Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Want to Be Understood By Just One Person

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 22,506 People

    Am I Being Too Fussy?

    Am I asking for too much? Actually...in my opinion, I truly want to believe that everyone eventually feels understood... COMMUNICATE folks... Get It Done! It's also my belief that, It is BETTER to be Understanding then being Understood... Why? Because, IF everyone took to this...
    Ferric67 Ferric67 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 1, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want a person who understands me

    and loves me for who i am and I guarantee i will love them just as much. Maybe even more. :)
    Theguy0298 Theguy0298 16-17, M Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Does anyone like me have psychotic depression?

    I would be good to talk to someone who does, since being diagnosed I've not come across someone who does..
    Sensesfailed Sensesfailed 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 4

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Though it will never happen,

    it is nice to imagine that someone out there completely gets the method to your madness.
    picses2222 picses2222 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Would Like To Someone To Read This

    hi,im a 15 year old girl,who has gone through alot i would like someone to talk to,to share my feeling,to guide me,to feel my pain,to heal my pain I know that someone will see this,if you are reading this then please ,dont ignore,PLEASE! I,m asking for happines..just a little,can...
    thislifehurts thislifehurts 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel that I am a lost soul in the sea of

    everyone happy and fully rooted in the framework of this society. I am an outsider and no one cares to hear my ideas. I want to meet someone that thinks like me and has the same goals and desires that I do. Everyone is just living a simple life and criticises me if I want...
    iserikov iserikov 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 19, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    That's all i want. yes i have a laundry list of

    problems, but they don't define who i am. Yes they can make it hard to see ME, but i wish at least one person would at least try to look past it all and love me for who i am not who i am perceived to be
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I actually have a bunch of friends

    and well they are very nice people but I don't know why I just can't be the real me around them and it feels like all of them have someone to understand them properly except me...of course we all have changed but I think in fact I'm sure these changes helped me to finally...
    eyescloed eyescloed 16-17, F 5 Responses May 7, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Looked at by all approached by few,

    just one reason why, my external tattoos. You stare at my lips, gaze into my blue eyes, but don't get close for fear of my disguise. when you feel comfort you admit your previous concerns, you were scared and afraid of how you might be burned. weeks pass, time flys and we're...
    Shamrocksalono Shamrocksalono 36-40, M 5 Responses May 29, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    He Gets Me.

    I've searched for the person who "gets me" for so long. I always came back with my palms up and cupped, though empty. It's different now. I've been on one hell of an excursion and I've finally found whom I've always been looking for. I am understood. And I...
    wonderlust wonderlust 26-30, F 15 Responses Jan 25, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Want to Be Understood By At Least One Person

    "I want to be understood by at least one person"   Me   At the very least.
    Hairstyle Hairstyle 22-25, M 19 Responses Jun 2, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What is it about people?

    They rush to pigeonhole you, and they move on. It's like EP people. The majority might just add you, ogle your photos, then ignore you the rest of the time. They don't want to try understand you, of how your life differs from theirs. They don't worry about understanding you...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Only one person really undersrands me.

    The only one I care she does.
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 41-45, M Feb 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Is That Too Much to Ask?

    I feel that I'm a puzzle. Whenever a new person enters my life, I make a quick estimate of the person, try to figure out, just how much information of me is this person is going to handle and make the adjustments to the basic puzzle and hand it over for the person to solve. I...
    Fennella Fennella 31-35, F 36 Responses Jun 7, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    vit1234 vit1234 16-17, M Sep 21, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Writing and writing what good dies it do.

    And what's up with people nowadays.. So uncaring and disrespectful. Even people you think you know . Why is the world like this? I don't want to be like that.. But then there are people that take advantage ..
    Becomingme4 Becomingme4 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have had a lot of people tell me a lot of

    things about love. I have been in love and out of it. I was in love with the most amazing woman this world will ever harbor and I lost her to a situation that was beyond me. I hurt sometimes that I can no longer look into her eyes and tell her how much I love her. I was very...
    Richardlitt11 Richardlitt11 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Feeling stupid for thinking it was real!

    Hate when my mind lives in a fantasy instead of in reality! Just want to be loved and understood by someone who wants and needs me as much as I want and need them!! Stupid mistake, hate this feeling of dread!!
    Froggy420 Froggy420 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 15, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Izy96 Izy96 18-21, F Oct 29, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I struggle to tell people how I feel

    because I have social anxiety and am too scared to do so. I only have a few friends but they do not understand me at all; they do not know why I am so quiet and why I look unhappy. I pretend I am okay so that I do not forsake my very few connections with people but this is...
    Arrrbol Arrrbol 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 4, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't need someone to complete me,

    just completely understand me....
    MSeigler MSeigler 26-30, M 7 Responses Jan 7, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And all i want is you my love AS-SFO.

    That all it takes for me to be the happiest.
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    People never truly understand what it's like

    sometimes. But some people do! But when they do, they never stick around for too long...
    ThinIsWin ThinIsWin 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Where The Hell Are You Dude??

    it is so hard to just find one ******* person, just one person to understand you and love you. Apparently it is.
    ForeverOnABoat ForeverOnABoat 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I can't seem to get over it.

    I try to forget. Try to just let it go. Just ignore it? I can't. It's too major. It has affected my perception on everything. I don't even want a glimpse. I want to just let it go.. It's for the best. I know.
    Becomingme4 Becomingme4 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 28, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't want to believe

    that this will happen to me anymore. I'm tired of looking for someone to understand me. I'm tired of meeting people and think that they think likewise and then be forsaken and backstabbed. I wanted to live my life as a loner and be able to enjoy my moments like I used to do, but...
    Allaloneandpoisoned Allaloneandpoisoned 22-25, F 4 Responses May 26, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want to meet some one

    who understands the way I see the world.
    Forestofwonders Forestofwonders 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This experience title constantly makes me wonder

    why just one person, is it not allowed for more people to understand me... hm... Anyway! I don't understand myself, so I need to find someone who dooo...es. There, that's my girly confession of the day. On that note, the people who say "Oh yes, I understand you perfectly...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What's Wrong With Me?

        What's wrong with me? I'm fourteen, and I haven't had a boyfriend yet! I haven't even had my first kiss yet! My friends (my age) are having sex with their boyfriends, and I haven't even had a boyfriend. Eleven year olds are talking about kissing and their ex...
    phytonym phytonym 16-17, F 27 Responses Apr 9, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Under it all, the false smiles,

    makeup, blah blah lives the sheltered me that I'm scared no one would ever understand. It's almost like I have split personalities how I can be completely different from what I regard the real me to be :/
    MissLorii MissLorii 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It'S Just Not Going To Happen

    I want to be understood by just one person for once in my life. Someone who truly gets the real me, who's honest and not just after one thing...and we all know what that means ;) someone who I can really talk to and in return will open up to me. But let's face it, there's no such...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    We all make mistakes,

    have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.
    GiftedBwoy GiftedBwoy 18-21, M Oct 9, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Random AttractionOnce in a

    while you see a person, who you wish you knew from first eyesight. Relationship is quite the stranger to me, I long for it but under the right circumstances.There are beautiful girls everywhere you look, who might catch your eye but that’s about it. You might go to a bar or...
    Choplee Choplee 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 13, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    An Unknown "SHE"

    Long time back, there was this child who, from the moment she was born, was considered as "lucky." When she grew old enough to talk.. one day some family friends came over, she was playing with her father's hand, when her father told her to go and play in her bedroom before...
    realisteva realisteva 26-30 2 Responses May 5, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Being straightforward is a characteristic I

    really appreciate in person. I don't like games and I don't like drama. I shy away from people who I think have cruel intentions. I am not a prude and I'm all for fun and games, but I also know there is more to life then sex. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and all that comes...
    YourgirlLeeLee YourgirlLeeLee 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are billions of people in the world.

    Yet I can't manage to find someone like me.
    MGx3 MGx3 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well, more than one in an ideal world.

    But I'll settle for just one person who truly understands. Not someone who says they understand when they don't really.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    MrTibbles2014 MrTibbles2014 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I think that's one of the most difficult tasks

    to thrive in, is to fully understand somebody. It simply can't be done. Yes, you can understand their emotion(s), but you'll never fully understand why and what makes them feel that way. I'd prefer somebody I can openly talk to. Somebody who doesn't judge, and would listen to...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    isabelarao isabelarao 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have a boyfriend and he is amazing.

    I hate to say this but he was everything Patrick wasn't. Patrick and I are good friends now but I will never be able to feel for him anymore the way I feel for my boyfriend. Abut it seems like they were both missing the factor of me. Understanding
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 16-17, F Oct 7, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want someone to talk too

    and be friends with here whom can say, "I truly understand you" Someone that looks at most things in life in a similar way as I do and maybe can finish my sentences :)
    beautifulsunrise beautifulsunrise 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So here I am thinking what is the point of it

    all? And here comes fate to make me take yet another look at the writing on the wall. However, I'm telling you that the need for humans to connect is a wonderful and painful pitfall. But we need it and those that opt to live without it have a very sordid existence inside their...
    JustNyx JustNyx 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,

    Love like you'll never be hurt, Sing like there's nobody listening, And live like it's heaven on earth.
    stgchris stgchris 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 27, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    10 Things I Hate About You.

    .. 1. I hate the way you expect me to be stronger than I am. 2. I hate the way you say you can't because you know I can. 3. I hate how when you lean on me I'm strong as a brick wall. 4. I hate that when I lean on you, you whither, crumble and fall. 5. I hate the way you act as if...
    pastghosts pastghosts 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel