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I Want to Be a Wife and Mother

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    I Only Wanted A Wife And Mother.

    I grew up with both parents my whole life. They had their fights and tough times, but loved each other through thick and thin. They had three great kids (myself included), and I hope someday they have grandkids to enjoy too. I am a nice guy, with a decent job, and I make...
    nate675309 nate675309 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    :) Its not like i have always wanted to be a

    wife or a mother.I was different.Not your typical girl growing up.I enjoyed playing soccer with guys and wearing hoodies and baggy pants and i had no interest in all those girly stuffs. I never wanted to get married or be a wife and a mother but things have changed now.I love...
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    I've Always Wanted to Be Both

    In 10 months I will be a wife. I can not wait. Although it already feels as if I am married. We bicker together like a married couple and we share money problems! Haha. I don't know how drastically being married will change us and I am hoping it doesn't do anything but bring...
    mbby mbby 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2009

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    Yes, a Lifetime Dream

    I do and always have wanted to be a wife and mother. I believe both roles can be and enriching. I know you do give up a bit of yourself, but when you do it willingly you get more out of it in return than what I give. If that makes any kind of sense. Now don't get me wrong I...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 4 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    Since I was 8 I've known

    that I wanted to be a wife and mother. I'm 30 now and it hasn't happened yet. Recently my longtime boyfriend that I love very much told me he doesn't want any(more) kids. He has one from a previous marriage. I am devastated. I moved 1000 miles away from everything I've ever...
    EMH1983 EMH1983 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    My family was more involved with making people believe we lived some perfect or amazing life but reality...it was all a show. Now, in comparison to others experiences i had it...
    bandelt7 bandelt7 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I was failing my Algebra 2 class back in Sophomore year I never told anyone I was doing bad in the class. Whenever other teachers and my parents/friends asked me how I was...
    Sigint8 Sigint8 18-21, M Mar 25

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    I'm tired of being there for everyone. It's not fair that I have to sacrifice my happiness for that of others. I enjoy helping others but when I finally need something for myself I...
    WinterUnicorn WinterUnicorn 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I dont know how to cope anymore. All you ever do is point out how much of a bad person I am all the time. You were supposed to help me, guide me, lift me up when I was down. But...
    lauraxxful lauraxxful 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    We accidentally met about a year ago April 2013 when I text a friend and he had changed his number without my knowledge. On the other end was a friendly woman..Linda. I Immediately...
    Trapped493 Trapped493 56-60, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Does a mother have the right to complain? Her 16-year-old daughter got pregnant when she was 16 and gave birth before her 17 birthdays. Her grand daughter lives with the child...
    jrigole jrigole 22-25 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Sometimes i think where would I be without my babies? Wow my life would be worth nothing right now without them! I have grown to understand that children truly are a gift. They are...
    Ttbaby23 Ttbaby23 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    That's a rarity these days.. at least for guys around my age. Hah. They're too busy trying to act cool and talk **** to their mother in front of other people. In fact, I admire...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 12 hrs ago

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    Wife is cooking dinner ..........
    Miguel1987 Miguel1987 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    Well for the last 10 years I have been married and over the last 3 years I now fear my wife emotionally. Since we had our first child life has slowly gone to ****. After our first...
    cyborg333 cyborg333 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    my home town was founded by my great grandfather ,,,my uncle was the first mayor there ,,and was unopposed till he retired and retired from Patrick Air Force base in Florida as did...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    MY NAME IS JANICES WALLOCKS FROM HOUSTON,TEXAS.I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS OR MAGIC UNTIL I MET THIS SPELL CASTER ONCE WHEN I WENT TO AFRICA IN DECEMBER LAST YEAR ON A BUSINESS...
    jm60centjmartin jm60centjmartin 26-30 4 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I love her even though 95 percent of the time she does the wrong thing and make me feel like garbage. But shes not a real mom to me I want a mom that I can trust who I can show...
    MysteriousShadow MysteriousShadow 18-21, F 51 mins ago

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    Here is my most embarrassing nude story. My wife and I were visiting her parents. It was the morning after our arrival and we were asleep when the smoke alarm went off. I jumped...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M Apr 9

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    My mother lied to me my whole youth about who my father was. I was told my father was my mother’s first husband. Meanwhile my mother married my step father when I was just 20...
    dwc294 dwc294 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I am a very open person, and you usually have to literally be trying to get on my bad side in order to do it... My Mother-in-Law manages it spectacularly. I have never met such a...
    gladmadhatter gladmadhatter 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am a mother of four children. I have two boys and two girls. My kids ages are 4, 6, 9, and 13.
    mombusyoncomputer mombusyoncomputer 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I was raised from infancy by my Hungarian grandmother in Argentina. She said very little about my parents aside from to tell me that I was not kidnapped because her son is my...
    ArgentineJailbird ArgentineJailbird 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    My mother in law is the most miserable pesto I have ever met. The hardest part is we live with her for the time being. She will live with us for another 2 years while she and her...
    jrobinson81 jrobinson81 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My mother suddenly died two years ago at age 57 and my father started dating again shortly after. It was understandably an incredibly horrific time for my father and it was...
    SisyphusGirl SisyphusGirl 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I met my girlfriend in 1994 (True Love - 6 hours apart - highest long distance bills ever paid in my life). In the summer of '95, I drove to see her again. We hit it off again...
    daveredding daveredding 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Since i've been young, my mother has always been drinking. It wasn't that much whilst i was younger but i wish i had not been have to do the things i did. I have multiple stories...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My mother is awful. I can't even explain how much she's tortured my sisters and I over the years. She makes us think that she will actually be a mother. And when she's gained our...
    agirltoremember agirltoremember 13-15, F Apr 1

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    Did You Hear Me Crying Mama?- Though the scene unfolded over a decade ago I can still see it clearly. There's 11 year old me kneeling with face to the wall and arms up like I've...
    UnwantedMutt UnwantedMutt 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I have been with my wife now for 30 years and I don't think I can take it anymore. She has cheated on me three times but I forgot and forgave. I forgave her because we have four...
    jsk007 jsk007 46-50, M Apr 4

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    My mil and fil just moved about 45 minutes away from us. Before they lived about 5 or 6 hours away. Before they moved my fil answered the phone when I called to talk to mil one day...
    Jpgirlie Jpgirlie 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Im 54 married, retired happy, my wife retires in 2 yrs we have a plan for our future. My brother who is 51 has been abusing drugs and alcohol for 35 years...he blames everything on...
    ventingman ventingman 51-55, M Apr 15

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    My wife spends all her time with her like they are married. There is nothing wrong with my mother in law. She has always been pampered and my wife takes it hook line and sinker...
    beachesr beachesr 36-40, M Apr 9

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    I wanted to take a moment to reflect on a common theme I see on this forum and I have lived it myself. #1 – We find the person we want to spend our life with #2 – Things go...
    BoundariesSet BoundariesSet 46-50 6 Responses Mar 28

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    I feel like deep inside no matter how hard I work to be a wife my mother in law secretly thinks its not good enough, she dont eat what I cook but everybody and everyone loves my...
    asianlove77 asianlove77 26-30, F Mar 28

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    *SPOILER ALERT, DON'T READ IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THE FINALE AND YOU ARE A FAN* So I finally got round to it... The last ever episode... When Ted finally meets his future kids Mother...
    iBabe iBabe 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I've never been one to put much stock into signs.. My sister in law tends to say things like, "Oh, we were just talking about that, and look! It must be a sign, you should do it...
    hourbyhour163 hourbyhour163 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    It seems very hard for SOME people to differentiate between family and family. I have said numerous times that im sad because I want my own family and I feel alone and incomplete...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 2

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    She Drove Me Away With Her Jealousy-Technically I am her only child. Not the only one born,but the only one who lived with her. Her sons were raised by their grandmother on their...
    ZolotayaWurola ZolotayaWurola 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Well , here you are 100 things I want to share about myself . . 1 - I am a Muslim wife. 2 - I am in my thirties. 3 - I am Egyptian and living in Cairo. 4 - I am newly married. 5...
    Rodwali Rodwali 31-35, F Mar 23

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    Once Again Love I was a Reiki master, also conducting courses in Emotional Intelligence , for approximately ten years. Moreover, I was a happy wife and mother, living and...
    Sarita07 Sarita07 51-55, F Mar 26

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    What ten minutes of your life would you choose to return to for just ten minutes? The reality is we never get that choice in a conscious manner, happenstance or serendipitous...
    oldbaldguy oldbaldguy 70+, M Mar 30

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    Hey ladies! So I'm a fairly new Marine girlfriend. I met my Marine through my stepmom.... ironically her boss is his mother. :) She knew about me from talks with my stepmom and...
    JELarson3514 JELarson3514 26-30, F Apr 4

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    This was something I thought was a phase, but the more I grow older, the more I realize that I truly would find more peace without being in a marriage. I'm going to turn 23. Today...
    franny21 franny21 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I started to write an upset email to bf not to break up but to share with him later and discuss my feelings. I am 17 he is 18 and lives with his family. He's going to college in 4...
    carebare124 carebare124 18-21 4 days ago

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    I want to tell a story of how a little faith and an offering changed my life it was 19 yrs ago last Friday,,,I had been listning to Pastor Rod Parsley ,,He was preaching on the...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 4 days ago

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    I need to share my story and get some advice. My mother was a seventeen year old when she married my dad. As far as I know she didn't love him. According to her she wanted to call...
    Bellamae Bellamae 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've just come off the phone with my mother. I feel so emotionally shot. I can't think about anything else except how awful our relationship is. I'm 33, the only daughter of a...
    DamhRoz DamhRoz 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I occasionally come across a group of people who feel adamant about me writing a autobiography. Every time somebody says this to me, I find myself swollen with pride from the...
    CaraLina CaraLina 18-21 21 hrs ago

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    I was born with a normal family,. A mother, father, older brother and older sister. However, once I turned the age of 3, my mother decided to undergo gender reassignment surgery...
    Mzamigo Mzamigo 18-21, F Mar 24

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