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    Hello I am Suresh, 23yrs. I am from India and completed high school. I love the people who likes me and who gives me importance. and I want a lover who is also my best friend...
    suresh9015 suresh9015 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I know that I am fortunate enough to have this right now in my life. A manager that I used to work with, Maggie, told little Tina and me that her husband is her best friend, and...
    MiZShortiiE MiZShortiiE 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    To my other half: What I hate about you ( What hurts me): 1. I didn't see you laugh (anymore) everytime you are with me. I really wat to see you smile/happy/less serious when we...
    crimoholic24 crimoholic24 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Have you ever had that feeling in your heart that consumes you? The feeling that drives you to go on and complete it. For me that feeling is love. I'm driven to love. To satisfy...
    ShadowFax97 ShadowFax97 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    I have been thinking a lot about where I am in life now. On the verge of a divorce, charging through school and on a great graduation trajectory, and I realize I'll soon have a job...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am alone in this world. God is there, but I need touch. Someone who will actually reply with words. The only thing I want in this life someone who loves me not because they feel...
    veeisme75 veeisme75 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    One day I will wake up and look across my bed at a woman I love with all my heart. One day I will have someone who accept me for me and is both a lover and a friend. I want someone...
    ShadowFax97 ShadowFax97 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 8

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    Its wierd. .I am friendly person, what u see is what you get..mostly I care very well to my dear friends and most of my companion are guys..I mean no harm and I look at them as...
    xentina xentina 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    isnt that what the basis of any kind of relationship is?- friendship?! well, at least to me it is. before being a bf/ Gf it's important to first be good friends. one looks for...
    ira01 ira01 26-30, F 16 Responses Oct 30

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    i dont like this idea. if things isnt working out, wont it feel like youre losing two important persons in your life? lover and best friend.... though i also think, most...
    Vtine Vtine 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    This is my first time writing. I looked for awhile online to find a site I could remain anonymous and feel safe. This is the only thing I could do to not cheat on my husband. I...
    naomiR1 naomiR1 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    I want to engage on all levels. I want to engage you and I deserve for you to engage me. I want to be able to share everything and anything with you, if I choose. I may not but the...
    DiaLuz DiaLuz 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    I want a relationship that will last. I want to be with someone who is willing to love me for me!
    hashtagcxlejpg hashtagcxlejpg 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 2

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    i am with a guy i was friends with i want him to love me as i am accept me as i am and know he is not hiding things. but i know he is. i am so sad i wanted so much and soon. smack...
    ennaoj05 ennaoj05 36-40 1 Response Nov 4

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    I want one of those relationships where trust is the strongest thing. I want to fall in love with a man who knows my flaws and loves me for them. Someone who is with me through...
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 15

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    I have a girl who I see as a good friend and want to see of the possibility of it going further, yet when I'm with her, I want to ask her stuff but my mind goes blank and can't...
    Ghostshadow82 Ghostshadow82 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 15

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    I am poor,disabled, pretty, and wise in alot of areas. I don't have the money to travel....but I feel my mate is far from these parts. I wish I could post this on a dating site...
    queenyann queenyann 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    i want to marry my high school sweet heart.
    bblluuee bblluuee 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 25

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    I want to find a woman to be with me for life, to trust them implicitly and have no fear that they will waver. But I due to a bunch of **** in my past I just can't seem to trust...
    watamesoulscw watamesoulscw 22-25, M 8 Responses Oct 27

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    Any females around Long Island NY., younger than 33 or so that want a relationship no head games, fun, outgoing, sweet romantic. I am into thin women, sorry just a preference.
    GuysFinishLast GuysFinishLast 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 2

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    all I want is love and happiness...,never done this before...who will give me a chance
    bryanbur bryanbur 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 3

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    I am not really interested in finding a boyfriend (weird, even though I'm still sixteen), but I do want someone who will cherish me, love me, and understand me like a best friend...
    steensonv steensonv 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    What sucks is that you think you find that person and they leave for the smallest reasons that could be easily fixed but instead of staying when things get hard, they want to leave...
    heyitsalysia heyitsalysia 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 4

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    Recently I hurt my boyfriends feelings, he said that I've hurt something inside but he don't know what, I said I think it your pride. He said maybe.. We didn't talk for few days...
    missree missree 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 6

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    Don't ask for much do I like,alls I want is a nice little boyfriend who I can also call my bestfriend,depresses meπŸ˜’πŸ˜’
    queencxnt queencxnt 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 10

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    I want him back.. :( story's too short.
    DesiredUsername23 DesiredUsername23 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 13

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    Being single means you can realize what you really want, and wait for the right one is worthwhile :)
    Sungood Sungood 31-35, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I feel alone and very inexperienced because I have never had a boyfriend. Everyone tells me how cute I am and I have an amazing personality, yet I can't even get a date. I guess my...
    TheNewChico TheNewChico 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Soooo this so cliche and kind of a movie stereotype I have a best friend (a girl) how has another friend (a boy) and I really like him like really I have a crush on him for like a...
    alek42 alek42 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    People on here complain about others useing this site for dating but feel it's perfect because it describes potential partners on a deep exp. level that's not captured on dating...
    whatsname whatsname 22-25, M Nov 1

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    I love you my babyboy!!! Your my boo and I love you
    singleboy145 singleboy145 16-17, M 3 Responses Nov 2

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    my bf calls me names all the time been together for nearly a year now. It mostly happens in the morning if I wake him or he dose not get his own way. They are very hurt full names...
    nickyb1989 nickyb1989 22-25, F 27 Responses Nov 3

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    I love my babygirl I love you!!!!
    singleboy145 singleboy145 16-17, M Nov 3

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    I'm just a young single and educated black male,who is too lazy/shy to say hi to the Everly fast walking beautiful London women... :) I'm 26yrs old,5ft 6in tall/short :) Dating...
    justchecking26 justchecking26 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 4 <