I Want To Be Someone's Woman Not His Mommy

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    Wahh Wahh

    My last long term relationship turned out to be a nightmare. I met him I thought he was intelligent, caring, independent, and normal,  and aperson that kept his apt neat, boy was I wrong. When he asked me to move in I thought great finally a good man with hardly any  ...
    beautifulbell beautifulbell
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Sep 28, 2010

    Little Does He Know.....

    I began dating this young man over a year and a half ago.  Prior to us moving in together, there were many discrepancies in his life story to me.  I figured in time I would leave about him and everything would be okay.   A year and a half later and I cannot figure...
    onebeotch onebeotch
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 21, 2010

    Mom To My Fiance

    I've been with this guy on and off since I was 14, I'm 22 now, and when we started out he was the mature one but I grew past him and now I am. Been engaged to him since 2007 and I was sooo happy he asked but nothing has happened.Since then he's only had one job, and I have had...
    XioBlue XioBlue
    22-25, F
    Jan 18, 2011

    It's been nearly 2 years

    since we started dating. At first it was all fun and spending what time we had free together. Neither of us really wanted a relationship so it was all FWB to begin with. Maybe that's the way it should have stayed? After seeing each other for about 3 months just to "be friendly...
    Momma1985 Momma1985
    31-35, F
    Jun 11, 2014

    My Group!

    This is MY group!!! No I didn't create it. But it's just perfect. I always fall in that trap. Is there secret method to STOP getting into the same cycle? LOL (but really, if someone used to be like that and managed to stop, I would love to hear :-))
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 18, 2010

    Sick Of It...

    I am dating a guy right now who has a collection of personality disorders. At first I was attracted to him because he seemed stable and mature. He has traveled all over the world and is a very charismatic person. If you were to meet him, you'd think he was attractive, funny, and...
    blueflame111 blueflame111
    22-25, F
    Apr 30, 2011

    Be A Man, Damnit!

    Ugh!! Possibly the most irritating thing about my fiance is the fact that he acts like hes still 15. Heaven forbid that he ever clean up after himself. And cook?! If it can't be microwaved hes nothing but confused. The boy needs to grow up. We've lived together for the better...
    Morrighan Morrighan
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2010

    Don't We All

    Why do guys treat you nice until they marry you and then they expect you to wait on them.  I want someone who will share the household chores with me not expect me to do them all.  I work just as hard as him.  I want someone to rub my feet after a hard day. ...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 27, 2010

    To Do List For Him:

    -stop spending on fastfood -its just a card game.. dont get mad! -dont play that stupid computer game all day -brush your teeth at night... -no, pot is not cool -think! Of the future and of your actions -eating fast gives u belly aches.. i know thaaaat! -u missed the bus again...
    SmileMissMaria SmileMissMaria
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2011

    :) Oh My Yes!

    My man is just that - a man! He is not a boy and stopped needing a mommy to tell him what to do a LONG time ago. I am his lover and not his mommy and I don't tell him what to do. He listens to my advice but he is a man and makes his own decisions. I like it that way.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    20 Responses Jun 29, 2010

    A Freakin Men!!!!

    I really wish someone would have warned me that husbands were nothing more than "sons that NEVER grow up and NEVER move out!"  I would have never gotten married!!!!!!
    MsEnigma MsEnigma
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2010

    Diaper Obsessed Husband

    My husband, unfortunately, didn't tell me that wearing diapers and wetting himself turns him on. I tried to be cool about it, but the more I learned about his obsession the more uncomfortable I became. His mother and aunts and grandmothers would put daipers on him when he was a...
    sewcrazy65 sewcrazy65
    41-45
    2 Responses Feb 25, 2011

    Men Want Their Mommies

    I see a lot of stories here that look the same... I don't even like to clean house or do dishes when my bf is home. I know that when I'm cleaning it makes him feel empowered. My ex husband was the same way. If they could see me with a pail and rag, washing the floors on my knees...
    MsBlueDreamer MsBlueDreamer
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Feb 18, 2013
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