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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 345 People

    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I truly don't see the point of having a lover who isn't best friend quality. I believe it should be just more than a physical activity; why not make it fun? Intimate? Playful...
    MsBree01 MsBree01 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Can anyone be my lover ...I want a lover..best friend quality not needed
    Prashanth76 Prashanth76 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 1

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    I want a lover who is also my best friend. I want someone who be there for you when things go wrong, be by your side, and comfort you, too. I need someone who will love me and be...
    winnie19 winnie19 41-45, F Jan 5

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    ^This is the craziest ****/group/whatever the **** you call this here on EP. Why the **** would someone want a lover who is also your best friend?
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 12

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    My best friend just told me she wants to be together. She wants to marry, have kids, everything, dog, cat, picket fence. As much as i want to be best friends with my lover, i just...
    jargonzhowl jargonzhowl 31-35, M 4 Responses Jan 21

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    Why can life ever be simple? I met this girl who is unbelievable, she is amazing in every way, smart, nerdy, into the same things I am She thinks I am great too which is amazing...
    Asguard Asguard 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I have a friend who I have known since she sat behind me in English class in high school, senior year after Christmas break in 1979. I asked her to prom and she accepted and I was...
    tastyfrzz tastyfrzz 46-50 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I am a 52 year old single mom. I have a son and a daughter whom are both in they're early 20s. I am currently dating my 33 year old fitness trainer who is great. But my son is...
    lindatheworkoutmom lindatheworkoutmom 51-55, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    Once, many lives ago, I had a lover who was my best friend. It happened quite by accident; but when it happened, the beauty, peacefulness and heat of it was beyond description. I...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I don't know why I got the idea of this app but I found it online and it sounds interesting. Anyway to the topic. I don't believe that somebody can be your lover as well as your...
    2bingo 2bingo 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 20

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    Though, treating your lover as a best friend only and forgetting the lover bit can be really aweful
    squiffels squiffels 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Continuing my last year saga, now focusing the first time I felt in love. A girl talked with me randomly, because I was drawing and she loves sketches. Just like that. I found her...
    jonnyculliere jonnyculliere 18-21, M Jan 12

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    want to find a lover awoman
    kidney2us kidney2us 31-35 Jan 4

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    Having someone as your lover and your best friend makes all the difference in a relationship. I'm glad I had that opportunity to share life and love with my deceased husband. We...
    candyblu candyblu 46-50, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been married to my wife for 6 years and we've been together for 11 years. I recently found out she has been having an emotional relationship with another man for about 6...
    Allen863 Allen863 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    In my room I have a picture on the wall that has provided me joy for many years. This picture shows a beautiful stream with clear water, graceful rushes along the shore and...
    wantadoover wantadoover 56-60, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want someone who will love me and cherish me with all his heart and soul.
    winnie2008 winnie2008 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I want to take someone to the glass beach, or the love lock bridge, or the desert in Arizona to look at the stars
    Matthewap44 Matthewap44 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Yes i really want it, i feel so lonely
    lighthearted01 lighthearted01 22-25, M Jan 4

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    Female Only - Wanting that Special Person that God Sent to me to have & to hold on to for the remander of our life's on this earth, that special someone that is true to her partner...
    NakedHiker51 NakedHiker51 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    This was my favorite kind of love... I want it back. Not with the same person. But I want this with someone new and adventurous.
    HalfPerfect HalfPerfect 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 8

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    My husband now wants me to take antibiotics all the time...he's even putting them in my food I think. The reason, he says, is that this way he can stand to enter the bathroom after...
    suzzieQue suzzieQue 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 8

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    I've dated my share of girls and I've never met one quite the same, but the one I have always wanted to meet is the one that can not only be my one and only but be my best friend...
    NickO28 NickO28 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I never would want anything less
    JezziBelle7 JezziBelle7 31-35, F Jan 10

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    I want someone that I can connect with. I want someone that I can just talk about anything to and they won't judge me. I'm just really lonely and I need someone...
    BabeFett BabeFett 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    I had this friend, I wouldn't exactly call him a best friend but one time in my equivalent of high school, he kissed me. We had been friends since we were born and he was the...
    Dyliar Dyliar 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 11

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    I want my husband to be my bff but he already has a bff
    angelove777 angelove777 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 12

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    If I say I love him, it might be too soon, I might be crazy, but I know I want him, that I need him, and he is so far away, but I want nobody else but him.
    MindlessMatters MindlessMatters 22-25, M Jan 14

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    I am in love with my best friend she is amazing and I don't know how to tell her I've always wanted to be her man but seeing her with another guy and happy I just wouldn't be able...
    rdinunzio rdinunzio 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 14

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    This is what I want <3 One can only dream...
    staygoldenbaby staygoldenbaby 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I am a married woman who is bi curious. I've had a couple experiences with women. I want a partner that I can be just as close with as my husband is to me.
    urajewel urajewel 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    Its the best feeling, I just don't want to get in my feelings and that person isn't there all the way.
    Bryona Bryona 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi. I'm not sure if I'm being selfish. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, its been fun because we have been working in the same company which means we're...
    louris louris 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Actually I want her back. I had her but lost her.
    realbeerad realbeerad 36-40, M 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    You think I am cool and sooo awesome
    lmawesomecool lmawesomecool 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014