I Want to Break Up With My Bf

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    I have been dating this guy

    for 5 years. We have a good relationship for the most part but I'm just not feeling it anymore. I feel like I can't be express myself as much. I am a very different person and don't care what people think about me. He, on the other had, always has to be with the "in" crowd and...
    torid123 torid123
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    Done.

    Useless sack of ****.
    newmurderer newmurderer
    70+
    4 Responses Apr 2, 2010

    Tomorrow...

    The relationship isn't really going anywhere... but he seems to think it is more serious than it is. (Really, sometimes we don't even meet up for ages, or even speak on the phone - and it's not like it's long distance! But he seems to think it is going well...) I phoned him and...
    Damisela Damisela
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2012

    My boyfriend isn't your typical bf.

    I'm pretty sure no other woman would ever put up with his ****. We have a son together so it's not that easy to just break up with him. I am trying to make it work. But I'm not even the slightest bit happy with him. I feel like he acts like he is too good for me. The girl he had...
    Jessicataboubitch Jessicataboubitch
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    I just got into a strait relationship with this

    really cute guy but I'm not sure if I like being with him. He is really fun to be around but I want to stay focused on being with girls........for a while.
    lovecakes101 lovecakes101
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2015

    But I'm still not ready .

    .. ): I love him. But we have such a messy past and I'm super depressed. I'm scared that if we break up I'll lose contact with him. I want him in my life. I want to "start over " one day
    pinkpearlite pinkpearlite
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015

    Wanting To Feel It Again

    Don't have the heart to tell him you don't want to do this anymore. And sit waiting hoping you'll love him again. But it never comes back. Ask him to come over so you can fall in love again but it never comes back. He does everything right but your heart doesn't care. Saying...
    kyleesmiley kyleesmiley
    18-21, F
    Jul 10, 2013

    My Reasons

    I listed reasons why I should and why I shouldn't break up with him. Reasons WHY I SHOULD: 1. You can’t do your role as a girlfriend. It’s not a give and take relationship. You only want to take. You are not willing to exert effort for him. 2. You said yes to him only...
    mhel0w8 mhel0w8
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Sep 11, 2013

    I am tired. No i am exhausted.

    I exhausted for putting up with his crap seriously. i feel like i have become some sort of door mat - doesn't matter what i say, think, or do he just brushes it off or walks over me. I have been there for him whether its in the middle of the night or if ive already got things...
    confusednormalness confusednormalness
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2015

    I want to break up with my fiancé

    but I am too scared to break up with him because he told me he had thoughts of suicide a few times he told me
    Christiancountrygirl Christiancountrygirl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 6, 2015

    I didn't end up leaving him today like I'd

    planned. I just didn't see the rush. Maybe it's just the honey moon phase wearing off, and I'm not used to having relationships that last more than a month, or relationships at all. For the most part, I've just had flings here and there. So he came over, and I couldn't think...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 4

    I have a long-distance with my bf.

    We live in two different countries, which makes it hard. We've done this for 3 years now, on and off. But I see now that I'm tired of this. I want to have someone I can meet more often than every 3-4 months. I've recently started to meet other people, not dating, but I've...
    Jensinee Jensinee
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2014

    We have been together over 5 years

    and he tells me he never wants to get married. Well I don't for a while either but I do eventually. So if your not afraid of losing me well I have no reason to be afraid of leaving. I love you but I got to get on with my life and stop worrying so much about yours. If you don't...
    MartiniLynn MartiniLynn
    18-21
    Sep 24, 2014

    How do you break up with someone

    when they don't want to end it? I started talking to a guy, long distance, and I'm starting to realize it was a mistake. I don't want to be with him anymore, but when I tried to explain it to him, he told me he wants to keep trying, he's convinced we're "meant to be" and he...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    We have been together almost 5 years.

    ..I just don't know why we're together anymore. I feel bad for feeling this way- he can sense that I'm pulling away and keeps telling me how much he loves me, but is not showing it the way I'd like from my partner. I feel so bad for feeling bored with him and wishing he were...
    mamemimo mamemimo
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 7, 2015

    What do i do? I love him

    so much. I don't want him to handle his problems alone but he says hurtful things a lot.
    babyliempy babyliempy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    I just got together with this guy.

    He's funny and sweet. But once we got together we never talk. Also I just got a job that means I busy all the time and the fact that I'm scared that if my friend and her bf breakup he will go straight back to her is messing with my feelings... I just don't know what to do...
    SuicidalGirl2015 SuicidalGirl2015
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 19, 2015

    I hate wen my bf acts like he could talk to his

    girl friends and i cant even talk to nobody or add nobody on the internet i dnt even tell him nothing . But it hurts me . That i cant even hang out with nobody . Damn it . I dnt even wanna be with him anymore , its not fair either !
    paulam76 paulam76
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    I have to break up with my boyfriend.

    I have been with him for 2.5 years and I have just lost feelings for him because of the constant being beaten down with words, negativity, and doing absolutely nothing all the time for the last year... someone from my past has popped up and shown me how to be treated. I'm not...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for about a year now and for the past few months, I've been thinking about breaking up with him. I'm just not attracted to him anymore. His behaviour is pretty immature despite being several years older than me (I'm 23), can be reckless with his money and doesn't take interest...
    TiaLeopard TiaLeopard
    22-25, F
    Apr 6

    I just want it over with.

    ... He obviously doesn't have the time of day for a relationship since he hasn't seen me in over a month and keeps avoiding me. I keep trying to make plans with him to do it in person but all he ever says is "I'll try to find time". Sorry I'm not worthy of you previous schedule...
    LadyBlueBear LadyBlueBear
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    He's an amazing guy. Smart,

    attractive, compassionate, sweet. We've been dating 3 years and have been talking about marriage and moving in. He recently asked me "what would you do if I asked you to marry me this year?" At first, I was thrilled at the thought of being married. But then I started to really...
    JustThat6irl JustThat6irl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2015
    cloe11 cloe11
    13-15, F
    Nov 21, 2014

    I love my boyfriend. I do!

    I care about him so much. But, I want to get married and have children of my own someday. And, he doesn't. He has 3 children. But they have their moms...I will never be their mother. I give way more in the relationship than take. He doesn't help around the house, I...
    follower8705 follower8705
    22-25
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2013

    He said I suck in bed,

    the only way he can c** is from doggy style
    kambellsoup kambellsoup
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2014

    I could use some advise in breaking up.

    .. Normally I just pack up and move on to a new town or state but this time I like the place but I don't want to be with the man anymore. This may sound cruel but I hope you all will understand. I'm a vet and we met at a vet function but I lived in Cali at the time.. So I moved...
    estellerosen estellerosen
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2014

    I've been thinking about breaking up with my

    boyfriend. im heartbroken that i cant make him happy, he's still not over his lovee of 4 years. its so hard for me to say Goodbye. idk what to do. i dont want to be his second option in life
    Ebtitel001 Ebtitel001
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2015

    I'm dating the sweetest guy ever

    and he's really into me, however I wish that we had stayed just friends. We have been dating for a month now and I realize that I'm not ready for a relationship after my last one. I don't know how to break up with him without hurting him. Also we have all the same friends and I...
    bitterblood bitterblood
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2014

    Ive been so confused

    and indenial on how my boyfriend treats me, i have tried to enf our relationship plentt of times, but could never go through with it. I dont know if i should continue on hoping things will get better or just give up
    dfe213 dfe213
    18-21, F
    May 13, 2015

    Im a 25 years old Asian woman.

    I just graduated from college. I got a boy friend who is 40years old, he looks like a teenager though. He doesn't have a decent job, and what he likes to do is hanging out with friends and drinking. I don't feel good about my boyfriend being so irresponsible. I think ppl should...
    Zoeyw Zoeyw
    22-25, F
    Apr 11

    eatch time he walks away i feel the soothing

    sensation of merriment,in his company i feel just the opposite,hes no good for me
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 14, 2015

    I actually want to break up with my boyfriend

    now. And i'm really sad, because I actually thought he would be the one. I didn't notice that I have been having such resentful feelings until recently. I started noticing things that I've ignored before, mostly about how he turned from a caring boyfriend to a materialistic...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    We've been dating for three months.

    We've said "I love you". I know he really cares about me, but I just don't feel the spark. We don't do anything fun when we hang out and he's really moody. He's not a bad guy, which is why I haven't broken up with him. But I don't want to be with him anymore.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 3

    I've been with him for 2 years already.

    He has his own kids & I have one & a kid in common with him. So a total of 4! I've been living with him ever since last summer & he has shown he cannot provide for our family. So many excuses come out of his mouth, so many discussions changes! I'm tired! I want to go back to my...
    Nicksters90 Nicksters90
    18-21
    Mar 5

    So my bf was amazing

    when we met. Sweetest guy ever. Cried if he upset me, took me to fancy dinners and had lots of sex. I eventually moved in to his house, which is quite far from where I came from like 4 hours... He started to change when his sex drive went to basically zero. He got grumpy, he...
    honeybee86 honeybee86
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2014

    I need to just do it,

    but I am such a chicken. Anxiety is kicking my butt. I have never broken up with someone in person. I think the worst part is initiating the breakup. How does one do this? What if he gets upset? I do not want to hurt him. I know by dragging this relationship on any...
    bawstenbrewin bawstenbrewin
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    I feel no spark but he's an amazing guy; he's

    nice, smart, funny, we have a lot in common, but there's just no spark. I don't know how to break it off with him without hurting him. Besides, I don't think a boyfriend or potential marriage is really what I want for my life and my aspirations. Any help with how to let him down...
    kswans kswans
    18-21
    Dec 28, 2014

    I am trying desperately to break up with my

    boyfriend, but he won't take no for an answer, he won't leave me alone, he refuses to see that I just need to move on. He won't let me go because he says that you need to fight for someone you love. And I do know that he loves me that all of his heart. It really and truly has...
    hometownlady hometownlady
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 2, 2014

    He says he loves me and I'm his world,

    but he keeps talking to this sleazy girl. He knows how I feel about her. Instead of comforting me and end all ties with her, he tells me that I can't tell him who he can or can't talk to. Had it been the other way around, I would've ended it in a heartbeat. My mind tells me just...
    hollapaula51 hollapaula51
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 14, 2015
    christy0909 christy0909
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015
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