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I Want to Break Up With My Bf

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 45 People

    May Mallade

    My and my bf have been together for 3 years and everything was going great until a slew of fights that coincided at the beginning of may set things into a horrible tailspin. We have been long distance for the past 3 years as well so it makes it even more difficult that i cannot...
    JadedShackles JadedShackles 18-21, F 1 Response May 28, 2012

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    My Reasons

    I listed reasons why I should and why I shouldn't break up with him. Reasons WHY I SHOULD: 1. You can’t do your role as a girlfriend. It’s not a give and take relationship. You only want to take. You are not willing to exert effort for him. 2. You said yes to him only...
    mhel0w8 mhel0w8 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    I have a long-distance with my bf.

    We live in two different countries, which makes it hard. We've done this for 3 years now, on and off. But I see now that I'm tired of this. I want to have someone I can meet more often than every 3-4 months. I've recently started to meet other people, not dating, but I've...
    Jensinee Jensinee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    What do i do? I love him

    so much. I don't want him to handle his problems alone but he says hurtful things a lot.
    babyliempy babyliempy 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    The relationship is perfect

    but I feel like I'm not in the right place to even be dating. I'm too young and in that depression state. I just want to be completely alone and independent. But I can't be because he's there. And I can't go because I love him too much (or teenage love what ever it is I feel it...
    frozenkisses21 frozenkisses21 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I'm dating the sweetest guy ever

    and he's really into me, however I wish that we had stayed just friends. We have been dating for a month now and I realize that I'm not ready for a relationship after my last one. I don't know how to break up with him without hurting him. Also we have all the same friends and I...
    bitterblood bitterblood 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    Done.

    Useless sack of ****.
    newmurderer newmurderer 70+ 4 Responses Apr 2, 2010

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    I love my boyfriend. I do!

    I care about him so much. But, I want to get married and have children of my own someday. And, he doesn't. He has 3 children. But they have their moms...I will never be their mother. I give way more in the relationship than take. He doesn't help around the house, I...
    follower8705 follower8705 22-25 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    I have to break up with my boyfriend.

    I have been with him for 2.5 years and I have just lost feelings for him because of the constant being beaten down with words, negativity, and doing absolutely nothing all the time for the last year... someone from my past has popped up and shown me how to be treated. I'm not...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 13 Responses Mar 11

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    I just want it over with.

    ... He obviously doesn't have the time of day for a relationship since he hasn't seen me in over a month and keeps avoiding me. I keep trying to make plans with him to do it in person but all he ever says is "I'll try to find time". Sorry I'm not worthy of you previous schedule...
    kaymarie8 kaymarie8 18-21, F Jul 13

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    I have been dating this guy

    for 5 years. We have a good relationship for the most part but I'm just not feeling it anymore. I feel like I can't be express myself as much. I am a very different person and don't care what people think about me. He, on the other had, always has to be with the "in" crowd and...
    torid123 torid123 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 11

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    Wanting To Feel It Again

    Don't have the heart to tell him you don't want to do this anymore. And sit waiting hoping you'll love him again. But it never comes back. Ask him to come over so you can fall in love again but it never comes back. He does everything right but your heart doesn't care. Saying...
    kyleesmiley kyleesmiley 18-21, F Jul 10, 2013

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    I Wish I Knew How Or When

    When I met my boyfriend, we were good friends. I was in mourning and he was the only person I wanted to see or be around at the time. Now, I just want to get a away from him! I probably shouldn't have moved in after a few months of dating. I admit, that was stupid. I just felt so...
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    I am trying desperately to break up with my

    boyfriend, but he won't take no for an answer, he won't leave me alone, he refuses to see that I just need to move on. He won't let me go because he says that you need to fight for someone you love. And I do know that he loves me that all of his heart. It really and truly has...
    hometownlady hometownlady 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    My boyfriend isn't your typical bf.

    I'm pretty sure no other woman would ever put up with his ****. We have a son together so it's not that easy to just break up with him. I am trying to make it work. But I'm not even the slightest bit happy with him. I feel like he acts like he is too good for me. The girl he had...
    Jessicataboubitch Jessicataboubitch 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 9

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    Tomorrow...

    The relationship isn't really going anywhere... but he seems to think it is more serious than it is. (Really, sometimes we don't even meet up for ages, or even speak on the phone - and it's not like it's long distance! But he seems to think it is going well...) I phoned him and...
    Damisela Damisela 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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