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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 367 People

    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    If it's her birthday,

    I call once an hour and have every one of my classes sing happy birthday to her. I get friends together and we go out. If it's my birthday, I get a picture on Facebook,get to attend someone else's party, get chastised because she found me 'annoying' after a few drinks, and...
    Elektrode Elektrode 31-35 Aug 12, 2015

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    Warning: this may be long. The end happened a few months ago, but the destruction of a 5 year friendship isn't something you "just get over". I need to get this out. Hopefully some...
    SwedishDoll SwedishDoll 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    hey I'm a diper lover and also want to be a baby girl again. i;m 13 and a boy, and wear my little sis's dipers and my older sis's dresses whichh are pink, frilly, poofy, and have...
    diaperpatricio diaperpatricio 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I'm so deeply truly madly in love with this one amazing guy which I've known for 8 years and I had a crush on him for 6 years. G is one of the hottest guy in our school back then...
    awsmunicorn awsmunicorn 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I really want to meet someone New!
    thefutureisnowlou thefutureisnowlou 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    love nature. follow the natural law. experience love from nature. great mother nature will teach anyone who hurt her with even violent way human call disaster. recover beautiful...
    veganmeditates veganmeditates 41-45, M 5 hrs ago

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    If we argue or fight, know that it is cause I actually care deeply about your opinion. If I don't shed any tears, know that I might still be hurting inside. If I need some time on...
    milkmilklemonadee milkmilklemonadee 22-25, M 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Ok so I've been struggling making & keeping friends all of my life. Basically people I talk to online & then see in person, about 90% I never see again after the 1st meetup. I...
    supergirl805 supergirl805 22-25, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    It's totally great. You guys should try it. I've learned many life lessons there and trying to apply it in real life.
    CrazyTrishy CrazyTrishy 13-15, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    My name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs old The part hard is waiting for the right woman to come in to my life. I want a lover who is also my best friend
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    1. I'm sometimes suddenly really scared of everything. 2. I'm fighting against it. 3. I'm feeling the music right now. 4. I want a lover. 5. I'm human like everyone else. 6. I...
    juv3 juv3 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I hope to meet someone one day who I can release all of my inhibitions with. We would explore every position possible, and then make up some of our own. Our love would not revolve...
    minisuko minisuko 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    A lover who can equally give the love I give to him. A lover who understands and can go with the flow with me. A lover who is not just my lover, but can also be ny bestfriend.
    sweetoats sweetoats 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi I'm Chris. I'm 29, from Wisbech, Cambridgeshire.
    Christuner666 Christuner666 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love my best friend. She is...just is and I want it all. Enough said.
    Noshikigoi Noshikigoi 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    i actually had one.. we were together going on 4 years in june.. and he basically chose another female over me.. like how does that even work after all this time ? i feel so lost...
    reddmarie reddmarie 18-21, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    i had him, then he left for another girl..
    xsarah15x xsarah15x 13-15, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    I used to like cats, figuring they were better, easier than dogs. But my wife is allergic to them - badly in fact, so we had no pets.Then one day she tells me that her son was...
    tjw747 tjw747 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I met someone, he has no clue what I just went through, but I hope that I'm the one for him??
    vf702 vf702 26-30, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    It is only recently that I truly understand what a partner is, what it means to have someone who makes you more than you are simply by being by your side. Legitimately your better...
    foolishwiseguy foolishwiseguy 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I have a friend who's a bit messed up just like me. I almost always manage to mess things up with my moody personality and sensitivity but he stays by my side and is always there...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    The photographer in Paris, Cedo, was very friendly and enveloping in his attention. Having sex with him was a great pleasure. Finding a guy who wants friendship as well as to be...
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I never want to have children. For some people it seems like an impossible concept that a female does not to mother children. It is an individual choice, some women want to have...
    moonlightflower moonlightflower 22-25, F Feb 1

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    OK well to start off I'm dating this guy.we have been dating going on 8 months.he's in the army so we don't get to see each other all the time..that's OK keeps are relationship new...
    lilfish lilfish 26-30, F Jan 31

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    Hubby has been embarrassed about his sexuality for some time and recently has been telling me that he should have been born as a woman. Had I know this a couple of years ago when...
    dottypuddinghead dottypuddinghead 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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    I want pet names, intimacy. I want him to tell me he loves me. I want kisses and eye contact. I want that passion, emotion, love, freedom, beauty... When it is all over with, we...
    MandyWhat MandyWhat 26-30 3 Responses Jan 30

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    like seriously who doesn't? but nowadays nobody's into relationships it's just all about hookups smh
    KayNfs KayNfs 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    Here's how to spot it!1. You feel on-edge around this person, but you still want them to like you. You find yourself writing off most of their questionable behavior as accidental...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I've always been passed up for someone else I'm tired of it I just want to fall in love with a woman and her to fall in love with me and for that woman to be my other half and...
    Yasirmallick Yasirmallick 16-17, M Jan 29

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    "Sweetheart, You can never love someone too much." I did. I do. I always have. I love too much. It hurts so bad.
    LavenderDarling LavenderDarling 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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