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I Want to Be a Great Lover

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 342 People

    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    my gf treats me like crap and i can't stand it anymore. she's really controlling and nasty towards me and literally NEVER wants to be close to me any more. i feel so alone all the...
    lonelyandhurtguy lonelyandhurtguy 22-25, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    So here's what's going on My boyfriend has asked three different girls to come over and sleep with him. He lied about visiting one in Oregon and I thought things were better until...
    Chloe8221 Chloe8221 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    i want also a good friend because without friend Life is Empty.
    ALi14321 ALi14321 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My spouse, my lover, my soulmate is my best friend. We are blessed!
    happilygay2day happilygay2day 61-65, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Well I can say that having your lover as your best friend is the ideal but in my experience if you start as best friends it's not always a good idea to change it into a lover...
    roes55 roes55 56-60, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I'm a single, caring, openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007 26-30, M Jun 26

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    I met him while in training. My mind was set on finishing training and not finding love. I made that clear to him.... I actually told him I had a significant other back at home and...
    inhouston832 inhouston832 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    FOREVER! And don't say you want a BFF and then already have a million bffs that you'd rather be with.
    stephane28 stephane28 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    I still believe that you will end up living in the world that you will create, where 1. your dominance should only reach up to 75%, and the rest 25% be the results of your...
    lovegentle lovegentle 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Why is it so hard to find an engaging, non-smothery person who has values and goals and can say what they mean? One of the truly great mysteries of the present age... Good...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 25

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    My lover is my best friend. We stay up until the wee hours of the morning, laughing and brainstorming. What would I do without the support and understanding that only my partner...
    solostance solostance 31-35, T 1 Response Jun 25

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    My lover is my best friend, but it is a mess. Where to begin, and it will be a bit lengthy. I will call him D and we met when we were 11. It has been the same bond since we first...
    dfclifton55 dfclifton55 56-60, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Not lovers, but more than friends I bet that in childhood you had many friends, boys or girls, it doesn't matter, you were playing and laughing without worrying that...
    RosaryLaCroix RosaryLaCroix 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    Just post if you want to cyber
    Gioni09 Gioni09 18-21, M Jun 21

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    I have a lover who is also my best friend (-; friendship is the most important thing in a serious romantic relationship.
    alicebelle alicebelle 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    I want to learn you I want to learn with you I want to learn from you ............................................ I'm an African girl, who is really tall, slim and black. I love...
    ottam23 ottam23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I want to be someone i can call my friend.Who is also my lover/partner.Who truly gets who i am on the inside.I don't want something that would fail.I want to be with someone until...
    punkglampire punkglampire 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    there was this girl I fell in love with when I was 15 but she turned me down every single time... she's now my best friend. but this was just me trying to get close to her any way...
    SanFransokyo SanFransokyo 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    I got a girl who likes having me as s friend . For awhile we were real close and wanted a relationship. But it never worked. She and I were talking last night and we are going to...
    crazyram45 crazyram45 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 18

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    so I have a coworker who is very very pretty , she's like a 9 at worst! but I'm not really sure if I have a shot, I know I'm not the best looking guy, but she trusts me immensely...
    Mike3569 Mike3569 22-25, M 3 Responses Jun 18

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    I love to meet that person. I think it's a great feeling to hang out with your best friend .. but I guess that easier said than done. I love to be with someone who would care about...
    alackeret alackeret 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 17

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    My boyfriend is my best friend it took us years to get together but when I look back on things the wait was totally worth it I wouldn't change a thing
    LipsOfAnAngel89 LipsOfAnAngel89 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 17

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    This might have to be a pipe dream. I want to form meaningful friendships with guys (straight ones --- I have a lot of gay friends), with whom I can share similar views and outlook...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 11 Responses Jun 17

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    I need a boyfriend I'm tired of Lonely
    fatgirl2132 fatgirl2132 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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