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I Want to Be a Mother

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    I want to be a mom so bad.

    I'm only 17 but I love kids with all my heart! I'm not saying I would like I child right now, preferably around the age of 26, but I just can't wait to have my own child
    disneylover3 disneylover3 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Will Be So Happy To Stop Dreaming

    I've wanted to have children before I turned 30 every since I can remember but unfortunately that is not gonna happen I'll be 30 in a few months and my Hubby is unfortunately on lock down. Now it seems like everyone around me is turning up pregnant and that really depresses me at...
    Redsexydiva25 Redsexydiva25 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2011

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    Living For the Day

    I am not married yet but hope to someday. I want to be a mother more than anything else. It's about guiding a child, teaching them, helping them reach their true potential. Of course, it also means a lot of hard work, selflessness and time. I believe it is best for a child to...
    AmazingGrace AmazingGrace 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2008

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    I Cant Wait to Be a Mommy :)

    Ever since my mother treated me so bad and i see how she treats my other siblings i feel like i want to prove her wrong with what she has done and show her that i will never turn out like her. I love kids.. i have worked at daycares, babysat, and then taken care of my friends...
    tragedyhappens tragedyhappens 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2008

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    I've always wanted to be a mom.

    To hear a little boy or girl calling mommy, knowing that's me, that's all I've ever wanted. Im always thinking about what id name my children. i have a list of my favorite names. I wonder sometimes if I'll ever get to have the big family I've always wanted. i feel like i never...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 11 Responses Jun 14

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    Lets Start A Family

    i want to be a dad (alot only second to finding an amazing wife) any boy can make a baby but it takes man to be a father and stand by the family he made and there seems to be a lot of ads for ***** donors here but i want to make the right woman an offer for a husband and as many...
    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 10, 2012

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    Missing A Part Of Me

    I've been wanting a child for a few years now. I am 25 and single and feel like the most important part of my life is missing. I have been looking for donors privately and through agencies but since I am single no one wants to help me. I am not worried about the responsibilities...
    wantinganaddition wantinganaddition 26-30, F 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    A Teen Mom 'wannabe'

    I have wanted to be a mother for a long time now. I just haven't expressed the need or the want because it wasn't socially acceptable. I am a little older now, 19, but I still feel like my parents wouldn't agree with my aspirations. If I didn't have so much pressure to finish...
    ProudMama8612 ProudMama8612 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    A Lifelong Desire

    Being in college, I'm just starting to find out so many things about myself. However, one thing I've always been sure of is my desire to be a mother. I have always enjoyed myself the most when around children and am able to open up to them more than people my own age. I have...
    kiwi17 kiwi17 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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    When I was little, I used to say

    that I would have 20 kids when I grew up and drive them all around in a school bus. But now, I truly long to be and desire to be a mother. I can hardly wait until marriage, when I will be able to carry a child within me and raise that child and love that child. I want to have 1...
    SadFacedDork SadFacedDork 16-17, F Jul 18

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    I Desperately Want Kids

    I want to be a mother. I have been waiting a couple years till my husband gets his head together. I'm 40, this has to happen NOW. Well last week my husband shared with me that he doesn't think he can be a parent. I'm completely heartbroken. I thought we were at least partially on...
    webcat webcat 36-40 2 Responses Oct 12, 2010

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    I Want To Be Pregnant

    But i my husband he gets so tired after work that he is not able to have sex and if we have sex then he is not able to penetrate pls tell me some solution for this.
    jyotinath6 jyotinath6 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2012

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    I lost a baby... ever

    since I longed to be a mum, the sad thing is no one understands the longing I have to have a child
    submissivegirl666 submissivegirl666 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    A Girl's Dream

    Ever since I was little, I wanted to be a mother. My mother was my inspiration. She was sweet and kind and tried her hardest, even though she was dead broke. She taught me that love is what matters, and that money is actually a second priority in raising kids. It's nice to have...
    Myrkr Myrkr 18-21, F Sep 5, 2008

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    Baby Lust

    I am 20 years old, a college student, and married. Ever since about the age of 11, I knew I wanted to have a child because my half sister had a child and I knew she wouldn't have a "good" home, so I even asked if I could adopt her. I am ready to have a child with my husband, even...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 14, 2013

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    I Never Knew!

    I could never figure out what I wanted to be in life. I was constantly switching from psychiatrist to teacher to video game designer.....always something new. I can't remember how I figured it out, it must have been the serious relationship I was in, but I know all I want out of...
    Mandy5367 Mandy5367 22-25, F Jun 24, 2008

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    I Want A Baby

    I do not know why usually the people get SHOCKED when they know that, as if am 10 year old or something! I do not think that am too young to have a baby plus I do believe that am a mature and responsible person.I love babies so much, recently not very recently but recently I have...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    Trying To Have A Baby

    I love babies, n I can't wait to have my own. To the point that i haven't use protection with my fiance for a year n now I am taking prenatal vitamins. I hope it happens soon. I'm not getting any young. Y'all pray for me please :-)
    ladydee407 ladydee407 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Someone'S Missing...

    Next year I'll be 30. My boyfriend & I are currently shopping for engagement rings, there's talk of marriage, there's talk of children, we have a great & understanding relationship. I'm SO busy with work, I love my job...our home, our pets. There's just one thing missing...a...
    katiebatieladie katiebatieladie 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2013

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    I'm so excited to meet the love of my lifetime.

    I can hardly wait to give him a beautiful son/daughter. To spend our days in a secret garden.
    LastofmyKind LastofmyKind 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I Want To Be A Father

    Well, I am 44 and I love my wife deeply and we have been trying on and off for the last 10 years. I know that my wife is my life partner and she is not so bothered that we don't have children. Every time I see a baby or young child, I wonder why is this one, not mine. I think...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Soccer Mom Wanna Be

     I am such a soccer mom, but without the green van with those smelly cleats lingering around in the back seat and of course without the actually family. I am such a wanna be.  My good friend is having a baby, in August, and I am sooooo excited about planning her baby...
    mskaylab mskaylab 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2010

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    More Than Anything!

    It's weird to say this, but I know that being a mother is the only thing I want and only thing that can make me happy. I've always been the one far more mature and responsible than that of my peers. I thought I would be excited for college and starting a career, but there's...
    CourtGatekeeper CourtGatekeeper 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    Everything Is Wrong.

    I'm only 16, and never had sex, but last spring i was in terrible pain, so they did an ultrasound, I have pictures, I was pregnant and there was a baby in me. I didn't tell anyone, and when I went back two weeks later, there was no baby, no sign of anything at all. I have no clue...
    nanner9 nanner9 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    I Know I Am Young...

    When I was younger, just getting into my teenage years, I thought a lot about my future. I knew I wanted to have a big family, a partner, a normal, healthy life. I never had that growing up, living with two disabled parents and an abusive brother. That's all I ever wanted... a...
    absolutionist absolutionist 22-25, F Sep 20, 2010

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    Motherhood

    I can't wait to be a mother... I think it will be such a blessing to have a child of my own to love and care for and to watch grow into whoever they want to be.  It will still be a few more years before I have kids, but I am looking forward to it!
    LovingLeila LovingLeila 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2010

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    Not anytime soon, but someday I would like to

    be mother. Not the kind of "mother" I had but a mother that puts her children first, loves them unconditionally and tells them every single day how special they are and how much I love them. I didn't have that, my mother decided that drugs and alcohol were more important than me...
    SadieMarie1996 SadieMarie1996 18-21, F Dec 30, 2013

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    Everyone Else Wanted to Be An Astronaut

    Whenever someone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I'd always draw a blank. I had no idea. My friends all wanted to be models, firemen, cops, surgeons, mattress testers. I only just figured it out recently, about 3 years ago. I was a counselor for a childrens camp...
    snokat snokat 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 11, 2007

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    I've always wanted this in secret

    but i never shared it with anyone until i found lulu. All he ever talks about is having a daughter and at this point his dna is looking so sexy i might consider it and not just because hes super good looking he just has a great heart and he would make a great father someday. I...
    nana2085 nana2085 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    Looking To Find Someone To Get Me Pregnant And Just Walk Away. Please.

    I would love to be pregnant. When I was younger I said " Not now, A little later." Well Now I have a good job and lots of friends. Also a very good support system. I have tried several different facilities but because I am single they are very discouraging. I realise this...
    nitatrim nitatrim 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    So Badly Want To Be A Mother <3

    Throughout my whole life, all I've really ever wanted was to be a mother. I've had lists of names I'd want to name my future child, a secret stash of outfits, books, and random items I'd need, and I started a savings account when I was 10 so I could eventually use that money for...
    indieelisabeth indieelisabeth 18-21, F Apr 26, 2012

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    So Badly

    I know this is what I want. It's all I want. It hurts to think of waiting. I am only 19. But I am certain that motherhood is my calling. While most young women in society are wanting to build their careers, earn a high income and do the family thing later, I don't. I want family...
    WanaBAMama WanaBAMama 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    Vincent.

    I long for the day I hold you in my arms and call you MINE. I absolutely cannot wait to take care of you...watch you grow and turn into that very special person I know you're going to be. You're not here yet, but I love you more than anything. YOU are my purpose. The reason I...
    callmesarah callmesarah 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2011

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    Wishing To Become A Mother

    I am 24, almost 25 years old and I am wishing to become a mother! I have been in a serious relationship for over 5 years and my boyfriend is not wanting to have a child anytime soon. My mother was not around much when I was a child so my only dream in life was to become a mother...
    Superstar0765 Superstar0765 22-25 Jan 24, 2012

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    What I'm Meant to Be...

    I know I'm young, so obviously I'll have to actually *wait* to become one, but I want kids more than anything.  It might sound really silly to say, and it might be the wrong words to say it in but it's sort of a 'goal' for me.  A 'life purpose' I guess might be a...
    hakandragon hakandragon 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2008

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    Broken

    I am enable to have children. I have had a hysterectomy because of some issues. I dont know if I am going to get over the fact of not being a mom. My soon to be husband has three kids of his own, and does not want any more. I dont know how to really even tell him how I feel, and...
    AllyCat86 AllyCat86 26-30 1 Response Oct 24, 2012

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    I'm only 19, but I've known I would be a mother

    someday since I was 11 or 12. If I could be a mom right now, I would. I hate that I have to wait to be a certain chronological age before I am allowed to have children & not be ridiculed by society. :/ I've always been an old soul. For me, it feels like I've been a child for...
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    It Hurts

    I’m in a predicament where I face the decision to do what is best for myself, or what society believes is best for me. And I hate society for this. If I follow the norms of society – college, 9 – 5 work days, a family at 30 – I will live through 10 more years of...
    WanaBAMama WanaBAMama 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    It'S Always Been What I Wanted

    Ever since I was young I knew I wanted to be a mother and have a family. I was blessed to fall in love and get engaged to the only man I have ever loved and the only man I ever wanted to father my children. I could see our futures coming together the day I found out I was...
    mafiagirl6 mafiagirl6 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    When Im Old Enough

    when im old enough i want to be the mother of a beautiful baby girl and name her after my bigg sissy. if i have a daughter first then idc what gender the second child is but if i have a son then i want the second to be a girl. i dont want to have only one child because then he or...
    AngryBirdsLegos AngryBirdsLegos 13-15, F Jul 8, 2012

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    I've always wanted to be a mother.

    I love working with kids. I want to get into a job that gets to work with kids like maybe being a teacher. Ever since I was small, I played with dolls and pretended they were my kids. As I grew up I started being trusted with actual toddlers and infants. One of my major goals...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 16-17, F Dec 17, 2013

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    I Cant Take It Any More!

    I cant help it anymore. My fiance wants to wait until im out of school but that will be years. My desire to have a baby is starting to physically hurt. I dream every night of being pregnant and having a baby. its all i want. I just want my life to start. i want my family. My...
    badxkittyx35 badxkittyx35 22-25, F Jul 17, 2012

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    Now I Feel That I Can Be One I Want to Be One.

    Having gone to hospital and sorted myself out and found the most wonderful and caring partner, I want to be a mother. I know that now I have the emotional wellbeing to be able to love a child unconditionally. I also know that when I make that choice it will be because both of us...
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2007

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    I Really Want To Be A Mother!

    I may sound immature, and I may only be twenty-years-old but if I could, I'd get married at this age or maybe when I'm twenty-one and I would start on making a family. I want to have six kids :) Yes, a real big family lol. Out of those six children, I would like to adopt two or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    Im Afraid

    I have a feeling that I am mostly sterile and Ill be honest, that scares the **** out of me.  I tried for three years of unprotected sex and got nothing until he left me for a younger girl he knocked up.  I found out I was two and a half months pregant (all...
    lonelyhands87 lonelyhands87 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    "So Now You Tell Me!"

    My boyfriend, whom I love so much has decided he doesn't want kids right now.  I feel as if he doesn't want any at all.  I don't want to wait and I feel this is unfair; since, he knows how much it means to me.  He already has two kids and that's...
    smooches smooches 22-25, F Jun 30, 2008

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    I Was a 'parentified Child' Who Wants Children of My Own.

     As a little girl, I took care of my little sisters.  I didn't get to 'find myself' in my early youth because I was a little mother.  My own mom was young when she had me [she was 21].  She worked full time and wanted to be many things that she put aside...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 2, 2009

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