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I Want to Be a Great Lover

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    You know what I think , I think the best lovers are those who know you inside out , who've grown with you and seen what you're capable of , yes they are your true friend indeed . I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Any Girl is Here.. how want to be my lover as well as a best friend for ever...
    Rahulkmb Rahulkmb 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I want to kiss and be kissed - long, sweet, hungry kisses. I want your arms around me, pressing me close. I want to feel your hands and mouth caressing the contours of my body...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 31

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    Yesterday I told my boyfriend some mean stuff and I wish I said it better, because it hurt him. I was trying to tell him that when he asks a question and I say no I don't want him...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I think I found true love. If this isn't it then I really don't know what is. The other day he said he wanted to tell me how he felt about me. So, on Skype he said, he may reply...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Feeling so lonely, I want to feel wanted 😔
    Loovee1C Loovee1C 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    My boyfriend just kinda made me feel horrible right now... We were talking about school and he said he can graduate next December. I tell him one of us has to move to the others...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm thinking of taking some space form Joshua, till we get our heads back in line. I texted him how I felt and now I just want some time alone from him and I think he feels the...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Someone who's kind, thoughtful, lovely and open. Who can make my stomach burst with fireworks and my heart overflow. Someone who I can hug and cuddle and say everything on my mind...
    voyageuse voyageuse 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Left my boyfriend. Didn't say we broke up..., but I did say i'm not messaging him anymore. He couldn't let go of his problems, well that's what I think it was, because he then told...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    I want to fall in love with someone who will give me the butterflies so bad that it'll be impossible for me to stay on the ground whenever he's around or whenever he speaks...
    Cozy01 Cozy01 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My dream: I often day dream about a girl. And the things that we’d do. Like… I’d find the girl while I’m working. We’d talk, first about simple things, and will find that...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    It has always been my fantisies that i have sex with my best friend my current best friend is so sexy he is my dream guy and according to his ex girlfriend has a big one she was my...
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Not really. But apparently Conor Oberst does. I heart Bright Eyes.
    meghanmonroe meghanmonroe 26-30, F Mar 29

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    Wow, I never realized how heartless I am at times, I totally jugged my boyfriends situation wrong and now he's upset, but by now I realized he's just a moody boy lol. Give him a...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    bEing honest may NOt get you lots of friends but it will always get you the right ones/
    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I figured out how get my boyfriend to open up and stop being really depressed. Now I think he needs to see a doctor. He's been having nose bleeds, insomnia, headaches, vomiting and...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F Apr 15

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    1. My favourite colour is lime green 2. I love hunting 3. I love snowboarding 4. My favourite music genre is dubstep 5. I'm Canadian but I spell "mom" like they do in the UK...
    TotallyToast TotallyToast 13-15, M 7 hrs ago

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    Longing Love Broken Fight Forgive Lover Release Hatred Anew Live Always Never Lust Pain Need
    Shade3711 Shade3711 16-17, M 23 hrs ago

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    I'm sure most, or some people have had a long lost lover in the past who they've had to let go in order to make them and happy and yourself happy, logically to make it work. It...
    gongetit121 gongetit121 31-35, F Apr 12

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    Today has been amazing C: just I don't know why but recently it's great everything is great and like it just an amazing feeling to be great!!! I hope everyone gets to feel like...
    KenzieDanielle KenzieDanielle 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    Friendship especially Best Friends for men is probably the greatest and most intimate relationship for the male species. As a guy we would love to have that level of intimacy and...
    robertv1976 robertv1976 36-40, M Mar 28

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    'Puzzle Pieces' from the Heart.. I type and type expressing words that run rampant within my heart and soul. Plagued by such visions that bring suffering to my mind of past...
    IridescentSkies IridescentSkies 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I took this thinking, as I do with most stuff like this, it might be good for a laugh. This is what I got: The Romantic Lover 59% partner focus, 52% aggressiveness, 45...
    JustmeraeAgain JustmeraeAgain 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    NOORANI MYSTIQUE RING CALL +27824793207 This is the oldest, mystique and the most powerful magic rings ang gemstones. This power organized by the great powerful magicians(460-800B...
    profamisi profamisi 31-35, M Apr 8

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    Like when they don't text back I get mad, but you see me lash out. No. But now I'm not even going to text or call them. Because I'm sick of having to do that all the time. I mean...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    Im really trying to get my boyfriend of nearly 6 years to introduce DD into our relationship. I first mentioned it last october time and things have progressed with us slightly but...
    Tinker88 Tinker88 22-25, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I'm a ashamed to say that I only have one good friends. But I'm greedy so I did like to have more friend. I would love to be friend with anyone. If you like anime/manga or video...
    Yamagishi Yamagishi 18-21 4 hrs ago

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    The Liberated Lover 68% partner focus, 57% aggressiveness, 60% adventurousness based on the results of this test, it is highly likely that: You prefer your romance and love to...
    CrowdOfOne CrowdOfOne 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The tragic love story of Sir Lancelot and Queen Guinevere is probably one of the best-known stories of Arthurian Legend. Lancelot fall in love with Queen Guinevere, King Arthur's...
    Inexperienced3 Inexperienced3 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Today I did and it was really a great experience I loved it !! I feel it's to easy to chat on EP and never have any intention to meet those you open yourself to it's important that...
    Nevergonnagiveuup Nevergonnagiveuup 56-60, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    "The Joker" - Steve Miller Band Some people call me the space cowboy, yeah Some call me the gangster of love Some people call me Maurice 'Cause I speak of the pompitous of love...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    i actually have a lover who is my best friend and it is so complicated.. we argue so much.. we get upset.. worry.. cry.. laugh.. open up to each other.. kiss and go further.. sneak...
    dontlosehope28 dontlosehope28 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    It was hard when I was young. I mean it was hard all the time. It was a real problem in school always walking around with a 7" hard on. I never carried a book bag because I needed...
    Onthebus Onthebus 36-40, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Libraries are great. Mine has one of those sliding ladders. Lol
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    It's a dream I've only pondered a couple of times before. I have always felt the desire to travel and to have no permanent connection to one place but to have a sort of love affair...
    cmitchellichs cmitchellichs 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    Okay, I can't get pregnant, but having a family is my greatest dream. It was the pinnacle of my existence from about age 17 or so. I was torn at one time between dedicating my...
    soloexistence soloexistence 46-50, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My childhood memories are clouded by loneliness and deprivation. I have memories of my mother telling me stories about how she tried to abort me when she found out that she was...
    jenga1 jenga1 41-45, F 11 hrs ago

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    I feel like I haven't had a great friendship in a long time. I do have a significant other and we are best friends, but I need a different type of friend. Someone that I can share...
    jellylb12 jellylb12 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    1. I have two dogs. 2. I have REALLY bad memory 3. I'm very introverted 4. I try to be more open the last 2 years. 5. I haven't seen my father for 10 years. 6. The person I love...
    toughbaby toughbaby 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    1) Whats your (full) name? Isabel Veronica V. 2) How old are you? Almost 15 3) Whats your Birthday? May 26th 4) What starsign does that make it? Gemini and proud 5) Whats your...
    isabelll26 isabelll26 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    1. Lover of all things purple. 2. I keep a diary. I don't write it in it everyday like I used to, but I'm trying to get back into it more. 3. I used to play softball. I was...
    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    I am so very lucky to have such amazing online lovers with which to play! They are great at filling the gaps of time, when my husband doesn't feel like ******* me.