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I Want to Convince My Wife to Swing

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    A Work In Progress ...

    My fiancee and I have been together for almost three years. She is in her mid twenties and i am in my mid thirites. She has only ever has one other sex partner besides me, her long term ex boyfriend. We, like most couples, had a vigorous sex life off the hop. She had never had...
    bigdogdj bigdogdj 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    Younger Wife

    All my married life I have been aroused by the thought of sharing my wife with another man. I don't want a free for all, just one guy. I have been married three times. My first wife shared and ultimately I lost her to one of her lovers. My second was on the rebound and was an 18...
    ainavrec ainavrec 66-70 Nov 5, 2013

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    My Wife

    my wife ni love having sex together. one night while we were in san antonio, tx, because of hurricane ike, we were just itching to **** n we needed somewhere to park to do it. while cruising around i spotted a restaurant that was clised n had a dark parkung lot. after failing at...
    mvmaztech mvmaztech 22-25, M 6 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    Pics

    No story just wanted to post some pics. Comments welcomed EP Link
    hid2hid2 hid2hid2 26-30, M Apr 8, 2013

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    A Gradual Process That's Worth The Effort

    I'm in the process of convincing my wife to get involved in ********** or possibly swapping for the fourth or fifth time over the past 25 years. I lose track after awhile. She is still smoking hot, long blonde hair which she will wrap around your **** during ********, lovely 34C...
    viking71 viking71 56-60, M 17 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    Mail, I Get Mail...

    I guess because of some of my stories, I've been gettting messages from several women all with more or less the same theme "My Husband wants to try swinging, but I'm reluctant". The most common concerns/questions seem to be: 1. I'm worried he'll meet someone he likes more, and...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    First Time

    My wife to be (Sally) has just turned 30 and I wanted to take her to an expensive hotel for the weekend to celebrate. I checked a few places out online and finally decided on a cool new 5 start hotel in a tall building with floor to ceiling glass windows and a spa as well as an...
    e00732 e00732 31-35 4 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Finally.. A Cool Couple To Hang With.. Maybe More?

    We finally met a cool couple we love hanging out with. we have been naked hot tubbing and really like hanging out with them.. they live pretty far away and we don't see them as much as we want. I think they are wondering if we swing and we are wondering if they do.. for the...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 2 Responses May 23, 2013

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    Shed Her Sexual Inhibitions

     My Wife and I have talked several times about swinging fantasys. She is ok with it as We talk. She says She would do ANYTHING to make Me happy. We are a good looking couple, in Our mid 40's and most people think We are more like 30ish.  We just need to get Her...
    erny63 erny63 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 6, 2010

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    Almost... But Not Quite

    My wife and I have been married for almost 20 years now, have two wonderful kids, and I love her to death. While our sex life fluctuates constantly between nonexistent and phenomenal, there is one common thread that comes down to missing a key ingredient – variety. My wife was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    We Went From Shy to Full Blown Swingers

    We were your typical next door neighbors. The we did some research and started watching videos of wife watching and swapping and orgies. Now our best friends are all people we met in the swinging lifestyle. The best information we can give is to be open and honest with each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13, 2008

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    NEEDS Help

    I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE MY WIFE EXPOSE HERSELF TO OTHERS AND ALSO TO HAVE OTHERS MAKE LOVE TO HER. BUT SHE WONT GO FOR IT. SHE DOES FEEL GOOD WHEN SHE DRESS SEXY AND GET THOSE LOOKS TOWARD HER BUT HOW CAN I GET HER TO GO FURTHER?I NEED SOME HELP!
    kent100 kent100 41-45, M 10 Responses May 3, 2008

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    Pics!!

    Added some pics to my album. Please comment to post more.
    hid2hid2 hid2hid2 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    First Soft Swap, I Think? Please Comment

    My wife and I were vacationing and had an interesting experience. On day 1 of our vacation I headed straight for the nude beach, I'm totally wanting to experience being total nude at the beach, my wife is more or less indulging me. We had a great time I was totally nude she kept...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 8 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    One Woman's Answer To "how Can I Get My Wife To Try Swinging?"

    This seems to be such a common question in "the lifestyle", that I thought that I'd give one woman's perspective, since, in the case of my husband and myself, he was the one who first brought up the idea, and I did take a little bit of convincing. (But I am very glad that he...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Wish She Would Swing

      I am writing this story from deep within my heart and with pure honesty, because please believe me my friends SO MUCH has lead me here to this point, in fact my friends I’d be happy to swear on the name of my first born that this is 110% gospel truth, because no...
    spiritualuk spiritualuk 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2009

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    Shy Wife

    My shy wife is a bit too shy until I got one of my best mate to touch het bottom ..as I planned it before i knew what was going on in the kitchen ..she was giggling like a girl..any way I was peeping as i saw her take his hand and put it in her ***** ..i went joined in carried...
    massala massala 41-45 4 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Convice Her?

    Ok guys, have to share this with you. My husband always wanted this, and it took a long time for me to get to a point that I could relax and open up to the idea.  At first, I felt that I was not enough to satisfy him, but as we continued to share our experiences, desires...
    lbcooper123 lbcooper123 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    Convincing The Wife

    After repeated request, and what if questions...and a couple of " If I asked you to, would you?"my wife of 15 years finally agreed to visit an adult bookstore with me. She assured me that, nothing was going to happen, and that I would only be disappointed because she was turned...
    mikeyj177 mikeyj177 46-50, M 2 Responses May 11, 2013

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    Am I Wrong To Want More Sex

    I know I will get some bad feed back on this, but this is the only place I can put my thoughts as it is hard to talk to anyone about this, I have been married to my wife for 35 years over that time we have had a good sex life not a great one, with my wife working part time and...
    aaabob80 aaabob80 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 25, 2012

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    Twice Nearly

    On two occasion 8 years ago, she ***** teased me and my pal.she went wild and my pal licked her dry,but at the time,I did not feel 100 pearcente to witness full penetration ,.i now know that was a massive mistake . My wife is a aPROPER head turner. She can go to a club with me...
    Rossifans2 Rossifans2 41-45, M Aug 13, 2012

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    What'S So Great About Swinging, Anyway?

    Some of the recent stories and comments got me thinking ... there are so many posts from men who want to know "how to get my wife/girlfriend/significant other" to swing, but not nearly as many from the girls who are already in the lifestyle explaining what they like about it...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    Swinging Problems

    Hi as mentioned before we tried our hand at this and met up with a few couples however did not do much on these initial dates, however we stopped browzing site together, however i have continued and have had a lot of discussions with couples etc with the pretence that we are...
    Gensen Gensen 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 4, 2013

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    Wife Seems Interested But Just Won't Allow Me to Plan It.

    Hi, new to this site... She seem to think it will happen by chance. Her mind says no but I know from talking with her that we would do it in perfect circumstance.
    frenchcpl frenchcpl 31-35 7 Responses Mar 15, 2008

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    How To Do It????

    Hi All, I am from conservative India and my cute wife is also from here.She has come from a traditional family & she holds a very orthodox view about sex.In the other hand due to my own physique,I think she got deprived from enjoying fully the joy of a full sized ****.So I want...
    sissypinku sissypinku 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Making B Open Up

    My and my wife got married 5 yrs. ago. We've always had a healthy sexual appetite. It was always the "usual" stuff. Intercourse, oral, different positions, etc. Until one night. We're from Houston, TX and had to evacuate the city because of Hurricane Ike. We went to San...
    mvmaztech mvmaztech 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    Not Yet

    my wife and I been married 14 yrs. we love each other with all our hearts. we are a christian couple. yet i wish to ask her to swing. advice on how to proceed ?
    timothy1a timothy1a 36-40 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    Want To Convince My Wife To Go To A Swing Club

    Last night we had a date without the kids as we were trying to figure out what to do after dinner I suggested we check out a swing club. She said she did not want to be traded . How do i convince her to atleast go to a club and see what it is like
    airman1963 airman1963 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    Some Of My Favorite (Swinging) Things

    So, I've written a little bit about some of the positives that swinging has brought to my life and my relationship with my hubby, but I wanted to flesh that out a little bit: focus less on particular experiences, and maybe more on the general good feelings. And I've already...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F Mar 25, 2013

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    TO Convince My Wife For Swing

    I am now starting to realise that my best times in the past where with girls that where man-eaters - very sexually craven and almost always unfaithful. I am starting to miss that aspect. I now find myselfwanting, from within the safe confines of the marriage and family, to...
    bihoop2003 bihoop2003 31-35 1 Response Mar 17, 2009

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    Wanting To Turn My Wife Naughty

    A couple weeks ago, I saw a couple texts on her phone from an old HS friend which I saw at the moment as flirty. She told me he's like that and harmless, but a few days later I got to thinking and found myself fantasizing about her in bed with this dude. That evening, I was so...
    fireball1202 fireball1202 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 24, 2012

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    Trying

    we have fantasies about it, now want to make it a reality,  
    silverbandy silverbandy 31-35 4 Responses Apr 13, 2009

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    For The Right Reasons.....

    For you guys that want to swing....take a minute and figure out why. If it's because you don't get what you want at home then there's something wrong at home and you really need to fix that first. The worst thing you can do is expect inviting others into your relationship to...
    MsAscidia MsAscidia 41-45, F 14 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    I Need Shaer My Wife Plz

    plz i am muslim and my wife so i want swining and shear my wife to anther men and sleep with his wife , so i scare her heat me ,but when i **** her she Imagine more men ******* her and mor ladys ply with her bussy so plz any one here can help me and my dream my wife see some one...
    effeminate effeminate 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    More Email

    I've been answering questions from the ladies, now I suppose it's time to reply to some from the guys. It's interesting that people's concerns really do tend to break down along gender lines. The girls all worry about how swinging could affect their relationships, and about the...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses May 9, 2013

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    I'm Really Desperate For It

    I've been interested for the last several years to get my wife to start "expanding" her sexuality and, by that, I mean that I want her to start sleeping with other men. I would be interested in her doing any of the following things: - Having sex with another guy in...
    thelooker07 thelooker07 26-30, M 23 Responses Aug 31, 2008

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    Taking Swinging To A New Level

    My husband and I have been experimenting with the swinging scene a bit lately and I have been considering taking things a step further. My husband enjoys watching another man flirting with me, kissing, touching, and I have been reading more and more about cuckolding and hotwife...
    KristineDono77 KristineDono77 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Nearly Got There

    We decided after a lot of discussions to statrt swinging and joined a site in SA and for 12 weeks we spoke to people and eventually me up with two couples for drinks. Both coupleas wanted to meet up again for action but wife was sick in bed. We know have lost contact due to us...
    Gensen Gensen 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 19, 2012

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    Sharing My Wife

    I have shared my wife with ten different men!
    cuckboyhubby cuckboyhubby 41-45, M 17 Responses Oct 14, 2007

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    I Think She Would But??

    I have told her that I wanted to see her be with another man in the past.  I am just wondering how to bring this up again?   Will she think that I am cheating on her because I bring it up?  I would love the swinging thing because I think it would be a good thing for both of...
    inneedforfun inneedforfun 36-40 10 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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    Swinging Can Destroy Your Relationship

    To fulfill a fantasy of my husband (and to please him) we tried the swinging route. It started out with tasteful exhibitionism and progressed from there. It seemed that whatever I did he insisted that it move to the next level --exhibitionism to soft swing to woman and woman...
    yzpwkjs yzpwkjs 51-55, F 7 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Want To Swing With Wife

    My wife comes from an extreme religious backround and has limited experience with men even though married before. I have spent many years in the swing and fetish community experiencing everything from 2and3somes to attending orgies and *********. In short I have had many...
    Pjj1961 Pjj1961 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    Not Yet

    my wife and i been married 14 yrs, we love each other very much. I am interested in swinging. do not know her take on this. does not deter my love for her. just wanna add some spice. we live in and around central city kentucky. also we are a christian couple. this does not change...
    timothy1a timothy1a 36-40 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    The First Steps Towards....

    About a year ago, I proposed to my wife that we go and hang out at a certain resort which is home to a well known swingers club. We spent the weekend at the resort. We were both pretty psyched about the prospect of going someplace that was so racey and overtly sexual. We wrote...
    RazzleDazzle88 RazzleDazzle88 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    The Other Side Of The Coin: What'S So Bad About Swinging?

    Though I've posted several pages on why I think that swinging, at least for me, is a good thing, nothing is ever perfect, and there's always some bad that comes along with the good. So what are some of the negatives? The first thing that most outside observers and "therapists...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    Vegas Fantasy

    Ok, I've posted some other similar things here, but this might be the best place for this-My wife and I used to have a very good sex life (Jeez, this sounds like a Penthouse Forum story, doesn't it?). But lately it's really tailed off. We've been through a lot these last few...
    tedluk tedluk 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Another Hot Party..

    If you have read my past posting you can see that from time to time we have some experiences. Well we had an other last weekend. We were off to a party with a group of friend who are super cool, on the way there the wife is actual a bit on the nasty side. For some reason she...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    Story Of Our Holloween Party.. What Do Guys Think?

    We went to a Halloween party this year.. the host is a gay couple form my wife's office. We'er both straight and never really talked about swinging etc.. Although it's something I definitely have fantasized about.. Any how the party was great, some of the cooler people from...
    bigbob239 bigbob239 46-50, M 3 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Hi My wife smokes in the house and I hate it ! She smoked when we dated and I didnt mind, but after I watched my mother waste away from cancer and die at 64 it changed my opinion...
    harleyman2169 harleyman2169 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    I would love for this to happen oddly enough. If anyone has encouraged their partner to do this and it happened, how did you do this. Please feel free to message me your ideas
    Jamie444 Jamie444 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 25

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    I miss her I miss her touch I miss her smile I miss her smell I miss her xxxxxxx
    MaunaLani13 MaunaLani13 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    I want my wife to wear revealing dresses as she is vey beautiful , 36b , 28 waist and 38 hips . I like when someone touches her in a party or gives attention to her . I want her...
    saagarkapoor saagarkapoor 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I absolutely do want to be a father. I wish I was a father already. I want a wife and kids to love
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 24