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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 338 People

    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M Jan 25, 2012

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    I am craving a lover. Someone who will not only make love to me but who is also a amazing friend in the process. Someone who is caring and a shoulder I can lean on. I want to be...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 5 Responses Sep 27

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    What I want and what I need are clearly becoming two separate things. I want a guy who is kind and caring and understanding. Someone who will ask me how my day was and make sure...
    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    I long for a loving, caring woman in my life. One that would be respectful of my feelings & generosity towards her. I want a lover to be honest w/ me & enjoy our time together as...
    mo0se809 mo0se809 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    Well of course! Why would I "just" want a lover?
    TheEmberLeader TheEmberLeader 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I miss having someone who I could feel safe and open with. Someone who my gestures and affections are not always seen as sexual. When I was in my late 20's I found the love of my...
    HONAW HONAW 41-45, M 6 Responses Sep 27

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    Yes, definitely it would be great. My experience turns out to be an huge cliché tough. My boyfriend at high-school was actually gay. He was also my best friend, and I think I have...
    Awkward26 Awkward26 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    I want to meet a woman who will accept me for who I am. I want to be able to cherish someone who accepts me, pushes past our differences and is commuted to improving our...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Deprived of love in SM, I need a Best Friend who can be my lover here on EP. One and someone special who can feel and understand my cravings without judging. I am honest and...
    Raajan71 Raajan71 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    My lover I want to be my best friend. Some one to help me walk in this life with me and pick me up when I fall. Someone to have my back and I will have there's. A relationship...
    SexuBio SexuBio 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 28

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    I am very happy with my Bestfriend who is also my lover . We have no secrets and I find myself smiling non stop when I'm texting or talking to him . Things couldn't be more happier...
    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 21

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    Lover, Here is a few things you need to know about me. First, I have a very bad tamper. Genetic links plus environmental spoiled. How's that sound. Second, I'm inexperience, which...
    RainSword RainSword 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    About a week and a half ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Before we were together we had been good friends for about six years so we were mostly just testing the waters to see if...
    928fan 928fan 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 23

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    OMG having a best friend as a lover looks like sooo much fun. Never been in a relationship but one of my friends has a best friend as her bf. The are so adorable and they are...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    My girlfriend is my lover and also my best friend
    rightoman rightoman 41-45, M Oct 5

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    Nobody loves me, nobody wants to be with me My ex bf used to tell me that he never want to get married and was not interested in serious relationship. We argued a lot because I...
    Catty212 Catty212 31-35, F 10 Responses Sep 30

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    I have been waiting to meet the right guy all my life, it seems gay men are not interested I love but just sex. (That's the impression get). I would like totally i other like...
    real4u75 real4u75 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 21

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    What's better for a guy who's simple? Take him out to movies then stay outside for a while, grab a couple beers in a nice place with nice music (no hip hop, or twerking stuff), or...
    Amusec Amusec 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 26

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    Why would you want to be with someone who isn't your best friend? Where's the fun in that!!! I want a PIC!!
    LilBoyBluu LilBoyBluu 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I just want a boyfriend more than anything right now. I'm tired of the meaningless sex and random hookups. It makes me feel cheap and it's not a good feeling. I want to love...
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    I really want a girl that can love me and want me every second but she's not on earth and I been single since I was born and I really want love
    nathegrate98 nathegrate98 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 10

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    I love my boyfriend but I don't think I want to be with him anymore... There has been too much pain on both parts and some things just can't be undone or unsaid. It hurts to even...
    Crayonforhelp Crayonforhelp 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 13

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    I want him to understand and appreciate me fully..... I want to learn n grow with him. Can't wait to meet my best friend... When the time is right....
    lovenlight84 lovenlight84 26-30, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel so lonely and sad these days. I want a man who will be my shoulder to cry on, who loves travelling, who will share my interests with me, with whom I can always talk to, who...
    ScarlettMelanie84 ScarlettMelanie84 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Tie me to a chair and stuff my own wet panties in my mouth. then cleave gag and or ball gag me. Then wrap all my colors and patterns of duct tape around my head, two wraps from...
    paramorelover12 paramorelover12 22-25, F Sep 24

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    True love is hard to find, just like a best friend is rare. I want some one I can share every thought I have, good or bad. Love me for me and I'll love him for him.
    mistylovinglife mistylovinglife 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 30

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    I want a girlfriend who I can enjoy life with. Feel half empty at the moment.
    sealbeachguy sealbeachguy 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    Oh. And I also want one who doesn't lie to me straight to my face and one who doesn't treat breaking my heart like it's an Olympic sport. Yes. That would be just fu.ckin grande.
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 1

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    I love and adore my husband but he is so closed off from me. We talk about kids or work. Or I just babble on and on. I know his being closed off is about him, but I want him to let...
    noplacetobreathe noplacetobreathe 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 3

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    Anyone wants to talk? Hmu! I'm bored and I like meeting new people and friends. (:
    KendrickLamarTho KendrickLamarTho 13-15, F 8 Responses Oct 6

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    I want to be with a guy who loves to play video games, and perhaps tolerate my asian dramas hahaha and anime. That would be cool, someone who is my spouse, but who I can hang out...
    tsukiyodesu tsukiyodesu 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 6

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    I want someone, I mean somebody who would not only act as my boyfriend but also my bestfriend. That would laugh hard with me, hug me and make me feel safe and most especially would...
    Quang1414 Quang1414 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 8

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    My significant other is the first person I want to tell both good and bad news to.
    Luvhugeuptop Luvhugeuptop 46-50, M Oct 10

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    I keep seeing this beautiful woman and want to ask her out but don't know what to say???
    furburger69 furburger69 26-30, M 6 Responses Oct 11

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    My bestfriend got really close to my family would go to every reunion with me and in these 3 years of knowing him I fell in love and so did he but he went out with my cousin before...
    tealflowers tealflowers 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    If I love someone a whole lot, I put everything I got into that person. I'll try my best to make them happy, and cheer them up when they're feeling down. I rather make someone else...
    BlondeGirlBunny BlondeGirlBunny 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 25

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    Get to know me, I won't let you down ;)
    Thisguy161999 Thisguy161999 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 21

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