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    Intelligent Submissives - This Is Where It's At!

    An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. She is a strong, independent, talented, capable woman in her own right, yet she hungers for a Dominant who can **** her mind long before he touches her body. She needs a man who can respect her as an...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Good Relationships And Bad Ones Http://sevdasub.blogspot.co.uk/2012/11/good-relationships-and-dangerous-ones.html

    So you decide to live a D/s lifestyle where do you go from here?Or maybe you have a partner who isn't into BDSM, or D/s, what do you do?Have you ever liked bondage, or slapping your partner, how do you do that? If one of you is into D/s, or S/M, what do you do?My advice : if...
    sevdaslaveandmaster sevdaslaveandmaster 41-45 Nov 12, 2012

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    Sado-masochism : Http://sevdasub.blogspot.co.uk/2012/11/sado-masochism.html

    You see sado-masochism in nearly every culture in their myths. You see people from out lifestyle in every culture thse who have the imagination to explore their seual and other desires. "Sex" is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow the one appetite to be...
    sevdaslaveandmaster sevdaslaveandmaster 41-45 Nov 6, 2012

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    Another Dom And Sub Perspective....the Lighter Side Maybe...

    I have been doing some heavy duty reading and learning on the vast diversity of folks who practice Bdsm and the many off shoot practices. Hubs and I have been having some great conversations about it and more then a few great conversations have passed thru my inbox here on ep...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 20 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    Where The Dom/sub Thing Started For Hubs And I....

    Hubs got a letter this morning from a person who wanted to know when D/s entered our relationship. Now he was ALWAYS a very Dominant man in his own world....  I wasn't never a dominant sort of person but I wasn't at all submissive with other people or men....So for me I had my...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 20 Responses Aug 22, 2012

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    Bdsm, Torture, Sex

    http://darkwolf40.blogspot.co.uk/2012/12/sex-torture-and-bondage.htmlClamps and ClipsThere are a variety of clams and clips to be bought from Sex Shops. If your slave is new to this kind of punishment five minutes can seem like an eternity: you need to exercise judgement, 15...
    sevdaslaveandmaster sevdaslaveandmaster 41-45 3 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Domestic Discipline And Bdsm

    http://sevdasub.blogspot.co.uk/2012/10/domestic-discipline-and-bdsm.htmlI my opinion :Domestic Discipline is based upon the traditional 1950's style marriage, with some facets which are which are similar to BDSM. It seems that most DD people incorporate a little bit of BDSM...
    sevdaslaveandmaster sevdaslaveandmaster 41-45 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    A Book Review Please...

    Has anyone read "Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely"? I spotted it a few days ago and wondered if it was a good read.  I am weird when it comes to books, I wait until someone has either given me, suggest I read a specific one, or can actually...
    SunniL SunniL 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2013

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    Links and Reading Material

    Links & Reading Material There is so much information out on the net that is BAD.  Then there are some absolutely informative and great sites.  I decided to share a few of them here.  Please comment if you find a bad link or what you think is a bad site or add a great site you...
    SunniL SunniL 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    Positive And Informative Networking Available For Beginners And The Curious.

    I am a sub and have been with my Dom "hubs" for 14 years. He is the ONLY man who has held this role for me and I am the only woman he's ever Dommed as well. We "play" with a lot of the areas in this life style but we totally "live" a lot of it too.  Are we EXPERTS? NO....only...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 24 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    Call It Like It Is

    My addition to this illustrious group is just a request: I ask that you call it like it is. What do I mean? *****STOP BEING A POSER!!!!!*****Whether you're a Dom/me or a sub, if you're a novice, don't imply that you are more experienced than you are.  Be new!  It's a fun and...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 18, 2012

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    Revisiting The Lighter Side Of D/s....

    I'm not masochistic and hubs isn't too sadistic where I'm concerned but we are a full time D/s combo. We have just found the side to it where I don't end up broken, cut or psychologically wounded and he enjoys being in control of somebody who offers him a lil bit of a challenge...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 17 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    The Learning Side Of D/s...the Power Of Silence.

    We spend a lot time discussing the safety issues and erotic intensity of D/s and they are seriously important topics! You'll never see me say it isn't the most intense and amazing bond I have ever shared with another person but beyond being a sexy way to live it has also been...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 18 Responses Jan 3, 2013

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    I Found A Real Dom/Lover/Bf/Soulmate/Partner This Time

    I have always been a submissive woman, always.My first experience with Ds was online. i met a sadistic abuser who used me like a toy and target for his own sick ways with no thought about who i was as a person. I wised up and broke that connection but still being young and dumb i...
    Tammykinz Tammykinz 22-25, F 11 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    My Training Begins

    i was introduced to the idea of BDSM at a young age. the idea stuck with me because i have always been such a submissive girl. i hope this is an acceptable group to tell my story in. in the past few years i have read and responded to requests by Doms who were looking for a sub to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    True Scary Story

    I have a story to share…John E. Robinson. The name may or may not ring a bell, but in a few moments you will not likely forget him.Who was he? Well, he was a lot of things, including an entrepreneur and Eagle Scout but the aspect of him that is relevant to this write up is that...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 19 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    Restraints : Ww.sevdasub.blogspot.com

    Restraints Rope  You can buy many kinds and types of rope. You can buy special Bondage rope, designed for the purpose, which comes in different thicknesses and colours. Me personally we use what in the UK is called "Sash Cord" available in all good DIY stores. I...
    sevdaslaveandmaster sevdaslaveandmaster 41-45 1 Response Jan 9, 2013

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    A Question If I May

    Say i am in a group setting out some wheres,or even here.What is the proper way as a submissive to address others? Thank You in advance!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 6 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    Bdsmbislaverobpeters@hotmail.com Into Bdsm Online

    slaverobpeters on skype cam i have msn cam and yahoo to under different nicks. my online info for you. MY INFO HERE IN TWO PARTS {1] cam on msn with bdsmbislaverobpeters@hotmail.com, i cam on yahoo with robbdsm@rocketmail.com, skype cam is slaverobpeters. bdsmbislaverobpeters...
    bislaverob bislaverob 61-65, M Aug 1, 2012

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    Question For All Who Would Like To Answer.

    ************ within a scene, (or within the APE setup), as a form of humiliation. For or against and why? I am curious where everyone else stands on it. I am for it. It has been a powerful training tool for me when I was trained to be a submissive and when I trained...
    Julip Julip 51-55, F 2 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    I Want To!

    I have no experience in this area, but I would love to talk and learn about what I am interested in with a lady preferably.
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M Mar 26, 2013

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    Where Do I Start?

    Im open to new things but where do I begin? I dont know what to.ask or who to ask. All I know is my curiousity is getting the best of me. I know that its not just about sex but im very passionate about sex anyways so I want to know everthing I possibly can. Pleas feel free to...
    Pinness84 Pinness84 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    Mythbusting!

    This is another post I am copying/pasting from my blog/group:Breaking Down Myth from Fact By EP User: SunniLDisclaimer & Preface: This is Adult Only Content.Be respectful, do not reprint or publish any information contained within this entry without my permission.       My...
    SunniL SunniL 46-50, F 8 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    Is A High Sex Drive Essential For Subs/slaves And Masters?

    This is dedicated to the Dom called smartmaster.     In my opinion, a high sex drive is not essential as BDSM is about a lot more than sex.    Most BDSM which includes pain, humiliation etc is about the build up before the sexual act and it's resultant...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 10, 2012

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    Here To Learn

    i thank You all.i am only here to learn.What have i learned?That i have a lot to learn,and this seems a good place to do that.
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    Personal Psychology...

    I've been having some really interesting talks with a couple other subs and a few more asked me in pm's to try and describe how life with hubs.."works" for us.  They also asked how I deal with being a sub.  I've been procrastinating on answering these questions cause we...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 24 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    I Crave This! All The Darn Time!

    In my last story on hubs and my D/s times I told how we hold DoSo or Days of Silent observation.  This is where we both remain silent all day long and talk to each other thru gestures and expressions....I sometimes struggle with being quiet all darn day.....But this past Sunday...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 20 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    What Is BDSM?

    I started this group to get away from the groups that have a lot of discussion happening about "Taken In Hand" Relationships. Since they do not associate themselves as part of the BDSM Community, I wanted a place that was TIH and DD free essentially.  This was not to be annoying...
    SunniL SunniL 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    My Avatar

    I have had several questions about what my avatar is. It is the symbol for the BDSM lifestyle. Here is a little explanation i found online. It describes it pretty well: The BDSM emblem has no "obvious" symbolism because it was created to be enigmatic. To the vanilla observer who...
    hotandcuddly hotandcuddly 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    Dom-speak

    ///CAVEAT///Subs, slaves and the like: feel free to kvetch and complain on this posting.  It's why I wrote the story.Do you ever get sick of the Dom-speak?  When a Dom asks you a question, but it's a leading question -- there's only one right answer? How about when they ask...
    TrustIsEarned TrustIsEarned 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    Humiliation Mindfuck Http://Sevdasub.Blogspot.Co.Uk/2013/02/Humiliation-Mindfuck.Html

     Verbal Abuse Often we call our partner "pumpkin", or "sweetie" however of you are into BDSM you may prefer "****", "*****" "*****" or slag", and for some this is a sexual turn on, and sex is fun, and naughty, and naughty is good! So in other words, verbal...
    sevdaslaveandmaster sevdaslaveandmaster 41-45 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Safety, Sanity & Players

    Safety is paramount when embarking on a D/s relationship. Physical safety is usually obvious, but psychological safety is often overlooked.   I have had several conversations recently with various Doms (combined experience over 50 + years) and we’ve had some in depth...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Words And Thoughts To Live By.....

    I spent the day yesterday with my mom. We spend a lot of time talking and we have dinners as a family, me and hubs my bro and his wife and my parents but me and mom have decided we need  to take some "just us time" now and then.  It gives us a chance to talk about things we...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 20 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Roleplaying And Other Kinky Fun Times!! We Practice The

    Hubs and I are always looking for new ways to spice up our fun. One of the coolest fun things we do is role playing!!  He is always the one who tells me what we're going to be doing.  We tried do the whole "switch" routine a couple times but I sort of suck at Being a Domme and...
    sierra33 sierra33 31-35, F 25 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    1. I'm 16 2. I live in the UK 3. I still live in the city I was born in 4. I'm half English and half Scottish 5. I have a pet rabbit 6 . I play Pokemon 7. Avril Lavigne is my...
    Rayquaza76x Rayquaza76x 16-17, F Aug 4

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    i started loving my bf accidentally when i ws tryng to get rid off an childhood fren/classmate who had crush on me n ws spreading rumours everywhere tat no 1 shd look at me cz im...
    givemedeath givemedeath 18-21, F Aug 9

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    A lot of people dislike "Gamer Girls", basically the posers of the video game world. There are many legitimate female gamers though and I want to figure out which category I fall...
    piecestothepuzzles piecestothepuzzles 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 11

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    I have not missing as much weight as I might have liked, but that is my very own fault for "cheating" to the proposed approach. I are already steadily loosing weight Despite the...
    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am not here to play games on you and make you wonder who i am impersonating or who else so like me i could be that person too. Whatever so this other person is like me, so think...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Currently I'm playing only PS3 games with my boyfriend and his friends. We do A LOT of Call of Duty Ghost, mainly the Reinforce game type. We're also playing Borderlands 2, to...
    HillyHana HillyHana 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I was dreading collecting my grade results as my stepdad told me not to open the letter and bring it home straight to him to read. when I gave him the letter he told me to wait...
    tony2014 tony2014 13-15, M Aug 16

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    Starting his occupation path in finance, Sean has labored for big banking and broking companies. By using a organic flair for marriage administration he transitioned to recruitment...
    Noelict Noelict 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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      EEG is just not something that has arrive up.  Our paediatrician does worth neuropsychological screening on the other hand.  We had neuropsych screening performed and it...
    Tysonlk318 Tysonlk318 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    This is the edited version........ Kitty's Tale Pt 1 Kitty sneaked through the house, mom and dad were out at a neighbors house for BBQ, she was safe knowing she was alone to...
    1LikeMind 1LikeMind 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 3

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    Nothing major usually just computer games or stuff that i can play on my iphone or ipod. My ex was big on console games, He had the ps2 when we were together and I would play one...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F Aug 4

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    Im defiantly not like others my age. I don't act like them or talk like them I dont even look my age, I do things most people my age don't do anymore i pretty much still act like...
    TargetAimShootKill TargetAimShootKill 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Eeeeep! He called me last night and we got to talk for 4 minutes. He said his DS is really cool, so that makes me happy. And today I got another bundle of letters and he said he...
    bayleejoelle bayleejoelle 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    What are fake gamers what is your definition of a fake gamer shall I look it up will I see your face in the book for hating for the us females who love video games ever since...
    Xxchristinx18 Xxchristinx18 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I have a friend named Alli. I've known her since sixth grade and all throughout high school I always would poke her side or her tummy and she would let out this little squeak that...
    Tickleseeker Tickleseeker 18-21, M 5 days ago

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