I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

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    a healthy relationship sounds like a myth to me.

    i was raised by old school parents who had me in their late 30s and early 40s. so growing up my parents tended to be the age of my peers grandparents. so allot of the morals instilled in my are that of a different time. i believe this has effected my love life. I've dated some...
    jaymazing jaymazing
    22-25, M
    7 Responses Jan 23

    I think I was born in the wrong generation xD I

    mean can I please just go back to the time where people actually want to get to know you as a person? is it really that hard to find someone who doesn't think that they have to buy your love....
    tyeshamari tyeshamari
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    Tip: when you are looking

    for a companion, do not worry about whether he/she likes you. Only worry about how he/she makes you feel. Stop trying to make everyone like you and actually find someone that makes you feel wonderful. Don't even look at outer beauty because attractive people can make you feel...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    This is what I like about marriage.

    .. I had that sometimes with my ex husband.... *sigh*
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 19

    Many people have asked me to share about my

    divorce. I thought I would write it here so I wouldn't have to keep repeating it. I have been married for 25 years. I'm currently going through a divorce. The first twenty years were pretty good. With the exception of an affair he had 12 years into our marriage. I put my big...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 17, 2015

    So, I have a boyfriend.

    We've been together about two years. Prior to meeting me, he was head over heels in love with a woman in his same profession. He left his wife in order to pursue this person. Well he tried repeatedly to make some kind of relationship work. Mostly they had kind of a long distance...
    ampand ampand
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    I've been trying for years to met a nice lady,

    but I don't trust online dating. It's full of scammers
    equinereiki equinereiki
    61-65, M
    6 Responses Apr 4

    Oh, wait; I already am.

    Such a nice girl I'm with. Hearts
    Spidey0 Spidey0
    31-35, M
    Jan 22

    So this guy says he loves me .

    .. wants to be with me ...cares for me ...it's not like a committed relationship that we have ... but at the same time he flirts with other girls and he has a huge problem of telling lies .... asked me to move on in my life .. And so did I ...just that I immediately dint go and...
    beinghuman005 beinghuman005
    36-40, F
    Apr 2

    I would love to be in a healthy loving

    relationship, no drama. I want to be with someone who chooses me first, no wife or girlfriend at home. I don't want to be your side chick, I choose not to be second. In return I will be committed to that special person I love unconditionally, I want to fall for someone's heart...
    Heavenly15 Heavenly15
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    i know i written about this particular person

    before but i haven't found it in me to end move. i still see the good in him. but anyways im in a serious predicament right now where everything i say or ask **** him off. i feel as though i cant express myself without feeling like im saying the wrong thing. i feel like im...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 18
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    hi all i am looking for a girlfriend i dont

    care about age or what she look ... i just want to be happy together
    yamia yamia
    18-21, M
    Feb 28

    normally I keep my relationships a secret.

    it isn't something I share. but I need to write. I need to get these thoughts, these emotions out of my head.so I'm writing to him. this isn't a plea for attention.this isn't an invitation to make a move. I am here to write. for me.not for you. why can't you see me? the real...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Jan 8, 2015

    my boyfriend has ptsd

    and I feel guilty when he has bad day's like somehow this is my fault I know this isn't true but it's so hard to not feel that way and then I get mad.... currently lost
    linzeep23 linzeep23
    31-35, F
    Mar 14

    Me and my husband have been fighting

    for as long as i can remember what made it worse is that i didnt even know why we were fighting and how did it all begin and who started it course we both were constantly blaming each other. Well anyway over all those fighting and yelling we finally realized how much are kids...
    angelroselostsoul angelroselostsoul
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 18

    Ever heard the term, "there's someone

    for everyone?" To bad some ppl never meet their someone's /:
    AshesF4ll AshesF4ll
    18-21, M
    9 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I would love to be in a relationship again

    but with past relationships and how I was treated I question to many things like if I am good looking enough. If I am fun enough. what would make me a good girlfriend to somebody but I can't help but compare myself to other girls as through all my relationships i have been...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 30

    In am always caring and loving.

    When I had a relationship I always stood up in the morning and made breakfast and brought it to bed. Sadly I never got the love back like that. People just want sex these days. But I will only share my first time with the person I wanna marry. I hope I will get the love back...
    Miridia96 Miridia96
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    probably can't. i can't meet my better half.

    i can't..stop having these feelings jelousy. i feel like..i'm always looking at people through WINDOW. i can't feel i am beautiful. Why? Cos my mother said i'm useless and i'm not good at anything? Why? Cos my mother said i'm such a JOKE? Why? Cos she said i'm not allowded...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 1

    I am wishing to have this,

    but I am loosi g hope.
    walkawayifyoudontlikeme walkawayifyoudontlikeme
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 27

    I don't understand why no one can ever be happy

    with what they have. Why does everyone have to cheat on each other and break each other's hearts? Why can't anyone just be decent? I'm so sad all the time. I wish everything was different. I know there is more I don't know about. I know he's lying because it's all he does. I'm...
    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 30, 2015

    I want more than to be in a healthy

    and loving relationship. I want to be someone's one and only. I want her to look at me with the same unconditional love that I will feel when I look at her. I want the two of us to be the first thing on each other's mind in the morning and the last thing we think of when we go...
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    I'm 20 turning 21 .. Do you think it's too

    early to settle down ? Me and my boyfriend have been together since 2012 ., we broke up for a little while . It's the fact that I don't want anyone else but him .. And he feels like he is to young to try and settle down but then he asks if I'm still moving down there in August...
    reddmarie reddmarie
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 22

    I would really like to experience that.

    I have dated guys but the relationships didnt last long at all. They also weren't the best relationships either. I didnt get treated well. I usually had to pay for everything and waste my gas, I always did so much for the 2 guys I dated and they didnt return it. They thought...
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    update from my first post.

    he texted me the guy i mentioned whom i've been seeing for 4 weeks or so now. once again he never meant to hurt me on purpose. "his accuse" if you ask me. check this one out " i'm in love with you and want to marry you". how can someone be in love with me and all we do is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 14

    I would love a healthy relationship

    for once feel loved n not just sexually but emotionally n spiritually ect ect would anyone know someone like that even friends welcome
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 11, 2015

    I wish I had someone

    who is crazyy about me.I want a guy to make me smile.
    GorgeousJulia GorgeousJulia
    16-17, F
    Jul 19, 2015

    hello everyone, im currently in a position

    where i ended my 4 weeks relationship with this guy whom i met online. the funny thing about this relationship is my friend whom i also met online a few months before him knows him for two years. she's the one that put in a good word that allowed me to give him a chance. she...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 14

    I'm tired of having single female friends,

    that I'm attracted to, that have given me boyfriend responsibilities but no boyfriend benefits. That call me 24/7, even when I try to connect with other women, they tend to need me more. Tell me they want a guy like me..... You have me right here, why not grab me?! Stop telling...
    synikalmind synikalmind
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 27

    I hope that someday I'll be in a healthy loving

    relationship with someone who truly loves me, my family and Jehovah God... that's the biggest dream I have that I would forever be grateful, thankful and would be more than happy of if it came true. ???????
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 26

    Haven't had one of those in years!

    ! Do they still exist? Lol
    Majin1712 Majin1712
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Jan 5, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 18

    i trid my best to be happy in my current

    marriage. but i think GOD wrote something different in my luck. today i asked my wife dont file the tax alone. i want to file joint tax. but she replied i did already. now i have no idea what would be happen. cuz i already owe lots of money. we have 3 kids. i thought whatever...
    mkdpk mkdpk
    41-45, M
    Feb 26

    A year ago my ex of 3 years

    and I finally broke up. I say finally because for the first time I am realizing that the relationship I was in wasn't healthy at all. We would fight constantly, I'd tell him things I wished were better in the relationship and he'd get upset with me and shutdown, he would always...
    tyeshamari tyeshamari
    18-21, F
    Mar 22

    How do I find a female

    who loves me for me ?I live on the Anchorage a Alaska
    Lizzy907 Lizzy907
    22-25, T
    4 Responses Mar 31

    I am thinking of cutting ties completely with

    my on/off relationship due to the guy constantly being hot/cold and playing games. I just want a normal happy relationship. I also want the things I've never had like being cooked for and going on walks hand in hand etc
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    its amazing when 2 individuals dont need to put

    in a lot of effort to keep a relationship moving in the right direction.. and all those communication happens through subtle gestures.. when you just know someone in and out. its heavenly! i believe those kind of love is evergreen..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    Would you trust a man

    after he cheated? What are your stories and thoughts?
    clawbeaja clawbeaja
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 28

    It might sound arrogant

    but I know who I am and what I want. I'm a young, attractive, intelligent and outgoing person. Why has it been so hard for me to find someone, or even a date for that matter. I see all my friends who have someone they can connect with on a deeper level. And I know I'm supposed...
    nikkikknowshope nikkikknowshope
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    I suspect that my primary significant other has

    slight social anxiety or agoraphobia. He will be turning 33 this week, and as far as I know has never held a serious job in his life. Living with him, I know his daily routine and habits. He feels little to no desire to explore the world outside - he can spend all day playing...
    rebekahanastasia rebekahanastasia
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 1

    I was married, happily married

    for 13 years until my husband suddently went off the deep end and announced out of the blue that he wanted a divorce. That was four years ago... three years ago since he moved out and one year ago that our divorce was fine. I'm ready to move on now and find someone new, but it...
    saramacdonald saramacdonald
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    Im black, but I really date only white girls,

    any single cute white girls hmu
    Legend1boyy Legend1boyy
    18-21
    Jan 23
    Heyyyy321 Heyyyy321
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jul 11, 2015

    I want to find that kind of girl

    who like to do fun and enjoyment , I want to creat healty relationship with whom I can walk ,talk , meet , go on trip , any thing as my own woman
    Shashii30 Shashii30
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 15

    I am in a relationship with someone

    who treats me like a queen. We can talk for hours and hours, we have many similiar thoughts on politics, how to survive the Zombie Apocolypse, dog, and kid training, cars, guns, fashion, music, art. The physical relationship is off the charts good. We have plans to buy a house...
    Derangedjdub Derangedjdub
    36-40, F
    Feb 17, 2015

    I am just gettin get out of a 13 year marriage,

    we were high school sweethearts and I thought we would be together forever. His addiction to **** and constant lying to cover up his addiction was what made me made me call it quits! I want forever, but I will not be second string to ****! Is that too much to ask?
    Miggiemag Miggiemag
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 25

    So far my relationships have kinda destroyed me.

    I'm bisexual so it's both men and women... Anyone want to talk about something real and serious just let me know. I mean I know I appear pretty out there sexual lol to know why you'd have to read my other posts, but I'm actually mostly normal.
    MyDaddysSpecialGirl MyDaddysSpecialGirl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    I want to be in a healthy loving relationship

    with the one who sees past my flaws and loves me unconditionally. Of course, I'm single at the moment.
    blaquekittie37 blaquekittie37
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 6, 2015

    I really sick of having friends with benefits

    kind of thing. that's not going to feel this hole in my heart. I deserve to be loved and cared for. not be asked for sex from my guy friends. I want a real relationship with a guy I really like. I just want a guy that really likes me. wow I sound needy I'm sorry. I'm just sick...
    Kayla0504 Kayla0504
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    Morning everybody! So can someone tell me

    who does not want to be in a healthy relationship? I am lead to think and feel that everyone wants to be with a healthy partner. Problem is that when we meet someone "special" who will be there to tell you that you are both healthy and in the relationship you should be in...
    Iamanadultbaby Iamanadultbaby
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    The three stages of grief include anger

    and sadness and acceptance. Yesterday, I felt more sadness over the sudden and unexplained abandonment by my supposed soul mate. Today, feeling stronger, I am more angry. Yes my love, I have blocked you out of my phone, websites and hopefully my life. I did that for me and not...
    submolly submolly
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    I love healthy relationships with more love

    and very hate about nasty people..
    Angel1ne Angel1ne
    13-15, F
    Apr 15

    I need affection. It's

    so lacking in my relationship. I feel empty.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 26

    hi all ... im looking

    for gf .... i dont care about age or what u look .... i want to be happy together
    yamia yamia
    18-21, M
    Mar 11

    I think this is like gold.

    ..you actually have to compromise to get it
    Indigololly Indigololly
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 26
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