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I Want to Be Held

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    Want to Feel It

    I know what being held looked like as far as my mom holding me close to her like a hug. The fact is though I havent felt that in the way of a male role model or a guy that I like. It might sound that I am desperate but I'm truely not. What does anyone else think?
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10, 2008

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    To feel strong hands on my body,

    moving me to where he wants me. Pressing my body into whatever position he wants. Holding me, comforting me, using me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 11, 2014

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    Im in bed right now and i was just thinking

    about how much i need a cuddle buddy. All i want it someone who will place their arms around me and just hold me and tell me that everything is going to be okay.
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    Lonely...

    I've just come out of a bad relationship but god do i miss cuddles.. I'm a cuddly person.. I love to be held for hours on end not having to say a word because words would just ruin it, to be lying there feeling completely at ease and surrounded by warmth and security. When you're...
    Whatdoesntkillumakesustranger Whatdoesntkillumakesustranger 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2012

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    If theirs anyone who needs to be held right

    now I'll offer one for you.
    Titan222 Titan222 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Your breathing. Your heartbeat.

    Your arms around me.
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 22-25, F May 13, 2014

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    What I Miss The Most

    there are a zillion things that i lost when my husband died. but what i miss the most is the way he held me. there never had to be a particular reason for it. he would always put his arms around me and kiss me, just because. he was a very loving man, and he loved me for...
    leftbehind29 leftbehind29 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2010

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    Craving

    It's been one month, 2 weeks and 2 days since the last time I was held.  And before that, it had been a long time.  I miss physical contact with another human being.  Someone you loves me and wants me and cares about me. I think all beings need some kind of...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2008

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    Hold Me!

    I love being held. The warm feeling of someone's arms being wrapped around you <3 It's magnificent. Nothing compares to body heat. It sucks sleeping all by yourself and pretending that your pillow is another person... It's just not the same!
    pollyanna90 pollyanna90 18-21, F 2 Responses May 9, 2011

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    Even If It's A Lie...

    I just want to be held. I want to be fading in and out of consciousness in someone's arms. I want someone to whisper sweet nothings in my ear. I want love.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 28, 2012

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    BloodRedDarkness BloodRedDarkness 16-17, F Jul 26, 2014

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    Love Story- Is This Possible?

    They saw accidentally in the street,girl is his perceived viewand he gently smile him.To it is encouraged that it is close to ...They stared at each otherlike you do not believe your eyes It seemed to them, where to fromalways know.They felt like two travelers whonow, after a...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Dec 20, 2012

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    I Like To Cuddle.

    I love being held in someone's arms more than anything. I am always cold and I never feel good and I just want somebody to love me and hold me. My bf and I broke up about a month ago, and it sucks cause he always would cuddle with me and I JUST WANT TO BE HELD T_T
    NotTheAmericanAveragexx NotTheAmericanAveragexx 18-21, F Oct 26, 2013

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    Hold Me Close

    Here I am, sitting in an empty bar, trying to write, as tears fall, and my hands shake. All I want right now is to be held. What more can I say?
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180 46-50, F 5 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    *sighs*

    today is one of those days I need to feel arms around me, embracing me. I need to feel the comfort, the love, the caring, and yes...even that sense of protection that comes from a long warm embrace.  It's like they are saying,  "There, there.  It's okay. ...
    ChristineJones ChristineJones 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    im sad :( I feel so needy omg

    but can someone please come and cuddle me? someone please come and tell everything will be okay. I need love right now
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    In the depths of the night,

    I lie alone in the middle of an already too-large bed. With thoughts almost unrecognisable as my own, I long for someone to hold me because I am me.
    chasingthehigh chasingthehigh 22-25, F Nov 30, 2014

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    I could really use a long hug

    and have someone tell me is okay and will get better....
    WhyWasIStupid WhyWasIStupid 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2014

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    I wish he would grab my by surprise,

    and swing me into his lap. Then he would gently caress me and tell me how much he absolutely adores me. I'd die for that.
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F Sep 23, 2014

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    No Turning Back

    Previously, I had a boyfriend for about a year till I realized that he had serious alcohol problem and tended to be bi-polar. After several awkward and awful situations with him, he stopped drinking for a while on that is mainly his own free will. I loved him so and wanted him to...
    Stacy8989 Stacy8989 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2010

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    Won't someone hold me

    and say that they love me
    hopkins8 hopkins8 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    I Just Eant Sum1 Ta Hold Me Forever

    me and my 19 year old wife have split up, shes gone with a 50 year old man and im living on my own with teo cats but they dont want hugs or to be held, im a 28 year old male who just wants to be held for ever by a female, i miss those days teroubley and i want them back 1 day...
    youcantseeme84 youcantseeme84 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 1, 2012

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    Caress

    Yes, I'm a guy, and I miss holding on to a soft, female body. I sometimes find myself wanting to hug my wife, like earlier today, but I don't. Don't ask, it's a long story. But I did have a five year, online affair, which many of my EP friends know about. Unfortuneately, she...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M 5 Responses Jan 25, 2011

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    If It Could Happen

    being held, in my opinion is feeling loved by someone. the feeling of safe and security and knowing whatever happens you are going to be alright!
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    It's Pretty Depressing. . .

    that I spend so much time imagining someone's actually holding me when I'm crying or sleeping. But what else can I do?
    thexfilesz thexfilesz 16-17, F Apr 18, 2011

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    Comfort

    I remember when I was little my family would always hold me. I would sit in their laps and fall asleep to them rubbing my back or my forehead. When my grandpa passed away a few years ago I remember laying down in a room where they had a bed like thing. I laid down and cried and I...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    Hmm...

    You know, I always thought I did...but now I'm not so sure.
    weekender1 weekender1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I want to be loved and hugged

    and kiss every single day .I want every day passion filled and anticipation of it . I want to be loved without asking for it , i want to be tasted and devoured and licked and suckled and be dominated every single day by his love !
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 28

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    Until I Sleep

    I want to be engulfed in a man's strong arms and held close until I sleep.  Is that a lot to ask for?
    xxxwifexxx xxxwifexxx 36-40, F 9 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    So Tightly

    It is hard to believe that just a few short months ago I was falling asleep every night in my little bed, hugging my pillows, and wishing that someone would hold me as tightly. Now my wishes have become reality. I fall asleep each night in the arms of my old/new love with a...
    jojewel jojewel 56-60, F 10 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    24 Years With Him...

    I live 24 years with my man ,we have 3 great kids,but love is gone and life is empty... tomorow we have anniversary,and for him is this,until I think about is,he just seat on cauch anldloking tv...dont ask me WHY... ...24 years i waiting for a chance told him how I feel and...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Mar 4, 2013

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    I can feel her love Her heart beating through

    her chest Her warmth surrounding me Her gentleness around me Her spirit tickles my soul I can almost taste her scent on my lips
    MissNexp MissNexp 26-30, F Mar 8, 2014

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    I Long To Be Held

    I seperated from my wife over 5 yrs ago now,a disturbed,violent childhood has affected me most of my life,all of my life actually,our marriage suffered as my issues affected me more eventually seperating.I so miss our cuddles,the love and warmth just being held sincerely conveys...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 21, 2012

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    Just Want To Be Held

    I miss being held while I fall asleep. My husband and I are working on our marriage and we are communicating well, having good moments and our sex life is fine now too. But he rarely holds me while I fall asleep anymore. I miss that a lot. He's been working out of town a lot for...
    jennalove jennalove 36-40, F 1 Response May 29, 2013

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    Right Now...

    Right now, I want to be held and told everything is going to be okay, because right now it doesn't feel that way at all. I have a broken heart, and there is nothing more I'd like to do than rip it from my chest and just throw it away....
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

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    I want a girl to hold me

    and nuzzle my neck all night
    CuddlesNSnuggles CuddlesNSnuggles 13-15, M Sep 7, 2014

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    Do You Ever??

    Sometimes (most times) I sit in my room after a long day of mental torture and all I do is look around as I lie in my bed and imagine if someone loved me enough to crawl into bed next to me, not say a word and just hold me, cradle me in their warmth, and caress me with their...
    BethyB95 BethyB95 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Searching For Woman A On Plane B

    When I was younger I didn't have much confidence... No desire or means to really... go out there... and find The One... but times have changed, and I've grown a lot. Over the course of how ever long, I've gone from introverted to extroverted to whichever side I felt like dwelling...
    MCxxOPREVxxOG MCxxOPREVxxOG 22-25, M May 12, 2013

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    First Date

    I went on my first date today. We only chatted but I kind of wished he would have hugged me at the end. sigh. 
    staytrue2urself staytrue2urself 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 15, 2011

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    Held for hours and i want him to play each

    and every inch of my body .........
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Sometimes I Feel Diseased

    My partner won't let me hug him, kiss him, sometimes even hold his hand. Everytime I try I get, "what are you doing?" I usually reply with a giggle and a "what do you think I'm doing?" but it is never returned with a smile. More often than not, he just moves away. I can easily...
    Vitruriangirl Vitruriangirl 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2012

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    I lack sleep... can't sleep

    when I'm supposed to...so I meditate untill I dose off...I awake every 30 minutes. ..worried about all that's not done...all that has to be done...all that I will have to aknowledge will never be done... I want to be held...I want someone to hold me and tells me that every...
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 31

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    I want so much to be held by the one I love

    and am in love with. He makes everything in my world so much more complete, I want him to hold me while we cuddle
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F Sep 24, 2014

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