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I Want To Be Held And Told Everything Will Be Okay

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    For *** sake! A guy I've known

    for a year now maybe little more is upset with me now. Apparently he got offended when I told him we are only friends. How would i know it would offend him. He doesn't even like me. I friend-zone everyone. That's why I don't have a bf... How can I make it chill between us again...
    Laraamani Laraamani 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    .... Once...

    Just once, I need to be held. Just once, I need to know you care. Just once, I need to know that you are there for me. Just once, I need feel your arms around me. Just once, I need to feel safe. Just once, I need to feel like my walls can come down. Just once, I need to know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    Open Arms

    I would love for a handsome, strong affectionate man to just hold me for hours and never let me go. To feel safe and have that kind of security is wonderful. Granted I havent had that in a long time and felt like that. I would love to not be the one who is always taking care of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 6, 2012

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    I feel like I'm drowning in my own thoughts

    and I just want to be happy I've forgotten what happiness feels like and u can't help but to cry while typing this , I just want things to get better before I seriously give up on life .
    SimplyMeee SimplyMeee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Hello EP, I have no imagination,

    I've lost all my inspiration which I'm not sure I had any to begin with, I seek adventure, I want to be spontaneous, I want to feel beautiful again, I don't trust no one, and I hate a lot in life. I deny my flaws, and that I am irresponsible. I don't make things happen for me...
    MJack1234 MJack1234 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I just want to feel like someone will love me

    no matter what and never leave me.
    mimileelee mimileelee 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I havent even had that

    that type of hug... ever😞
    kidrawrr kidrawrr 13-15, F Apr 1

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    Dont Understand!!!!

    I just dont understand it anymore. I give everyone allot of respect, love, and understanding. And I do get back is a true slap in the face. Why? I real do care about all of friends on here and I have a few that I truely care about allot and I get is nothing. Like they say good...
    apittsburghguy apittsburghguy 36-40, M 22 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    Even if it won't ever be,

    being held and told it will be OK would be a boon for my heart right now. I need that more then anything at the moment.
    BananaPancakes88 BananaPancakes88 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    Just Too Good To Be True

    Now it can be told, after I deleted a good friend seven months ago.I can no longer take the good things he has been showering me. The attention, the kind of respect. The affections and the kind of love he shows. The displays of affections I get. I can no longer take all the good...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    Right now all I want is

    that hug. It's funny because as a guy I think that is frowned upon, but that is truly what I could use right now. I've had my heart stepped on and all I really want right now is someone to wrap me in their arms and say "it will be ok, this will pass and you will be much stronger...
    Itsalwaysdarkbeforedawn Itsalwaysdarkbeforedawn 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 3

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    My Last Movement Of Life!!!!

    It's all started when my mom said to me " I'm going to shop u want to come".I wanted a video game that's why I said "yes I want to go" with big smile!. I sat on front set in the car. I take out my Ipod and start watching movie. my mom start to drive the car. me and my mom...
    jeo123 jeo123 13-15, M Feb 3, 2013

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    I have lots of insecurities.

    I'm not too smart I'm not too pretty I'm sense of humour sucks I feel like I'm not good at anything I think some of my friends hate me because they said that I'm a control freak Gaahh i just want to run away from myself
    nocturnalninja nocturnalninja 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    To Love And Trust Again

    Smiling throughout the days Alone in misery, sorrow slowly ending me The world is just an empty space I have gotten good at pretending, pretending that I'm okay The pain is buried locked away The bed empty and cold Dying more inside My heart gone I hope for happiness Slowly...
    noelli noelli 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    I Feel Alone

    i feel alone, everything is crumbling down.. every day gets worse and worse i fall deeper and deeper in a big deep black empty hole. I keep waiting for my doors of happiness to open and try to be positive and believe that one day everything will be ok and that I'll have someone...
    teiubesc teiubesc 22-25, F 15 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    Loner

    I always feel alone. Even when surrounded by friends. I dont feel as if people are there for me like I am there for them. I dont feel appreciated and I just need someone to make me smile and who I can make smile
    XpeacexfrogX XpeacexfrogX 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    trinemh trinemh 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm 18 and looking for friends.

    I'm into punk and metal music and I love sports. I'm not looking to date anyone, just friends. Idk who you are or what your story is. I'm willing to accept and give everyone a chance.
    GimmePunk13 GimmePunk13 18-21, M Apr 1

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    We spoke everyday for 4 months

    and all of a sudden it just stopped... Why? Should I gather courage and ask him what happened?
    Laraamani Laraamani 18-21, F Apr 1

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    notworthitatall notworthitatall 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I Would Love To Be Held When Iam Crying

    I feel out a few hours ago into a deep sleep and had a nightmare about something that really happend i always ball my eyes out to it about a year ago me and my son went to go visit grandpa he was diabetic we had just seem him day before we drank some coffe and had breakfast with...
    Anasela Anasela 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Do I?

    In many ways I want to just be held and told that i am ok, that everything around me isnt falling apart and that eventually i will be fine, but i also hate the feeling of vulnerability that comes with that. to have to open myself enough to someone that i should let them know just...
    almostnotquitenormal almostnotquitenormal 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    In October 2012 I lost my grandpa.

    In August 2013 I lost my Grammy. In September 2013 I lost my mom. Last week, March 2014, I lost my grandma. Everyone is dying, leaving me, all the time. I am scared and sad and confused. I don't know how to go forward. I feel like I have lost more than people I love. I lost the...
    Reboenix Reboenix 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Suzanne22 Suzanne22 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    Wish I Had A Close Female Friend Who Could Hold Me And Let Me Know That It Will Be Ok

    My wife and I have been separated for 4 months now, and I really miss not having a homelife with my kids. I feel like a homelss person, living with a friend and his wife. I miss feeling safe. I miss my kids terribly. Sometimes I just want to die. Sometimes I get angry and say...
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 8 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    I haven't had sex with my wife in months .

    ... She has had multiple affairs and I'm still fighting - but what I'm fighting for is safety and love. I just want to be held, cry, and be encouraged ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 10

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    nocturnalninja nocturnalninja 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Tomorrow!

    One of my closest friends is undergoing a hysterectomy for a rare and very aggressive form of cancer. She's got a dodgy heart and there not sure she'll survive the anaesthetic. I could do with a hug right about now! But that I'm not going to get so could anyone who prays please...
    Illiteratetroll Illiteratetroll 46-50 9 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Just having a rough week,

    boyfriend keeps picking little fights, refuses to acknowledge how exhausted and sore I am.. Im crying typing this because I'm just so exhausted, physically and mentally.. I want someone to hold me, run their fingers through my hair, and maybe sing to me or hold me in a rocking...
    92youngforever 92youngforever 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    gitzai gitzai 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Just To Be Held Closely

    Loneliness and emptiness surround me What I want most, is to be held close, to be told everything will be okay That tomorrow will be better Than today and all of my yesterdays To have hope That I can open my heart and mind to the possibilty That I might one day bask in the glow...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    Everyday of my life I go through this.

    Being an average teen who is have demonic is tough enough with out anyone to hold you. I never thought I could be lucky, but then I found David, my soul mate. Even though my life as hell, I think of him and my life is the richest life ever to live
    Hike16 Hike16 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Ive always been a people person

    until this year. I was so used to having good friends that would be there for me. But now it feels like i have no one. And even though i do have a few to talk to all i really want it to be held. Of course I've got no one for that..
    BiO811HazarD BiO811HazarD 18-21, M Apr 1

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    A year ago the person

    who I considered as a second mom passed away. Not a day passes, without remembering her.. I cry every night.. For not loving her more.. For things that I'm not proud of.. Remembering what happened to me when I was a girl.. I just want a friend to stop asking me if I'm okay.. I...
    nellyisawolf nellyisawolf 13-15, F 7 Responses Apr 7

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    I may not be a child anymore

    but I still long for a mother who will just hold me when I cry. She never would though. She never made me feel like things would be okay. She taught me to stifle my feelings...to drink them away. It's what she was taught so it's hard to be mad at her for it but it still hurts me...
    HopefullRomantic HopefullRomantic 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    Sometimes, Men Need To Hear It Too.

    Most days, I am the type of person that doesn't need someone to tell me that everything will be okay. I am usually confident enough to know that I can handle anything that life throws at me. I have big shoulders and I can, and often do, carry more than my share.Some days are...
    NobodySpecial NobodySpecial 41-45, M 12 Responses Feb 17, 2012

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    "You come to me with scars on your wrist You

    tell me this will be the last night feeling like this I just came to say goodbye I didn't want you to see me cry, I'm fine But I know it's a lie. This is the last night you'll spend alone Look me in the eyes so I know you know I'm everywhere you want me to be. The last night...
    Kelloggz90 Kelloggz90 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    meabyrne meabyrne 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    When I'm confused, stressed out

    and anxious, when nothing makes sense, when I'm grieving and broken, depressed and hopeless, when I'm difficult, angry and hurting; I just want you to hold me and tell me it's all going to be OK... To hear your heart beat, To see unconditional love ~still~ in your handsome...
    charlotte75 charlotte75 36-40, F Mar 7

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    I Want To Be Looked After.

    I feel so alone at the moment. I just want someone in my life who is there for me. Someone who will give me a hug and tell me that I'll be ok. I have never felt so completely hopeless as I do now and I wish it would all just go away.
    purplestreak purplestreak 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    I feel very alone and vulnerable.

    Too many things on my mind and i can't really talk to anyone. Many people don't understand and I'm not going to try and make u understand. Just hold me and tell me it's going to be ok... that's all I ask.
    lonelygirl2007 lonelygirl2007 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 5

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    Odd Times

    Not always...Like maybe now.Need not be long;Even for a moment.
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Sometimes Its All We Really Need...

    I may seem tough on the outside or like Im holding it together well. I do what I have to do but deep down sometimes I just cry and feel alone and thats when we would all love to know that everything will be okay, that its okay to not be perfect, its when we need to be held or be...
    IamDestiny IamDestiny 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    I'm a teenager girl and I had a fight with my

    best friend almost three months ago, I wasn't feeling well that day and she didn't understand it, but I was just sad and all I wanted was being alone. So I yelled at her and told her that she wouldn't die if she let me alone. The next day she didn't talk to me so I didn't talk...
    sthelse sthelse 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    The pain of knowing who my husband really is,

    is unbearable. I wish I had someone to hold me and tell me everything is ok but I'm so humiliated by what he's done I find it hard to open up to the ones that would support me. Sometimes life sucks
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    We got along, we laughed,

    we kissed, we were weird together. 4 months are now all just a memory. Why did u stop talking to me? That's all I wanna know...
    Laraamani Laraamani 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    If a complete stranger was to walk up to me

    right now and place their hand on my shoulder and say everything's going to be okay... I probably would instantly start crying.
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I Want

    I am dying to feel loved and wanted. I miss that feeling. Now i feel like nothing. I want to mean everything to someone. I want to feel wanted. And i want to feel special to someone. :-(
    Francesca004 Francesca004 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I just want to break down

    and cry loud and sob, I don't think it will become alright, I'm stuck, I feel like I can't breath. Why can't she understand how much she hurt me? Why do I have to be so alone?
    sthelse sthelse 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Anatomy Of A Buzz

    It starts in my upper back, my neck, like a hot piece of charcoal, an ember traveling up my spine. But at this point I am still in the naïve stage, the “I’ll take a Motrin” phase, you know, that phase that is still suggesting that a mild painkiller will make it all go away...
    Quintesse Quintesse 46-50, F 11 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    I need this in my life right

    now , I feel so lonely and I just want to be loved
    SimplyMeee SimplyMeee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I wish I could have this.

    I'm so lonely and sad. Most nights I can blow it off but tonight I'm having a hard time. :(
    Cheeks2014 Cheeks2014 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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