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I Want to Be a Great Lover

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M Jan 25, 2012

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    i want a lover like my dream girl i love u very much but who is she i d'nt know if u so response me............
    vinayloveboy vinayloveboy 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Personally from past relationships, the relationship ends as lovers but we are still great friends. I always go into a relationship with a great friendship because a relationship...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    I want to be with someone who loves me for who I am not what I can do for them sexually. Sometimes being pretty and good looking attracts all the wrong guys and finding a guy to...
    flowerloverxxv flowerloverxxv 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    We (me and my husband) very different. We use to talk in the beginning and we could share some ideas or opinions. Now we don't talk unless we complain or remind that something...
    LeahNl LeahNl 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I had a close friend once she was attracted to me and me to her one day we got together and talked about our feelings and decided to be friends with benefits this was a great idea...
    thanos48 thanos48 36-40, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I would love for him to be my best friend first and then slowly overtime we fall madly in love. He would be my homie, my bestie, my lover. Our relationship would be far from boring...
    CheyenneScott CheyenneScott 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 6

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    Okay, maybe I kinda over exaggerated about everything in my Long distance relationship. We'll my "boyfriend" posted a picture on Instagram and it said he took the photo at some...
    sweetlove2014 sweetlove2014 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    An age different couple married 20 years knows the meaning of how to be lovers and BEST friends at the same time....I love that 6
    dextermlap dextermlap 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I thought that we were best friends till he told me "no your just my lover not my best friend, my ex is my best friend" i never felt so much pain before.
    mskaylee24 mskaylee24 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I found myself having an affair with a man who has a girlfriend. I wanted it to be just that one time because I get attached, but he kept instigating and I kept seeing him. He has...
    earthyogi earthyogi 41-45, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    I want someone that I can love and romance with, someone that I feel relaxed with and someone that I can trust. I also want someone that can be my best friend and share some of the...
    carroyo18 carroyo18 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    If we can't be idiots together, and do normal friend things, for example: Sleep overs where we watch movies, make forts, eat junk food, etc etc. Our relationship isn't going to be...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    The person I really care about is someone who feels the same way. The only downside is that fact that my parents don't want me to date, and they don't like him. He's always there...
    WhiskeyHands WhiskeyHands 13-15, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want to find a girl who I can connect with, who I can have fun with, who will know everything about me and will be themselves around me, and at the end of the day, curl up next...
    JohnF1997 JohnF1997 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want a relationship that is true and not full of lies. Im done with the fake people, i want someone real <3 ready to figure myself out and i think im gay /.
    Haylzz1996 Haylzz1996 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want to be in a relationship with someone I trust and have fun with. I really don't need much else.
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I grew up with this girl my whole life and she and I live in 2 different states. And when we got to see each other tonight I could tell she kinda liked me. And btw we are 14. So...
    Imthe55 Imthe55 13-15, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I always do it , i like people and when they like me back , i let them in , i tell them everything about me , thinking that they wouldn't care , that they love me and wouldn't want...
    Iammyownworstenemy Iammyownworstenemy 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I think that is very important in any relationship
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I wish my bestfriend(girlfriend) would be able to come over and spend the night without any suspicions
    Drea0o0 Drea0o0 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I have liked this girl ever since junior high. It's so bad that they appear in my dreams. She's a really good friend of mine and i'm afraid of losing her by taking it too far...
    dantheman0118 dantheman0118 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I just keep thinking of Jenna and Matt from 13 Going on 30 ❤️
    GigiCoeli GigiCoeli 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    lol, this is dream since i was teenage
    keflo keflo 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 19

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    is it too much to ask????????looking for 13-15 girl
    mustafakhattak mustafakhattak 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    You inspired the deepest most profound poetry I never thought I had the ability to write. You inspired the deepest most profound feelings that led me into an obsession with you. As...
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    Yes. That way we grow together and compliment each other, as well as each being a strong and independent individual who is positive optimistic acceptive of changes
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I started dating a boy I know from the 4-H fair and my sister and her husband and my mom and dad knows him but thing is my mom said he has to call me first and I just wish he would...
    jamie1013 jamie1013 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    A friend is someone who is always there when the whole world away..
    keflo keflo 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and recently I just feel bored and uninterested in what we do. I really like him still, I just don't know what to do and I...
    clairepalombo clairepalombo 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm sort of stopping myself from loving my boyfriend because as soon as I do I know it's going to get ruined.
    sarahdarlene sarahdarlene 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I told my babe that I needed to vent and he said that he was meeting which is fine, but I would've like him to say "babe, I'll call you as soon as I am done"
    NicoleMeagan NicoleMeagan 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This is my dream!!! In a perfect world, this would happen! Hopefully I get to be lucky enough for this to happen!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I have a dilemma. It's a little nsfw though. I met this guy and we hit it off. He's my best friend in this tiny town that I live in. We joke all day and can spend hours nonstop...
    sylbi sylbi 18-21, F 10 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I am 29.. But until now, I cannot truly say that I have fallen madly in love with someone.. Yes, I am married and I may have loved him somewhere in between but I cannot really say...
    purplefreespirit purplefreespirit 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I want a lover to give me love and affection, passionate love making is the best.. I'm so romantic and caring it is too bad for my health. I want unconditional love, a partnership...
    GEsmeralda GEsmeralda 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've been married for 28 years. My children are grown up. My husband is out going, life and soul, hard working but I'm lost. I feel conditioned which is maybe my fault. I...
    simply44 simply44 51-55, F 18 mins ago

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