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I Want to Be a Wife and Mother

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    Yes, a Lifetime Dream

    I do and always have wanted to be a wife and mother. I believe both roles can be and enriching. I know you do give up a bit of yourself, but when you do it willingly you get more out of it in return than what I give. If that makes any kind of sense. Now don't get me wrong I...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    I thought I would get married to someone I met

    in college the way my parents did. They were on a biology club field trip to the ocean. My mom, a freshman, was scared to go since her best friend and room mate was sick and couldn't go. She sat on the bus alone. My dad, a junior, got on the bus and says he saw the most...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F Jul 29, 2014

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    Yes Yes Yes

    i can't wait to grow up and get married and have kids. it will be swesome. i love kids and i can't wait to do wife duties. i love cooking in the kitchen and i can't believe my mum complains about having to cook every night. i'd love to cook every night. i can't wait to get...
    grapes305 grapes305 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 16, 2010

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    My Whole Lyfe

    For my whole lyfe i have always wanted too be a wife and a mother...but one of the things that worries me is that i will be lyke my mother..I want 2 or 3...maybe, MAYBE 4 lol i guess i will just have too see what happens in the future :)
    krissyluv krissyluv 16-17, F Aug 18, 2009

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    Ok where to begin....

    I've been dating my now Bf for almost 2 yrs now. At the beginning of our relationship he was this amazing smart funny guy who wanted to have kids and talked about proposing to me and just filling my head up with all these things. Well now anytime I talk about having kids and...
    lyfe2015 lyfe2015 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    :) Its not like i have always wanted to be a

    wife or a mother.I was different.Not your typical girl growing up.I enjoyed playing soccer with guys and wearing hoodies and baggy pants and i had no interest in all those girly stuffs. I never wanted to get married or be a wife and a mother but things have changed now.I love...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2014

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    I've Always Wanted to Be Both

    In 10 months I will be a wife. I can not wait. Although it already feels as if I am married. We bicker together like a married couple and we share money problems! Haha. I don't know how drastically being married will change us and I am hoping it doesn't do anything but bring...
    mbby mbby 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2009

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    I Only Wanted A Wife And Mother.

    I grew up with both parents my whole life. They had their fights and tough times, but loved each other through thick and thin. They had three great kids (myself included), and I hope someday they have grandkids to enjoy too. I am a nice guy, with a decent job, and I make...
    nate675309 nate675309 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Both my best friends are pregnant right now and are due around the same time. I'm so happy for them yet so sad at the same time cause I want experience motherhood with them.
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    This is my first experience here, I found it while searching for this very thing. Growing up I always seemed to have a strong bond with my mom. She and I left my real father...
    StillSleepingOutside StillSleepingOutside 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I’m so relieved to have found this thread. There’s so much I want to write and I just don’t know where to begin, but here it goes… I come from a culture where mothers...
    latinamerican35 latinamerican35 31-35, M 2 Responses May 12

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    Reference is made to post (http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Hate-My-Mother-In-Law/6693688). Thanks so much for sharing! I looked at the movie today and it made my blood...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love my mother as I love all my family and I know that she loves me, as, perhaps, only a mother can. However.... I think I was about 14 or 15 when my mother said to me, "You...
    LowRise LowRise 41-45, M May 10

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    Have you ever watched the movie; "TOO CLOSE TO HOME?" Judith Light starred in this {TRUE STORY}movie. The Mother in law was so controllive and some media printed that they actually...
    clergy7777 clergy7777 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I have written on here before.. I think like most, I do it to vent because the crap that is pulled is just insane.. Before I decided to write, I read a lot of post on here, some...
    bekah930 bekah930 46-50 7 Responses May 10

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    A man is driving with his wife at his side and his mother-in-law in the backseat. The women just won't leave him alone. His mother-in-law says, "You're driving too fast!" His...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 3 Responses May 14

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    Update to my in laws wanting to visit our home. My previous story (http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Hate-My-Mother-In-Law/5797843#reply_7961789) occurred on Monday...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I need help! I hate my mother in law! Any time her name is mentioned or I hear her voice I literally feel sick to my stomach! This woman has her hooks into my husband and I do not...
    pissedoff1966 pissedoff1966 46-50, F 4 Responses May 16

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    A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed at home. He wanted her to see what he went through each day, so he prayed :- "Dear Lord, I go to work...
    fortisvir fortisvir 31-35, M 5 Responses May 9

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    When I was younger, and people would ask me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I'd always say, "A wife and mother." I had dreamed of being married one day, and a stay at home...
    WeepingAngel811 WeepingAngel811 22-25, F 3 Responses May 12

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    Well, we arent married..yet...but we are in a committed, monogamous relationship. live together and planning on marriage down the road. His mom was super sweet to me at first when...
    bethkins24 bethkins24 46-50, F 3 Responses May 7

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    What is a Mother? For me I was lucky I had a friend’s mother stand up for me when I was young, and even before I fully understood what was being done I knew she loved me like her...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M May 9

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    Happy Mother's Day! My wife is a great mother.
    GreatLakesGuy GreatLakesGuy 51-55, M May 10

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    I came across this post, funny right at the time I have to make this decision. My choice is to move to a town 5 hours from my city life, leave a good job to move into a house with...
    Jackson0422 Jackson0422 36-40, F 4 Responses May 6

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    Sad but true. After 30+ years my secret is out. I left my personal gmail account open on the computer. Before bed last night she looked at the computer, glanced at my email and...
    steverick steverick 56-60, M 23 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am beyond stressed and cried out. My mother and her rude comments are going to soon drive me to my grave. After a year apart, my boyfriend is finally visiting for 10 days and...
    sailorsgf0314 sailorsgf0314 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    This morning I woke up to my step son yelling at my wife. When I told him to stop the attitude and be more respectful to his mother, he runs to her and says I'm mean to him. Then...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M May 9

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    I don't know who is the one but, I guess that one should be not hiding things to me and anything related to her or her family. I want to be loved. I don't know if I find that one...
    pontybroken pontybroken 26-30 1 Response May 6

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    My parents and I never had a very close relationship. I will admit that it is partially my fault, but it felt it necessary since I was little to put a distance between myself and...
    Marchi Marchi 22-25 May 6

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    Well my wife is stressed with dealing with her mother, she keeps telling her about doctor's appointments that need to be made and just be the typical mom, but with the added stress...
    Fotoman Fotoman 46-50, M 1 Response May 14

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    My fiancé and I were supposed to get married on 12/13/14. We have been engaged since May of 2011. We have called each other our "wife" since forever. Everything changed a week and...
    JustWantItToWork JustWantItToWork 26-30, F 3 Responses May 19

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    Luke 14:25-35New International Version (NIV) The Cost of Being a Disciple 25 Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: 26 “If anyone comes to me and...
    bhaktagerald bhaktagerald 41-45, M 1 Response May 4

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    My mother in law and sister in law really do the most! I am so fed up of them I wished there was a place I could banish them to, never to be seen again. As indicated in the...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 9 Responses May 7

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    I can't tell my family because I still get so defensive for him. I know he is wrong but I still care and i feel horrible for him at times and can't think of anyone else disliking...
    CC56591 CC56591 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    So I've just joined this site, and I joined it because I'm feeling some unhealthy feelings right now towards my mom, and I just have to vent. Usually my best friend is the one I...
    Mstootiredtocare Mstootiredtocare 18-21, F 3 Responses May 14

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    I've come to realize that I don't have any responsibilities concerning her, and that I really shouldn't worry myself about her. I do admit its hard for me to ignore her as my fianc...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F a week ago

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    I think my mother is psychotic...I'm not sure how to deal with her anymore. I'm 17 and I have been dreaming of the day when I turn 18 for so long now. As long as I can remember, my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 3

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    Because boredom and I need stories. 1. Name? Just call me Smiles from now on lol 2. Male or female? 'Tis a secret. 3. Were you named after anyone? Probably not. 4. Does...
    AnonSmiles AnonSmiles 16-17 1 Response May 3

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    My mother is emotionally abusive and I’ve only just began to see it. My mother is a sole parent to me and my younger brother. She left my father taking me and my brother with...
    throwawaybro throwawaybro 22-25, M May 5

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    It's has positives and negatives really. Some positives are she's hilarious when drunk and I can hear her puking in the bathroom.. Kinda funny. Also she lets me do whatever I want...
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 5 Responses May 7

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