Post

I Want to Be Significant In Someone Elses Life

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 3,411 People

    To Much To Ask For?

    I don't think it's to much to ask for that you are significant to someone else, that somewhere in the world there is one person who cares if they've heard from you today, that worries if you're all right. We shouldn't have to go through life insignificant to the world.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It's Time To Find Someone

    June 2010 At the age of 23 I have been travelling and studying and working in all around Europe (Sweden, Switzerland, UK, Portugal, Belgium). I like travelling, but the downside of it is that I have not been able to establish lasting friendships/relationships since I'm...
    Montire Montire 22-25 1 Response Jun 19, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Feel Unloved. Unimportant.

    I'm no one's favorite. My family loves me, but they love me like the rest of my family. And I think the only person who I'm extremely important to is old, and life is more than half over. But I'm not talking about family. I want to be special in someone else's life, out of my...
    imfalling4u imfalling4u 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Inspired

    In a romantic way I want to complete someone else, but here in my small town most all men are jerks and pigs :( Few friends are annoyed by me and my 'goody to shoes' appeal just because I dont want to do the things they do and tell them its wrong. But they dont know my heart. So...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Am Always In the Background

    I know I have touched several lives, but I am always in the background playing a supporting role.  I know it's selfish, but I want someone to see me as a significant part of their life.
    snugglebunny156 snugglebunny156 31-35, F May 13, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Its My Goal

    It's my goal to be significant in someone else's life. Not in a romantic way, just to make a difference. I want to do something so extraordinary for someone else.
    youwishyouknew youwishyouknew 19-21, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm Not Important

    I wish I had someone who cares about me I was never ignored in fact I was the opposite of that I was always constantly watched basically 24/7 My realtives live in other countries and don't care either My mother was and maybe still is in denial of anything having gone wrong My...
    InmemoryofLifelessStar InmemoryofLifelessStar 18-21, F 6 Responses May 3, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Would Be Nice

    I don't expect it to ever happen, but wow, what a nice thing to feel. :)
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Oct 2, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Really Do.....

    I want to give it a shot, but to be perfectly honest I don't know how to. I don't know how to approach guys, conversate, etc,. I really need help in that department, but there's also one more thing that nags at me and worries me.I know this guy, he knows me past and present, but...
    Pooh1608 Pooh1608 18-21, F Dec 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Need...

    I don't feel needed, by anyone, if I disappeared tommorow I don't think it would make any real difference to anyone's life. It sucks, I hope I can change that though, or I hope that it changes.
    Cnbrrn Cnbrrn 16-18, M 2 Responses Nov 2, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    If Anyone Answers No to Thi...

    If anyone answers no to this question, I would have to wonder why. We are all significant to somebody, Parents, siblings, our own children and grandchildren,Friends, pets and even a plant. We are ALL significant in some way. We just have to find where we fit.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Friend Lauren

    Throughout elementary and middle school, there was a girl in my class named Lauren. She is mentally retarded and will always have the mind of a nine year old. When I hung out with my friends, they would always pick on her and, to fit in, I would do the same. When I got away...
    hacky2012 hacky2012 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yes

    What's it feel like to know if you don't call them they'll wonder what's wrong, if something is wrong they notice before you tell them, to have them want to make plans with you, to not wonder if your gonna be a memory or just gone when its all over
    Qtip1976 Qtip1976 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Someone Special

    Faithful, trusting, loving, caring and kind...I give all plus and get a broken stomped on heart each time...I wonder if he really does exist...or am I trying to live out the fairytale of Cinderella?
    StefferLynn StefferLynn 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Is What I Try To Give...

    I always try to make the people in my life feel that they are of importance and significance to me.  Whatever their role is in my life, I remind them there are no small roles and we are all significant.  No one is disposable, no one is truly replaceable and we all matter...
    Pygar Pygar 41-45, M Dec 19, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Do, But Doesn't Everyone....

    I want to be significant in someone else's life, I want to feel important to someone, to know that I am loved, cherished, wanted, desired.  That my thoughts, my dreams, my ambitions, goals and desires will be respected, listened to, helped to become reality if possible.  That...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F May 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Of Cause Everyone Wants to ...

    Of cause everyone wants to feel wanted and needed. It great to be significant in people's life, not only does it make you feel good but it keep you strong when things go wrong
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 1 Response May 12, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Hurts

    Right now, I'm hurting. It hurts so much for some reason. I know that in time everything will fall in it's place but for now, I'm hurting. I've always been there for other's, been there just a call away ready to help you put the pieces of your life together. But now that I...
    boriangel101 boriangel101 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 14, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Husbend Walked On After22 Year He Would Not Tell Me Why.

    just want someone to be true to me .
    lmonroe8 lmonroe8 46-50 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Pefect Example Of What's Missing

    I'm laying in bed with my man...we are lazily caressing each other after yet another round of incredible sex. Suddenly, he stops and takes my hand in his. He asks, "how long has your thumb shook like that, I've been watching it all night - I want you to have that checked out...
    Ann242 Ann242 46-50, F Mar 4, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Wish You Would Tell Me

    I have been asked by those close to me, what is it that you want from her?  Do you want what she cannot give you?  Do you even know what you want from her?My love, what I receive from you most of the time these days is silence, punctuated by the long looks into my eyes and a...
    Pygar Pygar 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want to be wanted by someone

    as more than a friend or a booty call. I want so much more
    countrygirl52 countrygirl52 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    erm Yes I Already Am As Far...

    erm yes i already am as far as i know-she's called helen and she is an absolute angel. I probably think too much about her to be very honest.
    foxtrotoscar foxtrotoscar 36-40, M Jul 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Give...

    I would sell my sould to be truly important to someone else. There are so many important to me, and yet I matter little to them.
    drcynic drcynic 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 2, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Weekends Suck..

    I just can't believe the weekend is coming to an end and still no date. Not only am I not significant in anyone's life, no one is even asking me out.... This phase of my life totally sucks!!!!!
    Blessedbeauty27 Blessedbeauty27 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Romance

    For the first time, I want to be significant to my boyfriend. I want him to value me and the things I do for him over any video game or any of his friends that are girls. is that impossible?
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Of Course I Want To, Who Doesn't?

    I am significant and I want to be significant in someone else's life. They can be anyone: your romantic partner, coworkers, family, friends and even strangers. I guess it could be random acts of kindness or going out of your way to help them. I have never been in a romantic...
    gotsole gotsole 22-25, M Aug 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Love Lost

    i never had a relationship,but i did feel true love once in my life in 1998.i felt a true connection with her.we spent as much time as we could together.she did things for me and i did things for her,no questions asked.we just got on together with each other.strangely,she smelled...
    irongrenadier irongrenadier 26-30, M Feb 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    countrygirl52 countrygirl52 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 13

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There Has To Be More Than This!

    I have been married for almost 17 years. I have 2 teens and feel more alone with each passing year. My husband is married to his career. He believe that his job is to bring in the bacon, that's it. I spend my days working, running the kids to their activities after school...
    justpassintime justpassintime 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Now

    i was in a long relationship and found out i was being cheeted on now i wonder whats next . will i find the right girl for me ?
    zeekthebegal zeekthebegal 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Do

    I want to be significant. I want to help. I want to make a difference. I want to matter to somebody. 
    kleisse kleisse 22-25, F Jul 26, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Want My Existence To Mean Something To Someone Special To Me!

    I hope and I believe that we all can make a difference in someones life no matter what we are or who we are we all have something wonderful to give the world... I want to be significant and special in the eyes of someone either that I know, have known n loved or will in the...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Feb 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To Be Your Everything

    For once I want to be significant in someone else's life.I want to be his everything.I want to be his best friend.I want him to long painfully for me.I want him to miss me the moment we stop talking.I want him to think about me all the time.I want him to fantasise about our...
    Mediocre Mediocre 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 21, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Is It Really That Wrong?

    Is it so wrong to want to be loved? To want to be appreciated? To be needed? To be held all night in the arms of the one that truely loves you? Anyone can ask all the questions but only a few will have answers. I remember when I used to be one of those few. I used to know what...
    Sunshine1058 Sunshine1058 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Guise Of Friendship

    You’ve read some of my writings… Some sexual fantasies, partly inspired by you in fact… But, I don’t always feel that way… Despite that body of yours, that amazing, amazing body of yours… Sometimes I just need, a smile, a gesture, no matter how small, that you care...
    PerpetuallyDreaming PerpetuallyDreaming 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To Be Significant

    To be significant,That's all I wanted,In someone else's life,I got more than that,A friend for life,Great relationship,I got my dream.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response Apr 21, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Bd

    Couple of Days ago was my 40th birthday, what he did, he invited three friends whom i didnt know much. one of them i met once before and the two other were coming from canada. long story short, they couldnt pass the border and never came to our place. all night we talked with...
    sara231272 sara231272 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Don't Know

    I never really had that relationship where I was able to bond with someone 4 a couple of years the most I get with someone is just a couple of months. I yearn for that significant other who is patient loving and kind . 1 day I hope I can get it . you know you go without for so...
    MaryAlias MaryAlias 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Need Something Different

    Today I finally told him its over and I want a divorce. I feel good I feel relieved I'm looking forward to living my young life be happy and have friends as opposed of being isolated. I rather be a single mother who loses everything than continue to be mistreated and unhappy. I...
    YvesDyam22 YvesDyam22 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Want To Be The "significant Other"

    I hear the phrase "significant other" alot and i wonder will i ever be someones "significant other"? the only thing remotely significant in my life is my laptop. I am a tomboy and not many guys go for girls like me. I dont have time to wait for a guy who will, because i know...
    4EVRANDEVR 4EVRANDEVR 16-17, F Aug 2, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It sucks when you're ignored by the person

    whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn’t the only guy staring at her either. Through my mind, I was thinking, "you know what, I'm gonna try to...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

    Your Response

    Cancel

    A Truly Good Friend

    Well as we have it people online come and go. Some we get attached to and some we dont. We soon learn who the fake ones are and who the genuinely good people are. fortunately ive experienced both. But one is standing up to be a true friend. one who has staying power and has a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 5, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Life's Unfairnesses

    For once In my life I want to feel important, I want to feel wanted, needed, by another human being. I just want to release all this love and caring I have pent up inside me like an over blown up balloon ready to burst. I just want to let it all out. I need someone to want it for...
    PerfectRainbows PerfectRainbows 16-17, F Jan 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I really want to save a life again. It's been a long time since I've been both needed and wanted. And saving someone from suicide was one of my greatest achievements and I wanna...
    Lollibear023 Lollibear023 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Life rarely seems to go well for me and everytime my friends always say "it's because you deserve better" or "greatness is in store for you" all I want is happiness in life is that...
    mayorMax mayorMax 18-21, M Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have to change it. I refuse to .. just exist I want to live my life from now on!
    domipl domipl 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Does any one want to talk about life? Any subject?
    Electricsmile Electricsmile 18-21, F Apr 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not writing this to speak of myself ,I've done that already in my storys & confessions here I want people here to read this to know that life can change for the better...
    bob350 bob350 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 21, a guy going through life pretty unsure of everything. I have been to collage twice now going on a third and hopefully final time for game development. Right now I am...
    siffier siffier 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's so very hard when you know you are alone in this crazy world, so very sad sometimes, known for years this isn't going to work, I'm not looking for a man to have sex with...
    fusciarose55 fusciarose55 46-50, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am tired of being alone and with someone at the same time, I have known for years this will never work I just don't have anyone who cares or can help me, I have so very much love...
    fusciarose55 fusciarose55 46-50, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Id love for someone to listen to my whole story on my relationship and give me knowledgable feed back. Like a therapist just free!
    thoughtsandquestions thoughtsandquestions 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Since I was a little boy I didn't communicate with people. I was something like an introvert. Instead of improving my social life I started different activities like martial arts...
    ghos7 ghos7 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Recently I turned 50 years old. Since then, I've been taking stock in my life and I've found that many things are not as I want or need them to be. I have a job that requires a...
    Sweetie64 Sweetie64 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel