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I Want to Be a Great Lover

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M Jan 25, 2012

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I posted a couple days ago go check it out. Update: I learned that how I felt towards the other guy was just an infatuation.. But at the same time I learned that my bf and I were...
    Isaiah4310 Isaiah4310 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Okay let me start by saying I'm 19 and I am in a relationship with a beautiful girl who is 17. We live on the same block and have been dating two weeks after met a year ago. We've...
    djwdjw19 djwdjw19 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Thre is no greater moment in life 4me than when a beautiful sex starved woman explodes in ****** while I'm eating her.
    Oldchap Oldchap 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Feeling great today.. I am a happy person in the world... I saw my friend the that I like it... And when I saw him was so different my heart beatfast...and we talk.. I start laugh...
    lovewhatweneed lovewhatweneed 16-17, F Sep 3

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    I've been sleeping with an acquaintance for the last month. He stays the whole night, sometimes at my place, sometimes at his. We can be rough and nasty, or sweet and tender. He...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    I don't want to just meet someone I am attracted to and be in a relationship with them right away. I want to get to know the person and be friends with them first. Why? Because you...
    ConfidentSpeaker ConfidentSpeaker 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    I want a best friend who is a boy. Maybe not a lover but a best friend who is a boy. Who will understand me, care for me for who I am, thinks I'm beautiful, and listens to all my...
    NeedForBones NeedForBones 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a lover who is also my best friend. But for some reason I want more.. This other guy. But it feels wrong to leave someone who is so good to me for someone I just met.
    Isaiah4310 Isaiah4310 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Would love a lover who is into swinging because I am thinking of getting into it
    Adriano38 Adriano38 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    From what I've seen growing up, and being a product of high school sweethearts, I believe that's it's very important to have a lover that's a best friend.
    MrBigg0599 MrBigg0599 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I think that's so cool to have a lover that's ur bestfriend
    suprbrian suprbrian 56-60, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I want to meet a girl who loves me for who I am and doesn't care what anyone thinks. I want a girl who isn't scared to be herself. I want a girl to love who loves me in return...
    confusedandcomplicated5 confusedandcomplicated5 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    I really really really want that!! I want a guy I can laugh with and be myself around. I want a true friendship and a romance with physical intimacy :/
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 2

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    This would be just too awesome! -Yo, what's up? -Not much, just bored. -So, want to go out, play video games, get some beers and have some sex? -Dude you are so disrespectful...
    Joojo3 Joojo3 22-25, F 8 Responses Sep 3

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    I don't want a girlfriend of anything but I'd like to have a best friend who's a girl. I'm sad about a couple things that have happened over the last few months that I'm not...
    nobleman1341 nobleman1341 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was with a guy who I felt like we were each other's soul mates but he had a lot of problems he became a drug addict and went to jail he's also bipolar. He is doing much better...
    1sweetnurse 1sweetnurse 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Scrollin thru and seen this...and my mind thought about it til my heart ached about too... Sucks to want.
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M Aug 17

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    Im in relationship w/c i considered such a damn so lame...due to culture differences i've to accept that we cant be together & our expiration time may comes..but for now i really...
    skullmeggy skullmeggy 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    All I want is a man who can make me laugh, make me trust him and be as adventurous as I am. Someone who can snowboard and loves the snow as much as me. Quite frankly it is hard to...
    Mzwalker Mzwalker 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 25

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    Is it too much to ask for...somebody to have sex with regularly who gets me, will not desert me, and genuinely wants to spend time with me?
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I have managed to keep my head above water all this time, but my depression is making the waves higher and higher, I feel alone, and losing my motivation to keep swimming. I just...
    miserableme27 miserableme27 22-25, M 11 Responses Aug 29

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    I really want to find someone who loves me and that I love. Why is it so hard?
    alek42 alek42 18-21, M 10 Responses Aug 29

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    I want someone I can trust. Someone I can tell my deepest darkest secrets to. Someone to make me smile and laugh each and everyday. Someone that can make me smile just by hearing...
    tltlc tltlc 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 1

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    I guess me and my friend is no more because I ask him some questions today like do you not want me at your house and he said yea then said I mean no .... I mean like what do that...
    kitkatally kitkatally 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Two weeks ago a good friend kissed me after almost two years of skinny love. We spent the whole night together, holding hands, making out, talking, laughing and smiling. The way he...
    burgerqueen37 burgerqueen37 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    I just wish I could meet the man who is meant for me. Then maybe I'd want the normal things like everyone else... Marriage, children, living together. I'm so used to being on my...
    indigodana indigodana 31-35, F 12 Responses Sep 3

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    Lately I been wanting so badly to run to my friends house and kiss him... Also imagine myself loosing my virginity to him.
    effiestro effiestro 16-17, F 11 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm in love with my best friend and she knows it. She just doesn't love herself enough and is afraid to pull me down with her, when all I want is to be with her
    Gingerguy111 Gingerguy111 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Omg, I want a gay best friend because that would be amazing to have a best friend that is a boy who would understand you and won't be so dramatic as girls and won't fall in love...
    NeedForBones NeedForBones 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    To all the people who I offended with my comment on me talking to people with ages 18-24 I'm truly sorry I've been getting msgs from more then one person with agree remarks towards...
    cyma2911 cyma2911 18-21, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm in love with my best friend. I'm m 17, and she's f 17. We've literally known each other our whole lives, and I can't think of anyone who is as sweet, pretty, and amazing as she...
    Mkass0724 Mkass0724 18-21, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    i am a loving and caring man,down to earth love and live life to d fullest bt one thing more i need in my life is one rite woman to make things rite for me.she gana be d mother of...
    henrrysmith39 henrrysmith39 36-40, M 15 hrs ago

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    Where are you? You can stop hiding now, this isn't funny. Single life sucks.
    gratefulme gratefulme 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I wanna trust again , tired of living on the past i wanna be in love again at least i think i do ...
    SexyNightmare SexyNightmare 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I got high don't remember what happened woke up naked sore scared
    newway98 newway98 16-17, F 9 Responses Aug 16

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    what does tht mean exactly i often wondered about tht we share things with our BFF but some of those things we share are about our partners how can we be a best friend with our...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 16

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