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I Want to Convince My Wife to Swing

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    Pics!! - Added some pics to my album. Please comment to post more.
    hid2hid2 hid2hid2 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Story Of Our Holloween Party.. What Do Guys Think? - We went to a Halloween party this year.. the host is a gay couple form my wife's office. We'er both straight and never...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Vegas Fantasy - Ok, I've posted some other similar things here, but this might be the best place for this-My wife and I used to have a very good sex life (Jeez, this sounds like a...
    tedluk tedluk 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Am I Wrong To Want More Sex - I know I will get some bad feed back on this, but this is the only place I can put my thoughts as it is hard to talk to anyone about this, I have been...
    aaabob80 aaabob80 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    Finally.. A Cool Couple To Hang With.. Maybe More? - We finally met a cool couple we love hanging out with. we have been naked hot tubbing and really like hanging out with them...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 2 Responses May 23, 2013

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    The Other Side Of The Coin: What'S So Bad About Swinging? - Though I've posted several pages on why I think that swinging, at least for me, is a good thing, nothing is ever perfect...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Making B Open Up - My and my wife got married 5 yrs. ago. We've always had a healthy sexual appetite. It was always the "usual" stuff. Intercourse, oral, different positions...
    mvmaztech mvmaztech 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    For The Right Reasons..... - For you guys that want to swing....take a minute and figure out why. If it's because you don't get what you want at home then there's something wrong...
    MsAscidia MsAscidia 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    First Time - My wife to be (Sally) has just turned 30 and I wanted to take her to an expensive hotel for the weekend to celebrate. I checked a few places out online and finally...
    e00732 e00732 31-35 4 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Want To Swing With Wife - My wife comes from an extreme religious backround and has limited experience with men even though married before. I have spent many years in the swing and...
    Pjj1961 Pjj1961 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    A Gradual Process That's Worth The Effort - I'm in the process of convincing my wife to get involved in ********** or possibly swapping for the fourth or fifth time over the past...
    viking71 viking71 56-60, M 17 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    One Woman's Answer To "how Can I Get My Wife To Try Swinging?" - This seems to be such a common question in "the lifestyle", that I thought that I'd give one woman's perspective...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Nearly Got There - We decided after a lot of discussions to statrt swinging and joined a site in SA and for 12 weeks we spoke to people and eventually me up with two couples for...
    Gensen Gensen 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2012

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    Another Hot Party.. - If you have read my past posting you can see that from time to time we have some experiences. Well we had an other last weekend. We were off to a party with a...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    More Email - I've been answering questions from the ladies, now I suppose it's time to reply to some from the guys. It's interesting that people's concerns really do tend to break...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Some Of My Favorite (Swinging) Things - So, I've written a little bit about some of the positives that swinging has brought to my life and my relationship with my hubby, but I...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F Mar 25, 2013

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    We Went From Shy to Full Blown Swingers - We were your typical next door neighbors. The we did some research and started watching videos of wife watching and swapping and orgies...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13, 2008

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    Taking Swinging To A New Level - My husband and I have been experimenting with the swinging scene a bit lately and I have been considering taking things a step further. My husband...
    KristineDono77 KristineDono77 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Trying - we have fantasies about it, now want to make it a reality,  
    silverbandy silverbandy 31-35 4 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    I Think She Would But?? - I have told her that I wanted to see her be with another man in the past.  I am just wondering how to bring this up again?   Will she think that I am...
    inneedforfun inneedforfun 36-40 10 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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    NEEDS Help - I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE MY WIFE EXPOSE HERSELF TO OTHERS AND ALSO TO HAVE OTHERS MAKE LOVE TO HER. BUT SHE WONT GO FOR IT. SHE DOES FEEL GOOD WHEN SHE DRESS SEXY AND GET...
    kent100 kent100 41-45, M 10 Responses May 3, 2008

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    Wish She Would Swing -   I am writing this story from deep within my heart and with pure honesty, because please believe me my friends SO MUCH has lead me here to this point...
    spiritualuk spiritualuk 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    I'm Really Desperate For It - I've been interested for the last several years to get my wife to start "expanding" her sexuality and, by that, I mean that I want her to...
    thelooker07 thelooker07 26-30, M 23 Responses Aug 31, 2008

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    Sharing My Wife - I have shared my wife with ten different men!
    cuckboyhubby cuckboyhubby 41-45, M 17 Responses Oct 14, 2007

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    Wife Seems Interested But Just Won't Allow Me to Plan It. - Hi, new to this site... She seem to think it will happen by chance. Her mind says no but I know from talking with her...
    frenchcpl frenchcpl 31-35 7 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    My Wife - my wife ni love having sex together. one night while we were in san antonio, tx, because of hurricane ike, we were just itching to **** n we needed somewhere to park to...
    mvmaztech mvmaztech 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    Almost... But Not Quite - My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years now, have two wonderful kids, and I love her to death. While our sex life fluctuates constantly...
    ironguy ironguy 46-50, M 6 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    TO Convince My Wife For Swing - I am now starting to realise that my best times in the past where with girls that where man-eaters - very sexually craven and almost always...
    bihoop2003 bihoop2003 31-35 1 Response Mar 17, 2009

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    Younger Wife - All my married life I have been aroused by the thought of sharing my wife with another man. I don't want a free for all, just one guy. I have been married three...
    ainavrec ainavrec 66-70 Nov 5, 2013

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    Not Yet - my wife and I been married 14 yrs. we love each other with all our hearts. we are a christian couple. yet i wish to ask her to swing. advice on how to proceed ?
    timothy1a timothy1a 36-40 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    A Work In Progress ... - My fiancee and I have been together for almost three years. She is in her mid twenties and i am in my mid thirites. She has only ever has one other sex...
    bigdogdj bigdogdj 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    Swinging Can Destroy Your Relationship - To fulfill a fantasy of my husband (and to please him) we tried the swinging route. It started out with tasteful exhibitionism and...
    yzpwkjs yzpwkjs 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    First Soft Swap, I Think? Please Comment - My wife and I were vacationing and had an interesting experience. On day 1 of our vacation I headed straight for the nude beach, I'm...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 9 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    Swinging Problems - Hi as mentioned before we tried our hand at this and met up with a few couples however did not do much on these initial dates, however we stopped browzing site...
    Gensen Gensen 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    How To Do It???? - Hi All, I am from conservative India and my cute wife is also from here.She has come from a traditional family & she holds a very orthodox view about sex.In the...
    sissypinku sissypinku 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Convice Her? - Ok guys, have to share this with you. My husband always wanted this, and it took a long time for me to get to a point that I could relax and open up to the idea...
    lbcooper123 lbcooper123 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    Want To Convince My Wife To Go To A Swing Club - Last night we had a date without the kids as we were trying to figure out what to do after dinner I suggested we check out a swing...
    airman1963 airman1963 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    I Need Shaer My Wife Plz - plz i am muslim and my wife so i want swining and shear my wife to anther men and sleep with his wife , so i scare her heat me ,but when i **** her she...
    effeminate effeminate 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    Shy Wife - My shy wife is a bit too shy until I got one of my best mate to touch het bottom ..as I planned it before i knew what was going on in the kitchen ..she was giggling like...
    massala massala 36-40 5 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    The First Steps Towards.... - About a year ago, I proposed to my wife that we go and hang out at a certain resort which is home to a well known swingers club. We spent the...
    RazzleDazzle88 RazzleDazzle88 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    Convincing The Wife - After repeated request, and what if questions...and a couple of " If I asked you to, would you?"my wife of 15 years finally agreed to visit an adult bookstore...
    mikeyj177 mikeyj177 46-50, M 2 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Twice Nearly - On two occasion 8 years ago, she ***** teased me and my pal.she went wild and my pal licked her dry,but at the time,I did not feel 100 pearcente to witness full...
    Rossifans2 Rossifans2 41-45, M Aug 13, 2012

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    Mail, I Get Mail... - I guess because of some of my stories, I've been gettting messages from several women all with more or less the same theme "My Husband wants to try swinging...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Wanting To Turn My Wife Naughty - A couple weeks ago, I saw a couple texts on her phone from an old HS friend which I saw at the moment as flirty. She told me he's like that and...
    fireball1202 fireball1202 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 24, 2012

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    Shed Her Sexual Inhibitions -  My Wife and I have talked several times about swinging fantasys. She is ok with it as We talk. She says She would do ANYTHING to make Me happy...
    erny63 erny63 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Pics - No story just wanted to post some pics. Comments welcomed EP Link
    hid2hid2 hid2hid2 26-30, M Apr 8, 2013

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    Not Yet - my wife and i been married 14 yrs, we love each other very much. I am interested in swinging. do not know her take on this. does not deter my love for her. just wanna add...
    timothy1a timothy1a 36-40 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    What'S So Great About Swinging, Anyway? - Some of the recent stories and comments got me thinking ... there are so many posts from men who want to know "how to get my wife...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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