I Want to Be the Best Partner I Can Be For My Army Man

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    Going A Little Crazy

     I have been talking to an army soldier that is deployed over seas. We aren't dating or official but we both have feeling for each other. I never thought of myself being able to be with a military soldier, but he has my heart. I'm used to talking to him everyday on line. I...
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    2 Responses Mar 8, 2010

    I Just Get Soooo Excited

    whenever josh talks about marriage, when he comes home, or the things we are going to do when he gets back. it gives me something to look forward to in  a way. It makes me so happy, which is weird because before josh, i had decided i didnt want to get married, just...
    survivingdeployment19 survivingdeployment19
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 26, 2009

    Just A Dream

    I dreamt that me and my fiancé had a baby. We had a beautiful baby boy. It felt so real. And I could see the babies face so clearly and the texture of his hair and his big dark brown eyes. He even was a mixture of our skin colors. I know I'm not prego nor do we plan on babies...
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    2 Responses Feb 2, 2013

    Be the Best I Can

    So. My bf of 3 yrs is in the Army. I know i have to be strong for him. We dont need him to worry about me. We need to him to focus on his duty as a soldier. I love and miss him so much. Im still kinda new to the army. But i would like some lil secrets on how to support him...
    ashleysvr ashleysvr
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2009


    so my boyfriend (josh) is in kuwait, and we dont get to talk as often as we used to, but we do talk on the internet when he is online. his brother, who is 2 years younger than he is, (exactly my age) has been texting me, asking me for NAKAD pictures, and flirting. i...
    survivingdeployment19 survivingdeployment19
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 4, 2009


    Hello all, I really love this site, but it isn't giving me exactly what I'm looking for in a support site specifically for military significant others...so I've created another site. It's for literally anyone (men, women, gay, straight, even children). If you've ever loved a...
    robsnr318 robsnr318
    1 Response Nov 4, 2010


    So when my soldier left I promised him he wouldn't even recognize me come his graduation ceremony from Fort Benning GA :) Sadly my friends have cheered me up by feeding me so maybe he won't recognize me in the bad way lol but ill diet now for the next 2 months and then maybe do...
    Popsicles Popsicles
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jul 29, 2008

    Is it too much to ask

    for a little appreciation? Just acknowledge the effort I put in every once in a while. It's so frustrating to constantly do something for someone and they act like they don't appreciate it. I'm not asking to constantly be told thank you every time I do something but I would like...
    newbs02 newbs02
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 8, 2014

    I Will Be the Best I Can Be!!

    so its hard careing for someone who is so far away i mean when you even get a phone call from him or her its like they are calling to say i am on my way home.. or good moring for me i miss him like every sec. or every min of every hour of ever day!!! i think about him a lot.. too...
    rockinkandy rockinkandy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2008

    38 Dayss!

    38 days will I get to see my soldier! I hope time flys by and the two days I get to spend with him I hope they go as slow as possible. I've been feeling pretty lucky lately..I get a letter almost every day. Sure, it's hard to keep up with almost 7 different conversations but it's...
    airbornwaiter13 airbornwaiter13
    18-21, F
    Sep 14, 2011

    I Love Helping Out The Military Men Coming Through Wells, Nevada On Their Way Home.

    It's a long way traveling across country, and sometimes a Man needs a little relief about the time he gets to my part of the country. I don't mind, that's what I'm for. It's my way of showing my appreciation for your service. My services in return for your service.
    lovethenut lovethenut
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 6, 2013

    My Fiance

    is coming home in a few days!! :] he's coming home with a friend of ours that he's stationed with. Dan get's here saturday morning to come to my sister's wedding & reception. will be here for memorial day weekend.. then monday night i'm driving Dan and...
    anchored2heart anchored2heart
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 19, 2009

    My Site

    My soldier, my fiance, my hero, my heart is deployed. I wasn't getting the kind of support i wanted and needed on here, so i created my own site. if you're looking for a little something extra, a friend to talk to or rant at day or night, please check it out. it's open to anyone...
    robsnr318 robsnr318
    Jan 11, 2011

    Doing My Best to Keep the 'home Fires Burning'

    Needless to say this deployment has been rather rough on me. Although it's his second, it's the first one that I'm going through with him. For my part, I'm trying to keep things light as possible. Since he's been gone, we've missed out on a whole lot of firsts: our first...
    allynally allynally
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2009

    Well I just talked to my man

    for the last time, for a while. Its time to keep myself busy and hang onto the memories.
    kenziielynn kenziielynn
    22-25, F
    Sep 15, 2015

    I've Messed Up a Lot...

    Me and my baby have had a VERY tumultuous relationship...filled with huge fights, broken promises, and even a few "breaks", but I've always loved him and my biggest fear is a life with out him. We just recentely got back together after a month and a half of a break...
    hisangel10289 hisangel10289
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 26, 2008

    I Try So Hard..but I Feel Like I'm Failing Him..

    My husband goes away alot, it has always bothered me cause i always miss him alot well hes gone but the last 2 times i have been an emotional wreck when he leaves.. i try and tell myself its because we have a baby now but Aubree is my second child and when it was just me and...
    CDNarmywife CDNarmywife
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2012

    " I'll Be Here When You Gets Home. I Promise."

    My boyfriend left a few days ago from Idaho to drive to Minnesota to start his training before he is deployed to Iraq in November. He gets to come home the end of October until the time that he leaves. We've been together for about a year now and we've spent almost every single...
    NationalGuardSweetheart NationalGuardSweetheart
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2011

    Deployment 2010

    Hello to all my sisters out there   My Soldier is currently at home awaiting deployment in 2010. He has been in the National Guard 20 years & so this is not new to him. However, he is the first military man I've been with. His ex-wife was not supportive of him in the...
    Johnswoman123 Johnswoman123
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    But Then I Know I Am :)&nbs...

    But then I know I am :)  or at least I better be.  I am one of the few who can understand what he's going through from going through it as well.
    evilkittymew evilkittymew
    46-50, F
    Oct 3, 2008

    Round Two of Military Life!

    I belong to a family in which every male has served in some branch of the military, so this is nothing new to me. I have in the past, however, made a personal vow to never fall for a soldier because of the hardship of military life. Little did I know that God had other plans! I...
    SFCgirl86 SFCgirl86
    Apr 23, 2009

    31 More Days!!! <3

    I only have 31 more days until I can see my amazing boyfriend!! :D I have never been so excited in my life :) I have my bad days where all I want to do is break down and cry because I miss him so much. But then I get a letter or a phone call and it becomes all worth it. He is the...
    MBsGirl MBsGirl
    18-21, F
    Sep 27, 2011


    i think i'm really beginning to lose it. i HATE leaving him. i hate it. so when i have to leave him 0630 in the morning for school? it's not the happiest day of my life. not the best way to start out my week too. idk just sucks. i just wish we were married already. i feel like if...
    Chaylani Chaylani
    Sep 19, 2011

    To All Military Gf's, Fiances, And Wives!!

    Check out the website i made. I just made it so I'm working on it but I'd appreciate it if you guys checked it out and registered on there. Just check it out and tell other military gfs, etc. http://www.the-silent-ranks.webs.com
    ProudSoldiersSweetheart ProudSoldiersSweetheart
    18-21, F
    Jul 16, 2010


    So i haven't wrote anything in awhile. Well the update is me and my boyfriend are doing pretty great! We made it through our first deployment!! :) He was home for a 20 day and it was amazing!!! But now he is headed back 2 Texas :( I'm feelin pretty...
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    1 Response Jan 10, 2010

    Ep Just Isnt Enough

    http://supportsoldierswives.webs.com/ Please add my site and join.its to help support everybody ep is great but just wasnt giving me as much support as i really wanted.i noticed alot of peoples stories going unheard and replied to.and i want a place that is aimed toward only...
    princesskassie92 princesskassie92
    18-21, F
    Sep 28, 2010


    during my youth i used to be loved but when i got to maturity i never see the love again.i always love to be loved n loved.but most people today enjoy sympathy love not d true love,if we all love 1 anoda there will be peace in the whole world.pls share love
    simiakins simiakins
    Jun 22, 2012

    I Think I Need A Manual To Fix Myself

    if you want to read for some encouragement or optimism, please skip to my other stories. i just need to vent really quick.  Maybe it's me. Maybe I'm being selfish. I come out here to see him. Spending time with his family is nice, it's really different bcz I never spend time...
    Chaylani Chaylani
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2011

    Becoming Army Strong

    so my boyfriend has been gone for a month and a half now and i can honestly say im doing fine! i miss him A LOOOOT! but im hanging in there and getting things done. i feel really determined with my school work and focused as a person and i know that is thanks to this whole...
    newnewnew newnewnew
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2009

    Just Want Your Opinions On This Ladies

     So me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. We have known eachother and been friends since we were 5.He joined the army in april and even before he decided on joining we have been talking about getting married.We talk about it alot but he hasnt officially...
    meggers616 meggers616
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    A Site I Wanted To Share

    Just wanted to share this website with you all a site. One of my friends showed me it. You can actually get a lot out of it and get to make things for you and your solider that you might want to buy. The prices are not bad at all and they do customize everything for you. Just...
    SolidersAngel SolidersAngel
    18-21, F
    Jan 17, 2010

    My boyfriend and I have had a lot of issues

    over the past year and it was hard to pinpoint exactly why, through great communication yesterday he was able to open up to me and said there are times where everything can be 100% wonderful in our relationship and I (meaning me) could do nothing wrong but something in his brain...
    kat115nk kat115nk
    26-30, F
    Nov 10, 2015

    I Want to Be All I Can Be

    It was really hard when my boyfriend (at the time) now fiance decided he wanted to enlist in the United States Army. At first when he told me that this is what he wanted to do I was totally against it. I was only thinking of myself and how much I would miss him while we was gone...
    PVHighdonsBaby PVHighdonsBaby
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 26, 2009

    Feeling Emotional

    Today is just one of those days that I really don't know what to feel or do, it's been 6 wks. since I last heard from my soldier and i really don't know what to expect. he said he was due to be home for Iraq Sept. Oct. time frame and now its Oct. and I know nothing. I feel like...
    Jbear77 Jbear77
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2011

    Ex Wife Drama

    My boyfriend is soon to be divorced but its not final yet. So by Army rules we can not be "together" but we are.. shhhh.... lol... well he was married for 4 years when he went to Iraq she cheated on him, took all his money and left him. They have a 3 year old son...
    proudgfarmy3321 proudgfarmy3321
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2009

    My Heart Has Been Stolen

      By the man I love the most. I know I'm young but I never thought I could love someone as much as I love my boyfriend. My father left when I was 10 and ever since then I was always scared of guys, scared of giving my heart to someone and having them leave, scared to open...
    simplicityx simplicityx
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Apr 5, 2009

    It's Time To Better Myself, For Him & For Me

    Wow. What a dynamic of emotions today. & we're only a little more than halfway done! All I can think about now is... Wow. My boyfriend is amazing. There I am in English, seriously texting my emotions out bcz I didn't want to talk to anyone else. I didn't want anything to bit feel...
    Chaylani Chaylani
    4 Responses Sep 19, 2011

    He Gets Angry. And Always Has To Work So Much:(

    My boyfriend gets mad at the stupidest things. And I don't know how to handle it sometimes. We are 5 years apart and I am under age so he doesnt want anybody to know about us. And I understand that. But I don't understand why he can't tell his close friends. We were talking on...
    TooManyMilesApart TooManyMilesApart
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 23, 2012

    Love My Man

     i love my husband with all my of heart. i have never loved anyone the way i do him. obviously thats why hes my husband! anytime i hear his voice my heart beats faster and my day gets better. i love everything little thing about him. everything. he is the best person that...
    MissThang420 MissThang420
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2009


    I have never had problems with jealousy. I have always hated it in a guy too and usually would get really mad. I grew up on a farm and more mature than most my own age. I grew up with my brothers and their friends and tended to relate more to guys and than girls because of how...
    Derrysgirl Derrysgirl
    18-21, F
    Dec 3, 2010

    New Member To This Group

    Hello all, I am new to this group. I just wanted to meet new people that in the same situation I am in and try to talk with others since it is better commincating with others who are in the same situation I am in. I never thought that I would become an Army Girlfriend. I am 21...
    SolidersAngel SolidersAngel
    18-21, F
    Jan 15, 2010

    Last Chance...

      hey girls i posted a 'story' a while ago about how if anyone would like to be a part of a tribute/slideshow to send me pics of you and your man... thank you to those of you who did send me some pics! i'm getting started on putting it all together but i wanted to offer...
    joesgirl joesgirl
    18-21, F
    Sep 11, 2008
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