I Want To Discuss Bdsm - Also Seen As Bd, Ds, Sm

I am a sub and have been with my Dom "hubs" for 14 years. He is the ONLY man who has held this role for me and I am the only woman he's ever Dommed as well. We "play" with a lot of the areas in this life style but we totally "live" a...

Has anyone read "Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely"? I spotted it a few days ago and wondered if it was a good read.  I am weird when it comes to books, I wait until someone has either given me...

I've been having some really interesting talks with a couple other subs and a few more asked me in pm's to try and describe how life with hubs.."works" for us.  They also asked how I deal with being a sub.  I've been procrastinating...

Masturbation within a scene, (or within the APE setup), as a form of humiliation.
For or against and why?

I am curious where everyone else stands on it.

I am for it. It has been a powerful training tool for me when I was trained to...

In my last story on hubs and my D/s times I told how we hold DoSo or Days of Silent observation.  This is where we both remain silent all day long and talk to each other thru gestures and expressions....I sometimes struggle with being...

We spend a lot time discussing the safety issues and erotic intensity of D/s and they are seriously important topics! You'll never see me say it isn't the most intense and amazing bond I have ever shared with another person but beyond...

Verbal Abuse

Often we call our partner "pumpkin", or "sweetie" however of you are into BDSM you may prefer "slut", "bitch" "whore" or slag", and for some this is a sexual turn on, and sex is fun, and naughty, and naughty is...

I spent the day yesterday with my mom. We spend a lot of time talking and we have dinners as a family, me and hubs my bro and his wife and my parents but me and mom have decided we need  to take some "just us time" now and then. 
It...

Restraints

Rope  You can buy many kinds and types of rope. You can buy special Bondage rope, designed for the purpose, which comes in different thicknesses and colours.
Me personally we use what in the UK is called "Sash...

Hubs got a letter this morning from a person who wanted to know when D/s entered our relationship. Now he was ALWAYS a very Dominant man in his own world....  I wasn't never a dominant sort of person but I wasn't at all submissive...

I have no experience in this area, but I would love to talk and learn about what I am interested in with a lady preferably.

I have always been a submissive woman, always.My first experience with Ds was online. i met a sadistic abuser who used me like a toy and target for his own sick ways with no thought about who i was as a person. I wised up and broke that...