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I Want to Be a More Submissive Wife

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 230 People

    I Am Not Submissive By Nature

    I have an idea in my head of what a submissive wife is, and I am trying to get to that point. I feel that if I keep this image in my mind then it will help it to become a reality. So far I am not even close to the point that I need to be, for mine or my husbands preference. I am...
    TakenbyDan TakenbyDan 41-45, F Jan 3, 2012

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    Submissive Enough

    I have always been a natural submissive. For years my husband and I tried to be equals in everything. He even tried to make me more dominate and overbearing like the women in his family. Finally it clicked with him that he had to be the head of household and I submissive to him...
    Aurora7875 Aurora7875 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 8, 2013

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    Christian Newlywed Hoping To Be More Submissive.

    I am a newlywed, Christian wife. I have been married for ABOUT 6 months :) My husband and I are both Christians and we have studied and know God's plan for marriage. For years and years it was a struggle for me- I don't want to be submissive, I thought God didn't love me because...
    PrincessJAF PrincessJAF 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 6, 2012

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    Trying Hard

    I am usually a very good submissive wife. I get my fair share of beatings (usually deserved) but I learn from them and try harder. Obedience is something my husband (daddy) insists on and I am mostly good at it. Then this happened... The other day I lost my wedding ring. This...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl 41-45, F Nov 18, 2012

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    What Started As A Desire For A Different Life, Has Now Become A Need...

    The more time that passes being a submissive wife, the happier I become.  I find myself searching for new ways to please my husband.  He knows I live to fulfill his needs and desires, to make him comfortable, happy, to make our marriage safe, and secure.  A home that was once...
    traditionalwifeanjul traditionalwifeanjul 36-40 4 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Submissive Wife

    This is one of the darkest confessions I have to make: I want to be a hot sexy and submissive wife even for one day... No, make it two years! Lol!  I don't want to think or make decisions. I do a lot of thinking and decision making in the family business and at the grad school...
    Cynch Cynch 22-25, F 2 Responses May 4, 2011

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    Will Being More Submissive Make Him Dominant?

    My husband and I have been married for 5 years and so far everything about us has been very vanilla. From the wedding to the two dogs and buying a house three years after we were married. Except for the fact that I am totally unhappy with his unwillingness to take control. So i...
    andi1024 andi1024 22-25 8 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Submitting And Wanting To Please My Husband

    im a newly submitted and surrendered wife. this is my first time ever posting, i would love some tips and/or suggestions to serve my king. currently i fix his plate, set out his clothes, get his shower ready, dont talk back or argue nor deny him sex. i anticipates his needs and...
    Sweetnlow1979 Sweetnlow1979 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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