I Want to Be Loved Uncondtionally

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    I can't promise you the world

    or that I'm the man for you. I can't promise that I'll always say the right things or never make a mistake. I can promise to always be here and be your friend. To always listen and talk. I can promise to never let you feel alone again. I can promise that no matter what you say...
    leaving6622 leaving6622
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 19, 2014

    I want to be loved unconditionally.

    I've never had that in my life. I'm about to turn 25 and I thought my life would be a lot different growing up. Hopefully soon I can start my life with someone and fall in love.
    Larissa15 Larissa15
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    I want a boyfriend so bad someone to love me

    for me to make me laugh have fun and love each other
    jaddielove024 jaddielove024
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2015

    I Wish...

    People say to go to a therapist for any "heavy" problems. I have. It's not like they've been unhelpful, but what I really want is to confide in someone close to me, someone who wouldn't question or judge my feelings. He or she would comfort me and help me flourish again. It doesn...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 10, 2013
    PiarnD82 PiarnD82
    31-35, F
    Mar 21, 2015
    WyoDoug WyoDoug
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 30, 2015

    Unconditional Love?

    Does this even exist? I'm at a loss.. I'm not sure what I think and feel anymore . My boyfriend of only 4 months and I broke up ... I guess you can say he broke up with me. All bc I have PMDD... And to him it's just an excuse. I know I have to move forward ... He was not right...
    ScubaGirl2013 ScubaGirl2013
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2013


    I want someone who wants me for me. I want someone who understands that I mess up. I want someone who wants me more than all the people in his past. I want someone who needs to be with me. I want a love that lasts. If that even exists. Something that can grow and change...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow
    31-35, F
    28 Responses Feb 12, 2010

    Is it to much to ask to be loved

    and not be cheated on or beaten and told you're ugly during the relationship? I really don't understand the way life really works.....
    cherribenet cherribenet
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2014

    Big Heart

    i have a very big heart and i will give anything and everythig for that person i love once i find her i know how it feels to be loved unconditionaly and then have your heart ripped out and stomped on i cant stand being alone but i have to have some hope for myself and for my...
    thamanski thamanski
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 20, 2012

    I'm willing to give up on finding someone to

    love and just settle for anyone who treats me nice and won't leave me at this point. I get along with most people and all I really want is to be cared for so it's ok if I don't like him I'll still stay. I like serving people anyway so as long as he's happy I'm ok.
    tisbutascratch tisbutascratch
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 1, 2015

    Who Doesn't?

    Yep, it may happen for me, one of these days. But I tend to love unconditionally. Not saying that I can be stepped all over on... I have my limits! But if the guy is decent, but have a few flaws, that's okay with me! :-D I am loyal to the core! And no matter what...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2009
    EmilyBozeman EmilyBozeman
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2014

    Find the strength to let go of what hurts you

    and find the patience to wait for the one who will cherish and respect you...
    Charmeeee Charmeeee
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

    Why Was It So Hard To Be Lovable?t

     FOr so many years I yearned to be loved only to have boyfriends who used me and didn't love me and who even TOLD me they didn't love me. I had so little respect for myself that i put up with that and only felts loved when I retreated into a fanasy world where my perfect...
    mogget mogget
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2009

    Some say they love me unconditionally

    but I don't think they do. Isn't unconditional love involves loving a person no matter what, either they receive something or not? loving someone without any conditions? correct me if i'm wrong.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015

    I Want Unconditional Love!

    I would be so happy if the people in my life loved me unconditionally, accepting me for who I am, and never making me feel like I'm not good enough for them. Sometimes, I feel like the guy in Simple Plan's song "Perfect": like, no matter what I do, I'll never be good...
    cherrypotion27 cherrypotion27
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2009

    I Thought I Was Happily Married, Until I Fell In Love On Line

    I have been married for 11 years and have 2 beautiful children with her.  I am 3 thousand miles from my own family, and her family treat me like their own.  I love her, and many things about her.  She loves me, I think.  We were getting along fine, and I was reasonably happy...
    bp1966 bp1966
    41-45, M
    9 Responses Dec 10, 2011

    But I Am Already, Why Isn't That Enough?

    I am loved unconditionally, and in my heart and my head I KNOW that.  I am loved by God, and I am saved by Grace.  So why isn't that enough?!  In the big scheme of things, if someone were to say to me that I would never have romantic love in my life so I might as...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2010

    This should go under I have lost someone

    who is important to me as well. But I will put it here. I lost one of my Grandpas when I was in first grade. Yes, it sucked. I cried and cries for days. Didn't go out, didn't talk, didn't eat. They were worried about me. One day I finally came out. I had lost my grandpa forever...
    TheLoner1234 TheLoner1234
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Nov 27, 2014

    I Don't Understand Myself

    Whenever I stop long enough to pay attention to my true feelings, there's always this longing to be loved and accepted. I crave it. But when people genuinely seem to care about me, it freaks me out. It feels almost unnatural to be cared for, even though I do the same for others...
    Mimi7777 Mimi7777
    18-21, F
    Dec 2, 2013

    I Deserve It

    I love my children unconditionally, they are my reason for living.  Now all i need is to be loved unconditionally.  I think i deserve it, it would make a welcome change.
    Angeleyes777 Angeleyes777
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2009

    I want someone to love me

    so much that would literally take a bullet for me.. Someone who would make me feel better when Im at my lowest.Someone to make me laugh when im about to cry.Someone who doesn't judge me for my scars.Someone who will kiss me and the pouring rain.He'd just do all he can to make me...
    HealingAngel2 HealingAngel2
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014


    Everyone always walks away I want to love someone that loves me the same
    missmiki1 missmiki1
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2013
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 13, 2014

    How It Is To Be Unconditionally Loved :)

    I know I can love unconditionally. Beyond materialistic world, beyond lust, beyond self. I just havent felt that love ever in my life. I dont know if it exists, I dont know if others are capable of giving it, I dont know if I will find it ever. I am just seeking it. I know its...
    tornFlower tornFlower
    26-30, F
    Dec 16, 2012

    Unconditional Love..

    To have someone love you unconditionally would be wonderful.  Not trying to change you and tell you how you should be.. To have someone that thinks even your, not so great, traits are endearing..  No judgement or cynicism.. No criticism for mistakes you make, just an...
    CaliGirl3 CaliGirl3
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Mar 30, 2009

    Why Can't I Find Someone?

    I was married and I was happy! Then she left. I was a good husband and a good father. Then she said she has changed and she doesn't love me any longer. I just cant understand. I thought everything was great. We had friends, now their her friends, we had a boat, now the boat just...
    ElonMadier ElonMadier
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Oct 22, 2011

    I Wish I Had Someone, Only If For A Night.

    To just hold me and tell me everything is going to be okay... I dont mean a boyfriend like half the other girls out there. Like...a mother figure or something... Ive been dying for someone to say they care. Just to cry out all the mess thats happened in my 20 years on Earth. I...
    CosmicThing CosmicThing
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2013

    My marriage was conditional.

    I heard all the time that what I did was never good enough, that I was never good enough. I tried for a long time to be what he said he needed. Not saying I am perfect and don't have faults but his guidelines always changed. They were always unattainable. All I want is to be...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Sep 12, 2014

    Will It Ever Happen?

    I know how to love... I know how to give... never expecting or even wanting anything in return. Lately though I have wanted something in return... that same LOVE!!! Is it really selfish to want someone to love you as much as you love them. Thats all I want.... for my...
    ericalee4 ericalee4
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jan 17, 2009

    Only A Dream?

    It seems like there is always a certain quota that has to be met in order to be accepted or loved. If one of these are not met either intentionally or unintentionally, love is extremely difficult to achieve. I want to feel it having never truly felt it before. I am trying to do...
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    Jul 21, 2012

    Real Love

    Actually, This is how Love is suppose to be. Wouldn't it be grand...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2009

    <3 regardless of what I deal with one a

    daily basis. Somebody who's gonna love me for me. I get told I'm a great, sweet, amazing girl who deserves the best but all I get a douche guys that lie, cheat, or just pure ********. I have had a friendship or relationship with almost every type of guy and they've been douches...
    93rp 93rp
    22-25, F
    Mar 24, 2014

    Seriously.. Why do I bother?

    It doesn't matter how hard I try, I don't think I'll ever convince him to love me. And it sucks because he means everything to me. I thought buying this ticket to go see him would be proof enough.. But maybe nothing will be.. Sorry, don't mean to depress everyone else. I use...
    Bicurious12345 Bicurious12345
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    Let's be honest, who doesn't?

    I want sex but I also want unconditional love too! Is that a lot to ask for? I don't know why these things are complicated.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    Cougar-like A Workmanship Art

    In fact, 2012 is predicted to be the Year of the cougar – and why not? Many older women are now only too happy to admit that they prefer their men on the good side of30, or even younger. A ‘cougar’ seems to be youthful looking, in great physical shape and looking for...
    seekacougar seekacougar
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2012

    Unconditional Love Is What I'm Searching For

    I wan't someone who shares the same interests.. who when I look at, its as if it is only me and him in the room. Someone who loves me as much as I will love them, who will care for me and treat me right and who will just love me on good days, on bad and stand by me. The person...
    Nevaeh2013 Nevaeh2013
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2012

    I Want to Feel Good Enoughi

     I feel so alone and unwanted. I just want to be loved unconditionally to someone who will hold me and won't let me go, and will protect me from harm. Someone who actually cares and won't take advantage of me. I want to feel as if I were good enough for that person, or even...
    kimical kimical
    2 Responses May 3, 2009

    In every relationship I've had,

    I've given everything. Literally everything I have to give. And was happy to do it. I can't explain how good it made me feel to be so invested in someone's happiness. It didn't matter their flaws and imperfections. I loved them. And I had a revelation tonight while I was driving...
    Bicurious12345 Bicurious12345
    18-21, F
    May 29, 2015

    Starving For!

     I starve for unconditional love.  Which is to love some regardless of there beliefs or actions..
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Apr 27, 2009

    Ever look back at your life

    and wonder why you made certain choices? How you got to places you are now? Today is one of those days for me. I sit here as my husband is raising his voice at me and talking down to me, how I don't do things right, how he thinks I don't parent well, basically how I do...
    SallyJones005 SallyJones005
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    Loved <3

    I want a love that'll consume me. To feel like I'm the only one.
    beyoutilltheend beyoutilltheend
    Sep 6, 2013
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