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I Want To Break Away From An Affair With A Married Man

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    Hi everyone - I am 32,

    he is 51. We've been involved in an affair for 4 years now, and that's what brings me here. My birthday - which is also his wedding anniversary - is next week, and I am tired of dealing with the pain of this relationship. We have broken it off countless times over the past...
    kd0910 kd0910 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2014

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