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I Want to Be Single For a While

Because relationships = too much work! 96 People

    Cheeks2014 Cheeks2014 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Love Bites , Love Bleeds

    Well here we are again single and alone my " relationship" did not last long I was doing all the work from the beginning while he reaped all the rewards. Then to top it all off when he decided he didn't want me anymore he just stopped contacting me so I had a friend pretend to be...
    Steelergirl2013 Steelergirl2013 26-30, F Aug 25, 2013

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    I Don'T Just Want To I Need To !!!

    I don't feel i know me... I don't feel i ever gave myself a chance to find me.. Now i am on a search and repair mission.. I have left a relationship of 20 years and gotten into a fwb where i am the other woman... I come to realize the fwb was just a safety net to single life.. I...
    cjustmec cjustmec 41-45, F Apr 18, 2013

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    This May Be a First For Me

    I think I've always been obsessed with being in love and having a significant other. This last year I've been with my live-in boyfriend. I think we've done okay, but I also think it's time for us to seperate. Usually before I break up with someone I have this awful habit of...
    vanillaicecream vanillaicecream 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 26, 2009

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    Trouble Trouble

    I dont feel pretty enough to date anyone yet... I wish my hair has grown much longer already. I wish i looked great without makeup. Its so much easier being single because i can decide when i could show the polished side of me. This cute guy i met in the club told me he has a...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F Jan 6, 2012

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    She was raped and assaulted.

    10 years later as supportive as I try to be, I'm the cause if her PTSD. I just don't get it any more.
    francisp francisp 41-45, M Apr 6

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    I Need This

    As someone who probably has attachment issues, I think this is the best course of action for me. Also, there are so many other things that I need to figure out and focus on that would be too difficult if I am in a relationship...especially if the guy is a jerk. I think I have had...
    sweetlady88 sweetlady88 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2011

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    After my last relationship ended,

    I just wanna be on my own for a bit and get to know me as me again. My best friend and I had an... Incident (see the experience I posted before this) but we're cool now; she's told me that in her mind the best thing for me is to go out, enjoy being single for a while, get over...
    Benji91 Benji91 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm In No Hurry

    I don't understand why people think that just because I don't have a boyfriend and haven't had one for some time that I'm bent out of shape about it. Or that I must have confidence issues just because I'm single. I don't need a man to entertain me, believe me, I can entertain...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F Jul 12, 2012

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    Closest I Could Find

    So I've been single and living apart at the same time, 6weeks. I'm actually lucky to b me. I will enjoy the stars alone if no one is there to join me, I will sit alone doing what I like, which I did anyway, I'm getting used to it. Can't lie I'm keeping my options open but not...
    wakotrs wakotrs 31-35, M Sep 9, 2013

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    I cut off all ties with my gf of 2 years.

    . After she lied to me about a number of things and ****** with my head. I guess its time to put myself first and train the heart to cope without her.
    essjay26 essjay26 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I Think It Would Be Good....

    I have always thought I had to be with someone. I don't really want to now though. It has been difficult for me to figure out. I dated four people at least. I think I would enjoy being single though. It might be good to try something different. I used to have four cats. I don't...
    lea1307 lea1307 18-21, F May 19, 2012

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    I just ended things with my gf

    for almost 5 years...it was hard but I felt like I needed to be alone for a while because at the moment life seems to be flying by and I feel like I'm missing out on too much and I've never had a chance to enjoy being single. I'm worried I may have made a mistake.
    eliasqabar eliasqabar 18-21, M 6 Responses Apr 6

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    Undecided.

    Being afraid to do things alone. Being tired of always having to stand up for myself. Getting annoyed seeing public displays of affection. And not knowing what it feels like to surrender my body and soul to someone - are all the reasons i hate being single......enjoying walking...
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2010

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    I loved him. I really loved him. I hate myself for still being so madly in love with him. There hasn't been a single day I haven't thought about him ever since I met him. The break...
    nobodyn234 nobodyn234 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I get attached to easily and I think this is what might secure the fact that I'll be single forever. It's almost like whenever I become friends with a girl that I find attractive I...
    Dez31 Dez31 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 2

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    That my mother never made me a priority. I want to forget that she moved me in with a child molestor and a rapist. Nothing happened except the molestor priming me up. Walking into...
    karenjposey012213 karenjposey012213 22-25, F Mar 27

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    I am happily married woman. My husband loves me a lot. We have been married for 4 years. 2 years after marriage I resigned my job n moved to a new place with my husband. I got no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 26

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    So... Yesterday marked 6 months since I was put in a hospital room for four hours, cameras in each corner, wearing nothing but a hospital gown and a necklace I refused to take off...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    this is my biggest problem. guys never want me for me, and it makes me feel like ****. I hate myself half the time because of it.
    agirltoremember agirltoremember 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    My great grandmas single. My grandmas single. My moms single. I'm doomed to repeat history. I think I'm going to get "forever alone" tatted across my forehead so everyone can know...
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    I know being single is a time to grow as a person and not rely on others....still tho I've relied on myself for so long even in relationships I didn't expect much not like I ask...
    the808heartbreak the808heartbreak 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Actually, I've always been single, never had a girlfriend and I'm 18 and already going to a university, and it is embarrasing. It makes me feel like I'm not worth for any girl. I...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Is 18 years long? Never had anyone. People tell me I'm attractive, that I'm interesting, that they'd give me a shot if they were single, and yet, no one has ever given me a shot. I...
    PhantomOfThePopera PhantomOfThePopera 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 27

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    I haven't been with a woman or even on a date since my ex. Honestly I don't even know where to meet girls nowadays. It used to be through friends or bars, but all my friends are in...
    TGCLEAR TGCLEAR 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Been single too long to be ablento work through the pain and the suffering what eats me up from the inside. Started turning very bitter,hateful lately,also feelings of rage grown...
    PeterHelpsYou PeterHelpsYou 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I just want to be loved...but my need for intimacy and closeness came off as slutty on my last date. He flat out had to tell me he wouldn't sleep with me. All I wanted was to be...
    ralyssc ralyssc 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Stuck in my own private hell. I wish someone that probably doesn't even exist was mine. Someone sent from above. All I got is love. I lock myself in my castle away from the pain...
    Nessy7787 Nessy7787 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I've never had a girlfriend before, I've never kissed a girl, I've never even been out on a date. I feel like no attractive girl will ever want to date me.
    Akakios1 Akakios1 13-15, M 20 Responses Apr 4

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    Which I shouldn't be. I've been told I am fairly attractive. With that said, I don't look like a model. I live in a very shallow city. If you aren't supermodel in shape, and...
    ozwyn ozwyn 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I feel like I have no chance of being in a proper relationship... I had a girls night out with some friends last night which was fun, but I found myself feeling like the 'grenade...
    charllymarie charllymarie 18-21, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    there has to be someone out there for me right ? 😞😞 every time i think i've found someone they always **** me over. i just want something real ..
    yourlittlemsft yourlittlemsft 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm 20 years old and have never been in a relationship. I've "talked" to one guy before and it didn't go as I would have hoped. As I get older I'm afraid that something is wrong...
    PenandMind PenandMind 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I'm 19 years old , I live in the US and I don't have many friends cause I'm foreign . girls usually flirt with me but when I talk they realize my accent and try to get away of me...
    captinleo captinleo 18-21, M Apr 8

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    So it's only been 2 weeks since I broke up with my long time boyfriend. I just can't take it anymore. I feel rejected, lonely, angry and humiliated. I never thought he'd ever do...
    varsitymuenster varsitymuenster 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Like am I not good enough for anyone?😩 /:
    CadyWelch CadyWelch 13-15, F 5 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    My wife and I met on this site (www.blackwhitepeople.com) 2 years ago. It took me a whole year before she would even go out with me on a date .We met at Fridays it was just for...
    Allenm13 Allenm13 41-45, M Apr 10

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    I have been thinking a lot about love. I don't know why. The thought pulls me in. It makes me feel safe. It's like I'm in love, or maybe I just love the thought, or maybe I just...
    silentlyhurtingeveryday silentlyhurtingeveryday 13-15, F Mar 28

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    After one year of being lied to all I want to do is forget and move on but it's too hard when everything has happened so recently and so fast. Why did I have to fall for him? Why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7

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    I was cut when I was 8 and missed my fire skin ever since. I tried restoration, but found it awkward since I frequent the gym. I would have foreskin restoration surgery if it was...
    artonthebrain artonthebrain 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    And so I decided to step out into the world and meet more ppl. I met this guy and then went out once. It was a great date. He invited me over to his place to go to the beach coz I...
    Grapemonster Grapemonster 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    i need someone to entertain me ;)
    ElinorStark ElinorStark 22-25 1 Response Mar 20

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    i need someone to entertain me ;)
    ElinorStark ElinorStark 22-25 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I get friend zoned constantly. I'm a 3 on a Los Angeles 1-10: 10 being brad Pitt hot. Fml. Almost every block or 2 has that one girl who's pretty much slept with the entire block...
    socalsissi socalsissi 36-40, T 1 Response Mar 25

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    Like two years basically come one people!
    taylor468 taylor468 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm not afraid, but I know that once I die of either natural or unnatural causes that I'll be at peace with it lol.
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Apr 1

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    Im afraid that i will never attract 'the one'
    nessa4ever nessa4ever 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    It's becoming something I think about more and more. At this point I think my coworkers are starting to think that there's something very wrong or that I'm hiding something. I'm...
    JesseJamesXIII JesseJamesXIII 31-35, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Guys I appreciate the support but the other stories I posted were over a year ago. I'm not trying to gain any weight right now
    Snowfurr0LESBIAN0 Snowfurr0LESBIAN0 18-21, F Mar 29

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    ....and suddenly your name flashed in the tv screen.. fvckk
    iloveAdamL iloveAdamL 70+ Apr 3

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    I should be strong to face it!! OhGod!! I dunno wht to do. . .
    Sk203 Sk203 18-21, F Apr 12

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