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I Want To Be With Someone I Can Trust Fully

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    I have yet to meet you....

    I want to be with someone I can fully trust well, who doesn't? I suppose there's some people out there who are masochists and love liars, but I don't. I've been with those that think you can trust them. In turn all they do is mock you, albeit in a nice way. They tease you when...
    mrpancho mrpancho 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2012

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    I Have Trust Issues

    There are only two times in your life when you need to let a person go from your experience: when you no longer have the ability to appreciate each other, or when you no longer trust each other. Trust is the foundation of every single positive relationship in the world...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Fully Given

    That whole souled kind of **** is sublime. Kindness is an aspect. Surprise. Knowing that the man is truthful and devoted. Knowing he is diligent............
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    How To Explain Human Animal

    I dont find how to understand a person yet. All the time i think i know about him or her, well really im wrong about the person. From the smile, from the suite people can never measure. I think the life time is not enough to explore human nature. I better do another job other...
    xvampirex xvampirex 26-30, M May 31, 2013

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    Trust Is The Key

    I want to be with someone I can trust fully, with my heart, my soul, my fears and insecurities, my dreams, passions and fantasies..... someone who gets me, accepts me, flaws / faults and all; someone who can help me to grow, to help me become who the best person I can be...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    askingtrevor askingtrevor 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 27

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    Not So Unusual...

    I basically lived a married life with children and a home for approx. 28 years. I put more effort into raising great kids with aspirations in their lives for great things than planning my life alone! Like a lot of women who end up alone... I am working 6 years now on my own and...
    pony58 pony58 46-50, F Jan 24, 2011

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    I have trust issues. I don't trust easily

    anymore. It will take time. Maybe a hundred years? Lol. So that someone must be real patient. I need & want someone who will protect me and would never make me feel very prone to pain, humiliation, deceit & vulnerability. I can't just fully trust anyone after what happened to...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Everyone Lies

    I can't stand it. It ruins me.
    stephane28 stephane28 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 15, 2013

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    I was so lucky, I was with someone I could trust

    so completely it was like he was an extension of myself. And now he's been taken away and I'm so angry, and upset and broken.
    jayanna7 jayanna7 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I Think I've Found Her

    I told her everything, all of it.  I even told her my biggest secret of all.  She still looks at me the same way.  She still loves me and cares about me.  She still wants to be around me.  She still thinks I'm worth something.I confided in her and she confided in me, it was...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Nov 17, 2011

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    A Partner

    Someone who I can't feel being judged everytime I open up. Not feel overwhelmed but to take his words with insights. Someone who can assure me that It's all for my worth that she/he is stays with me. And someone who deals with cleverness not just within my sight, but also...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Trust, Do You Give It Or Do You Keep It On Reserve?

     I have been struggling with this question for a long time.  I was raised around people who were so trusting and giving they would give anyone the shirt off their backs, or loan them anything. It didn't't even matter if we didn't't get it back till years later.  But since I...
    annabe11a annabe11a 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2011

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    I Want To Be In Love

    I want to feel happy and excited like when you find that special someone. I need to feel you need me and can't wait to see me or talk to me again. Romance and flowers long talks and walks in the rain. Time to stand still when we kiss, trips to remember. I crave a love and lover...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 10, 2013

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    It Seems That Within This Age Of Time It's Only A Dream To Be With Someone We Could Trust

    It is, and would be the ultimate dream to be with someone we could fully trust.  Wouldn't it be wonderful and beyond our wildest imagination to be with a partner, companion and spouse that we could trust 100%, without a doubt that the person we were with with, as a couple, could...
    MsBlueDreamer MsBlueDreamer 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 10, 2011

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    I decided I really want to talk to someone; I

    mean really talk to someone openly, like I've tried to do before, but it just takes a while. I haven't done anything about it for over a week though, and I had a bad week, probably because of it. I haven't done ANYTHING in over a week. ='( Really wanted to talk. I just can't...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    However long it may take,

    whatever heartbreaks, whatever it takes, i'll be right here waiting for you. You.
    BurnMySoul BurnMySoul 13-15, M Apr 8

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    Real Friend A Rare Fortune, Rarest For Me..

    Have always felt deprived of two most important aspects of life - A Friend & Love. Fortune favoured me with neither.. Love has always been an ebb & tide issue for me.. It lasted for too lill a period, casting me into abyssmal dark, soon afterwards. I crumbled, losing it, time and...
    udit204 udit204 36-40, F Oct 10, 2013

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    I have trust issues..

    . Trust doesn't come easy for me anymore not after what my ex husband did to me... I want someone who I can really trust, someone who is honest, responsible, loving and caring, someone I can live my whole life with, someone I can depend on, someone who loves me for who I am...
    Foreverloved85 Foreverloved85 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    KelBrooks KelBrooks 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Want

    I want someone who I can actually trust. Someone who won't run at the first sign of trouble. I want someone I don't have to be strong with, I want someone I want to be strong with. I want to be vulnerable sometimes and not have to worry about being hurt. I want someone who can...
    Sleaxor Sleaxor 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I Just want a woman I can trust,

    as I've never trusted any woman I've been with
    jon1981 jon1981 31-35, M Apr 26

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    I don't want either one of us to ever feel Like

    we have to hide, or lie to or from one another. I want someone to be completely openly honest, trusting, and loyal. Anything that will keep a relationship going... I want. I want to be nothing but happy. And I want my partner happy too. I want to be able to tell them...
    Philli8807 Philli8807 22-25, F 1 Response May 30

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    If I don't trust you

    or feel like I can't then I can't be with you. If I feel like you lie to me when you know you can tell me anything and everything then you don't deserve me. Trust is a big part when being in a relationship. And I'm pretty sure others will agree. You have to earn my trust and...
    HazelEyedWolf HazelEyedWolf 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    Ashleybabe28 Ashleybabe28 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    Trust. so fragile and

    so easily broken yet so many people keep on breaking them as if they can easily be brought back. In this world we are living now, it is a bit hard to find someone you can trust. Yes, we can keep our guards up for us to protect ourselves but somehow you have to keep your walls...
    myzunderstood myzunderstood 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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    I can't promise you the world

    or that I'm the man for you. I can't promise that I'll always say the right things or never make a mistake. I can promise to always be here and be your friend. To always listen and talk. I can promise to never let you feel alone again. I can promise that no matter what you say...
    leaving6622 leaving6622 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 19

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    After being berated for months about this

    attention I was giving my coworker...my emotional affair... I just learned my husband had his own affair seven years ago... He says I need to forgive him and move on...but he can still stalk me on here and question the over time I take at work. I don't trust him any more...don't...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I love bein able to trust people

    and I love this site because it normally provides me with those people :D
    richierich22 richierich22 16-17, M Jan 7

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    For the past five years I've been lied to

    cheated on in every relation I've had now I find it hard to trust anyone or believe they are telling me the truth I just want a normal life with someone I can trust and fall head over hills for what should I do?
    ash18bmth ash18bmth 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 21

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    We gotta get passed fears to be able to trust.

    Trust it is not only to hope for the best and wish we wont get hurt...we gotta start trusting ourselves too. This means...if you choose someone to trust and count on, know that it may go wrong,To know that despite all good intentions...we are capable of failure. Many people out...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 6

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    Is It Even Possible?? Think About It..

    No matter how Nice, Sweet, Pretty, Loving, Sexy and Giving I have been (all told to me by my ex's) Time and Time again I have had my heart broken in just about every relationship I have been in.  As soon as I think things are going great, I'm so in love everything is...
    myserendipity myserendipity 41-45, F 7 Responses May 27, 2011

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    I don't really have a bestfriend anymore

    so having a boyfriend who I could treat as a bestfriend and a boyfriend would be amazing :) Of course having a girl bestfriend is better cause you can talk about more girly stuff wit them but if I had a boyfriend that I could tell anything to that would be nice.
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    I Lost Trust In My Best Friend.

    I lost my virginity to my best friend. I'm not sure if I regret it or not, but he agreed that he would stop if I asked him to so my body could adjust. He did the first time, but then he didn't after that. I kept asking him to but he wouldn't. Then he told me it was supposed to be...
    amberrose1594 amberrose1594 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    I Want A Girl To Pee On My Lap

    When I was a little kid maybe around 12 or 13 me and my friend whom I was very close with her name was Megan idk why we never ended up dating but, It started on a hot summer day we were hanging out and we would kiss an mess around and stuff but we were sitting on her porch...
    emceelilg emceelilg 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    It's so hard to find someone you can trust

    now a days. DEPEND ON NO ONE.
    XxTheHighsxX XxTheHighsxX 16-17, F Apr 12

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    Broken......

    Throughout my life I have naively chosen to give my love to others, who unfortunately used and betrayed that love. I understand that there are plenty of decent souls in this world who would fully appreciate and be grateful for that love..... but I can not withstand another long...
    ElitaElle ElitaElle 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    I've dated quite a bit

    and in every relationship I've experienced trust has been an issue. It never starts out that way, only after some sort of trust-breaking action is done. For example, lying about where you're going to go to a place where your ex was. Something like that would definitely break my...
    InconvenientHeart InconvenientHeart 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    I Need Some Help But What Do I Do,Where Do I Start?

    My husband has repeatedly lied to me, even when I have caught him in lies he WILL, and CAN look me straight in the eyes and swear he is telling the truth.(when he is not) I feel I now KNOW that he will NEVER be trustworthy enough for me. I regret that I feel paranoid at times...
    nsight nsight 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    If you find someone like this don't you dare

    let them go-I have a couple friends who I would do absolutely anything for and the thing is we know each other inside and out, but I don't trust them not to judge me for the things I tell them, or when it really comes down to it to completely have my back. They know id do just...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I am someone you can trust.I like to value human relationships.I will try not to be judgmental.I try to keep my values in order by discussing my problems with near and dear ones.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm gay and it's hard enough to find people where I live, I found a guy or he found me on the computer and it was a long distance relationship, which I knew would be terrible in...
    EricRadliffe EricRadliffe 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My MM has disrespected me one too many times. I have tried to be everything that he wanted but have lost myself. I've lost my spark, my enthusiasm for life and even sometimes my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    My husband had an affair and I left him. I was not looking for anyone, I knew I was vulnerable and probably not a good idea. I made the mistake of communicating and eventually...
    RayMizae RayMizae 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I never meant to start having feelings for you. I already had strong feelings for someone else. I guess they weren't strong enough, huh? You could have told me you were in love...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 10

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    I am not a native English speaker,but I'll try to be understood by you. I met someone on Internet one year ago. We are both from different countries,so we speak in English. The...
    nathhalia nathhalia 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Why am I such a fool? I can't stop myself from loving you. Countless nights I've cried over you, Just because my feelings are true. You're up, you're down, Your feelings are all...
    silentlyscreaming102 silentlyscreaming102 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 5

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    I can sense that familiar feelings in me again......i didn't wanted to be in love. but i am in love now; and this time i'm in love with someone i met online.. i know we can never...
    imawarrior7 imawarrior7 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    The most depressing part of it all... There's nothing I can do to fix that. And I will always be reminded of her memory. If I were to go to hell to relive the worst moments in my...
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