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I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

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    Why Does Love Evade Me?

    I don't understand my life. I just don't get it. I merely exist in this world. I look at my life and I cannot understand what is happening. Is anything happening at all? I wake up and I go to sleep and nothing really changes. Everyday is the same. My life, though I am very...
    arabia26 arabia26 26-30, F Dec 22, 2011

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    ... There is this guy I like.

    We have been knowing each other about a year and a half now. This weekend he invited me personally over to his place, and at the city the next day he... sorta started to cuddle (when the guard said he couldn't sleep and had to go out... ruining the damn moment). I don't know...
    Barlong Barlong 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Seriously, whenever I'm with you,

    things are so much easier. It's like I'm free with you, and then you or I have to leave, everything comes back to ****. Sometimes I just wish you could hug me and hug me an tell me everything will be okay. Because for that moment, it will.
    kikisalamo22 kikisalamo22 13-15, F Mar 4

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    Yeah.. I really do..

    Not exactly lucky in love, but, in some respects, I have been very lucky.  I have a son that has always loved me unconditionally and has never tried to change me or control me.  His love is the actually only one true love I have ever felt was unconditional.  Well besides my...
    sugarkate sugarkate 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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    All I Want Is To Be Happy Relationship.

    who doesn't, i bet everyone want to be in a healthy loving relationship and be happy,i am tired of heartache and disappointed. you know i think relationship it's a full times a job so i want to tell you this don't apply if you are not ready,don't think because you are lonely that...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    Insecure Demons

    My name is Rayanna. I'm 18 Me and my boyfriend broke up today after two years. He was very controlling, mentally abusive, and insecure. He assumed I was cheating on him all the time when I was not, and blamed me for everything. He made me feel like I was nothing. I have...
    Avalina20 Avalina20 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2013

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    Prayer Gypsy...

    AND PLEASE should not get involved more cards parts to my destiny to my fabulous world in the hands of my angel ... And please: I'm not looking forward path no longer my and that does not hurt me anymore because life is your own ... And please: to me, he that knows everything...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Feb 7, 2013

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    Or Not Be In One At All,

     I am not dating or looking right now mainly because I don't feel I can handle the time and energy a healthy relationship would need. If I can't have a Healthy Loving Relationship then I don't want one at all.
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Holding My Heart For The Real Thing

    I can't imagine a life without this. I want passion, love and commitment. Sometimes, I think maybe that's not going happen and I'll have to settle like I see some of my friends do.It often seems that we are all coming from a place of fear. I understand it, but it's no place to...
    meanbaby meanbaby 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    Healthy Relationship With Someone.

    I have been recently dumped. I thought I was being kind and loving to this person, but however that is not how he seen it. He would never tell me what was wrong or share his feelings. I would find out when I get home that he has left. He has did this on many occassions within the...
    Manaia99 Manaia99 41-45 1 Response Sep 23, 2010

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    The Power Of Thought.

    Our thoughts control our behaviour or our attempts to avoid a certain behaviour. Who we are, how we come across and the results we get are aligned with what we tell ourselves. What we lead ourselves to believe. Take the evening news for example. The news presenters say 'good...
    jagacafad jagacafad 41-45, M Feb 6, 2013

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    Commitment Issues

    I feel like I am not good, in relationships. I want a happy,loving one more than ever though. I have never been a person to depend on someone for anything. I heard in great relationships you have to give a person your all and to me its hard to do. I feel like I get bored...
    AtadbitLost AtadbitLost 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    Mr. Right

    There is no such thing as Ms. or Mr. Right. Don't let that hype fool you.My life with men has been an horrible roller coaster ride of hell since age 6. Let me spare you the depressing tale of molestation, rape, and other forms of disrespect from some men in my family, so called...
    LadyOutspoken LadyOutspoken 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 13, 2013

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    That's all that I want.

    Am I asking too much?
    Ninokido Ninokido 36-40, M Dec 13, 2013

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    Just wondering when thing will change

    for me i am a good loving person and i just want someone to come into my life who can love me for who i am unconditionally.... It seems like it will never happen
    momlove14 momlove14 31-35, F Dec 14, 2013

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    Life. Love. Existence?

    Someone once told me that experiencing the feelings of being in love was how you know you are alive... so if you haven't felt those feelings in a long time - or if in the case of some, you haven't felt those feelings in a very long time - how do you know you are alive? Am I...
    Bubbles1990 Bubbles1990 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2010

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    I Don't Think I Know What A Real Healthy Relationship Looks Like

    I have come to the conclusion that I have LONGED for a healthy and loving relationship but perhaps, instead, have learned that I don't know what one really looks like.I THINK an healthy relationship includes of course, love, trust, respect, kindness, consideration, gentleness and...
    Missalaineyeus Missalaineyeus 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    How To Cook A Husband

    I collect books from the early 1800's into the early 1900's. I came across this gem in a book dated 1892. It is an illustrated New England Jeweller with newspaper articles glued into it by its owner. Please relish this gem from that era. A good many husbands are spoiled by...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Can We Really Love Again??

    just asking if you really give someone your whole heart and things fall apart but you both know you still love each other.... but one wont be with the other.. can you really love again with your whole heart while still loving the other? If you gave them your heart and they still...
    missmarie763 missmarie763 22-25, F 10 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Looking For A Healthy Relinship

    I wanted a friend frist and then see what happen next. But lot of men I meet have to push the sex part. And I don't feel good at it. It all ways happen when I was young and it just don't work for me. I need to learn about the other pereson and how they feel about things. to work...
    bronica bronica 51-55, F Feb 26, 2013

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    Fear And Love

    I don't want to break your heart. It scares me so much that I could be falling in love with you. What if I could never be with you? What if I disappoint you? You've been everywhere, done so many things and here I am green and open. I've never been so willing to give someone ALL...
    Nychick4 Nychick4 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    Long Distance Relationship

    So I met this girl online and we've been talking for a while now and I have decided that I really really like her and she says she likes me too. She lives in Wyoming and I live in Colorado so we'd only be five hours apart. I would love to make her mine but am I crazy for thinking...
    Dman150 Dman150 18-21, M Apr 4, 2013

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    Come Save Me

    Come whisk me away from here. Take me out of this darkness. Let me put my head on your shoulder. Brush the hair from my face as you kiss my forehead. A moment of peace. If you give me your hand I will follow. I just want to be happy. Please just tell me how.
    donelikedinner donelikedinner 26-30 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    i'm a 20 year old male.

    i've never had a girlfriend they either have a (dushbag) boyfriend or too young (that was the case back in high school). plus i'm shy i would spend hours each day for a month trying to ask one girl. i'm getting tired of hearing my family go on about there relationships.i need a...
    voltinfinity voltinfinity 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    Companion Relationship? I'M Wondering...

    Has anyone considered having a companion instead of a married relationship? Obviously it would also be a sexual companion also... I'm just starting to question the validity of traditional relationships...
    Domyn Domyn 51-55, M Sep 7, 2013

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    Call Me Crazy..

    but im sure it exists- it would be amazing to be with a man who is secure and confident enough to support me rather than hold me back, a man who is open sexually about his wants, needs and desires and allows me the oppurtunity to satisfy all of them and vs versa. Of course...
    polkio polkio 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    Dancing Words For You

    Sun showers Spring flowers Moonbeams All these things You are these to me! Loving grace Handsome face A solid man Doing all he can... I love you so! Our love is green You're never mean; Everything I've seen You're my dream- Darling you are mine! Moving home to Get closer to...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2013

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    I Need Love!

    When will I find love , like I have been waiting on this my whole life... I need love for so many reasons . It will be to liberate me, to have someone to travel the world with , it will be when I feel like a woman, it will be when I finally attend a dance with someone . I feel...
    Juiceyangel333 Juiceyangel333 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Dharma Love

    “Can I be your dharma sister?” asked Mandy as we walked and the last rays of the summer sun reflected off the Pacific Ocean. Mandy’s long lustrous hair and olive skin looked beautiful in this light. Months of anticipation seemed to hang on this moment and my heart sank at...
    seejimsurf seejimsurf 36-40, M Apr 5, 2013

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    Could This Be The Perfect Relationship?

    He comes up and hugs you from behind, wrapping his arms around your waist so you can't move and squeezing your sides with a gentle touch. Just enough to make you giggle and squirm in his arms, then he lets you go. You turn to face each other and he pulls you into an embrace. "I...
    brighteyes723 brighteyes723 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    I So Want To Be Happy Again!

    I will be married to the same man for 36 years in November. We met about 4 months before my 17th birthday. He knew exactly what to say to make me fall for him. I was only 16 and he was my first relationship. I had guys flirt with me in high school but none of them ever made...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    I want to surprise and take care of someone

    and love them. I want to make them smile and laugh and wake up next to them. I want to be in love
    karlisensi karlisensi 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    If Not Exactly That Then I'm Better Off Staying Single

    I want to find someone I think is very special not someone for the sake of having a boyfriend.I tend to be rather submissive in a romantic relationship, at least at first. I like having the guy be the man, but I'm no fool.it is not that I'm skeptical of love but of love existing...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2011

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    Is There Such A Thing As A Soul Mate?

    I've been hearing the term "soul mate" since, if I recall, the mid-90s. Another one of those "warm-fuzzy_ concepts that people who are never happy dream up to give themselves one more thing to feel cheated out of. I'm sorry; it's just how I see it. I have a soul mate. No...
    Oldfarmer Oldfarmer 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2011

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    You Cut Me With Your Mouth

    I covered up my hurt with smiles and a gleam in my eye. But the words that you spoke cut me and penetrated deeper then the knife that lies in my back. The situation become bleaker with each empty insult thrown my way. I’ve spent my nights staring into the mirror and...
    LuhxLeMieux LuhxLeMieux 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Is it to much to ask God

    for a man who loves The Lord. If a man has Christ first in his life I can only dream of the possibilities.
    Roseanna11 Roseanna11 41-45, F Jan 20

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    Wishes And Willingness

    Im not perfect, but I want to be perfect for someone. Im not super strong, but I want someone to feel safe in my arms. Im not everything, but I want to be someone's everything. Im not the most loveable person on the planet, I just want someone to like me. Im not a master of...
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses May 16, 2012

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    For as long as I can remember I have always had

    boys chasing after me. My first kiss happened in first grade with a boy named Joe on the top on my playground set. Before I moved away a boy named Garrett (my other boyfriend in first grade) also asked me to marry him as he handed me a mood ring. The love of a child is nothing...
    MakaylaJean77 MakaylaJean77 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I am in a ridiculous love quadrangle with three

    men who are exactly my type. I wish the one I've loved for years would just do something about it. None of the three are ready for marriage, especially given that they are all younger than I am. I just want to get married.
    highfidelity970 highfidelity970 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Knowing that valentines day is coming up,

    and all my friends are in relationships, and there's me, basically being a third week whenever I'm with them. I wish that people could see through my appearance, and put it to one side, as I am a genuine young man with a heart of gold, looking to make a nice girl happy...
    Jlangton95 Jlangton95 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    The Person I Was Meant To Meet

    I have learnt how to be independent much to my own success and/failure.  I decided one day I did not like the person I was becoming, angry, resentful and irritable. Now I have shed that bad romance, now I am ready to find the person I was meant to meet ...I wanted to share with...
    forgetmenots forgetmenots 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    Reminders Of Lost Dreams

    How do we loose our way... without noticing and we look up and say "How did I get here?" When did I stray from the path I imagined? I've lost my way... I've lost me.
    Blackvelvetsex Blackvelvetsex 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2013

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    I've never had a boyfriend,

    but I want one. I am very picky though. I am not desperate enough to jump at whatever guy asks me first. I have to get to the person before I give them a chance. I have morals and standards. I understand every person has their background in relationships, whether it was a ex-boy...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Ohhhh I'm So Tired

    I am so tired ,weary even , i simply long to be in a relationship , where it is a two way street! It has for many years, as i now realize , been me doing lots of giving of emotion ,time and effort . And really not getting much back in return ! It is time to move on. So i am...
    Englishgent1970 Englishgent1970 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    Natural Herbal Products For Your Health And Wellbeing

    Welcome to the world of Natural Herbs Clinic where you can find a range of herbal medicines for almost every ailment vacillating from mild or chronic. This is a complete online herbal remedy store where we not just sell medicines for the sake of coining profit but we put our...
    brendahawke brendahawke 26-30, M Sep 4, 2013

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    It's A 2 Way Street!

    Relationships are supposed to be a 2 way street. To me that's something healthy and loving, and I think this what is called partnership. I need something healing and loving. Someone healing and loving. And I'm prepared to return the same. There just aren't any takers, or I'm...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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