I Want to Be Everything They've Ever Wanted

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    I Want Them To Be Happy

    The thing I want the most is for them to be happy. I want to see them smile, hear them laugh, know that they are happy with their life. I just really REALLY wish that I could be the one who made them happy. I really wish I could be the one who they think fondly of, who they are...
    NoWayToGoOn NoWayToGoOn
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 3, 2011


    The following is taken from a comment I made to another's story about the story's author feeling the need to be perfect and having suffered through a childhood with parents who had unresolved issues which affected their child. Though the few specifics relate to that author's...
    heart15 heart15
    31-35, F
    Aug 14, 2010

    "you Dont Know What I Like"

    I keep asking him what he sees in me.. I see girls he use to date, or thinks is pretty that are in TV shows. I am nothing like any of them. I try to be everything he wants and more. But realizing I cant. I hate the feeling of not being perfect for him. I try having a conversation...
    smasheda smasheda
    18-21, F
    Sep 6, 2010

    I Finally Understood Something Very Important.

    I understood, that it's important, not to change yourself for others. You can help other people and they'll be happy about it, although you don't have the kind of personality they want. You can make people as happy with being yourself and helping them out when possible, as when...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 12, 2008

    No I Wanna Be What I Want. ...

    No I wanna be what I want. I not afraid to be diffrent. My parents and frioends want me to go to college. But Im not. I know its not right for me.
    virgoshygurl virgoshygurl
    18-21, F
    Jun 4, 2007

    what a Sex Crazed Gourme Co...

    what a sex crazed, gourme cook, cleaning super mum ??? ha hahahaha hahah hahaha don't make me laugh !! seriously...... No....just waiting for Mr Right.
    caroli9 caroli9
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2007

    Your wish is my command

    I do have someone in my life who I want to be everything they've ever wanted.  I want to do whatever it takes, set aside my own needs and wants to please her, change whatever I have to about myself in order to be what she wants, give up anything and everything of my own for...
    FranzJosef FranzJosef
    26-30, M
    Aug 19, 2007


    i want to meet someone who already thinks im everything they wanted.     ben said i was. apparently not though. x
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2009

    Yes I Want to Be It

    i want to be the most beautiful, creative, intelligent, i want it all. but secretly does'nt everybody? i want to be admired
    Donalh Donalh
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Sep 5, 2008

    But I Will Not

    They want me to be. But I will not. I tried. For the longest time. Probably since birth. Like you have been engraved, Even before you had a mind to think. They just keep pushing and pushing Testing you to the brink. But still I will not. Does that mean I am failure? I know I have...
    Sylphy Sylphy
    41-45, F
    14 Responses May 31, 2010

    Everything to Everyone

    Yes, a person before me said it perfectly. Being loved is, to me, the most important thing in the world.  That sounds as though I constantly try to do what's cool to fit in, but that's not quite the way I go about it.  I do anything and everything in my power to make...
    Weakenedasiam Weakenedasiam
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2008

    I Want To Be Everything

    But I am changing myself trying to be everything. I have this idea of him in my mind and its not who he really is and I am trying to change myself to try and be what I think he wants me to be. And I am mad at myself for it.
    sinistermanual sinistermanual
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 21, 2010

    He wanted me today. Even had the opportunity.

    But we both know we couldn't. Not us. He is engaged and has a family. Neither of us could ruin that. No matter how much we want each other.
    kitten96 kitten96
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    The P-rents

    They expect so much, and nothing's ever good enough. "A 98%? Where's the other 2 points?" is what my dad says, "Smarten up! Study! You can do better!" and my pride in my accomplisment is gone. I can't do well enough to appease them. I am a failure. Always, always, always the...
    Veronica4 Veronica4
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 31, 2011

    I don't want to lose them to someone else,

    I want to be their idea of perfection, I want to be everything they always searched for in a person. My biggest fear is to lose them to someone else, this world is vast and full of so many people that we'll meet in the future and as long as the days pass, the day they'll meet...
    carazami carazami
    Oct 16, 2015

    I Don't Want to Be Everyth...

    I don't want to be everything she ever wanted - I want to be more than that, something better than she ever expected!
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy
    46-50, M
    Feb 26, 2007

    But I Feel As If I Never Will Be.

    I love my girlfriend. I don't know when I fell in love with her, but when I realized it, my life became something so much more than something to do until death. I live for her and want to do whatever would make her happy. I know what she wants me to be, but I can't change who I...
    LeoRojas690 LeoRojas690
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2010

    My Parents never Told ...

    My parents never told me they wanted me to be something specific, they just encouraged me to persist on the things I like to do. 
    Aoine Aoine
    22-25, F
    Jun 3, 2007

    hi this i can really relate to i want to be

    everything to my friends like they are to me but that will never happen i know ive been told horrible things and ive been told that im garbage but im not i have feelings ive been told things will be better if i wasnt around but i just want to mean everything to someone when i...
    lor44 lor44
    18-21, F
    Oct 18, 2015

    Whenever I want to be there

    for her I always take too long.. I want to be there for her and protect her. But what if someone else comes along when she really needs someone? I don't want to lose her. I don't want anyone to take her away from me.
    Chrisian114 Chrisian114
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 26, 2014

    I Have Found That to Be Imposs...

    I have found that to be impossible.  I want to be myself and that is quite enough just to maintain that.
    moxiesurvivor moxiesurvivor
    66-70, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2007


    Being the adult child of an alcoholic and abandoned by my mother at a young age, I always felt the need to try to please other people and be perfect so people would like me and accept me.  I thought if I was perfect, people wouldn't leave me like she did. I'm just now coming...
    aka746 aka746
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Feb 22, 2007

    I want to be everything everyo...

    I want to be everything everyone has ever wanted.  There's something about everyone's love and admiration that's more intoxicating than anything else. 
    theophania theophania
    22-25, F
    Jan 23, 2007

    I Am Everything You Want, I Am Everything You Need...

    Well I've been in a few long relationships and I thought that they were everything I've ever wanted, but I guess I was wrong and I wasn't everything they ever wanted either. I hope maybe I can break that streak soon. I really want to be everything that she has ever wanted, I don...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay
    36-40, M
    16 Responses Mar 28, 2008

    I Wanna Be Your Everything Girl

    I wanna make you happy, I wanna make you smile. I wanna turn your frown upside down, and I wanna be that comfort you need. I wanna hold you when things are scary or sad or upsetting. I wanna hold your hand when all seems lost. I wanna look into your never ending sad sad eyes...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2008

    But I Realize Now.............

      ~ That is something I will never be able to be. It hurt when I realized that over this past weekend. That I can not be everything to everyone. I can't even be everything to myself. All I do is drive myself crazy, trying to second guess what my family, my friends, &...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 28, 2009

    The Kids I Coach - When I look at them,

    and see them looking at me with so much expectation in their eyes, it pushes me to be the best coach I can be. Not the coach with the most wins. Not the coach with the best game plan. Not the smartest coach to coach the game. Just the coach that each of them want and/or...
    TheHiker TheHiker
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    Been There.

    Damn I have been this. I am not this. With everything I am, I am committed to not giving a **** about what you want. It's a health & well-being issue.
    mbug44 mbug44
    36-40, F
    Oct 22, 2007

    Not What They Wanted

    But i want for myself ....if i can accomplish that then It wouldnt matter to me if i had someone in my life or not ...  not that it matters  now because im too independent but if Jake came to me and told me to bugger off then Id be okay as to where i am right now it...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    Mar 22, 2007

    Yea, I Sure Do...

    ... and I succeed, mostly by being everything for only myself instead. :S
    heyMayne heyMayne
    18-21, M
    Sep 18, 2009

    I Want to Be Skinny, and Beaut...

    I want to be skinny, and beautiful and perfect like he wants. I want to be funny, and hot, and a good dancer like he wants. He just dumped me becuase I'm not what he wants.
    dustygirl122 dustygirl122
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2007

    Why Couldn't It Have Been Me!

    We fell in love with each other didn't we?  I would have thought that, would have been enough.  The only problem is that we found each other 10 years to late!  I've wanted to be everything you've ever wanted for so long.  It hurts to know that I'm...
    tks tks
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Dec 17, 2007

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    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carlyccaa carlyccaa
    26-30, F
    Oct 19, 2015

    I Need To Be Perfect For Them

    I grew up having people swoon over my achievements.It was like being fated to do something very extraordinarily awesome.Every graduation or end of the school year,people would be talking about me and what I have achieved during the school year.It was fun at first.Who wouldn't...
    MyZen MyZen
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2011

    All You Want...

    I want to be your everything. Every girl's dream, every guy's nightmare. I want them to swoon when I walk into a room. Hey, it's a dream... What's yours?
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2008

    Not In the Sense of a Guy But ...

    Not in the sense of a guy but in my parents eyes!! My dad has 5 kids n not all of them have turned out loike he wanted so i desperatly want to be everything he has wanted! It isnt as hard as i thought as when my parents divorced i was able to spend me n dad time n i am just...
    sazead sazead
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2007

    You Have to Be Your Self Or Yo...

    You have to be your self or you will never be happy!
    southernblueeyedgirl southernblueeyedgirl
    26-30, F
    Jun 4, 2007

    I Live My Life to Impress Othe...

    I live my life to impress other people.  I want to be what they want me to be.  NOT!!!!!!!
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Jun 4, 2007

    If i actually get into that situation.
    cluck cluck
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2007
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