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I Want to Be the Best Friend I Can Be

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 208 People

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    You have been hurt by unspeakable pain and sadness. Lets carry each other's indelible stains. Don't give up on living! Will I end up losing them someday! I want to protect you and your fading smile. So… Even if the resounding voice calling should me should wither Even if the...
    FriendsForEverandEver FriendsForEverandEver 18-21, M Apr 21, 2013

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    Not Sure Where Good And Controling Seperate

    I think every one believes them self to be a good friend. I don't believe I have ever heard a person exclaim to not be.The way I grew up, a friend was a person that was fun to be with but wasn't depended on. The only person I depended on was me. Every one else was extra.Through...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4, 2011

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    What Is a True Friend?????

    When I saw that my good friend, My, had started this group I had to weigh in because I am focusing on being the best friend possible to all my friends.  When I think back to the people in my life that were truly my best lifelong friends I can see common characteristics that...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    So Far... So Good!

    If you can be a good son or daughter, parent or sibling, then you can probably take from that and be a good friend as well. For me, I have never had a problem being a good friend. I cherish my friendships, they are all unique and specific to each individual. If I didn't have a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8, 2011

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    Love And Forgiveness

    I always try to be the best friend i can be. I am always putting myself out there for others.. and that is what i called to do.When they blame me for things that go wrong in their life.. i realize it is pain talking and its not really about me.To be a true friend, i have to look...
    moonstar312 moonstar312 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    I Think I Am....

    even at my own expense sometimes. When my anxiety was so bad a few weeks ago that I hadnt left the house in days, except for therapy, I still got out and walked half an hour to collect my best friend after she had an abortion, and take her home. I put her to bed, and spent hours...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2008

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    I've recently found out my best friends cancer is getting worse and I'm scared I'm going to loose her. She has bone cancer and a tumour in her throat which is getting treated but...
    celticsage celticsage 41-45, F 8 hrs ago

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    I never had best friend can you help me
    Rockwheelchair25 Rockwheelchair25 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    i want to friend can can likewise,to share and give support,encouragement,
    bluesky52 bluesky52 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 15

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    Im talking to my best friend, who is a girl, and she and my other friend friend, a boy, just recently dump her. Im glad that im helping her with her feeling and making her feel...
    EnigmaticCasper EnigmaticCasper 18-21, M 24 mins ago

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    Wherever I go I know that I can always come back to my best friends. Nobody can ever replace these people in my life. They have my back to the fullest and I will have theirs. I can...
    norcalkaylala norcalkaylala 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    i'm not really sure if i am in lobed with my best friend, but i always feel like i do. i dont think there is wrong with that, except we have the same gender. i never said this to...
    mrvildac mrvildac 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    I have a friend who's been my best friend for like 9 years and I know basically everything about her and we've been through soo much. We had huge fights before and there's an...
    Cornelia78 Cornelia78 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I so hate my ex best friend so bad, here is the reason why.....we would of been best friends for 10 years this year and things has gone wrong, my best friend kept coming up my flat...
    westlife213 westlife213 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    i just moved to a new state and started ninth grade in august. in elementary & middle school was the worst i had 0 friends from forth grade to eighth not even someone to say hi to...
    khalanijane khalanijane 13-15, F Dec 2

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    He and I have been best friends since the first grade, but back then we had crushes on each other and no one really seemed to forget it. In the third grade I moved and I didn't see...
    lisa365 lisa365 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi, my name is Laura and I'm 21 years old. Two years ago (start of 2013) I moved from my hometown in NSW, Australia, to South Australia to start university. I'm a musician and...
    Lesmall Lesmall 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I dated this guy that was a little older than me and apparently my 'best friend' liked him before we dated. She never told me that she liked him, ever, and I even asked her for her...
    mouthyrage mouthyrage 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    Note that this.... is an entirely different story and not the same or a repeat of the story i wrote about my racist best friend who i lost. She came after the couple of girls i'm...
    xRockGlossPrincessx xRockGlossPrincessx 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 16

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    So, I call her my "best friend" but I'm not really sure that's what it is. I think we've been friends for so long just because we need each other to communicate on a different...
    mkingsbury10 mkingsbury10 22-25, F a week ago

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    Where would I be without my best friend? We met freshman year of high school and lets just say, I didn't like her very much. I thought she was annoying and always gave her a quiet...
    anonamanda001 anonamanda001 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    When I close my eyes I can still see the beautiful green of his eyes. My favorite color. The color of life. He was so kind to me. He wanted to be my friend. He wanted to get to...
    Speranza27 Speranza27 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I'm 63 years old and all the best friends I ever had are either dead or emigrated a long time ago. I'm married for the second time to a woman who thinks only about herself and I...
    PhlipipUK PhlipipUK 61-65, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay so I need some good advice if you can give any i'm open to suggestions.. Okay so I don't know what I am, but I do know that my best friend is all I can think about. I can hear...
    coolblue14 coolblue14 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I want a friend I can talk to. Not a friend who just lets you talk, but one you can talk and laugh with and be best friends with! I want a true friend that I can just be me around...
    AleaAndLexi AleaAndLexi 13-15, F Dec 5

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    I dont know why but I can talk to girls more easily than guys. I open up to them more. All my best friends were girls, but now everyone is busy with their own life. And I need...
    sagard1994 sagard1994 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 8

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    I have always appreciate friendship. I will always be there for my friends no matter what. I always try to be that friend that I would like to have. And thank god, I have one. My...
    dezeena dezeena 22-25, F Dec 8

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    My Best Friend! My best friend has a heart of gold! A smile that lights up the night sky! Eyes that twinkle like stars! A laugh that makes me smile! A voice that no one else...
    sandyshaw13 sandyshaw13 36-40, F Dec 16

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    I had this friend that I knew for 8 years! We were always together, y'know typical best friend stuff. Then on Thanksgiving day I realized maybe she wasn't a person I wanted in my...
    stef17 stef17 18-21, F Dec 17

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    I'm an only child so friends are very important to me. Friends to me are family. But during these days, I can feel that my best friend doesn't put importance on me. I asked her...
    NadineIsBi NadineIsBi 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't hate his best friend. I am actually good friends with his best friend. He's the only friend that I don't mind at all. It's his other 5 friends that irritate me. I act like...
    MeowOnMe MeowOnMe 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It will be nice if i will have a guy best friend. Because our friendship will be cool at all. I mean there's less drama and more adventure and fun every moment that we will have. I...
    isahruth isahruth 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I want to share my stories to my best friend. Someone who will not judge me, but will advice me about my decisions. Someone who can keep a secret. Someone who values privacy...
    koleur koleur 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    Me and my (straight) girl best friend had a nuts night and sleepover with her family last night and it was so funny and we were hyper (we weren't drunk though) at bedtime we were...
    innocenttween innocenttween 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    Tricia I have a best friend but considering the group I'm posting this in, that was most likely assumed. She is the best friend I could ever have and I wouldn't triad her for any...
    maddycolley maddycolley 13-15, F Dec 14

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    My ex best fiend is so freaked rude now just because she's on the schools volleyball team for the first time news flash I was on 3 years longer and I'm still on it and she cries...
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F Dec 2

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    Dear whoever you are, Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 19 Responses Dec 4

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    My best Friend is my boyfriend, i love him very very much and i know im only 15 but my feelings are true. Ive known him since the 2nd grade and ive liked him ever since i met him...
    PandaApples101 PandaApples101 13-15, F Dec 4

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    I haven't had any really close friends since before I moved in elementary school for the last time. I have a boyfriend and he's amazing, he's the only one who I truly trust and...
    TurtlesAndLlamas TurtlesAndLlamas 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    My boyfriend and I have a very very deep love. When we met we spent the first 8 months disconnected from his friends and my friends. One night after sex I asked him what his...
    zee14 zee14 26-30, F Dec 8

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    Are any of you familiar eight the cool, outgoing, friendly straight best friend who is either getting hooked-up with every girl on campus, even the older ones (senpai...
    RealitysDesire RealitysDesire 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    I have a best friend she calls me her sister and I go along with it. Every time I'm around her I just want her to want me the same. She knows that I am attracted to her. She...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 14

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    I want a lover, a beloved, a sweet heart. I want a lover who is my best friend, a lover who i can trust, a lover who will always be there through thick and thin. I want a lover who...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 18

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    ?I want to be the friend you fall hopelessly in love with. The one you take into your arms and into your bed and into the private world you keep trapped in your head. I want to be...
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I recently stopped talking to my best friend, because she decided that drinking and drugs are more important then a best friend. I need someone that I can talk to when things are...
    Rosie1129 Rosie1129 18-21, F Nov 30

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    I have had a few serious relationships and At the time I thought oh I'm in love. But until I find the woman who is my best friend and lover I will be in search of love. So any...
    BigBrainTheory BigBrainTheory 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 30

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