I Want to Be Loved and Desired

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 682 People


    ...by someone unafraid to love, and trust, and share themselves with me, as I give myself to them :-)yup..
    rockyj rockyj
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2011

    Sure guys say they want you

    and they will always be there. They never are though. Waiting to be proved wrong but definitely not expecting it anytime soon if ever.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Nov 28, 2014

    I would love the idea

    that a woman loved wanted and desired me. I think that would be a great feeling its been years since had that feeling
    deleted deleted
    Aug 6, 2015

    Love Me.....

    I want to be loved and deired, wanted with a passionate desire, to be someone’s everything…. Of course I do; who doesn’t dream of such a relationship, one filled with passion, love, desire, lust, friendship, respect and trust.  I know I’m being greedy, but I want to...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 21, 2012

    I'm not to sure that nice guys still exist!

    Everyone I have met say the love you in the first few days and it ends up all they want is money! I live in the U.S. And have yet to met someone who is true and honest! About done with it!
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Sep 19, 2015

    Doesn't everybody want too be loved

    and desired. I hope one day this will happen for me. Until then I just dream it may happen. Maybe dreams will come true who knows
    deleted deleted
    Jun 23, 2015

    That bliss...when you're wanted,

    makes the agony of dismissal almost worth it.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 23

    Loved anyway. A look in the mirror tells me

    that wanting to be desired is wishful thinking
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    26-30, M
    Feb 29

    And After Searching My Whole Life

    i found my soulmate who i married and know i am
    wotaloser wotaloser
    36-40, M
    Jun 23, 2011

    What Is Love

                                 I at the young age of 61 do not feel that I have ever been loved by anyone.  I was born in 48 and...
    Samanthalynn101365 Samanthalynn101365
    66-70, T
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2010

    I feel so needy 😩 like the desire of love

    and the little assets to a happy relationship
    tdfwyl tdfwyl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2015

    the feeling of being admired,

    wanted, loved for who you truly are renders a confidence and an amount of genuine power that cannot be denied. at that point, one is faced with a choice: bask in the joy of the moment, or live from fear that the moment will end.
    edgethane edgethane
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Feb 19
    anton88 anton88
    26-30, M
    May 2, 2014

    For My Confidence

    More than anything I want to be loved. I have never had a steady boyfriend so maybe this is part of it. I suffered from low self esteem a little while back and have only just got past it but still, if i like someone and everyone else says there's no reason that he shouldn't like...
    CleoShilu CleoShilu
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 17, 2009


    v=JZg3ibOt964 "Somebody To Love" (feat. Robin Thicke) Paris, France to Michigan London town and through Berlin I can't believe this place I'm in Everywhere and back again Porcelain and China dolls Give me one, I seen 'em all Got my back against the wall Wonder where I'll be...
    somethin2say somethin2say
    22-25, F
    Aug 6, 2014

    I've lived with a wife

    for 9 years this week. She has loved and desired me about half of that time. Those good times were good. The other half of the time she abused me emotionally to get what she wanted. I haven't trusted her for a few years. She gives me sex without intimacy. I feel like she gives...
    ChasingTheDreams ChasingTheDreams
    26-30, M
    Apr 15, 2015

    Feeling an empty void on the inside is

    as bad as being alone on the outside. Why do we settle for someone who does not need to desire us as much as we desire them?
    Jamestone73 Jamestone73
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Apr 15, 2015

    Married But Lonely

    Have been married for 35 years to a women who has changed into a volatile control freak. I am very laid-back, easy-going but a passionate man. Just want to chat to a NICE, PLEASANT (but SENSUOUS lady, possibly but not necessarily also in a non-loving relationship - for...
    spunky11 spunky11
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Mar 1, 2010

    " What's a fvck when what I want is love?

    " | Henry Miller | The past few weeks have been quite a revelation.. at certain point of our life, we will find ourselves evolved into a more complex soul.. we stopped seeking for fulfillment, we started craving for something that last longer, a prolongation, no more instant...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    So, it's kinda sad when you sign up

    for a dating service, and even they can't find someone for you
    somethin2say somethin2say
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2014

    I want my boyfriend to never look at other girls

    or find them attractive. I want him to think I'm the most beautiful thing in the world
    lemonadelaide lemonadelaide
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 15, 2015

    I rly want a girl to like me

    and appreciate me :( i am a human being too
    basel22 basel22
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 22, 2015

    Literally, my husband won't stop playing a

    video game to give me a hug and a kiss. Mind you, I just complained to him the other day how he's not as affectionate as he should be. He literally wouldn't stop playing a game to give me a hug and a kiss. I am not worth a pause. That's great to know. I'm going to have an affair...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 14, 2015

    Longing For A Long Time

    Just got out of a long distance ,unsatisfieing relationship..I have to make a consentraited effort to find someone.We should be able to accept one another as we are and not try to change one another. still looking after all these years has become very hard. I want to find my...
    parakeet8157 parakeet8157
    51-55, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2012

    Um, Well...

    I Just Want 2 B Desired with a passion!!   oh well.. back to them romance novels. or maybe i should cut down on the reading. Gives me way too much naughty thoughts, as if I don't have enough already! Chocolate chocolate, where's dat chocolate!!
    21butterfly 21butterfly
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Jan 18, 2009

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    deleted deleted
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