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I Want to End My Miserable Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 12 People

    Same Old Pattern - He Ignore's Me - Contront Him And We Fight - He Acts Like Nothing's Wrong - Ignores Me

    I've been married to my husband for almost 20 years now. We have 3 grown children who are set to move out in the next few months. He ignores me completely. When I try to 'talk' about our zero communication problem and that it isn't normal for him to be on his phone all day...
    CupcakeCandi CupcakeCandi 41-45 Nov 23, 2012

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    Confuse Marriage

    I want to end my marriage.  I was becoming an oldmaid, alone, parents died. Although I have relatives, but I feel alone and tired of working since I left school. In short I though I found mr  right from internet and marriaed an American man. I sold my flat which give me...
    eyesore2010 eyesore2010 41-45, F Jan 2, 2010

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    I'm Ready To Leave My Husband

    After 20yrs I'm ready to leave. I'm tired of the text messaging from other woman, ****, his put downs. I'm finally ready to walk alone in life. How do I make this smooth for my 2 kids? I can careless if I ever talk to their father again I just want this over ASAP. He belittles...
    FinallyWalkingAlone FinallyWalkingAlone 31-35 Apr 6, 2012

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    I Am Ending My Marriage...

    I met my husband online and we got to know each other through chats for 6 months, then we became bf and gf. Since he cannot travel. I went to him finally to meet him for the first time in person. We had such a lovely one month and it made us so happy and so sure that we were...
    ange2012 ange2012 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    When Is Enough Enough?

    I am so torn. My husband and I have just shared our 7th anniversary. He was my friend for a long time before we got together, i never saw us a a viable couple, we were so different, he was very laid back, not at all structured a bit lazy, wanted to do things his own way and not...
    Miraclebeauty Miraclebeauty 31-35 Jun 14, 2012

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    Not Sure Think I May Need To End My Marriage....advise Please!

    I have been married for close to 16 yrs now and am thinking about ending my marriage! So much has happened over the 16yrs of my marriage, I'm not sure how much more I can take. We got married very young and have 3 wonderful children together. In the begining of the marriage we...
    sweet1011 sweet1011 36-40 May 5, 2012

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    Married and Tired of Feeling This Way!

    Everybody grab a snack this is going to take awhile! Once upon a time I was in a beautiful marriage, with a man who treated me like a queen.  I was strong, independent, goal oriented, happy, and knew I had found my prince charming.  Now, fast forward 15 years.  My...
    crazytrain crazytrain 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    Marty and I had not been getting along to well last week. Probably because our granddaughter has been staying with us this week so I missed maintenance and figured I could get by...
    Martys4ever Martys4ever 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 15

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    I used to be really clingy but it suffocated people around me and they end up leaving. I guess that's one of the reason I became a little detached today. I've seen too many of...
    limfx limfx 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    So my h. and me had a good chat about us. I can't lie, so I told him everything what bothers me. We talked often about us, but now we finally decided to separate. We both are...
    E0os E0os 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    ...Thoughts seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn't exist at all. A message or two helps to get you through a...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 2 hrs ago

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    These things may have many things in common and many differences, but I have to agree that these beautiful things have a similar end. It may end as "Happily Ever After" but what...
    sunlight61 sunlight61 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    It's a shame marriage is looked down on and viewed in this way, any relationship is a risk and many end in divorce but for me, being married is something I have always wanted. It...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I have never been married, but I do know if relationship does finally end it will most likely happen at the worst time. When you are already married, that's why I don't want to get...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 13

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    When I met my wife she had an almost insatiable sexual apatite. But, she was a full blown out of control alcoholic. The day before she went into rehab, she was hospitalized for...
    Ivithos Ivithos 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    So my lover says she can't be the "shadow woman" anymore, but WOW did we ever create some seriously amazing memories in 4 1/2 months of finally seeing each other after nearly 2...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Married 25 years with three kids (25, 23, 21). I have been living in a sexless marriage (meaning zero sex) for the past 6 years, touchless (meaning zero touch) for the past 3 years...
    acceptingmediocrity acceptingmediocrity 56-60, M 8 Responses Mar 9

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    When I was single, I paid a lot of attention to the complaints guys had about their girlfriends. There seemed to be lots of issues with jealousy, restrictions, controlling behavior...
    BSEvenson BSEvenson 41-45, F Mar 10

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    The first time I ever heard of les misérables I thought it was kinda dumb i was 7 and my parents forced me to it and after was over I have loved les misérables for a decade My...
    smitlord smitlord 16-17, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    There's a member that posted a story on marriage, loss of intimacy and love and divorce. In the end the husband realizes how he neglected his wife, how much he still loves her and...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F Mar 3

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    I was with a married man for a year and a half, and for the majority of that he lived alone during the week. From 10/12-10/14 he lived 3 hours away from the city his family and I...
    inaraserra inaraserra 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I feel like I'm in a rare and special situation. I would love to know if anyone else is too - I feel very alone in this. When I was 18 I moved out and landed a very lucky position...
    seekingafrica seekingafrica 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I've been thinking of lots of things recently, and it made me miserable. I got annoyed easily, bad temper, insomnia, bad appetites, and sometimes nightmares. I've tried many ways...
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    My wife and I had a good talk today. She told me one of her friends is getting divorced, largely due to her (female) friend's infidelity towards their husband. Their marriage is...
    onlymortal onlymortal 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 15

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    So i met this guy Lumi on internet And i thought he was the one i mean we talked tk each other 24/7 , i really thought i knew him , we liked the same things and shared the same...
    Lellaa Lellaa 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Rejection.... I fear it so it comes into my life.... I attract it,... I hate that I do this.... I'm insane.... My most blaring area of rejection in my life right now is within the...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 2

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    I will do this this world is **** we are lazy and selfish society I'm done doing what society says is normal I'm done I'm finally going to do what I want to do be free what I will...
    lonewolf1349 lonewolf1349 26-30, M Mar 4

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    Having a huge panic attack and feeling like giving up once again. People think it's nothing, even I try to tell myself I can get over it but I can't right now. I'm exhausted from...
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Mar 8

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    Just turned 25. Spent almost 10 years of my life in a field of work that I ended up absolutely hating. Lost my job a few months ago and haven't really been able to bounce back. I...
    melanist melanist 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 8

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    The idea of waiting till marriage always seemed perfect to me. But I knew that it would probably never happen that way. My boyfriend and I will be together for 4 years next month...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 17

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    Once upon a time, I came out. Nobody cared. Everyone was cool with gays and lesbians... Nobody was surprised even in elementary school. I got older though, no it wasn't a phase but...
    LionLady1 LionLady1 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I saw this group and then saw another one entitled: 'I Married and Want to Have An Affair'.If a marriage isn't working, then get out no matter how inconvenient it might be - i.e...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My goal this year is to be a better version of myself. Attitude wise, I tend to be get angry sometimes and take it out on the people I care about. And I'm realizing that isn't...
    misslx92 misslx92 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Had an affair with a man at work that I had been good friends with for years. He told me he was unhappy in his marriage. I feel in love with him quickly I always had feelings for...
    libby59 libby59 46-50 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am 33 yo and have been obese my whole life. I would never take my shirt off in front of other people. I was miserable... In the past few months I joined an at-home work out...
    beyondthethought beyondthethought 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 5

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    Almost all of my friends are convinced that I'm okay and that I'm happy with everything in my life. It's really hard for me to look into my best friend's eyes and confess...
    theultimatesashacourtney theultimatesashacourtney 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    People constantly complains about their lives and how ******* miserable they are. And that, my friend, makes me cringe. It depends upon you if you're going to make your life look...
    xoloveshin xoloveshin 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Roy Moore calls for 'Biblical marriage' at Texas rally AUSTIN, Texas — About 250 people gathered Monday afternoon at the Texas Capitol to rally in support of what they call...
    FindMeIAmYours FindMeIAmYours 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't believe that I need a legal marriage to solidify the way I feel about someone. I feel that just being together and living in the moment should be enough on both sides. If I...
    poodahpop poodahpop 18-21, T 2 Responses