I Want to Be Held

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    If It Could Happen

    being held, in my opinion is feeling loved by someone. the feeling of safe and security and knowing whatever happens you are going to be alright!
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 21, 2009

    I could really use a long hug

    and have someone tell me is okay and will get better....
    KeKeNae KeKeNae
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014


    It's been one month, 2 weeks and 2 days since the last time I was held.  And before that, it had been a long time.  I miss physical contact with another human being.  Someone you loves me and wants me and cares about me. I think all beings need some kind of...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jul 23, 2008

    Im in bed right now and i was just thinking

    about how much i need a cuddle buddy. All i want it someone who will place their arms around me and just hold me and tell me that everything is going to be okay.
    wendym98 wendym98
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    Even If It's A Lie...

    I just want to be held. I want to be fading in and out of consciousness in someone's arms. I want someone to whisper sweet nothings in my ear. I want love.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 28, 2012

    In the depths of the night,

    I lie alone in the middle of an already too-large bed. With thoughts almost unrecognisable as my own, I long for someone to hold me because I am me.
    chasingthehigh chasingthehigh
    26-30, F
    Nov 30, 2014

    24 Years With Him...

    I live 24 years with my man ,we have 3 great kids,but love is gone and life is empty... tomorow we have anniversary,and for him is this,until I think about is,he just seat on cauch anldloking tv...dont ask me WHY... ...24 years i waiting for a chance told him how I feel and...
    skyfone464 skyfone464
    41-45, F
    Mar 4, 2013

    I wish he would grab my by surprise,

    and swing me into his lap. Then he would gently caress me and tell me how much he absolutely adores me. I'd die for that.
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence
    18-21, F
    Sep 23, 2014


    You know, I always thought I did...but now I'm not so sure.
    weekender1 weekender1
    51-55, F
    Jan 18, 2013

    Hold Me Close

    Here I am, sitting in an empty bar, trying to write, as tears fall, and my hands shake. All I want right now is to be held. What more can I say?
    silentwriter180 silentwriter180
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2012

    Searching For Woman A On Plane B

    When I was younger I didn't have much confidence... No desire or means to really... go out there... and find The One... but times have changed, and I've grown a lot. Over the course of how ever long, I've gone from introverted to extroverted to whichever side I felt like dwelling...
    22-25, M
    May 12, 2013

    What I Miss The Most

    there are a zillion things that i lost when my husband died. but what i miss the most is the way he held me. there never had to be a particular reason for it. he would always put his arms around me and kiss me, just because. he was a very loving man, and he loved me for...
    leftbehind29 leftbehind29
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2010

    If theirs anyone who needs to be held right

    now I'll offer one for you.
    Titan222 Titan222
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    I want to be loved and hugged

    and kiss every single day .I want every day passion filled and anticipation of it . I want to be loved without asking for it , i want to be tasted and devoured and licked and suckled and be dominated every single day by his love !
    anasteel2 anasteel2
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2015

    Right Now...

    Right now, I want to be held and told everything is going to be okay, because right now it doesn't feel that way at all. I have a broken heart, and there is nothing more I'd like to do than rip it from my chest and just throw it away....
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2012

    First Date

    I went on my first date today. We only chatted but I kind of wished he would have hugged me at the end. sigh. 
    staytrue2urself staytrue2urself
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2011


    Yes, I'm a guy, and I miss holding on to a soft, female body. I sometimes find myself wanting to hug my wife, like earlier today, but I don't. Don't ask, it's a long story. But I did have a five year, online affair, which many of my EP friends know about. Unfortuneately, she...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Jan 25, 2011

    Won't someone hold me

    and say that they love me
    hopkins8 hopkins8
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    Want to Feel It

    I know what being held looked like as far as my mom holding me close to her like a hug. The fact is though I havent felt that in the way of a male role model or a guy that I like. It might sound that I am desperate but I'm truely not. What does anyone else think?
    MysticBrunette MysticBrunette
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2008

    Held for hours and i want him to play each

    and every inch of my body .........
    anasteel2 anasteel2
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 15, 2015


    today is one of those days I need to feel arms around me, embracing me. I need to feel the comfort, the love, the caring, and yes...even that sense of protection that comes from a long warm embrace.  It's like they are saying,  "There, there.  It's okay. ...
    ChristineJones ChristineJones
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 12, 2010

    Hold Me!

    I love being held. The warm feeling of someone's arms being wrapped around you <3 It's magnificent. Nothing compares to body heat. It sucks sleeping all by yourself and pretending that your pillow is another person... It's just not the same!
    pollyanna90 pollyanna90
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 9, 2011

    Love Story- Is This Possible?

    They saw accidentally in the street,girl is his perceived viewand he gently smile him.To it is encouraged that it is close to ...They stared at each otherlike you do not believe your eyes It seemed to them, where to fromalways know.They felt like two travelers whonow, after a...
    skyfone464 skyfone464
    41-45, F
    Dec 20, 2012

    I took a vacation a few days ago to San Diego.

    It wasn't a vacation that was planned, more spur of the moment. The whole time, from the first airplane ride to the last one coming home, I was fighting my depression. There were a ton of things I planned on "fixing" while I was there. I realized that wasn't possible. This...
    rebecky1221 rebecky1221
    22-25, F
    Mar 12, 2016

    No Turning Back

    Previously, I had a boyfriend for about a year till I realized that he had serious alcohol problem and tended to be bi-polar. After several awkward and awful situations with him, he stopped drinking for a while on that is mainly his own free will. I loved him so and wanted him to...
    Stacy8989 Stacy8989
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 16, 2010

    Just for once i want someone

    who loves me -someone that i dont't know/a stranger-to come to me or send me a text telling me that he loves me or even if he'd just tell me what does he feel .
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2016

    So Tightly

    It is hard to believe that just a few short months ago I was falling asleep every night in my little bed, hugging my pillows, and wishing that someone would hold me as tightly. Now my wishes have become reality. I fall asleep each night in the arms of my old/new love with a...
    jojewel jojewel
    56-60, F
    10 Responses Sep 22, 2010


    I've just come out of a bad relationship but god do i miss cuddles.. I'm a cuddly person.. I love to be held for hours on end not having to say a word because words would just ruin it, to be lying there feeling completely at ease and surrounded by warmth and security. When you're...
    Whatdoesntkillumakesustranger Whatdoesntkillumakesustranger
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2012

    I lack sleep... can't sleep

    when I'm supposed to...so I meditate untill I dose off...I awake every 30 minutes. ..worried about all that's not done...all that has to be done...all that I will have to aknowledge will never be done... I want to be held...I want someone to hold me and tells me that every...
    Blanche08 Blanche08
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    To feel strong hands on my body,

    moving me to where he wants me. Pressing my body into whatever position he wants. Holding me, comforting me, using me.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 11, 2014

    Sometimes I Feel Diseased

    My partner won't let me hug him, kiss him, sometimes even hold his hand. Everytime I try I get, "what are you doing?" I usually reply with a giggle and a "what do you think I'm doing?" but it is never returned with a smile. More often than not, he just moves away. I can easily...
    Vitruriangirl Vitruriangirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2012

    It's Pretty Depressing. . .

    that I spend so much time imagining someone's actually holding me when I'm crying or sleeping. But what else can I do?
    thexfilesz thexfilesz
    18-21, F
    Apr 18, 2011

    Just Want To Be Held

    I miss being held while I fall asleep. My husband and I are working on our marriage and we are communicating well, having good moments and our sex life is fine now too. But he rarely holds me while I fall asleep anymore. I miss that a lot. He's been working out of town a lot for...
    jennalove jennalove
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 29, 2013

    Do You Ever??

    Sometimes (most times) I sit in my room after a long day of mental torture and all I do is look around as I lie in my bed and imagine if someone loved me enough to crawl into bed next to me, not say a word and just hold me, cradle me in their warmth, and caress me with their...
    BethyB95 BethyB95
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

    I can feel her love Her heart beating through

    her chest Her warmth surrounding me Her gentleness around me Her spirit tickles my soul I can almost taste her scent on my lips
    MissNexp MissNexp
    31-35, F
    Mar 8, 2014

    I Just Eant Sum1 Ta Hold Me Forever

    me and my 19 year old wife have split up, shes gone with a 50 year old man and im living on my own with teo cats but they dont want hugs or to be held, im a 28 year old male who just wants to be held for ever by a female, i miss those days teroubley and i want them back 1 day...
    youcantseeme84 youcantseeme84
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 1, 2012

    It has been too long to be without human touch,

    the last five years of a bad marriage, two years of only occasionally a date, I'm picky about who I date or even see. I want a nice lady, and the only thing is I am only finding one night stands, just can't lower my values and I guess I could throw away my integrity to and go...
    texas2themax texas2themax
    Apr 2, 2016

    I just need someone to talk to.

    .who would understand
    StopSuicideAndDepression StopSuicideAndDepression
    18-21, F
    Apr 8, 2016

    I Long To Be Held

    I seperated from my wife over 5 yrs ago now,a disturbed,violent childhood has affected me most of my life,all of my life actually,our marriage suffered as my issues affected me more eventually seperating.I so miss our cuddles,the love and warmth just being held sincerely conveys...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 21, 2012

    im sad :( I feel so needy omg

    but can someone please come and cuddle me? someone please come and tell everything will be okay. I need love right now
    wendym98 wendym98
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2015

    I Like To Cuddle.

    I love being held in someone's arms more than anything. I am always cold and I never feel good and I just want somebody to love me and hold me. My bf and I broke up about a month ago, and it sucks cause he always would cuddle with me and I JUST WANT TO BE HELD T_T
    NotTheAmericanAveragexx NotTheAmericanAveragexx
    22-25, F
    Oct 26, 2013

    Until I Sleep

    I want to be engulfed in a man's strong arms and held close until I sleep.  Is that a lot to ask for?
    xxxwifexxx xxxwifexxx
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Sep 25, 2009

    I want so much to be held by the one I love

    and am in love with. He makes everything in my world so much more complete, I want him to hold me while we cuddle
    denaellis575 denaellis575
    46-50, F
    Sep 24, 2014
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