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I Want to Be a Great Lover

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    Bad 69 Wtf Shoot Me Now!

    OMG the W just insisted on some oral sex. We have been out of practice for at least 4 years. I have been taking care of myself in hopes of moving on. So we get into it and its not bad and ok at times, things are coming back to me and then as i really set into motion and focus...
    croyman croyman 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    My Quest

    There is more to my desire of being a great lover than just the physical art of sex. Sure I`d like to know all the right buttons to push, and posess the stamina/self control/physical endowments that are so much at the forefront of what many of us may imagine from an amazing...
    musicmad musicmad 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    Pleasing Him Pleases Me.

    I am open to new experiences when it comesto lovemaking. I feel the key to complete satisfaction is to truly satisfy your mate. To be open to new things even if it is outside your comfort zone. I llike to role play, I created an alter ego that comes out in times when lovemaking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 4, 2012

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    Good Is Not Good Enough...

    Years ago I decided I did not want to be a good husband, good dad or a good lover.  I wanted to be a GREAT husband, GREAT dad and GREAT LOVER...  and continue to strive to become better everyday.
    abracos4u abracos4u 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    For One Man In Particular.....

    I'm actually really nervous though. lol. I've only ever been with two guys. Neither one of them was real impressed with certain aspects of our sexual relations. I worry that I won't even be a good lover, let alone a great one. I don't know. He says not to expect it. Let it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 10, 2009

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    I Care

    I want to be a great lover again. My wife and I had a great sex life before the kid. Not any more. Icare about the womans needs. I love to touch them and rub all over them. I dont get her. I strivw to bring women to ******.its a huge turn on.gettin downand licking and kissing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 9, 2012

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    I Have No Confidence In The Bedroom

    I never had much confidence to begin with.. having been married for 14 yrs..he was my first and only.. and except for the first few years we did the same thing all the time, not much experimentation. This year my husband and I had sex 3 times.. he doesn't want to with me, he says...
    geekgirl2010 geekgirl2010 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 5, 2010

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    I Want To Want You

    I'm trying to tap into the passion we once had. When my love and I were first together (after 9 years of friendship) we made passionate love, (for anywhere from 45 minutes to 4 hours) three to five times... A DAY Than we moved in together when I went to school, and if we didn't...
    theFROZENmango theFROZENmango 22-25 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    Never Satisfied.

    cant get enough of sex with misses, thats bcause i dont get it,totaly relied upon my good hand,but could never stray from her,real love i guess.
    antar12 antar12 56-60 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Great Lover

    HHHmmmmm who would not wish that way ha?well i always think im a great lover why because i see to it that my women never feel bad or say something that can break our relationship after we broke up or with different people if the relationship end,though i always think being with...
    tawam tawam 36-40, M Dec 3, 2011

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    Hopefully

    Someday I will be... I hope. :)
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2009

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    I Want To Be The One You Remember

    I want to be the one you remember all your life. If we don't end up together, I want to leave you wondering, "What if?" I don't want you to think of me just because of my performance in bed. I want you to remember me because of the many ways I showed you that I loved you. I...
    bruin51988 bruin51988 22-25, M Jan 25, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Two weeks ago a good friend kissed me after almost two years of skinny love. We spent the whole night together, holding hands, making out, talking, laughing and smiling. The way he...
    burgerqueen37 burgerqueen37 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    So last fall was my first semester at college (I go to county college). In my basic freshman class (foundations for sucess) I met this great kid. I ended up getting feelings for...
    Jamielr13 Jamielr13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Okay let me start by saying I'm 19 and I am in a relationship with a beautiful girl who is 17. We live on the same block and have been dating two weeks after met a year ago. We've...
    djwdjw19 djwdjw19 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Right now I am currently in a tough spot. I'm a very good-looking kid, who even had the nurses talking at the hospital when I had my operation. Not to sound cocky but that's what...
    thekid2010 thekid2010 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I have thought about her every day for two years now and it's driving me crazy. I have never met anyone like her before she is so much like me and we think the same and she's a...
    michaelJprice michaelJprice 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 11

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    Wondering this life journey I often wonder why I haven't found that one. It must be ask to much or maybe expect to little! Whether or not I find that one I'll love life and enjoy...
    sillynilly231 sillynilly231 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I've been sleeping with an acquaintance for the last month. He stays the whole night, sometimes at my place, sometimes at his. We can be rough and nasty, or sweet and tender. He...
    HippyDippyTrippy HippyDippyTrippy 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 18

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    I want a girlfriend. My wife , lover and best friend that can make me believe that love still exists
    Rainbowkissesxo Rainbowkissesxo 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 3

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    I would love to have a lover who is my best friend. My husband and I have been married for 7 years and 10 months. I always want to talk to him about everything. He never tells me...
    sweettea1005 sweettea1005 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 9

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    I don't want to just meet someone I am attracted to and be in a relationship with them right away. I want to get to know the person and be friends with them first. Why? Because you...
    ConfidentSpeaker ConfidentSpeaker 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    It's about being that person that glitters with energy and passion. The right lover/BFF will either be scared away orrrrr fall helplessly in love from first sight. Master the bold...
    1111Lina1111 1111Lina1111 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I think I have achieved this. My fiance is probably the only true friend I have, a wonderful lover, a caring partner, and a happy and silly companion who always manages to make me...
    Meriyne Meriyne 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Yes! I'd love to be with a woman who is a lover and a friend. Someone to stand with me when things don't look so good, when I've tried my hardest but things still didn't turn out...
    shymotorcyclerider shymotorcyclerider 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with. I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 10

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    Dang. I want someone I can just connect with. I want someone I can cuddle with and watch netflix. I want someone who'll go to the gym with me. I want someone who I can go for...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I love him so much. He doesn't understand how much. I'm perfect and just his type n I mean so many guys would want me n he likes me but I just can't get him to love me. Its all I...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I really like the guy I've been talking to. We call each other our "bffls" it's so easy to talk to him but I feel like he's just talking to me when he's bored. I'm not sure though...
    alliefjc alliefjc 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    I will be the reason of your sleepless nights. You have no appetite not because you belong to nobody. But because – for your pity – you are not mine… You see me in every guy...
    kipross44 kipross44 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I want to meet a girl who loves me for who I am and doesn't care what anyone thinks. I want a girl who isn't scared to be herself. I want a girl to love who loves me in return...
    confusedandcomplicated5 confusedandcomplicated5 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    Dear friends and all Ep members i was request you that please any one help me because i want to go out from my country because here i have no job no any other work to do my future...
    sajid00 sajid00 26-30, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Okay, not sure if that name fits my prob but okay here we go. I've got a friend > girl, she's also into girls. All I want is to get her drunk and make out with her so that she can...
    EvDida EvDida 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 4

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    Well, there is this girl who has been my best friend for a long time and just recently, i realized that I like her but I dnt want to loose everything if it doesn't work out too...
    kofiT kofiT 18-21, M 6 Responses Aug 7

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    I want to be friends before I become your girlfriend..!!
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 13 Responses Aug 7

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    I just realized I want alot just a full relationship love and sex and kissing and more sex sex sex!!! Wtf is wrong with me. He needs to be there for me wen I'm sad then we can have...
    laverso laverso 18-21, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    I want my words to speak to the hearts of everybody forever through spreading love and peace and unity that it may somehow transcend lives in the process and while I know nobody is...
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 10

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    I want a person. I can talk to and be comfortable with not be different and have to be " normal " around a person that accepts my wierdness and of course someone cute :) lol and...
    Sprinklesnstuff Sprinklesnstuff 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 11

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    it's really hard to find good girls down here in Florida that are attractive to me as well :|. and when i find one i like i tend to **** it up because i'm weird and awkward but...
    KuTcH KuTcH 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Not now, but in the future this is what I want.
    Ellyhi Ellyhi 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Honesty and comfortable silence, is all I need out of somebody. But what I really want, and what would get those butterflies going, is someone encouraging me and all of my...
    JayMateus JayMateus 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I want to know how it feels to get done hard and fast.
    newway98 newway98 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Scrollin thru and seen this...and my mind thought about it til my heart ached about too... Sucks to want.
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M Aug 17

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    Im in relationship w/c i considered such a damn so lame...due to culture differences i've to accept that we cant be together & our expiration time may comes..but for now i really...
    skullmeggy skullmeggy 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    All I want is a man who can make me laugh, make me trust him and be as adventurous as I am. Someone who can snowboard and loves the snow as much as me. Quite frankly it is hard to...
    Mzwalker Mzwalker 22-25, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    Is it too much to ask for...somebody to have sex with regularly who gets me, will not desert me, and genuinely wants to spend time with me?
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have managed to keep my head above water all this time, but my depression is making the waves higher and higher, I feel alone, and losing my motivation to keep swimming. I just...
    miserableme27 miserableme27 22-25, M 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    I really want to find someone who loves me and that I love. Why is it so hard?
    alek42 alek42 18-21, M 10 Responses 3 days ago