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I Want to Be Loved

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    I want to be loved...

    .that unconditional, breathtaking, deep, soul mate kind of love. A connection that is not only physical, but emotional, and even almost a spiritual level. I also want to have that kind of love for someone, something deeper than an infatuation or lust, a true love that runs deep...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 11 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    I don't think people fall out of love.

    they jist loved the person that they used to be. the thing is people change all the time and its just a matter of did they cange into some one you could love. i was in love with someone and now i can't even stand her. she is not the same person she was when i fell in love with...
    bw32 bw32 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 21

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    When a girl cries, it's not usually over one

    thing. It's built up anger and emotions that she's been holding in for too long.
    Horserider22 Horserider22 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Hope That One Day...

    Many times, I have been knocked down by love. Many times, I've been used and played by a woman who I really loved. I'm not afraid to love, because I can love with my whole heart, but I'm afraid of not being loved back. I'm not brave enough to love, but I'm brave enough to hope...
    SpeakToMe42 SpeakToMe42 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    I was in this relationship with this girl

    and it hit me hard...very hard and it hurt so bad when she left and now I crave the love from her or another girl idk..i need help..
    rainbowsunderwater rainbowsunderwater 13-15, F Mar 31

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    It's something so simple

    and fundamental, yet I can't have it at all. I always think about removing the part of my brain that wants to be loved so I don't have to worry about not having it anymore.
    soul7 soul7 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Just once, I want to be loved,

    I want to be hard to leave. I want someone staying up all night thinking only of me. guess its hard to find someone who will huh? -_-
    ItsMusethBabe ItsMusethBabe 18-21, F 31 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    I feel like when I was born a curse was put on

    me that I would never know/feel real love. It's frustrating and there's absolutely nothing I can do about it
    TheFreeSpirit TheFreeSpirit 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I want that feeling of my heart racing

    when I get a message from that special someone. I want to be his first thought when he wakes up. ... I want to drive him wild in his mind .. I want him to desire me so much it hurts to be away from me. I wan him to be able to love me with all his heart. Even if it's just on...
    sassygirl42 sassygirl42 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    DessyLove DessyLove 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    Beauty is a useless trait.

    It's a curse. A life sentence that destines you to failed relationships, ignored genuine qualities, and sexual harrassment. All my life I've been told I was beautiful, and for a while I became really cocky after hearing it for so many times. But it subsided with time. Now, I...
    xTrebleClefx xTrebleClefx 22-25, F 13 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    My intensions are uneasy

    and shallow. My kisses were the underlining hints of pain that lingered on his mouth. I undress to expose the wounds of my past and present, only to distract my wandering eyes away from scars and marks that vandalize my body. I did not care much for pre numbered steps of a...
    Xingouttheos Xingouttheos 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 12, 2014

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    This is gonna happen to me.

    I can just feel it.
    easemymindd easemymindd 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I have so much love to give,

    but no one wants to take it or share theirs with me. Why am I so hard to love? I take care of my man when I'm in a relationship and I can't even get an honest, "I love you."
    FierceAsFire05 FierceAsFire05 18-21, F 17 Responses Aug 21, 2014

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    God, I want to be loved

    so badly, by someone who knows everything about me and still staying for me, still adore me for who I am. I just want to be loved.
    faithtobehappy faithtobehappy 13-15, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    That Is the Thing

    Holidays are such a odd thing on EP.  I guess everywhere in life really. Some are ecstatic...happily in love Some are sad and alone Some are in relationships where they feel alone Some are spending their first year alone after a death or break-up or deployment. Some...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 28 Responses Feb 14, 2008

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    When I have a bad day

    and at night, I would like my girlfriend or wife to pick me up and hold me and rock me and tell me everything is going to be okay.
    boatarde22 boatarde22 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Am I Not Good Enough?

    A lot of times I question myself: what's wrong with me? What's not to love in me? What's so complicated about me? What's lacking in me? I torture myself into thinking these kinds of questions because people keep saying, "you're beautiful or you're pretty or you're kind"...
    unappreciated unappreciated 22-25, F 46 Responses May 8, 2007

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    okay..I'm going to make this very clear love

    and list are two diffent things so please if you are kind enough to not ask me if I'm looking for a slave I'm not into that on the Internet and I found it pretty stupid, two I don't want to Skype I want to see you in person or I rather be friends because I'm not showing you my...
    Tiffany654300 Tiffany654300 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    Guys only want me for my body.

    They just want to have sex with me, nothing else. I'm so tired of this all i want is just some love is that too much to ask for?
    LittleWink LittleWink 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 28

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    Real men Don't Love the Most Beautiful Girl in

    The World, They Love the Girl who can Make Their World the MOST Beautiful... Similarly... Real Girls Don't Love the Most Beautiful Man in The World, They Love the Man who can Make Their World the MOST Beautiful...
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Why are girls so ******* harsh?

    ?? Why can't girls get guys have a ******* chance???? I know guys can be harsh but why are girls are so ******* picky when it comes to ******* dating????? I don't want sex. I want a girl that I can spend my life with, grow old and die with later in the future. I look younger than...
    mynameispaul23 mynameispaul23 18-21, M 15 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    When a girl tells you about her problems,

    it does not mean she complains. It means she trusts you.
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M Apr 8

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    I Don't Have Time To Hate People Who Hate Me.

    ... cause..... Im Too Busy Loving People Who Love Me....
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    So in a recent post I pointed out a line

    that really stuck out to me and it still keeps bugging me. It basically says how girls just have this insatiable need to feel loved. Well maybe that's true. Maybe Ive worked hard in relationships that were doomed to fail simply to keep the feeling of being loved and cared for. I...
    sillykitty1231 sillykitty1231 22-25, F 8 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    A couple of months ago I ended a 7 year

    relationship with my first love. I honestly never thought that the relationship would've lasted as long as it did, seeing that I was only 16 when we first got together. The first couple of years were great, that is until I realized the huge flaw that my boyfriend had: he was...
    easemymindd easemymindd 22-25, F 12 Responses Feb 26

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    I think everyone wants to be loved.

    It's hard though, when you grow up different. You grow up feeling unloved and worthless and you just want one person to show you your worth. To be there no matter what, to show you love....someone who'll never leave.
    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    You know it's hard when you never got a hug

    from your parents your whole childhood. When you have to leave home as a teen and become a Independent. Going to college halftime and work the other . I am very careful with who I let in. It's hard to find the person you can trust to truly love you, and all that you've been...
    Freeyourself3 Freeyourself3 18-21, F 14 Responses Feb 19, 2014

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    cabby666 cabby666 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I want to be loved for all

    that i am, i want a guy that will remind me and prove to me his love and never make me feel this painful loneliness i constantly feel.
    confusednormalness confusednormalness 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I want to be loved, held,

    kissed (passionately), I want to be made to feel special and I want to be cherished. I don't want to be treated like some broken toy or yesterdays trash. I want to genuinely be loved, not something fleeting but something that will last. That is my biggest hearts desire.
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    Love

    I heard a saying: "Find someone who has had a difficult life because they are the ones who know how to love." I think this is true. I would love to be loved by someone who has had a difficult life. I know I've had one too. We could heal together.
    dcaleb21 dcaleb21 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    its a great thing

    Love is something we all desire, to have that one person who you will stay faithful to, who you will love with all your heart. I want that, and I don't just want someone to tell me 'they love me' I want someone to prove it for once in my life. To be with her, to share her...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 11 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    You are here But not actually here You're a

    mirage An illusion, Constantly blinding me
    LaraLuulu LaraLuulu 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    i feel that no matter what i do,

    no matter how much i try, i just end up being alone and have this this cold sensation inside of me. i dont know if its because i need to love myself first in order to let others love me, i dont know whats wrong me and therapist isnt helping either!
    confusednormalness confusednormalness 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    All i want is someone

    who will stay, no matter how hard it is to he with me.
    edith562 edith562 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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    I want someone to hold me tightly like I'm the

    most precious thing in the universe
    nirvsemp nirvsemp 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 6

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    I miss connection,emotional intimacy,

    attention,affection and love.I miss someone calling me babe,sweety,words of endearment,making me feel special and wanted.Someone that would also try to help me with my problems,give me advice and listen to me,someone who made me feel less alone and not so afraid of facing my...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 11 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months I

    needed to get away it was not a good relationship at all I thought I was loved but I'm not apparently I am crazy,ugly,stupid a loser from his grandparents and this whole time mostly I felt hardly loved from him when I smiled it wasn't real at all,I am just crying because I had...
    Sofia2526 Sofia2526 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 20 years old and single,

    lonely, cold, and desperately wishing for love. If only I was magazine pretty..if only I fit in to the standards of men...if only someone could see the good in me and the bad and still love me...if only I wasnt so ugly... Would perfection make me lovable? Wanted maybe...but I...
    mihochancullen mihochancullen 18-21, F 46 Responses Jan 1

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    I'm not popular, but I have nice friends.

    I'm not rich, but I have what I need. I may not be liked, but I know I'm loved.
    Horserider22 Horserider22 22-25, M Mar 14

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    I wish with every fiber of my being

    that I *didn't*. Life would be so, so much easier. I have a mantra I tell myself before going to bed every night: No one wants you; No one will love you; You have nothing to offer; Everyone is alone in the world, just some more than others; In order to be a whole person, you...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 8

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    Princeofnothing Princeofnothing 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I do, I think about what it's like to be loved,

    I can't wait for the day where someone loves me as much as I love them. To meet the person where I can be intimate with, who I can kiss all the time, who I can hug and share memories with. I would love for that day to come..
    karencitaxx karencitaxx 18-21, F 20 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Fake friendz r Like Shadowz.

    .. They Follow Us In The Sun But Leave Us In The Dark....
    L0ve4every1 L0ve4every1 18-21, M Mar 18

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    TopNotchGuy TopNotchGuy 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 14

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