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I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

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    So far my relationships have kinda destroyed me.

    I'm bisexual so it's both men and women... Anyone want to talk about something real and serious just let me know. I mean I know I appear pretty out there sexual lol to know why you'd have to read my other posts, but I'm actually mostly normal.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    I am miserable, and these are supposed to be

    some of the best years of your life. I think this is a toxic relationship. I'm scared.
    starzzy333 starzzy333 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 12

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    I would love a healthy relationship

    for once feel loved n not just sexually but emotionally n spiritually ect ect would anyone know someone like that even friends welcome
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 31-35, M 1 Response May 11

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    I've never had a lover.

    I want someone to accept me for who I am. To be open with me. To let the past all be in the past. To tell me I'm worth the fight for. To make me feel wanted. Someone who would go the distance to make me smile. Binge on Netflix, food, and cuddling/spooning. To be adorkable with...
    pearlgir1 pearlgir1 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    Fear And Love

    I don't want to break your heart. It scares me so much that I could be falling in love with you. What if I could never be with you? What if I disappoint you? You've been everywhere, done so many things and here I am green and open. I've never been so willing to give someone ALL...
    Nychick4 Nychick4 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    I haven't had a girlfriend

    for a few years now because as a teenager my relationships were always very hostile, a mirror I believe of my parents relationship. I have gotten close to girls and almost been in a relationship on many occasions, but once I get close I start to see my former self creeping back...
    shellofaboy shellofaboy 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    How To Cook A Husband

    I collect books from the early 1800's into the early 1900's. I came across this gem in a book dated 1892. It is an illustrated New England Jeweller with newspaper articles glued into it by its owner. Please relish this gem from that era. A good many husbands are spoiled by...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2013

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    Many people have asked me to share about my

    divorce. I thought I would write it here so I wouldn't have to keep repeating it. I have been married for 25 years. I'm currently going through a divorce. The first twenty years were pretty good. With the exception of an affair he had 12 years into our marriage. I put my big...
    upextraolives upextraolives 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 17

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    if there are any girls

    that would want to be in a relationship with me please text me 😘
    junior1122 junior1122 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Hanahbee Hanahbee 31-35, F 8 Responses Dec 16, 2014

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    I've been single for 4 years,

    say what you want...every minute sucks
    ProjectRinzler ProjectRinzler 36-40 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Tracy80 Tracy80 22-25 Apr 30

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    I am looking for and want to be in a healthy

    and loving relationship with a real man. I have been married and divorced twice and have seven kids in both of the marriages. Four of them are on their own. This leave three at home with me to raise. I have three teenagers at home. So I am pulling my hair out by the roots...
    jillpeterson jillpeterson 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    I've had very few relationships,

    but there seems to be a running theme with all of them, i'm kept a secret. No one knew about me, i was kept away from their lives, and never publicly out with them..i wasn't the other woman, they were free to be with me but its like they were ashamed of me.
    kittyh78 kittyh78 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    monatonie monatonie 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    normally I keep my relationships a secret.

    it isn't something I share. but I need to write. I need to get these thoughts, these emotions out of my head.so I'm writing to him. this isn't a plea for attention.this isn't an invitation to make a move. I am here to write. for me.not for you. why can't you see me? the real...
    loveandlight29 loveandlight29 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 8

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    christinasixxandybvb christinasixxandybvb 16-17, F Apr 3

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    i just caught my boyfriend out lying

    and his reaction was very bad he started shouting and accusing. he lied about being somewhere that he wasnt. problem is we have a 6 month old baby and im scared to be a single parent.
    fionnax12 fionnax12 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    I want to be in relationship

    but afraid of getting hurt.!! can anyone help me regarding this? Thank you !!
    opender opender 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 30

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    my last relationship 7 years.

    oh boyeeee the things I endured my children do too. foul name calling of my children disrespect to me... I'm struggling financial and all while he walks away from me? I want a relationship that is equal and supports one another decision is that much to ask?
    shonda710 shonda710 36-40, F a week ago

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    For as long as I can remember I have always had

    boys chasing after me. My first kiss happened in first grade with a boy named Joe on the top on my playground set. Before I moved away a boy named Garrett (my other boyfriend in first grade) also asked me to marry him as he handed me a mood ring. The love of a child is nothing...
    MakaylaJean77 MakaylaJean77 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23, 2014

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    It's A 2 Way Street!

    Relationships are supposed to be a 2 way street. To me that's something healthy and loving, and I think this what is called partnership. I need something healing and loving. Someone healing and loving. And I'm prepared to return the same. There just aren't any takers, or I'm...
    SonicReducer75 SonicReducer75 36-40, M 6 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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    okay, here's the thing;

    if you trap your other half in the relationship and only worry about how you feel, then that's not a healthy relationship at all. you should put your other half before you.. and perhaps not constantly rave about suicide and threatening to kill yourself if they leave. js. -shrugs...
    SammiSakura SammiSakura 13-15, F May 15

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    I just want something that's real.

    Something that isn't just sexual and something that doesn't leave me feeling empty.
    dMajorb dMajorb 18-21, M Jul 16, 2014

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    Wishes And Willingness

    Im not perfect, but I want to be perfect for someone. Im not super strong, but I want someone to feel safe in my arms. Im not everything, but I want to be someone's everything. Im not the most loveable person on the planet, I just want someone to like me. Im not a master of...
    DGSteele DGSteele 22-25, M 2 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Very much so. I'd like to find someone with the

    same interests as me. We can love each other and not put one another down. Show nothing but love.
    Philli8807 Philli8807 26-30, F 2 Responses May 30, 2014

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    Honest answer's please.

    I'm just trying to see if there is anything physically that I should make better before I go dating.
    Encontrados Encontrados 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    All I Want Is To Be Happy Relationship.

    who doesn't, i bet everyone want to be in a healthy loving relationship and be happy,i am tired of heartache and disappointed. you know i think relationship it's a full times a job so i want to tell you this don't apply if you are not ready,don't think because you are lonely that...
    bunga87 bunga87 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    I hate when some one talks to someone else more

    then they talk to you and your in a relationship with them and they wonder why I'm not talking to them much it just ****** me the @#!$ off
    XxSHAEFERxX XxSHAEFERxX 18-21, M Dec 17, 2014

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    I had a good time yesterday at the Easter party

    but at the same time I was sad everybody was with their and partner playing games except for me??
    ShortyLove34 ShortyLove34 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    I am in a relationship with someone

    who treats me like a queen. We can talk for hours and hours, we have many similiar thoughts on politics, how to survive the Zombie Apocolypse, dog, and kid training, cars, guns, fashion, music, art. The physical relationship is off the charts good. We have plans to buy a house...
    Derangedjdub Derangedjdub 36-40, F Feb 17

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    Yes I want this but it would have to right

    after I have achieve perfect health, if I don't do that then our relationship is not going to be healthy for either of us.
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 9

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    I'm in a superficial relationship with I man I

    have grown to love and he says he loves me, but he's also said he wants to to keep things light and not get too emotionally invested. He says it's because it won't hurt so much when I leave him. It hurts so much to know he doesn't care at all about what I think or how I feel. He...
    ampand ampand 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    The Person I Was Meant To Meet

    I have learnt how to be independent much to my own success and/failure.  I decided one day I did not like the person I was becoming, angry, resentful and irritable. Now I have shed that bad romance, now I am ready to find the person I was meant to meet ...I wanted to share with...
    forgetmenots forgetmenots 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    tig1991 tig1991 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 18

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    A relationship cannot bring you things

    you should be giving yourself; validation, self worth, and completeness. ~Mandy Hale
    silverfox54 silverfox54 61-65, F May 3

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    Tip: when you are looking

    for a companion, do not worry about whether he/she likes you. Only worry about how he/she makes you feel. Stop trying to make everyone like you and actually find someone that makes you feel wonderful. Don't even look at outer beauty because attractive people can make you feel...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I want to surprise and take care of someone

    and love them. I want to make them smile and laugh and wake up next to them. I want to be in love
    karlisensi karlisensi 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2013

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    As the song "Soulmate" by Natasha Bedingfield

    goes,"Who doesn't long for someone to hold?Who knows how to love you without being told?Somebody tell me why I'm on my own?If there's a soulmate for everyone." That song depicts my feelings perfectly.However,finding a needle in a haystack seems easier than finding love nowadays...
    kruella78 kruella78 36-40, F 1 Response May 17

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    after nearly 14 years,

    it's funny how I just keep expecting change. first. it's my daughter's 7th birthday. and I had to work. I ended up being able to actually get approved for a decent break. one whole hour. I was so excited to get to have dinner with her. my husband started a fight. a fight...
    loveandlight29 loveandlight29 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    please1980 please1980 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    it's crazy i have someone

    but i feel like im doin it all alone he gives me nothing and i do everything we been together 5years and evey day all i hear is it's. u not me i just want someone to love me for me not what i have or can do for u i give my all to god my kids and him and they treat me like im...
    whyithurts07 whyithurts07 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Last week my husband told me he doesn't know

    if he wants to be in this marriage or not. today he still can't answer me. says he doesn't know what to think or feel or say. Says he loves me? I moved into the spare bedroom. he says he doesn't want to think or feel. just wants peace and quiet. I left him alone and gave...
    BabySnakes BabySnakes 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 1

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    [Chorus] What you do is crazy babe/ Not like

    you belong in an asylum/ Crazy babe,/ Like the sun in the morning/ And the moon at night/ Like the rain falling from the sky/ Like the trees growing from the ground/ I'm astounded babe/ By your love for me/ And your touching me/ And your trust in me/ Like you do whoo...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4

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    ARGH!! damn it!! Why can't any one pay any

    attention to me!! My freshman year of high school was ensued by a lot of drama caused by some new guy friends me and my other female friends made (let's just say there were 3 girls 2 guys) this one guy T kept jumping back and forth between m e and my friend C towards the end it...
    Theoldmaid Theoldmaid 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    I Don't Think I Know What A Real Healthy Relationship Looks Like

    I have come to the conclusion that I have LONGED for a healthy and loving relationship but perhaps, instead, have learned that I don't know what one really looks like.I THINK an healthy relationship includes of course, love, trust, respect, kindness, consideration, gentleness and...
    Missalaineyeus Missalaineyeus 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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