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I Want to Be a Woman

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    Dealing With The Insults And Putdowns

    It's sad to say, but there are a lot of people that go out of their way to put down and insult someone who is a transgender person. Generally these people look like something you might scrape off the bottom of your shoe, but sometimes even good people seem to enjoy hurting the...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Reinvention

    You can teach an old dog new tricks!Over the past month or so I have written concerning the physical part of my transgendered journey and tossed the social aspects into the background.Interestingly, I am teaching myself new "trans" tricks.As sure as I was of my "socialization" as...
    cyrsti cyrsti 61-65, T 2 Responses Feb 2, 2012

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    I Wish I Was A Woman

    I rather be a woman than a man I really would If I really could But don't if I should I know I would If I really could
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 1 Response Aug 27, 2013

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    Dream Or Desire???

    I have always had dream that I am being turned into a woman with a beautiful body,my clothes are changing into mini skirt and shoes I am wearing are changing to high heels.I can't just control this feeling.One day my mom told ,I was talking in sleep that I am whether male or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 32 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    I wish it were the case

    that wearing women's clothing would be entirely appropriate and unremarkable because I would be perceived as a woman.
    mistypink mistypink 41-45, T 1 Response Aug 21

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    Are Transgender Times Better?

    I heard a line "That depends on where you sit and what cards you hold". Over the past week or so we have witnessed several positive influences on the transgender community. Three I can think of are the Ontario Canadian ruling, the Melissa Harris- interview and the Glee program. I...
    cyrsti cyrsti 61-65, T Apr 22, 2012

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    I can't take it anymore,

    I want to be a woman right now and I don't want to wait anymore. It is all I have ever wanted, I can't stop thinking about it anymore, It is all I have ever wanted to be free and finally be at peace ad out of this horrific terrible pain I'm in, I do not know how much longer I...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 4 Responses Aug 19

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    Where To Begin...

    Well, I'm 15 and depressed/ADHD Since about 10-12ish I haven't felt 'right' and since then and for as long as I can remember, I have never felt totally perfect, like there was always something wrong. These feeling have increased since then and through puberty and I'm scared...
    Kayecie Kayecie 16-17, T 11 Responses Apr 22, 2010

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    I have been thinking a lot today about being a

    woman, it seems to have consumed all my thoughts today and is all I think about, It would be so very wonderful and awesome to finally be the woman I was meant to be and have desired so very strongly for so very long. I would love to have my penis removed and finally be turned...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 6 Responses Mar 21

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    Well, I guess my story is similar to other

    people here. As a very young child (3 I think) I used to dress up in dresses my sisters had. That is what my parents said anyway. Then as a 8 year old I realised that I wanted to wear girls clothes. As any other child, I was scared to tell anyone, so I hid my feelings for 6...
    tommyholmes tommyholmes 13-15, T 2 Responses Feb 9

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    Wanting ...

    I've never felt right in this body but did my part and played the part. Sometimes I want so bad to be a woman my body actually aches.            
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 9 Responses Jul 11, 2008

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    I Would Love To Be A Woman So Much

    My story is similar to a lot of others I have read here. I think constantly about being a woman and have many fantasies about how my life would be ... I would love to have sex as a woman - that must be in a whole new dimension! I have a wardrobe and have recently started...
    BeingWomanWondeful BeingWomanWondeful 18-21 2 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Guilty

    I have been married for over 25 years and I need to be female. My wife knows I have a "problem" but she has no idea how deep the rabbit hole is. And I feel guilty.
    dianes826 dianes826 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Love The Weekend

    Hi my name is ------ but at the weekend it all changes i am Tabitha every Friday evening till Sunday . Oh i just adore this time when i really feel as i should be everything about the experience is just so nice . I have been doing the same thing for a nearly a year now and never...
    tabithastephens tabithastephens 31-35 9 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    Girlys

    I heard in a documentary that women are better able than men to adapt their sexuality to homo or heterosexuality. I think this is aided in part by not having to get erect to have sex with someone. If I had the body for it, I would get a sex change. But my shoulders are too broad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 12, 2013

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    My Story

    Hello everyone I am16 years old and yet though puberty quite late. A few months ago, I found my mums vibrator that is is the shape of a penis. It has veins and the end of the penis and it is pink. I was alone in the house so I took of my clothes and put on one of my mums bras and...
    rob290896 rob290896 18-21, M Mar 11, 2013

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    Bad

    I have been thinking about wanting to be a woman so much lately, that it has consumed my whole thoughts and can not stop thinking about how wonderful being a woman would be. I want want want want want want to be a woman and want to be a woman so bad sometimes I don't know how...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 11 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    I WISH I WAS A WOMAN!

    WOMANS ARE AMAZING!
    Anjolie03 Anjolie03 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 6

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    Another Sun Filled Cloudy Day

    Here being in a commonwealth state, there always are gonna be somebody saying, "You're so handsome, why do you wanna wear makeup." I get so sick of hearing that sh**. I just wanta go somewhere and just be me.
    EyezAngel EyezAngel 36-40 1 Response Jun 28, 2013

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    I am now 71, and too old to do anything about

    this. But I have always longed to be a woman. To dress sexily like a woman can, to have sex like a woman, to teeter on tiptoe like a woman - all totally thrilling and wonderful. Unfortunately when younger, modern medical advances were only just appearing. There was still some...
    peter13942 peter13942 70+, M 5 Responses Jun 29

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    I'm Transgender And I'm Only Just Accepting It

    I'm 22 years old and was born a male. As long as i can remember even before i started at nursery or school i wanted to be a girl, i was more interested in girls things, girls toy's girls clothes, all my friends where girls, i didn't know there was anything ''wrong'' or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    As long as i can remember i have wanted to be a

    woman but i am only 14 sowhat should i do???? Please help me make a difficult choice.
    tommyholmes tommyholmes 13-15, T 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I Want To Be A Girl But I Dont Know What To Do

    i have thought that ive should have been a girl since about 8 maybe a lil earily im 15 now my parent would not understand they would be pretty mad as will as the rest of my family and i pretty much dont get to see anyone else beside my family so i ain't got anyone to talk to i...
    alexj1998 alexj1998 18-21, T 2 Responses Apr 4, 2013

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    First Time In Public

    I've decided to take the plunge and go for it! I have selected a conservative outfit to wear for the first time, in order to help me build confidence to work my way towards more sexy attire. I am going to wear a long black skirt with a coloured checked blouse, and apply a...
    BeingWomanWondeful BeingWomanWondeful 18-21 5 Responses Oct 6, 2013

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    I Have Just Come Out

    Hi well my current name is John! but I have just come out after years of hiding the real me and who I have always felt I should be with help from my counciler I have been able to come out and realise that everyone around me who actualy care about me and my true friends will stand...
    Nikayla Nikayla 26-30, T 11 Responses Sep 4, 2008

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    I Love Being A Women Is That Wrong?

    I am only 23 but lately i have been sneaking into my sisters room and putting her clothes on and her make up and she caught me mid way one day and she has dressed me up every saturday night ithe truth is ii prefer being a woman so should i do something?
    Lightgiver1878 Lightgiver1878 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Physique Versus Inner Truth

    so I can live with myself and follow my natural path
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2013

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    The Female Eyes Tell It All

    On occasion I believe I have forgotten more of what has gotten me to this point of my life than I remember. Some of the more basic strategies I learned to judge and edge my way into the world have all made their way into the back of my memory or that much ignored book of mine...
    cyrsti cyrsti 61-65, T 1 Response May 19, 2012

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    Female Fantasies

    While I do plan to dress up and go out in public in the near future, most of my desires to be a girl or woman centre around having certain identities. One of my favourite is imagining being certain girls or women I have known at various points in my life and creating situational...
    BeingWomanWondeful BeingWomanWondeful 18-21 3 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    This Is Something That Has Bugged Me Since I Was Like 11-12

    Ever since I was around 11-12, I've wanted to be a girl, like every fiber of my being has wanted it. It's an uncontrollable desire, which varies from, "I'm alright with the way I am now, but still being a girl would be better" and "I completely and utterly ******* hate being a...
    Detedagowa Detedagowa 22-25 1 Response Oct 19, 2013

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    Do I Really Want To Be A Women?

    I'm a 13 year old boy and about a year ago I suddenly felt the need to put on my mothers clothes. After weeks the feeling was so strong that when I was home alone I snuck into my moms room and dressed up like she would. It felt so great, then I realized I was getting hard and for...
    Confusedboy99 Confusedboy99 13-15 3 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    I Want To Be A Woman 100%

    Hello I'm new in here I have always wanted is to be a girl since I was young age about 8 years old I want to grow breasts and have a vagina I would like to find someone in same way that I can go through my transitioning I need a new home where I can do so please message me if u...
    sofie35 sofie35 31-35, T 3 Responses Dec 25, 2012

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    I am a teenage girl. I am the brainy,

    creative, slightly weird girl in the corner. I'm the one who can ace the test without listening in class or studying. But what I really want- is to be a woman. A proper woman, not a mad genius type. I know I'll probably never be one, bit a girl can hope, can't she?
    kennedy10505 kennedy10505 13-15, F 1 Response May 13

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    Knew It Very Early In Life

    I can recall sitting on the front porch with my mother tying my shoes for me. I must have been three years old. It was the first time that I truly understood from my mother that I was a boy. I remember thinking to myself, this isn't fair, I don't want to be a boy I want to be a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    I have known since a fairly young age

    that I didn't feel like a male. The urge is so strong now I feel as if I'm living a lie, if I was offered the chance to change sex I would do it tomorrow. It used to all be about presenting myself as a female and wearing nice feminine clothes but over the last few years it has...
    LisaTG LisaTG 26-30, T 4 Responses Jun 11

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    This is a bit of an update,

    but mostly I want to vent about something. First off, as I said in a previous post, I recently moved. I'd said I'll start the pills again in May, but the friend I was going to move in with got engaged a week before I was to move, and as it was much too late to not move (my...
    AlicePickford AlicePickford 22-25, F May 8

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    Decision

    My sis dressed me up in female clothes and I like the feel of female clothes on me. Bad just recently I've come to realize that I'm destined to become a sissy boy. I'd like to wake up to a girl saying good morning Andrea(my female name I want to be called by). And then have her...
    Destroyer456 Destroyer456 18-21 2 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    I have known since age 6 I was not a boy,

    always played with girls. Dress up and slumber parties. Thirty years later all my spare time is consumes by girly things. My female wardrobe is 5 times as big as male. All I do is think and plan on becoming a woman one of these days.
    belinda23 belinda23 36-40 3 Responses May 11

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    All I want to be is a woman,

    I want to feel the silky soft feeling of womens clothes on my male skin, can anyone tell me what women's clothes feel like?? Also I am only 14, and all I can ever think about is wearing womens clothes and ultimately having the necessary surgery to become a woman (plus the...
    tommyholmes tommyholmes 13-15, T 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Does Anyone Else Get This.... Ache?

    Between your legs..... you know, where your vagina would be if you had one. It's like.... I want to be stretched, to be filled, but there's just.... nothing there to be filled. (I mean sure there's the anus, but it's not the same...) Sometimes I press really hard where the vagina...
    jimmyjohns33 jimmyjohns33 22-25 3 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    My Fantacy By Raju 2

    Evening i went to beauty parlour wearing a green churidaar and black slex. i was fearing a little what will happen if someone identify me? but i was lucky enough. No body could identify me as a male. shopkeeper asked- Mam, would you like to go with latest fashion in nails. she...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21 2 Responses Jun 11, 2012

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    Is J.c. Penny's Transphobic?

    Probably not but after you read this isolated story, you should at least wonder if they have policies similar to "Macy's". Discrimation at Florence, SC JC Penney (Magnola Mall...
    cyrsti cyrsti 61-65, T 3 Responses Mar 4, 2012

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    So here I am. Mid 30s closeted crossdresser.

    I have a family and a great job. We're not without our problems, financially and emotionally, but I can't help being selfish and wanting to explore transitioning to female. This is the second time I've had to deal with these thoughts, feeling, and desires. The first came right...
    dressyjessy dressyjessy 31-35, T 3 Responses Feb 25

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    I am just now discovering how I feel looking

    back now I realize I've always wanted to be a woman it explains why I've never really felt like one of the guys and why girls always wanted to be my friend one even called me her not gay gay friend it bothered me for awhile but now thinking about it kinda comforts me cause it's...
    Longing2Beme Longing2Beme 18-21, T 3 Responses Apr 20

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    Gift

    What I want more than anything for Christmas, is to wakr up Christmas morning and be a complete woman, I have wanted this most of all every year for as long as I can remember. It would be my ultimate Christmas present and I wish for it every year. If it was to happen I wouldn't...
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 3 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    I've wanted to be female

    since I was about 14. I am attracted towards women. I am not interested in make-up, dresses, high heels, or any of that. I'm fine with my societal gender role, however it's my body that I am uncomfortable with. Overall, it's my genitals and lack of breasts that torments me the...
    Clairvoyant1 Clairvoyant1 16-17, T 3 Responses Jun 23

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    Now

    I want to be a woman right now and would give anything for this to happen right now, I don't want to wait anymore.
    wtbwoman wtbwoman 41-45 Jul 9, 2013

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    The last several years I have been exploring

    the feelings of wanting to be a woman, and wonder what the actual experience would be like. Unlike others, it's not something I've known since childhood (that I can remember, anyway) - it's more of a later-onset kind of thing.
    mistypink mistypink 41-45, T 2 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    April 20,2012.

    today i left work early.i had shaved the day before so i felt extra horny.just wanted to get home shower and be me...shower was amazing,shaved my legs and washed myself spotless.walked around and did some home things in my favorite underwear until i was fairly dry.i bought new...
    kerrilynn38 kerrilynn38 36-40, T 2 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I have wanted to be a girl

    since I was about 6-7. I remember telling my mom i wish I was born a girl. Then she started freakin. I've only recently started trying to reach out to make some trans friends but it seems like most of them are real mean and don't give a **** about me or my problems So far every...
    cj165 cj165 22-25 6 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    woman look adorable, she looks as a boon on earth. I respect her too much that even I use to wear like her infact I am known in area for wearing them and living like a lady..but...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21 5 hrs ago

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    And WOW what a crazy full of energy and sexy woman she is. Don't know if there is a relationship there or not but as far as first dates go.. This one was wild and fun. Not going...
    HeFeedee HeFeedee 46-50, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    My father is Portuguese,Black, and Puertorican and my mother is full Puertorican. I consider myself mixed because I do have black "features" I have tight curly wavy hair, tanned...
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