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I Want to Cheat On My Husband But

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    I Do Love Him

    I love my husband dearly. We have been together since I was 16, engaged at 18 and married at 21. We've now been married for little over a year. During the entire time we have been together I have always had fantasies about other men. Men I have been with at a younger age and...
    Illena Illena 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    I Want To Cheat On My Husband, But...

    We have been together for 8 years. I feel like we just don't have sex very often, and when we do it just doesn't have the spark it used to. (Very long story) So I called up an ex-boyfriend.... He (the ex) is still very much in love with me. Oh my God! he is charming and sweet...
    tiedye77 tiedye77 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Missing Passion

    I've been married for 5 years but been with my husband for 10. He's an amazing husband and father. I'm absolutely in love with him and find him to be really good looking man. But our sex life sucks!! Sex is really infrequent, usually doesn't happen unless I initiate, and when it...
    Spiceitup82 Spiceitup82 31-35, F May 26, 2013

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    Do I Want To Do It First...?

    Reading the other stories on here, it seems that cheating wives fall into two camps: there's the "He cheated first so I'm cheating on him" camp; and the "I cannot resist the opportunity to feel sexy, confident, and amazing with a relative stranger or (commonly) ex who appreciates...
    dowsYdows dowsYdows 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    But I Am Scared

    he leaves me alone for like days at a time sometimes weeks, he plays his weekly sport match once a week and he is gone for hours in the evening.  I have every opportunity to bring some one over and **** all i want. But who? i do not have the time to run around trying to get...
    lostdreams80 lostdreams80 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2009

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    Cheating Is Fun!

    I am a married wife and lets just say thatI have a very active sex life that doesn't alway include my husband. Don't get me wrong now, theres nothing at all wrong with him but sometimes the needs are just not being met at all! I have always enjoyed lots of boyfriends, and when I...
    Shannenwilde Shannenwilde 36-40 4 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    Do I Dare...

    So . this guy on FB I Use to kick it to like 10 years ago found me and want to see me . I have since married and had two kids .But he was like the best at the stuff .He would by me the best gifts and take me out to eat , an to the movies , my only problem with him was he wanted...
    babysocks86 babysocks86 36-40, F 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    My Wife ***** Another Married Man

      and I let her and like it, In the last 4 years she has been with many men. It started as 3 sums with me [bi and str8]. But now likes to **** on her own.       
    sarajason sarajason 26-30 Feb 19, 2010

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    Cheat With Me.

    If it's passion, attention or straight physical pleasure, I'd like to do it with you. Looking for a lady in the Central Ca. area.
    nymphobrain nymphobrain 46-50, M Nov 4, 2009

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    Looking To Play...

    I found my husband texting other girls.. even sending pics. It mad me so mad. I have always thought about being with other men since he was my first and only. So now I'm done with all of it and is ready to see what's out there. So bring on the new boys..
    Shortythug13 Shortythug13 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    Why I Feel Like Cheating

    I love my husband, he does everything for our family, sometimes I think he is 2 good to me, but then i started noticing little things like him comming 2 bed late and always rushing me off 2 bed. I just was on his email account that he forgot to log out of and started seeing...
    NeBoo NeBoo 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    He Is All I Think About...

    By now every body know that my marriage is and has been in turmoil since the dawn of time . My husband is not the love of my life and is not my first of anything however he is the father of my two children , I am in a place where I feel my marriage cannot be saved and I don't...
    babysocks86 babysocks86 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    My husband is cheating on me. He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    I have a hard time standing up for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    Today I was washing his clothes and found a note written on a small piece of paper from a woman telling my husband to meet her at a motel room and how much she misses him. How can...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    My name is Maritza Ramos Maldonado from Clifton Park,N NY and I found out recently my husband Fred is secretly gay and having sex with prostitutes in front of the YMCA where he...
    maritzamaldonado maritzamaldonado 51-55, F Mar 25

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    Today I WILL be calling a divorce lawyer . I have waited and put it off for so long . I love my husband and have no desire to hurt him but I can't live like a bird in a gilded cage...
    kstu1 kstu1 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm a girl with mild Spastic Hemiplegic CP. I want to commute from home for college. I'm also sick of having to ask my parents and relatives to drive me everywhere. I feel like a...
    gch1995 gch1995 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Linger Suffer, Linger There's a pain that lingers there, at times I have the urge to cry but it's always a dim urge but the sadness, is still there. Always. Makes it hard to move...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY… My mind goes blank all the time when I'm talking to someone and I don't know why that is! I never know what to say and I hate awkward silences! I find...
    MilweePisces MilweePisces 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 12

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    I haven't cried in almost a decade. Over these seven or eight years I've lost dear friends, lost my mother and father, had my heart broken several times, been in many therapy...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Question: How many of you women apart of this experience group is trying to work on your marriage even with your spouse being unfaithful and why or why not?
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    Im so sad. My life has been wasted.
    sunny198917 sunny198917 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I hate this moment , I cant breath I cant move I feel someone screaming inside me , I'm holding it , why ? I dont know
    nero1991 nero1991 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's near impossible for me to cry now. I've cried too much for me to do it again.
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    Your husband doing you are out cheating on him,, Is he cheating on you to? Some husband go to the bar,, some just go on a fishing or hunting trip,, Did you every wondering he...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I did not write this, I wanted to share it on EP for all the ones who have been betrayed. Studies have proven this to be completely true. THEY ALWAYS AFFAIR DOWN Men always affair...
    Brokenami Brokenami 31-35, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I want a best friend. I have a girl best friend.. but I want a man best friend (companion). My married friends confide in their husbands, as they should, and I'd like to have that...
    fairgoddess fairgoddess 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I am happily married woman. My husband loves me a lot. We have been married for 4 years. 2 years after marriage I resigned my job n moved to a new place with my husband. I got no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 26

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    My parents struggled with their marriage when I was in high school, after that I realized I wanted a stable, happy relationship, and never wanted to cheat or be cheated on... I saw...
    chiquita55 chiquita55 18-21 Mar 27

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    This may be long and scrambled a bit but I will try my best. This is my first post. I have been with the same man for a little over 4 years and he is a cheater, among other things...
    straightjacketdolly straightjacketdolly 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I was cheated on but when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    I don't beleive in cheating myself.. But sad to say.. My GF is the one that cheated on me.. Soo now she's gone!!
    mckddy mckddy 36-40, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to start out saying that I love and care about my husband, but he has been driving me crazy with what I consider selfishness lately. We have been together for 7 years and...
    cmsjay cmsjay 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I'm married but lonely. I have no friends, no one I can trust. There's something's I don't want to tell my husband but I have no one else to talk to. The next person I could talk...
    2O5E4 2O5E4 22-25, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been married for 3 years and for the most part they have been wonderful and great. My husband is so amazing and sweet when I fell for him 6 years ago I knew he would be...
    anchoredwithher anchoredwithher 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    Well I've always wanted a baby but I know I'm young so I am not intentionally trying to get pregnant but I have a sex life so if it happens I do know I'm ready for the whole...
    babygirl3259 babygirl3259 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Well, I am a third wife and a childless one too. My husband has 3 kids fro his previous marriages. He says he does not want kids or rather that he never wanted kids, but now has...
    young3rdwife young3rdwife 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I believe our marriage partner is our other half. Means, exactly like us. -Good people with good people. Bad people with bad people- ..as simple as that.. Truthfully, I want a...
    jalanyanglurus jalanyanglurus 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I am freaking out right now. I can't take it anymore. I asked him to seriously leave. I think he finally sees how much pain I am in. But is this really what I want? I have been...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 27 Responses Apr 3

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    Once Again Love I was a Reiki master, also conducting courses in Emotional Intelligence , for approximately ten years. Moreover, I was a happy wife and mother, living and...
    Sarita07 Sarita07 51-55, F Mar 26

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    I should start off by saying that I am over 30, am married and have four kids. I miss the days when I wasn't married, and wasn't a full time mom. Life seemed more "go with the flow...
    Forbidden1 Forbidden1 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I want to have a baby but my husband doesn't. We've been married six years and he told me he didn't want children but I thought I could change him. We've had lengthy conversations...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 35 Responses Mar 29

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    Everyone want to loose weight including me. It's no easy but it sure is easy to eat but eventually it gets better and once you reach your goals you feel good about yourself. Give...
    keston234 keston234 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    After spending almost seven months in the hospital after his triple bypass surgery, my husband of thirty years gave up his fight. He made I clear that he was determined to get a...
    donna713 donna713 51-55, F Mar 30

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    I really want to get pregnant and start a family with my husband but it hasn't seem to be working for me. Does anyone know how I can speed up this process and get pregnant?
    CocoRose91 CocoRose91 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    I want to divorce my husband but i am too weak to do so.Firstly because our son is attached to him secondly he has become financially successful.I sacrificied my career and moved...
    kimlife kimlife 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I want to divorce my husband but i am too weak to do so.Firstly because our son is attached to him secondly he has become financially successful.I sacrificied my career and moved...
    kimlife kimlife 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago