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I Want to End My Miserable Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 13 People

    When Is Enough Enough?

    I am so torn. My husband and I have just shared our 7th anniversary. He was my friend for a long time before we got together, i never saw us a a viable couple, we were so different, he was very laid back, not at all structured a bit lazy, wanted to do things his own way and not...
    Miraclebeauty Miraclebeauty 31-35 Jun 14, 2012

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    I Am Ending My Marriage...

    I met my husband online and we got to know each other through chats for 6 months, then we became bf and gf. Since he cannot travel. I went to him finally to meet him for the first time in person. We had such a lovely one month and it made us so happy and so sure that we were...
    ange2012 ange2012 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Married and Tired of Feeling This Way!

    Everybody grab a snack this is going to take awhile! Once upon a time I was in a beautiful marriage, with a man who treated me like a queen.  I was strong, independent, goal oriented, happy, and knew I had found my prince charming.  Now, fast forward 15 years.  My...
    crazytrain crazytrain 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    Confuse Marriage

    I want to end my marriage.  I was becoming an oldmaid, alone, parents died. Although I have relatives, but I feel alone and tired of working since I left school. In short I though I found mr  right from internet and marriaed an American man. I sold my flat which give me...
    eyesore2010 eyesore2010 41-45, F Jan 2, 2010

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    Same Old Pattern - He Ignore's Me - Contront Him And We Fight - He Acts Like Nothing's Wrong - Ignores Me

    I've been married to my husband for almost 20 years now. We have 3 grown children who are set to move out in the next few months. He ignores me completely. When I try to 'talk' about our zero communication problem and that it isn't normal for him to be on his phone all day...
    CupcakeCandi CupcakeCandi 41-45 Nov 23, 2012

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    Not Sure Think I May Need To End My Marriage....advise Please!

    I have been married for close to 16 yrs now and am thinking about ending my marriage! So much has happened over the 16yrs of my marriage, I'm not sure how much more I can take. We got married very young and have 3 wonderful children together. In the begining of the marriage we...
    sweet1011 sweet1011 36-40 May 5, 2012

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    I'm Ready To Leave My Husband

    After 20yrs I'm ready to leave. I'm tired of the text messaging from other woman, ****, his put downs. I'm finally ready to walk alone in life. How do I make this smooth for my 2 kids? I can careless if I ever talk to their father again I just want this over ASAP. He belittles...
    FinallyWalkingAlone FinallyWalkingAlone 31-35 Apr 6, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    My wife and I have been together for 20 years. We are both in our late 30s and have talked for years about have experiences with other people. We are happy, have plenty of sex...
    Ledjamm Ledjamm 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    Nope I am not. Took me too long to get up the gumption to leave a miserable marriage and I no longer wish to be around those who cannot or refuse to give anything in return. I am a...
    justmerae1 justmerae1 46-50, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I need to end my marriage to a man w AS. Talking to him hasn't worked, he ignores me. He's passive aggressive I hate leaving a note but I'm truly afraid of his anger. It's...
    starfate starfate 61-65, F Apr 30

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    When I talked to him about getting a divorce, he pleaded with me to reconsider. So I've found myself thinking of reasons not to end our marriage and it is really hard. And his...
    KhallMiAutumn KhallMiAutumn 31-35, F 1 Response May 17

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    My husband has cheated on me! He wants an open marriage, but swinger style. Last week he told me that it would turn him on if I cheated on him with another man. Well, recently I...
    Blueeyedbaker Blueeyedbaker 26-30, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I admit this without it lingering over my head but I just wanted to share a thought with some fellow EPers my age and older even those close to my age that actually "know" what I...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Klara Balogova was 18, penniless and heavily pregnant when she rode thousands of miles from Slovakia to England to marry a man she had never met. She knew he did not want her, or...
    valha11a valha11a 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I am at a point in my marriage where I am bored and very unhappy... we have a son together and I don't want to cheat or divorce but I don't have any options anymore. we want...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29

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    I lost my talent. It was misery. I was an expert in misery, writing to strangers worldwide giving advice and flawlessly understanding their situations and what they could do about...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M May 5

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    This happened probably 11 or so years ago and still makes me cringe. I had been 20 to 30 pounds overweight for five years or so. After ending my relationship with my youngest...
    terrishaun terrishaun 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Very hard to write something on here for the first time, but I'll say that reading other people's experiences has made me confident enough to admit to myself (and here) that I've...
    silverdarling silverdarling 46-50, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I heard a song Sunday night on the radio and I really liked it. Typically, when I hear a song on the radio that I like, I will take note of the radio station and the time - down to...
    Jugemu Jugemu 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I experience deep sadness every time I think of how miserable and sad my marriage has become.
    sadsoul1975 sadsoul1975 36-40, M 2 Responses May 6

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    I want to say this to you. Maybe by some miracle I will get the chance. I truly think I will.. Don't let fear control you anymore. Stop letting the negative people poison your mind...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I'm so tired of waking up every morning to my husband screaming at me. He tells me that I've ruined his life, that he hates me, and that I've been plotting to make him miserable...
    GumboChick GumboChick 31-35, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I am so unhappy. There is no love between my husband and I. He insults me even in front of others. We do not enjoy any of the same activities. We rarely spend time together. We...
    holeforheart holeforheart 31-35, F 3 Responses May 3

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    Hi Folks, I'm new here, but it seems like the appropriate group to post in because for the past month our marriage has become a kind of sexless desert. It's all because of some sex...
    NaiveSusan NaiveSusan 18-21, F 8 Responses May 13

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    I identify with a scene in The Truman Show, the one were he cries out in desperation: “Was nothing real?’ Nothing in his life was real, not his parents, his dad’s death, his...
    justmerae1 justmerae1 46-50, F 2 Responses May 16

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    and i always end up with older guys who treat me right and kind but cant be with me because i was born too late
    Gina1993 Gina1993 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    This ocean's waves traveled east, it's dawn. My life thus experiencing change, but its spirit is calm. These feet endureth novice pain, though not ceased. Traveling in this...
    NaomiSoulJourney NaomiSoulJourney 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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    Tired of mind games, of unanswered phone calls and running in circles. The chase never stops because no one catches no one yet both hearts break, shame if only one does. The...
    omgkris56 omgkris56 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    i would not want it any other way!!! i recently found this on-line a few years ago. It is a great list of ideas on ways to submit to your Husabnd. i found this list giving me new...
    goodgirl456 goodgirl456 31-35, F 5 Responses May 7

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    As I said I was the controller in my marriage, The operational word in this sentence is "was". Now everything is out of my control and my husband is ruling everything with an iron...
    isis55 isis55 51-55, F May 9

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    My husband and I have been married for 7 months and a few months ago he brought up that I've been spending a lot of time at my job and I'm a musician and I travel sometimes and...
    skailor skailor 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    Still Looking for a refund… It’s been three years since my last post on this topic. So as a bottom line update, things have not gotten really better. Mostly we are just...
    Goinpublic Goinpublic 31-35, M 1 Response May 17

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    To be honest the thought of this really turns me on. We are all going to die one day, I could be slim and fit and die in a car crash, so why not follow my passions for food and fat...
    fatslaveboy fatslaveboy 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I've been needing to say this out loud for a long time now and I have never had anyone to talk to. I can't even talk to my best friend about it. I met my husband when I was 17...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 4

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    My boyfriend and I moved in with one of his friends a few months ago to a two bedroom apartment. Everything was fine for a while, but slowly he became the most irritating person in...
    sledfordd sledfordd 22-25, F May 2

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    Gonna rant a bit.... To all the "men" out there that are mad because I won't private message them... Sir is not too strict!!! I am His and He doesn't want anyone talking...
    JoshsSubmissive JoshsSubmissive 26-30, F 8 Responses May 12

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    I know I'm a guy and it's supposed to be the girls who get all giddy over marriage but I'm so excited for whenever it happens. marriage is a beautiful thing. let's hope it doesn't...
    samstheman9 samstheman9 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Why do some people make it their mission to cause trouble where there is none... Is it that they’re miserable and don’t like seeing others happy?? Is that it? What joy...
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 29

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    It was a Tuesday, I think…maybe a Thursday I can’t remember. At the time, I was content with where I was in life. Single…healthy, happy, no debt, free to live life as I chose...
    1StateAway 1StateAway 36-40, M 4 Responses May 5

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    I've been married for almost seven years now, together for closer to ten. We have two wonderful children, both of which are loved. I feel like I should be happy in my marriage...
    enjoymentofquiet enjoymentofquiet 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Marceline and Princess Bubblegum are known to be a lesbian couple in Adventure Time. It enrages me to no end knowing that there can never be a full episode that comes out and...
    ZombieMcChrist ZombieMcChrist 26-30, F May 2

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