I Want to Decide My Gender Identity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 129 People


    I am totally confused, feel trapped. Why is there so much disparity in this society? Who made these rules? Who are we to decide what is right and what is wrong? Agreed that logic tips the scale on one side, but there are always exceptions.
    Coolgoose Coolgoose
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2008

    Why Are You Worried

    What ever makes you happy
    Flowersatlast Flowersatlast
    41-45, F
    Aug 19, 2012

    My Gender Identity

    It really is already decided, and was at about 2-3 years of age. This should say "confirming my gender" versus deciding.
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2009

    I Am Who I Am

    I knew from my earliest years my body wasn't right. The first time I "played" dress-up in my mother's clothes (panties, slip, dress, heels and jewelry) I was struck by the fact that now I'm me. That has never changed. Over the years with nylons and heels, bras, dresses...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    Jul 16, 2008

    At What Time Should We Be Considered Male Or Female

    At what point in our lives is a persons gender determined?What is that magic moment?Who is knowledgeable enough to decide? Is it like going through a line and being handed a present?I knew at an early age that there was just something was not right. As the years went by and I...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2012

    Im Out Now

    It took many years and many nights of wondering why i was different. i used to think it was just admiration of females. then my childhood memories started flooding back. I love dressing up in mums clothes and playing with dolls. i used to pretend i was the princess who needed...
    nat1982 nat1982
    3 Responses Nov 5, 2012

    My Gender

    i allways felt myself to be a transgendered person when i started to enjoy wearing my mothers stockings.today i am a card carrying crossdresser and sometimes i feel more feminine than the guy i was born as .maybe thats why i feel so feminine when i am all dressed up in my dress...
    phylisanne phylisanne
    70+, F
    1 Response May 15, 2008


    Ever since I was really little, I've said that I wanted to be a boy when I grew up.  My mom just took it in stride thinking it was "just a faze".  When I was in grade 8, I wrote a penpal letter stating to the girl writing me that I wanted to be a boy.  So my...
    Balentay Balentay
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2010


    im very confused im attracted to women  i love them but i also love cosemtics i.e liptick blush foundation etc i always had a desire to wear panties and recently i wanted boobs but im damn sure that im attracted to women ive always seen myself as a straight guy
    jugheadj jugheadj
    4 Responses Dec 12, 2008
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