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I Want to End My Miserable Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 12 People

    Not Sure Think I May Need To End My Marriage....advise Please!

    I have been married for close to 16 yrs now and am thinking about ending my marriage! So much has happened over the 16yrs of my marriage, I'm not sure how much more I can take. We got married very young and have 3 wonderful children together. In the begining of the marriage we...
    sweet1011 sweet1011 36-40 May 5, 2012

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    Same Old Pattern - He Ignore's Me - Contront Him And We Fight - He Acts Like Nothing's Wrong - Ignores Me

    I've been married to my husband for almost 20 years now. We have 3 grown children who are set to move out in the next few months. He ignores me completely. When I try to 'talk' about our zero communication problem and that it isn't normal for him to be on his phone all day...
    CupcakeCandi CupcakeCandi 41-45 Nov 23, 2012

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    Confuse Marriage

    I want to end my marriage.  I was becoming an oldmaid, alone, parents died. Although I have relatives, but I feel alone and tired of working since I left school. In short I though I found mr  right from internet and marriaed an American man. I sold my flat which give me...
    eyesore2010 eyesore2010 41-45, F Jan 2, 2010

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    Married and Tired of Feeling This Way!

    Everybody grab a snack this is going to take awhile! Once upon a time I was in a beautiful marriage, with a man who treated me like a queen.  I was strong, independent, goal oriented, happy, and knew I had found my prince charming.  Now, fast forward 15 years.  My...
    crazytrain crazytrain 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    When Is Enough Enough?

    I am so torn. My husband and I have just shared our 7th anniversary. He was my friend for a long time before we got together, i never saw us a a viable couple, we were so different, he was very laid back, not at all structured a bit lazy, wanted to do things his own way and not...
    Miraclebeauty Miraclebeauty 31-35 Jun 14, 2012

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    I'm Ready To Leave My Husband

    After 20yrs I'm ready to leave. I'm tired of the text messaging from other woman, ****, his put downs. I'm finally ready to walk alone in life. How do I make this smooth for my 2 kids? I can careless if I ever talk to their father again I just want this over ASAP. He belittles...
    FinallyWalkingAlone FinallyWalkingAlone 31-35 Apr 6, 2012

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    I Am Ending My Marriage...

    I met my husband online and we got to know each other through chats for 6 months, then we became bf and gf. Since he cannot travel. I went to him finally to meet him for the first time in person. We had such a lovely one month and it made us so happy and so sure that we were...
    ange2012 ange2012 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    If I commit to someone again, I want a healthy relationship that meets both of our needs. My second marriage will not compromise my needs. I won't settle this time. There are...
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    This morning he calls me and everything's just fine. I'm "dear" again apparently. lol This marriage is one epic mindfuck. lol
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 43 mins ago

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    I am not in a troubled marriage. I am now in my second marriage. My first marriage lasted 21 years. My wife was confined to a wheelchair due to disability. We had three children...
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    After long term relationship with my former boyfriend, I think I will enjoy my single life until I am ready again in few years. Things happen when you didn't expect , I know...
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    I am becoming a person that I hate,I am so mad when I see other people happy,I hate happy ending movies,seeing other undeserving people getting the best in life,Why can I just die...
    Siexybreaker Siexybreaker 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 18

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    staygoldenbaby staygoldenbaby 16-17, F Jan 22

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    I am married five years but started to feel like something was missing in my life. Passion was lacking in my marriage and my career. I met "John" and we immediately clicked. I...
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    Hi, I no longer can handle the way I live, but it's very difficult to break a family. We have been married for 10 years, son is 9 yo. My husband is older and has very low sex...
    ttzz ttzz 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm trying so hard to end this in a way where we don't end up hating each other. After everything we've been through, and how close we were, it's the only respectable way. Katie, I...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Jan 10

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    Hi guys, I'm looking for some honest feed back help and or opinions, I have been with my now wife for 10 years and the last 5 or so have been a roller-coaster (I know all marriage...
    gillgra86 gillgra86 26-30, M Jan 7

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    maybe against would be a strong word, but i dont agree with force arranged marriage. what i feel more painful however is the fact that... for children who love their parents, they...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    For over 20 years I lived a life with very little sex. The times we did have it were mostly initiated by me. After many years of this it really messes with a person's psyche...
    sundancesoul sundancesoul 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKKK I HATE MY WIFE!!!! Wow, that feels better. What a deceitful, hurtful, miserable thing I got attached to.
    sparksearcher sparksearcher 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    I never knew I'd say this but starting November I never knew how I wasted my life so much. Things happened already at the end I am proud to say that atleast it's near the end of...
    SaarahCarisse SaarahCarisse 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

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    I am so alone. I have been with my wife for almost 2 years and married for only 4 months. The first month after marriage was fine. sex at least 3-4 times a week. But shortly after...
    masterdriver1313 masterdriver1313 31-35, M 10 Responses Jan 6

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    Facing marriage, people have different ideas about the contrast between love and money. However, I prefer love to money, if I have the choice. Firstly, as a matter of fact, love...
    rosafiermonte rosafiermonte 26-30, F Jan 14

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    The words marriage and engagement still depress me; make me feel disgusted somehow… Yes, disgusted! For different reasons which I may freely share here some time in the future...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have what I need to end my life....but anytime I try to justify what I'm doing, the only answers I'm given are,"you are so loved and you are worth this life" or "think of all the...
    diabeticHailey diabeticHailey 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 10

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    "Paradise By The Dashboard Light" I remember every little thing As if it happened only yesterday Parking by the lake And there was not another car in sight And I never had a girl...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    One year outWhen I first met my husband I splattered him with love, dunked him in it, wrapped myself around him and tried to infuse him with it. It shone brightly enough that a...
    TheOneWhoComesAndGoes TheOneWhoComesAndGoes 41-45, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    A wise woman once said "**** this ****" then I lived happily ever after. The End
    ThePinkPowerRanger ThePinkPowerRanger 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    I know this has probably been posted many times before but honestly all i do during the day is sit in my room i have anxiety depression i think bipolar and my life doesnt make much...
    Pedroman75 Pedroman75 13-15, M 18 mins ago

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    The family that I used to have liked to see me suffer and be miserable.. Back years ago when I had a job where I worked 55+ hours a week and made NO money, they was telling me how...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M Jan 5

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    Well it has finally come. The day where my conscience has finally caught up with me. I am surprised it took so long, because generally I am very conscious about my actions and how...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 10

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    Hello.Im a 29 year old male and have been in a sexless marriage/ for 2 years now.We have 2 small children in a 14 month period but the issues actually began maybe a year before...
    brent54 brent54 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 12

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    The Troubling Subject Most all of my 35 years, I've known deep down what I needed. I was going through my divorce before I could verbalize it, and now, 3 1/2 years after my...
    Sweetphoenix35 Sweetphoenix35 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    Well I'm not going I say never but as of right now I don't feel like i need to get married in the future. Look I'm not in a serious relationship, do I want to be yes. I want to be...
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