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I Want To Be Completely Submissive To My Husband

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    He Just Took It!

    At a friends house for the weekend. We were all parting and having drinks. I was a little tipsy when my husband got back from work. After our friends went to bed and we sat outside on the balcony. We are sitting side by side in plastic chairs. I told my husband "I wanna go in...
    silencedshy silencedshy 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    Getting Married Soon

    I'm getting married soon.... I love my future husband but for some strange reason he thinks I need to be more submissive for him.... I cook, I clean, I bathe him, I do whatever it is that he wants.... I'm not understand how much more submissive can I be.... I can't start my day...
    GERRI007 GERRI007 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2012

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    This Is Such A Beautiful Desire.

    I love how it is worded that you want to be submissive to him. This is my greatest desire too. I want a wife who will submit and do anything I ask of her. More than that serve me in ways I haven't thought to ask yet or maybe would not ask because I love her. I want her to think...
    bunnyhunterz bunnyhunterz 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    It's A State Of Mind

    I think that the first step in being submissive is to begin to think of yourself as a submissive woman. Indeed it helps to have a husband to keep you in your place, correcting you when you need it, but my point is, subission is a mental, emotional, psychic state. I try, really...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    The Difference

    There is a huge difference between Biblical Submission and the BDSM lifestyle. There isn't anything wrong with either, but I am Biblically Submissive WITHOUT getting into the BDSM thing.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2013

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    Does Your Husband Let You **** Him Like A *****?

    Wanting to own a woman. Wanting to owned by a man. That would tap into RAW power. Where does that come from? The body or the mind? Or both? I believe, (actually I know) that we are souls with bodies. We feel things physically like ejaculations but an ****** is not physical...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Because

    All my life I have wanted to be a wife. Like my mother, I saw being a devoted and obedient wife to her husband, as the essence of being a woman. My upbringing was one of learning how to please and be pleasing to men, since to me, a womans life without a man at its center is...
    mrsrachelle mrsrachelle 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 4, 2010

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    Learner Submissive

    I decided a while ago that I wanted to be submissive to my husband. Starting first in the sexual area and now actually in the home. This is going to take some getting used to as he is not a strong, opinionated man, nor am I the lay down and take it type of person. We have been...
    Mouse00 Mouse00 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2012

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    A Plan For Wives Who Want To Be Dominated

    I am contacted quite often by married women who want to experience domination at the hands of a powerful man. This seems to be a natural conclusion of spending your life in a marriage. Women become more submissive and at the same time their libido increases as they get older...
    bunnyhunterz bunnyhunterz 31-35, M 6 Responses Sep 28, 2011

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    How To Be More Submissive When You're Naturally Independent

    I'm a manager at work and I'm naturally independent. I love to learn new things and do intellectual things but my husband loves home-things. He likes us to cook together and do renovations together, always with him leading and me as the support. I would much rather be painting...
    coconutkitten coconutkitten 26-30, F Aug 13, 2013

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    But How?

    I have a desire to be completely submissive, but it is also a struggle. How can I make this attitude a permanent part of my life?
    Smithygirl12 Smithygirl12 22-25, F 7 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I Want To Be Submissive To My Husband

    I have been interested in the BDSM lifestyle for over 15 years. I have been married for 16. About 8 years ago we both discovered that we had an interest in the lifestyle. We purchased books, restraints and toys to add to our play. We played about 2 times and everything is now...
    tobetalssub tobetalssub 36-40 5 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Submissive With Stepsons?

      I'm a so far single girl from Sweden that dream to go to US and live there. I am very submissive and want to try to truly live that life. I also like older men and have chatted with some that would like to marry me, but some of them have kids and that's kinda a problem...
    bimbolena bimbolena 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Have I Found Him?

    My entire life, all I've wanted to do was be a mother and a wife. After one failed marriage (not of my doing) I think I have finally found a man that thinks about submissiveness the way I do. I have this deep desire to be submissive to my husband (the man I marry) sexually and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 8, 2012

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    I Want A Complete Submissive Nympho Wife!

    Title says it all, if you think you are one, contact me now, I'm waiting for you...
    nluvlorn nluvlorn 31-35, M May 19, 2012

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    Have Always Thought Something Was Wrong With Me

    I have always fantasized about being in a Relationship where my Husband was dominant. but I have always been afraid to say something about it. My Fiancée is a Dominant Personality, and he has recently found out I am a submissive in the bedroom and I can tell he loves that. There...
    Cgomez16 Cgomez16 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    This is what I would truly love to find at some point!!!!!
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    Would love to meet a cool guy who was Dom and into a Sub Sissy Boi!
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    I'm going to give you what you crave and what I want.
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    I'm completely comfortable with who I am but I have no idea if the average person finds me attractive so I'm just curious. Good or bad, I can take it :P
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    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    My dom is also my boyfriend, and eventually my husband. I'm just so confused because I want to bear his children. But how can I possibly focus all my attention on him while being...
    D0miniques D0miniques 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I realized to be submissive before marriage accepting a little play with my future husband and another guy. After marriage we had other experience and I had been the centre of...
    Homemakermom Homemakermom 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband is the epitome of alpha male and I love it!! One of the sexiest things about him is that he never abuses his ability to dominate. Even though he knows how powerful he is...
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    When I say I submit to my husband, it's usually assumed that I do this because of religious reasons, but that's not the case at all. I believe men and women have different roles...
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    I'm not completely unhappy with my life. In fact, I'm actually pretty happy with it overall with the exception of my education and career. When the economy collapsed, my education...
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    I was abused from birth by family members and then by my husband, from whom I finally escaped. I have had a few other very traumatic things happen in my life as well. Because I...
    JaneG8 JaneG8 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    He told me I have to blog again I wrote a blog today when I was going through a very rough time. I feel I am doing better. I think that some of you were right. I am depressed. It...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F Jul 19

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    Tonight is another example of how my husband is showing me that he does not want to be married and/or have a family. He was supposed to come home for dinner. Then he calls me to...
    wendymrtns wendymrtns 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Punished to the fullest-I took liberties Well I haven't been in here much. So much has happened. Moved, he started a business, kids, just crazy busy. During this time he was so...
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    I have returned, haha. If you know me. Then you probably know I have a deep love for bondage, I like seeing a person tightly restricted from moving their body because of my precise...
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    The only experience I'd ever had in the D/s lifestyle was with my most recent ex boyfriend, just before we broke up. I saw his computer filled with videos and bdsm stories and the...
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    I posted earlier that I am a submissive person, my wife has told me she isn't into domination or the control of others which left me wanting. I did express my feelings of wanting...
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    Even thought it was almost 10 years ago, I vividly remember seeing him from across the bar. Don't roll your eyes; this isn't what you think it is. He was handsome and brawny, and I...
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    I am new to a submissive/dominate dynamic looking to talk with other subs about their experiences. Are there any submissive women (preferably) willing to talk?
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