I Want to Be In a Healthy, Not Codependent Relationship

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    I'm looking for someone to be with my friend.

    He's the nicest guy I've ever met. He's smart, funny, and mature for his age. He is 18 years old, and readily available to anyone who is interested in being his one true girlfriend. The only reason I don't date him myself is because I only view him as a friend. Also, I am...
    tammyjones6 tammyjones6
    18-21, F
    Dec 17, 2015

    I started life as a codependent in a

    codependent environment, but I’ve left that world and now only hunger for healthy love. Well, I started a friendship a few months with someone I consider soul friend material. You know. It starts off with lots of deeper level sharing, but as time progresses, this friend...
    iNtuitiveFEeling iNtuitiveFEeling
    56-60, M
    Dec 16, 2015

    I just found the answer today!

    Read Ross Rosenberg's book The Human Magnet: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us.
    StillLearningYup StillLearningYup
    61-65, F
    Sep 23, 2015
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