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I Want To Change My Way Of Thinking

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    I have a knack for mostly finding the negative side of things before I really look at the total picture. This is a problem, because it makes people view me as an ***. That couldn't be further from the truth though. I am a nice guy, with a huge heart, who would go out of my way to...
    teleman teleman 36-40, M 1 Response May 20, 2010

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    Once again Facebook asking me What's on my mind. Dearest, you know?... I haven't words to tell or explain that mess inside of my head. But... Today I want to try. Try to start talk...
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    I had a boyfriend for 4 and a half years .. I was really in love with him. He cheated on me a few times and I forgave him because I loved him so much. He father died and I did...
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    We are not truly free. We live in a world full of restrictions and prohibitions. We pay to exist. How can one be truly happy living this way. Armed with this new found realisation...
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    i can remember a day we went to a jungle with my dad's friends and we had to walk in the river! i had a nice trousers (it was new pretty and expensive).it was tight and i couldnt...
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    I've been reading some of the members' posts about not being loveable despite trying EVERYTHING. We feel like we've done something wrong and resolve to accepting that this is 'just...
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    Hey, I'm 18 male, and I really can't take my parents anymore. I'm thinking of running away all the time. I'm sorry, this is a bit long but I would really appreciate someone's...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 1

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    Im 18 and my family and friends all seen so comfortable in life, with they spectations, my mom and me have had a few conversations about how i think about society, she says me "you...
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    A few years ago a friend helped me to get out of a bad relationship, then we started hooking up and I developed very strong feelings for him. We both expressed how much we cared...
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    Persistent changes + sufficient time=changes she can believe in. My counsellors tell me this time and time again. My mentor a family therapist said he just heard of a couple who...
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    I am a college student, struggling with the idea of dropping out to pursue my passion of writing, travel, spirituality and introducing people to a more fulfilling life. Are you...
    theleigh theleigh 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Being a mom is changeling sometimes for me, especially when your 3 year old tries to run your life. That's fine with me. My son came to my life when there was no purpose of it...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Dear You, I'm writing you to let you know what's on my mind. I'm not going to lie at one time I loved you, so much to the point It was suffocating me. I was crazy for you, head...
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    I might change my first name to Mario
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    “It's being here now that's important. There's no past and there's no future. Time is a very misleading thing. All there is ever, is the now. We can gain experience from the past...
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    I want to fight in a War! I know what your thinking "why would you want to do that?" Well it's mostly because I've wanted to Join the US Military ever since I was in the 3rd Grade...
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    Change calls for a new plan of action. You simply cannot operate in the old ways manufacturing old ideas, reproducing old habits, and maintaining current mental patterns. With...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F Aug 13

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    I don't know why it took me so long to realize how good life can be. I was such a pessimist for such a long time! And since I had a bad attitude I was also lazy. This year has been...
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    Great new song by Melissa EtheridgeEverybody stumbles, everybody hits the groundno use running scared when those changes come aroundCuz you don't know what might be waiting for...
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    I've never told anyone about this and now I'm telling it to anyone who has the time and good will to get to know me and maybe even help me feel true happiness again. I'm a...
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    I'm a guy so it been hard dealing with being a victim of rape. I'm also straight which makes it a million times worse in my head to deal with. Only my parents and my therapist know...
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    Prefereably a woman for now, to see where it goes. I havent had much experience with girls in the past, but enough to know i like it without a doubt. I'd like to try a more serious...
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    "Wicked Game" The world was on fire and no one could save me but you. It's strange what desire will make foolish people do. I never dreamed that I'd meet somebody like you. And I...
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    I recently lost my family due to my own self created depression. I want to get them back but I know the scars are deep and at times I think there's no hope. She's moved on to a guy...
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    My mom and dad pick drugs and alcohol over me. Leaving me broke and feeling alone. I pay bills and my rent which makes it hard because I'm 17 and I wanna spend money on things like...
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    i always make sure to smile at someone whether they look like they need it or not. You never know what someones going through behind closed doors. Like me some people hide it so...
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    It's hard to explain, but sometimes I find my self thinking too hard about every little thing and how it could ultimately change everything, but not in a paranoid type way. I mean...
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    August 18. Valuing this Moment. "Detachment involves present moment living - living in the here and now. We allow life to happen instead of forcing and trying to control it. We...
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