I Want to Be a Mother

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 405 People

    I Want A Baby

    I do not know why usually the people get SHOCKED when they know that, as if am 10 year old or something! I do not think that am too young to have a baby plus I do believe that am a mature and responsible person.I love babies so much, recently not very recently but recently I have...
    MissGaga MissGaga
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2013


    I can't wait to be a mother... I think it will be such a blessing to have a child of my own to love and care for and to watch grow into whoever they want to be.  It will still be a few more years before I have kids, but I am looking forward to it!
    LovingLeila LovingLeila
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2010

    I've always wanted to be a mom.

    To hear a little boy or girl calling mommy, knowing that's me, that's all I've ever wanted. Im always thinking about what id name my children. i have a list of my favorite names. I wonder sometimes if I'll ever get to have the big family I've always wanted. i feel like i never...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    It Hurts

    Iā€™m in a predicament where I face the decision to do what is best for myself, or what society believes is best for me. And I hate society for this. If I follow the norms of society ā€“ college, 9 ā€“ 5 work days, a family at 30 ā€“ I will live through 10 more years of...
    WanaBAMama WanaBAMama
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 29, 2011


    I am enable to have children. I have had a hysterectomy because of some issues. I dont know if I am going to get over the fact of not being a mom. My soon to be husband has three kids of his own, and does not want any more. I dont know how to really even tell him how I feel, and...
    AllyCat86 AllyCat86
    1 Response Oct 24, 2012

    I'm only 19, but I've known I would be a mother

    someday since I was 11 or 12. If I could be a mom right now, I would. I hate that I have to wait to be a certain chronological age before I am allowed to have children & not be ridiculed by society. :/ I've always been an old soul. For me, it feels like I've been a child for...
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2013

    I'm in a 6 year relationship I'm 32

    and he's 29 I want to be a mummy so badly it's a pain inside me. I day dream, sitting at a cafe I visualize having a baby in their pram next to me. It hurts so much. I'm over weight but I can't stop thinking about it. My partner says he's not ready and that cuts me so so...
    rubienu rubienu
    1 Response Oct 21, 2014

    Not anytime soon, but someday I would like to

    be mother. Not the kind of "mother" I had but a mother that puts her children first, loves them unconditionally and tells them every single day how special they are and how much I love them. I didn't have that, my mother decided that drugs and alcohol were more important than me...
    SadieMarie1996 SadieMarie1996
    18-21, F
    Dec 30, 2013

    Everyone Else Wanted to Be An Astronaut

    Whenever someone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I'd always draw a blank. I had no idea. My friends all wanted to be models, firemen, cops, surgeons, mattress testers. I only just figured it out recently, about 3 years ago. I was a counselor for a childrens camp...
    snokat snokat
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 11, 2007

    Missing A Part Of Me

    I've been wanting a child for a few years now. I am 25 and single and feel like the most important part of my life is missing. I have been looking for donors privately and through agencies but since I am single no one wants to help me. I am not worried about the responsibilities...
    wantinganaddition wantinganaddition
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2013

    I Desperately Want Kids

    I want to be a mother. I have been waiting a couple years till my husband gets his head together. I'm 40, this has to happen NOW. Well last week my husband shared with me that he doesn't think he can be a parent. I'm completely heartbroken. I thought we were at least partially on...
    webcat webcat
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

    Trying To Have A Baby

    I love babies, n I can't wait to have my own. To the point that i haven't use protection with my fiance for a year n now I am taking prenatal vitamins. I hope it happens soon. I'm not getting any young. Y'all pray for me please :-)
    ladydee407 ladydee407
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2013

    When I was little, I used to say

    that I would have 20 kids when I grew up and drive them all around in a school bus. But now, I truly long to be and desire to be a mother. I can hardly wait until marriage, when I will be able to carry a child within me and raise that child and love that child. I want to have 1...
    SadFacedDork SadFacedDork
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014

    Now I Feel That I Can Be One I Want to Be One.

    Having gone to hospital and sorted myself out and found the most wonderful and caring partner, I want to be a mother. I know that now I have the emotional wellbeing to be able to love a child unconditionally. I also know that when I make that choice it will be because both of us...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2007

    Soccer Mom Wanna Be

     I am such a soccer mom, but without the green van with those smelly cleats lingering around in the back seat and of course without the actually family. I am such a wanna be.  My good friend is having a baby, in August, and I am sooooo excited about planning her baby...
    mskaylab mskaylab
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2010

    I Was a 'parentified Child' Who Wants Children of My Own.

     As a little girl, I took care of my little sisters.  I didn't get to 'find myself' in my early youth because I was a little mother.  My own mom was young when she had me [she was 21].  She worked full time and wanted to be many things that she put aside...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 2, 2009

    One day. When the time is right.

    I can't wait to experience the journey of pregnancy, giving birth, and watching a child grow. I can't wait to see the ways we'll influence them and the ways they'll grow purely from themselves. I can't wait to see how our child will resemble us outwardly and inwardly. But, I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 11, 2015

    I'm not planning on having any kinds of

    relationships any time soon. *** I don't want a boyfriend or husband or anything. I want my education and I want hard work.. Anyways. - I'm in an Adult Education class. The class schedules we have are very different from regular schools, but then very similar at the same time...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets
    18-21, F
    Nov 16, 2014

    I've always wanted this in secret

    but i never shared it with anyone until i found lulu. All he ever talks about is having a daughter and at this point his dna is looking so sexy i might consider it and not just because hes super good looking he just has a great heart and he would make a great father someday. I...
    nana2085 nana2085
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 14, 2014

    A Lifelong Desire

    Being in college, I'm just starting to find out so many things about myself. However, one thing I've always been sure of is my desire to be a mother. I have always enjoyed myself the most when around children and am able to open up to them more than people my own age. I have...
    kiwi17 kiwi17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 9, 2009

    i would like to sire offspring.

    i am not quite ready for the whole "being a dad" thing, but i do desire to make sure i have children out there, to positively impact our species, in such that there are too many dumbasses in this world, that i strongly feel like i should do my part to ensure that it doesn't end...
    RangerWorldwide RangerWorldwide
    26-30, M
    Mar 24

    Someone'S Missing...

    Next year I'll be 30. My boyfriend & I are currently shopping for engagement rings, there's talk of marriage, there's talk of children, we have a great & understanding relationship. I'm SO busy with work, I love my job...our home, our pets. There's just one thing missing...a...
    katiebatieladie katiebatieladie
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2013

    I've always wanted to be a mother.

    I love working with kids. I want to get into a job that gets to work with kids like maybe being a teacher. Ever since I was small, I played with dolls and pretended they were my kids. As I grew up I started being trusted with actual toddlers and infants. One of my major goals...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 17, 2013

    I Know I Am Young...

    When I was younger, just getting into my teenage years, I thought a lot about my future. I knew I wanted to have a big family, a partner, a normal, healthy life. I never had that growing up, living with two disabled parents and an abusive brother. That's all I ever wanted... a...
    absolutionist absolutionist
    22-25, F
    Sep 20, 2010

    I want to be a mom so bad.

    I'm only 17 but I love kids with all my heart! I'm not saying I would like I child right now, preferably around the age of 26, but I just can't wait to have my own child
    disneylover3 disneylover3
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    Lets Start A Family

    i want to be a dad (alot only second to finding an amazing wife) any boy can make a baby but it takes man to be a father and stand by the family he made and there seems to be a lot of ads for ***** donors here but i want to make the right woman an offer for a husband and as many...
    o3118152 o3118152
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2012

    Looking To Find Someone To Get Me Pregnant And Just Walk Away. Please.

    I would love to be pregnant. When I was younger I said " Not now, A little later." Well Now I have a good job and lots of friends. Also a very good support system. I have tried several different facilities but because I am single they are very discouraging. I realise this...
    nitatrim nitatrim
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 11, 2013

    Everything Is Wrong.

    I'm only 16, and never had sex, but last spring i was in terrible pain, so they did an ultrasound, I have pictures, I was pregnant and there was a baby in me. I didn't tell anyone, and when I went back two weeks later, there was no baby, no sign of anything at all. I have no clue...
    nanner9 nanner9
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2013

    I Want To Be Pregnant

    But i my husband he gets so tired after work that he is not able to have sex and if we have sex then he is not able to penetrate pls tell me some solution for this.
    jyotinath6 jyotinath6
    22-25, F
    Sep 24, 2012

    Living For the Day

    I am not married yet but hope to someday. I want to be a mother more than anything else. It's about guiding a child, teaching them, helping them reach their true potential. Of course, it also means a lot of hard work, selflessness and time. I believe it is best for a child to...
    AmazingGrace AmazingGrace
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2008

    I'm so excited to meet the love of my lifetime.

    I can hardly wait to give him a beautiful son/daughter. To spend our days in a secret garden.
    LastofmyKind LastofmyKind
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2014

    I have PCOS and i want to be a mother.

    My.clock is.ticking..im already 30?
    Missyesprela Missyesprela
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2015

    So Badly

    I know this is what I want. It's all I want. It hurts to think of waiting. I am only 19. But I am certain that motherhood is my calling. While most young women in society are wanting to build their careers, earn a high income and do the family thing later, I don't. I want family...
    WanaBAMama WanaBAMama
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2011

    I would love to be a mother.

    find the right partner to help me raise our children proper so they, like their mother don't understand why people hate each other over petty things like color, religion, gender, sexuality, or nationality to name a few. I also worry about if I'm good enough to be a good mother...
    Zurea Zurea
    26-30, T
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    I Cant Take It Any More!

    I cant help it anymore. My fiance wants to wait until im out of school but that will be years. My desire to have a baby is starting to physically hurt. I dream every night of being pregnant and having a baby. its all i want. I just want my life to start. i want my family. My...
    badxkittyx35 badxkittyx35
    22-25, F
    Jul 17, 2012

    Baby Lust

    I am 20 years old, a college student, and married. Ever since about the age of 11, I knew I wanted to have a child because my half sister had a child and I knew she wouldn't have a "good" home, so I even asked if I could adopt her. I am ready to have a child with my husband, even...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 14, 2013

    I Really Want To Be A Mother!

    I may sound immature, and I may only be twenty-years-old but if I could, I'd get married at this age or maybe when I'm twenty-one and I would start on making a family. I want to have six kids :) Yes, a real big family lol. Out of those six children, I would like to adopt two or...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 25, 2012

    I fear bringing you into this life Little

    one With its heavy air And its aching But the providence I know from heaven Is that the right bits of information Come to me before I need them And though there are too many sick people On this crowded little orb The law of averages tells us There's a lot of wisdom accumulated...
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    I really think I'd make a great mother.

    It's not in the cards, but every time I see a mother with a small child, there's a touch of sad envy behind the smile on my face.
    mickitg mickitg
    46-50, T
    Aug 12, 2015

    It'S Always Been What I Wanted

    Ever since I was young I knew I wanted to be a mother and have a family. I was blessed to fall in love and get engaged to the only man I have ever loved and the only man I ever wanted to father my children. I could see our futures coming together the day I found out I was...
    mafiagirl6 mafiagirl6
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 31, 2013

    I got married a few months ago,

    but have been with my husband for a year. He deployed not even 2 months after we got married. With him being gone I've had a lot of time to think independently and have decided I want to become a mother. I'm not sure if it's because I'm lonely now since I'm home alone or I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 17, 2015

    A Teen Mom 'wannabe'

    I have wanted to be a mother for a long time now. I just haven't expressed the need or the want because it wasn't socially acceptable. I am a little older now, 19, but I still feel like my parents wouldn't agree with my aspirations. If I didn't have so much pressure to finish...
    ProudMama8612 ProudMama8612
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 4, 2007

    hey I'll be a daddy to any teen mommies babies,

    or if u wanna be a mommy I'll help ya there also.
    bigredtoronto bigredtoronto
    36-40, M
    Feb 29

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