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I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 8,004 People

    Would you trust a man

    after he cheated? What are your stories and thoughts?
    clawbeaja clawbeaja 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 28

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    I wish I had someone

    who is crazyy about me.I want a guy to make me smile.
    GorgeousJulia GorgeousJulia 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

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    its amazing when 2 individuals dont need to put

    in a lot of effort to keep a relationship moving in the right direction.. and all those communication happens through subtle gestures.. when you just know someone in and out. its heavenly! i believe those kind of love is evergreen..
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 18, 2015

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    I am in a relationship with someone

    who treats me like a queen. We can talk for hours and hours, we have many similiar thoughts on politics, how to survive the Zombie Apocolypse, dog, and kid training, cars, guns, fashion, music, art. The physical relationship is off the charts good. We have plans to buy a house...
    Derangedjdub Derangedjdub 36-40, F Feb 17, 2015

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    In am always caring and loving.

    When I had a relationship I always stood up in the morning and made breakfast and brought it to bed. Sadly I never got the love back like that. People just want sex these days. But I will only share my first time with the person I wanna marry. I hope I will get the love back...
    Miridia96 Miridia96 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2015

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    the last 3 relationships I have been in,

    have messed me up. theyve cheated/flirted with other girls. two would call me names and make me feel so **** about myself. Idk, I just want to be happy, I guess. relationships, friendships. I'd be happy with either..
    asdfghjkaybear asdfghjkaybear 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2015

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    I really sick of having friends with benefits

    kind of thing. that's not going to feel this hole in my heart. I deserve to be loved and cared for. not be asked for sex from my guy friends. I want a real relationship with a guy I really like. I just want a guy that really likes me. wow I sound needy I'm sorry. I'm just sick...
    Kayla0504 Kayla0504 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

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    Hi, my name is Anthony

    and I'm 23yrs old. I'm certainly single and I been single for 5 years now. I want to be in a healthy relationship with women between ages of 23-26
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I would really like to experience that.

    I have dated guys but the relationships didnt last long at all. They also weren't the best relationships either. I didnt get treated well. I usually had to pay for everything and waste my gas, I always did so much for the 2 guys I dated and they didnt return it. They thought...
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 31, 2015

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    Lol i dont know whats wrong with me Im single

    and i have all the great things to be a perfect bf and lover but I'm still single lol maybe i just gotta wait abit. Also i really love Chinese girls and Arab so i guess thats another reason im single im really picky i will marry one of those too.
    jeremyolivieri jeremyolivieri 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 19, 2015

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    Health is the greatest gift,

    contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.
    beinghuman005 beinghuman005 36-40, F Dec 25, 2015

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    Morning everybody! So can someone tell me

    who does not want to be in a healthy relationship? I am lead to think and feel that everyone wants to be with a healthy partner. Problem is that when we meet someone "special" who will be there to tell you that you are both healthy and in the relationship you should be in...
    Iamanadultbaby Iamanadultbaby 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 24, 2015

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    I am just gettin get out of a 13 year marriage,

    we were high school sweethearts and I thought we would be together forever. His addiction to **** and constant lying to cover up his addiction was what made me made me call it quits! I want forever, but I will not be second string to ****! Is that too much to ask?
    Miggiemag Miggiemag 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    a lot of the time I just feel like I am too ugly

    or out of someone's league...which is why I never approach anyone because I have been turned down xD A LOT and I will be turned down a lot more in the future as well
    tyeshamari tyeshamari 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2015

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    I have never been in a healthy

    and loving relationship and I'd give the world just to be in one for once. I see all my friends in happy and functioning relationships, some of them are even getting married. I just wish I could find someone who would be down for me like I would be for them.
    rotimi12 rotimi12 18-21 2 Responses Oct 20, 2015

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    Just once please. That's all I ask.

    Just want someone who cares about me :/
    Phantoms1992 Phantoms1992 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    how about honest relationship.

    that's what I need.
    BABA4801 BABA4801 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2015

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    i been denying it but i really want a

    relationship rn. ive been single for so long and even tho i got great friends i miss feeling desirable, feeling like there's always someone on my side and who I don't have to feel awkward getting close to. maybe it's selfish but i really want that security rn. i want to feel...
    bugab00 bugab00 18-21, T 3 Responses Oct 29, 2015

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    I suspect that my primary significant other has

    slight social anxiety or agoraphobia. He will be turning 33 this week, and as far as I know has never held a serious job in his life. Living with him, I know his daily routine and habits. He feels little to no desire to explore the world outside - he can spend all day playing...
    rebekahanastasia rebekahanastasia 18-21, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    I am I love and I have never been

    so dam happy I think of her every second and will continue to do so we love each other and I will lover for ever and remember her amazing smile
    jamieb1212 jamieb1212 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    I just want someone to love me

    as much as love them:)
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 14, 2015

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    Tip: when you are looking

    for a companion, do not worry about whether he/she likes you. Only worry about how he/she makes you feel. Stop trying to make everyone like you and actually find someone that makes you feel wonderful. Don't even look at outer beauty because attractive people can make you feel...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    hi i really need gf and love she .

    ... be happy with she and she be happy with me .... i dont care about look or age or any thing just i want to be happy together
    yamia yamia 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    I would love to be in a healthy loving

    relationship, no drama. I want to be with someone who chooses me first, no wife or girlfriend at home. I don't want to be your side chick, I choose not to be second. In return I will be committed to that special person I love unconditionally, I want to fall for someone's heart...
    Heavenly15 Heavenly15 51-55, F 7 Responses Oct 14, 2015

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    So, I have a boyfriend.

    We've been together about two years. Prior to meeting me, he was head over heels in love with a woman in his same profession. He left his wife in order to pursue this person. Well he tried repeatedly to make some kind of relationship work. Mostly they had kind of a long distance...
    ampand ampand 41-45, F 12 Responses Sep 29, 2015

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    Heyyyy321 Heyyyy321 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    I have always been a hopeless romantic.

    I always wanted to believe in Soulmates but the pessimist in me kept telling me they just don't exist in real life... Only books and movies. I think that's why I stayed in my relationships much longer than I should have. Well that and the kids. Gotta try to work it out...
    yinyangdragon yinyangdragon 36-40, F Dec 25, 2015

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    I think I was born in the wrong generation xD I

    mean can I please just go back to the time where people actually want to get to know you as a person? is it really that hard to find someone who doesn't think that they have to buy your love....
    tyeshamari tyeshamari 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    Haven't had one of those in years!

    ! Do they still exist? Lol
    Majin1712 Majin1712 22-25, F 13 Responses Jan 5, 2015

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    So far my relationships have kinda destroyed me.

    I'm bisexual so it's both men and women... Anyone want to talk about something real and serious just let me know. I mean I know I appear pretty out there sexual lol to know why you'd have to read my other posts, but I'm actually mostly normal.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 4, 2015

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    Yeah it would be nice

    but i dont see it happening anytime soon.
    CassidieH CassidieH 31-35, F Jan 21

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    a healthy relationship sounds like a myth to me.

    i was raised by old school parents who had me in their late 30s and early 40s. so growing up my parents tended to be the age of my peers grandparents. so allot of the morals instilled in my are that of a different time. i believe this has effected my love life. I've dated some...
    jaymazing jaymazing 22-25, M 9 Responses Jan 23

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    The worst 4 year relationship Ive been in is

    coming to a close tonight. ****... What now.
    Risika1684 Risika1684 26-30 2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

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    I want more than to be in a healthy

    and loving relationship. I want to be someone's one and only. I want her to look at me with the same unconditional love that I will feel when I look at her. I want the two of us to be the first thing on each other's mind in the morning and the last thing we think of when we go...
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 25, 2015

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    I Don't Think I Know What A Real Healthy Relationship Looks Like

    I have come to the conclusion that I have LONGED for a healthy and loving relationship but perhaps, instead, have learned that I don't know what one really looks like.I THINK an healthy relationship includes of course, love, trust, respect, kindness, consideration, gentleness and...
    Missalaineyeus Missalaineyeus 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    I was married, happily married

    for 13 years until my husband suddently went off the deep end and announced out of the blue that he wanted a divorce. That was four years ago... three years ago since he moved out and one year ago that our divorce was fine. I'm ready to move on now and find someone new, but it...
    saramacdonald saramacdonald 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 12, 2015

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    I would love a healthy relationship

    for once feel loved n not just sexually but emotionally n spiritually ect ect would anyone know someone like that even friends welcome
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 36-40, M 1 Response May 11, 2015

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    Hi, this may sound weird,

    but I am looking for someone for my roommate. He is single and looking for a relationship. He is 37, loves anime, movies, music, long intelligent conversation, and the ocean. He also loves to travel and take long road trips. And I know you may be hesitant. But he is a great guy...
    CandidxApple CandidxApple 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    honestly, looking back at the pictures from two

    years ago, it's so weird to think that it actually happened, that now I don't even know him any more, that I had a past with this person, making a difference in his life and in mine, whether good or bad, it's so weird to think that all of that happened, it feels like it was all...
    koalat12 koalat12 18-21, F Nov 16, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 28, 2015

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    I have a boyfriend who is a smoker

    and a drinker. I'm not judging him i love the way he is but my problem is im scared of losing him that one day i may discover that he is sick and too late to be treated. I know im just overthinking but i can't help it because it is not impossible. What should i do?
    bananadine bananadine 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2015

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    The three stages of grief include anger

    and sadness and acceptance. Yesterday, I felt more sadness over the sudden and unexplained abandonment by my supposed soul mate. Today, feeling stronger, I am more angry. Yes my love, I have blocked you out of my phone, websites and hopefully my life. I did that for me and not...
    submolly submolly 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 15, 2015

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    normally I keep my relationships a secret.

    it isn't something I share. but I need to write. I need to get these thoughts, these emotions out of my head.so I'm writing to him. this isn't a plea for attention.this isn't an invitation to make a move. I am here to write. for me.not for you. why can't you see me? the real...
    loveandlight29 loveandlight29 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 8, 2015

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    PRIXM PRIXM 13-15, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 14, 2015

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