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I Want to Be Understood By Just One Person

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    Where The Hell Are You Dude??

    it is so hard to just find one ******* person, just one person to understand you and love you. Apparently it is.
    ForeverOnABoat ForeverOnABoat 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    I wish people understood me better.

    No one knows what I want except me. When I tell people what I want, they look disappointed or shocked. Everybody expects me to be their version of me all the time. It gets tiring after a while.
    dourpenguin dourpenguin 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    10 Things I Hate About You.

    .. 1. I hate the way you expect me to be stronger than I am. 2. I hate the way you say you can't because you know I can. 3. I hate how when you lean on me I'm strong as a brick wall. 4. I hate that when I lean on you, you whither, crumble and fall. 5. I hate the way you act as if...
    pastghosts pastghosts 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    He Gets Me.

    I've searched for the person who "gets me" for so long. I always came back with my palms up and cupped, though empty. It's different now. I've been on one hell of an excursion and I've finally found whom I've always been looking for. I am understood. And I...
    wonderlust wonderlust 26-30, F 15 Responses Jan 25, 2008

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    That One Special Person....

    ....the one who understands me....who gets me, without saying a word.... ....the one who will eat all the smarties from the trail mix while I eat all the nuts and raisins!!!
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 19 Responses Aug 27, 2013

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    Progress

    I am progressing to having this person....entirely. Obviously, I have to talk to be understood, but I'm getting there. Something about Ben....screams someone you can be honest with and open up to. And I do....always. We have a lot of the same issues, grew up with the same kind of...
    MacabreFanatic MacabreFanatic 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    I want to be understood by atleast one person

    theres nobody in my life who I can turn to
    Dharris5469 Dharris5469 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I don't need someone to complete me,

    just completely understand me....
    MSeigler MSeigler 26-30, M 8 Responses Jan 7

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    A monkey is often the only primate left

    when all the trees are gone. However, that doesn't mean all the other animals are sacred, especially the insects. You see my problem?
    RicRaver RicRaver 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    xColdxWorldx xColdxWorldx 22-25, M Jul 13

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    I Read This...And It Made Me Smile

    Marriage Isn't for you! Having been married only a year and a half, I’ve recently come to the conclusion that marriage isn’t for me. Now before you start making assumptions, keep reading. I met my wife in high school when we were 15 years old. We were friends for ten...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    Feeling stupid for thinking it was real!

    Hate when my mind lives in a fantasy instead of in reality! Just want to be loved and understood by someone who wants and needs me as much as I want and need them!! Stupid mistake, hate this feeling of dread!!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    There's no one in my life

    who understands. I hope that before I die, just one person will understand.
    JustThat6irl JustThat6irl 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    I don't want to believe

    that this will happen to me anymore. I'm tired of looking for someone to understand me. I'm tired of meeting people and think that they think likewise and then be forsaken and backstabbed. I wanted to live my life as a loner and be able to enjoy my moments like I used to do, but...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 4 Responses May 26

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    Random AttractionOnce in a

    while you see a person, who you wish you knew from first eyesight. Relationship is quite the stranger to me, I long for it but under the right circumstances.There are beautiful girls everywhere you look, who might catch your eye but that’s about it. You might go to a bar or...
    Choplee Choplee 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I just want one person to hold.

    And be understood.. by somebody.. I want somebody. To actually hear what I say in not push it aside like I wasn't even that important I want somebody to tell me they went through it help me and don't give up
    michaelaelise12 michaelaelise12 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Under it all, the false smiles,

    makeup, blah blah lives the sheltered me that I'm scared no one would ever understand. It's almost like I have split personalities how I can be completely different from what I regard the real me to be :/
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    I want to meet someone

    that understands why I do the things I do and what I want in life. Someone that encourages me to do all the things I've ever wanted to do, to be all the things I've ever wanted to be, to go to all the places I've ever wanted to go. I'm sick and tired of all the douche bags...
    newgirl52 newgirl52 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I actually have a bunch of friends

    and well they are very nice people but I don't know why I just can't be the real me around them and it feels like all of them have someone to understand them properly except me...of course we all have changed but I think in fact I'm sure these changes helped me to finally...
    eyescloed eyescloed 16-17, F 5 Responses May 7

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    I need to call. I need to call.

    I need to call! I NEED TO CALL! Why is this so hard. I can't go to Connecticut, no one will go with me. I could just get on the phone and talk to him, but if I get nervous that that will just kill everything. I was hoping to use this trip to get to know him better. Urg! I know...
    Redstrings Redstrings 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I just want someone to be like me,

    someone who understands why I do the things I do.Someone who won't judge me for the mistakes I've made.But the thing is,the world is turning into a judgmental perfectionist.
    AnushaSohraab AnushaSohraab 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    No one listens to a girl like me.

    I try to be nice to people but , sadly, they never really listened. It's ok though. No one I know really loves me or ever loved me. I just want someone calm and understanding to listen...
    Blaze16 Blaze16 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    if anyone, i mean anyone out there is

    experiencing the same feeling of overwhelming pressure in life that you wish you didn't exist for any different reasons, please talk to me about it. Right now i try to talk to people and don't feel confident enough to make sense, i've never been much of a talker but if i try...
    kings7777 kings7777 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Im kind of starting to give up on it.

    I see most people as enemies or opponents. I do whatever it takes to make sure i don't feel below them. And i just pretend to be nice and to enjoy spending time with my closest friends. None of them really understand me. I want a partner in crime i want somebody that listen to...
    KIRa53 KIRa53 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    GabriellaFae GabriellaFae 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    Nobody understands me.

    . Every time I try to fly I fall without my wings I feel so small, I guess I need you baby. Maybe one day as my dreams they stand so tall behind these walls, I'd rather have you by me. Boys are like Flowers They are so pretty when you first see them But then after a while you...
    FireAndDesire FireAndDesire 18-21, F Jun 26

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    I want someone who will wake up in the morning,

    see me sleeping and then go under the covers, spread my legs and start eating me. I want to wake up to a climax. Is that too much to ask for. ?
    Caramaybank3 Caramaybank3 22-25, F 10 Responses May 21

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    keflo keflo 36-40, F Aug 17

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    I Would Like To Someone To Read This

    hi,im a 15 year old girl,who has gone through alot i would like someone to talk to,to share my feeling,to guide me,to feel my pain,to heal my pain I know that someone will see this,if you are reading this then please ,dont ignore,PLEASE! I,m asking for happines..just a little,can...
    thislifehurts thislifehurts 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    mylifeisamess90 mylifeisamess90 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    Looked at by all approached by few,

    just one reason why, my external tattoos. You stare at my lips, gaze into my blue eyes, but don't get close for fear of my disguise. when you feel comfort you admit your previous concerns, you were scared and afraid of how you might be burned. weeks pass, time flys and we're...
    Shamrocksalono Shamrocksalono 36-40, M 5 Responses May 29

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    It would be nice to have

    that type of connection. I just don't think I could ever be on that level with someone. I'm too socially awkward. I have such a hard time with conversations. I don't know how I used to have all these friends.
    diphen diphen 70+ 3 Responses May 31

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    You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,

    Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like there's nobody listening, And live like it's heaven on earth.
    stgchris stgchris 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    The only person that matters to be is my soul

    mate..... And he doesn't understand.
    ob1knob1 ob1knob1 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    NyCeGuY4URdreamzz NyCeGuY4URdreamzz 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I Want to Be Understood By At Least One Person

    "I want to be understood by at least one person"   Me   At the very least.
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 19 Responses Jun 2, 2008

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    An Unknown "SHE"

    Long time back, there was this child who, from the moment she was born, was considered as "lucky." When she grew old enough to talk.. one day some family friends came over, she was playing with her father's hand, when her father told her to go and play in her bedroom before...
    realisteva realisteva 26-30 3 Responses May 5, 2013

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    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I Am Finally Understood By One Person.

    Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that...
    Gilse59 Gilse59 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    Okay so...I need clarity here.

    ..I'm just going about my everyday business when I get shot in the arm by a beebee gun. whatever. a month later on the same date I get shot in the other arm with a pellet gun. the next month I get shot in the back with a paintball gun...wtf!
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I'M New, Too!! :)

    Hi everyone! I'm new here (obviously) ! I made an account last night, and then got the app for my phone so I can keep up with the site better :) I'm 19 years old, full time college student. I model part-time. I have a two and half year old son, and just had a miscarriage :( I...
    Sarahs1994 Sarahs1994 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    When You Believe

    I've felt alone for years. I've lived in that sad pitiful world that I made for myself, consisting of heartache, loneliness, sadness and self pity. Oh, I didn't advertise it. People didn't know I felt that way, but if you looked really closely you could see that tiny squint of...
    some2soon some2soon 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    I've never spilled my heart out to someone.

    I really want to. Just tell them all of my secrets and have them understand what I'm going through. But they have to gain my trust.
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    As you may see, there is multiple meanings to

    "I want to be understood by one person." But my meaning is I only want one person to understand me. There are so many people out there and I continually think about what life will bring me. But when it comes to me, I only want ONE person to understand me. I don't want to give...
    Shoptaw Shoptaw 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    It'S Just Not Going To Happen

    I want to be understood by just one person for once in my life. Someone who truly gets the real me, who's honest and not just after one thing...and we all know what that means ;) someone who I can really talk to and in return will open up to me. But let's face it, there's no such...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    What's Wrong With Me?

        What's wrong with me? I'm fourteen, and I haven't had a boyfriend yet! I haven't even had my first kiss yet! My friends (my age) are having sex with their boyfriends, and I haven't even had a boyfriend. Eleven year olds are talking about kissing and their ex...
    phytonym phytonym 16-18, F 28 Responses Apr 9, 2007

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    To be understood by at least someone is almost

    impossible for me i think. Every person I befriend with in real life seems to run away from me.
    Conrad219 Conrad219 13-15, M 7 Responses Jun 3

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    There are billions of people in the world.

    Yet I can't manage to find someone like me.
    MGx3 MGx3 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    Am I Being Too Fussy?

    Am I asking for too much? Actually...in my opinion, I truly want to believe that everyone eventually feels understood... COMMUNICATE folks... Get It Done! It's also my belief that, It is BETTER to be Understanding then being Understood... Why? Because, IF everyone took to this...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    And all i want is you my love AS-SFO.

    That all it takes for me to be the happiest.
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I struggle to tell people how I feel

    because I have social anxiety and am too scared to do so. I only have a few friends but they do not understand me at all; they do not know why I am so quiet and why I look unhappy. I pretend I am okay so that I do not forsake my very few connections with people but this is...
    Arrrbol Arrrbol 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I have written a few stories here,

    and I enjoy that people read them. There is a time when every kid like myself seems to sit and think, I need to be understood, it is not confined to a single age group as I have seen older than I seeking answers to the question. So I wondered why? Why does everyone want to be...
    wordymindbattles wordymindbattles 13-15, M Jun 21

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    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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