I Want to Be Appreciated

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    I just want you to want me.

    Is that to much to ask?
    BadGirlLost BadGirlLost
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    I thought ex husband would plan a out date just

    for the both of us as he was winning me back but ended up being with his friends. I can't help but get hurt and wonder if I would ever really be his priority
    prettierinpink prettierinpink
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    I want to be appreciated.

    It's mentally exhausting. I do everything I can for my family. But I always seem to get put on the back burner. I raise our children. I take care of them. I make sure they are safe. So why...why am I always left to deal with things on my own. I try to speak about it and just get...
    beautifullymodified beautifullymodified
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    It's funny all the things you do

    for people but they only notice the one time you say NO 😤
    deeunexplainable deeunexplainable
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2015

    I've decided through all of the gay jokes going

    around in my house that I'm telling my parents I'm bi by walking in with a girlfriend :) Either that or I won't tell them and they will just think we are best friends haha. I like this :)
    Brooke6813 Brooke6813
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 27, 2015

    I've always wanted to fall in love with a

    country guy. I have no idea why and that frustrates me. But here's a picture of a barn. A girl can dream I guess..
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2015

    I don't think people get me?

    Becuase I have a past I live in a really small town so I am really well known i feel like no one seems to take me seriously , I do actually care about a lot more than they obviously think I do💤💤
    zlr17 zlr17
    18-21, F
    Dec 9, 2015

    I am so broken I need a good friend to share my

    feelings with and ask for help advice.. Life is so hard
    faroo93 faroo93
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 26, 2015

    i have issues where i feel like people take me

    for granted. everything i do to help. whether its to make you laugh, see the bright side, talk about dark stuff, exchange weird drawings or even talking about games and films. im always there and feel like i a cheap luxury that people abuse like alcohol cigarettes and chocolate...
    twoinnerwolves twoinnerwolves
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 24, 2015

    The more you push me the further away from you

    I'll get. Once I'm gone I'm gone. And I'm not coming back I promise.
    shefreckles shefreckles
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 29
    lmittal lmittal
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    Today is the 25 of March,

    Easter Friday, and it's my birthday. Expecting someone will remember my birthday or even a greet that would be nice. It's already 6 pm cooking dinner for them until now no one will greet me. When I open my fb at least I have heaps greetings from friends, sister and from my work...
    Hearthbeat Hearthbeat
    31-35, F
    43 Responses Mar 25

    I want to feel like I am more

    than just another girl
    JessLion JessLion
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Feb 24

    No one ever appreciates what I do,

    no one at all. My family never appreciates what I do, I'm such an outcast...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    "She didn't need to be saved.

    She need to be found and appreciated, for exactly who she was."
    xblurryfacex xblurryfacex
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 25

    I want to know someone

    that appreciates me for caring and loving them. I believe in giving unconditional love that comes from within, this is not based on any judgement.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 26

    I had a two year relationship end about a month

    ago. I've gotten over it, its just that I miss some aspects of it. I liked knowing that someone would always be there for me, and having someone appreciate me. I just miss it :/
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 16

    I want to be known I want to inspire I want

    to help I want to love I want to feel complete and happy
    LonelyWolf1 LonelyWolf1
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 3

    I have really ****** up.

    Why do I put myself in ****** situations and get trampled upon?
    justalostguy justalostguy
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Nov 21, 2015

    Everybody talks about me behind my back

    even my "Friends" everyone thinks I'm weird people are mean to me all the time I act like myself all the time their is nothing wrong with me I'm good in every single subject but it has gotten really bad even people who haven't met me before and have heard rumours think I'm weird...
    Lilysonic Lilysonic
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2015

    I hate when people take my kindness

    for weakness. Just because I don't mind giving a helping hand, doesn't mean I don't need one at times.
    bellymont bellymont
    31-35, M
    Apr 16, 2015

    Don't we all? Perhaps some more

    than others and some less then the average person. It is hard to keep caring when nobody seems to appreciate the things you do for them. Givers are always going to give more than they receive. Some people are embarrassed by generosity and some think that you will want something...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 13, 2015

    My name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs.

    I want a girlfriend that will make me feel loved and appreciated
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 18

    I like me. I am a special person.

    I deserve to be appreciated. It does not take a lot of energy, just effort.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    yea it sucks being everything to everyone

    and you still cant feel the love you need coming back where is karma at now
    sexymangirl sexymangirl
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 21

    I just want someone to be happy

    that I'm home after a 10hour work day. genuinely happy. am I asking to much?
    ctestore30 ctestore30
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    My husband got off work late today at 8pm ,

    he usually get off at 6pm but I understand sometimes he has to get off late . I called him when he got off and asked what's going on he then said he just got off work and that he was going to get something to smoke and head home . His job is literally less than 10 minutes away...
    KiwiBerry1 KiwiBerry1
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Apr 5
    Peter11260 Peter11260
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Feb 23

    Hey boo <3 come clean my room

    and appreciate me for being cute lol jk jk don't message me sayin rude stuff I'm just playing haha
    KittyCakeBooty KittyCakeBooty
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 8

    Its pretty sad when I

    rather be working all day or working at the gym than going home and feeling like sh*t constantly...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    Deep down inside.....

    There's this little girl who craves tenderness. Words that will bring tears of joy. Touches that warm the heart. Warmth and laughter shared as we enjoy a bath. Soothing comfort as they brush my hair. Words of affirmation as warm hands sooth my aches. My cheek on...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Apr 19, 2015
    martyy88 martyy88
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 3

    I don't know what's going on with me.

    My fiancé has been spending to much time with his buddy I'm trying not to over think it but I can't he is always in my house in getting so annoyed I don't have space he wakes up first thing in the morning they are on the phone then he come to our house he doesn't work all he...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 3, 2015

    I have an abnormal ekg

    and I'm still dizzy, and I'm still trying to go to school
    Brooke6813 Brooke6813
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Dec 10, 2015


    thegavel11993 thegavel11993
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 4

    So yesterday when I took a walk with a newer

    friend of mine we talked abit about mine and her life and we got to the point where I was transgender. Another group of people walked past us on the street and they started laughing, later I saw the following us. So I decided to kindly ask them why they turned around. And the...
    EmilySint EmilySint
    18-21, T
    1 Response Feb 1

    I just feel like I'm not needed anywhere.

    nothing I do matters and just goes unnoticed. I don't play a part in life, I'm just here
    recall2007 recall2007
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2015

    I am going to start anew.

    New season, new emotions, new plans. Looking forward to it. Long overdue.
    SexyMomma37 SexyMomma37
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    So when an old friend looks you up

    and you guys hit it off like it's not been 7 years. Friendship is going well and it's almost been a year.You have to hide the friendship because of past issues and don't want their to be any silliness over it and all of a sudden the person just stops getting a hold of you. even...
    AshleyTn2012 AshleyTn2012
    26-30, F
    Apr 3

    I cant wait for the day

    when somebody tells me i am tge best thing that ever happened to them & they actually means it .
    desistories desistories
    22-25, F
    Jul 6, 2015

    I want to be appreciated

    and feel like I'm good enough
    AllisonDeajaVu AllisonDeajaVu
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    Well see my name is Robert,

    I'm 22 and I'm unhappy:( Because I don't have a lot of friends,friendships,respect and my girlfriend broke up with me last year.I mean I try to be as positive as I can,which helps,but I still wish that I could do what other people are doing like,like being able to text and call...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 2

    This feeling does not exist in my life :/ I'm

    not appreciated by my Residents at work and by the people in my home life! feel like I'm just muddling through :(
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 17, 2015

    My last relationship ended badly.

    We were together for almost 3 years. I'm not a perfect guy, nobody is, but I am a damn good guy. I did all the cooking, did all the dishes, did the laundry, cleaned, always listened to her and gave her my undivided attention, I worked hard, I told her she was beautiful (and...
    ConsciousDrifter ConsciousDrifter
    31-35, M
    7 Responses Jan 3
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Nov 20, 2015

    I told a woman her son is ugly

    and she get offended like wtf ppl need to appreciate me
    naomithequeen naomithequeen
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 26

    I want to be appreciated

    for who I am and the things I've done
    Vswagger Vswagger
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jun 19, 2015

    Change Is Unlikely

    When you live with someone who is totally self-absorbed it's difficult to come within range of their vision as they are always focused on themselves.  I won't go into all the difficulties I have in my marriage ... and believe me ... there are many ... but my husband is someone...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    18 Responses Jul 17, 2011

    Recently I have had a friend,

    we met through work and became really good and close friends we'd chat and see each other a few times a week... Anyway she got an new job we knew we wouldn't chat/see each other very much but we were never in each others pockets so it wasn't a big deal. However now everytime I...
    emzynutt emzynutt
    22-25, F
    Feb 11

    Appreciation from others is overrated.

    I strived for years to get any form of recognition from my father, even after we hadn't spoke in almost 5 years, by his choice. I wasted so many years thinking I was doing right, but when I really took a step back and looked at my life, I was living a life I thought other people...
    Needstounleash Needstounleash
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Aug 8, 2015
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