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I Want to End My Miserable Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 12 People

    Not Sure Think I May Need To End My Marriage....advise Please!

    I have been married for close to 16 yrs now and am thinking about ending my marriage! So much has happened over the 16yrs of my marriage, I'm not sure how much more I can take. We got married very young and have 3 wonderful children together. In the begining of the marriage we...
    sweet1011 sweet1011 36-40 May 5, 2012

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    Married and Tired of Feeling This Way!

    Everybody grab a snack this is going to take awhile! Once upon a time I was in a beautiful marriage, with a man who treated me like a queen.  I was strong, independent, goal oriented, happy, and knew I had found my prince charming.  Now, fast forward 15 years.  My...
    crazytrain crazytrain 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    I'm Ready To Leave My Husband

    After 20yrs I'm ready to leave. I'm tired of the text messaging from other woman, ****, his put downs. I'm finally ready to walk alone in life. How do I make this smooth for my 2 kids? I can careless if I ever talk to their father again I just want this over ASAP. He belittles...
    FinallyWalkingAlone FinallyWalkingAlone 31-35 Apr 6, 2012

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    Confuse Marriage

    I want to end my marriage.  I was becoming an oldmaid, alone, parents died. Although I have relatives, but I feel alone and tired of working since I left school. In short I though I found mr  right from internet and marriaed an American man. I sold my flat which give me...
    eyesore2010 eyesore2010 41-45, F Jan 2, 2010

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    When Is Enough Enough?

    I am so torn. My husband and I have just shared our 7th anniversary. He was my friend for a long time before we got together, i never saw us a a viable couple, we were so different, he was very laid back, not at all structured a bit lazy, wanted to do things his own way and not...
    Miraclebeauty Miraclebeauty 31-35 Jun 14, 2012

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    I Am Ending My Marriage...

    I met my husband online and we got to know each other through chats for 6 months, then we became bf and gf. Since he cannot travel. I went to him finally to meet him for the first time in person. We had such a lovely one month and it made us so happy and so sure that we were...
    ange2012 ange2012 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Same Old Pattern - He Ignore's Me - Contront Him And We Fight - He Acts Like Nothing's Wrong - Ignores Me

    I've been married to my husband for almost 20 years now. We have 3 grown children who are set to move out in the next few months. He ignores me completely. When I try to 'talk' about our zero communication problem and that it isn't normal for him to be on his phone all day...
    CupcakeCandi CupcakeCandi 41-45 Nov 23, 2012

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    Well tomorrow I put a end to my 17 year marriage. I am going to sign papers so they can serve my soon to be x husband so why do I feel as if I am dead inside why do I feel like...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    You can only TRY so much. I offered counseling, I tried spice (not the smokey stuff) I shook him a few times. I jumped on the bed and yelled earthquake (yes I did)...here's the...
    OrchidsNuBlu OrchidsNuBlu 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I've been married for 6 1/2 years. 3 months ago my husband had to confess to cheating because he tested positive for chlamydia. I was devastated. I couldn't believe it. Throughout...
    Kylamama518 Kylamama518 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend tells me of his past,it worries me. He been married with kids and ha an affair behind his wife's back twice. He ended up ending their marriage and then he met me. He...
    sarah696969 sarah696969 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Hello! I am hoping some men AND women with experience, would be able to give me their view on this situation! My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2.5 years, we live in...
    InstaMom InstaMom 22-25 6 days ago

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    No. Just no. That is not the kind of person I want to be. Marriage isn't perfect, but my husband and I are perfect for each other. I don't want to have the mess and heartache that...
    1forHIM 1forHIM 22-25, F Feb 4

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    So we are down to about once a month. There are lots of reasons why. Al of which logically seem ok. Still breastfeeding, but she wants to stop. Has wanted to stop with our...
    Alohaguy Alohaguy 36-40, M 1 hr ago

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    Life Lessons - by Jason Wachob 1. "You can't connect the dots going forward; you can only connect them looking backward." Steve Jobs was right on the money with this one. There...
    imurfriend imurfriend 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I feel like since he doesn't even sleep with me, I should never be talked down to. He should be 100% kind to me. I feel so intolerant. I'm wishing I was not in a...
    caddriss caddriss 36-40, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    So...my alcoholic husband is raging again. How on earth did I end up in this hell? My own choices. I am as mad at myself as I am him. He's mentally ill...the type that have no...
    Lonely2222 Lonely2222 51-55, F 9 Responses Feb 17

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    So my marriage is over and in a week time my husband will be gone back to his comfort zone his parents. I am sad because he's failed miserable as a husband. Yes they are two sides...
    Unsatisfiedwoman74 Unsatisfiedwoman74 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I am so lonely. It is so sad that I am such a young bride and just recently got married, and I am already so sad. My husband doesn't want me to work, doesn't like when I go out...
    mrstsanders mrstsanders 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The more I think about animals and get close to animals (not just cats & dogs... ALL animals), the more depressed I become that no one else cares that the "meat" they are eating...
    Lebbyluna Lebbyluna 18-21 1 Response Feb 18

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    It's not that I don't love my wife and son. I can't imagine my life without them. I still feel very confined, however, by the social and legal pressures that come with having a...
    onlymortal onlymortal 26-30, M Jan 31

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    And the truth is... I never wanted it to end.
    LendMeSomeFreshAir LendMeSomeFreshAir 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I kind of regret getting married. *The crazy thing is one of the most disturbing nightmares I ever had was while I was in my teens, and it was about me marrying a decent man who...
    Bethstar Bethstar 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    There's absolutely no point to it. First, I abhor the idea of getting any sort of government involved in personal relationships. Who was the first person to suggest that anyway...
    Unbeholden Unbeholden 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 13

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    Our counselling is going well. At some point l will do an update. H is continuing to actively participate. He appears keen to go along. We have been looking at our family...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 11 Responses Feb 6

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    We had another "talk" last night. It dragged on for 3 hours and nothing got accomplished. He knows I'm only staying to try and work it out because of the kids. I told him I don't...
    unhappilyeverafter1977 unhappilyeverafter1977 31-35, F 37 Responses a week ago

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    I need a pro ana buddy to help each other through the hard times and encourage each other till the end!
    diamondsareforev diamondsareforev 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I can't tell my family even if my family often tells me that they're there for me. I'm so tired of this, I'm so tired being so depressed and anxious, I love my life, I love life, I...
    nonichecliche nonichecliche 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    My mother decided to finally call me after several times on my end of trying to get ahold of her. She actually didnt talk to me. She told my 5 year hold sister what to say, and her...
    LoveLessOne97 LoveLessOne97 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I watch the news and it disturbs me greatly, so I turn off the TV. I am disgusted how everything is sensationalized and how everything is about greed and consumerism, throwing away...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Ready for it I think. Waiting for everyone to go to sleep.Going to block exhaust pipe to my car, put all the windows up, and take a handful of Trazodone so I go to sleep and never...
    nothingandno1 nothingandno1 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    So now he says I'M the reason why he's pulling away... After all the support I've given him, how i picked him up when he fell. After all the sheet we've been though. I'M the reason...
    Desire91 Desire91 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    I can't believe it will end this way, heart attack. I have all the symptoms of pre-heart attack, all intermittent, pain in the lower jaw, stomach, neck, upper back, left and right...
    zarpanzur zarpanzur 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    People could be committed for life or break each others hearts and crush one another's souls for free, ya know? And just think, if we took all the marriages that ended in divorce...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 13

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    I love my wife and we have been married for more than 20 years, but I realize I am not able to stay satisfied in a strictly monogamous relationship. Five years into our marriage...
    jwtecy jwtecy 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    I'm in what I'll call a one-sided open marriage... My husband (I'll call him Zack) is the one who has other relationships. Before our marriage we tried to have an extra person (a...
    zodiac79 zodiac79 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I am going to accept that I am to homemaker now as my wife is the sole breadwinner in our marriage. That fact is now being solidified by the fact that I am also transgendered and...
    Christinya Christinya 31-35, T Feb 7

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    I need some advice and help on ending my affair. ..I have tried 4 times before and always gone back. This time I really need to end it. I want to make my marriage work and I feel...
    happyeve happyeve 46-50, F Feb 10

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    I just want to die. Every night I pray to God that he will take my soul. The only thing keeping me from killing myself is my mom. I know it would kill her if I were to commit...
    lalarose lalarose 18-21, F Feb 14

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    Dear everyone... I don't understand why people nowadays trying to compete to become the perfect person in this universe by show off their wealth in every social media ? I wanted...
    Deaval01 Deaval01 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    To say that my mind is constsntly on this site is such flabbergasteding understatement it's unreal....... But ive just read a post byCherishme2 and i feel as if the wind has just...
    lass1 lass1 41-45, F 12 Responses Feb 1

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    Well, we had our first sex argument of 2015. After having a dry Valentines Day (pun intended) I stifled my disappointment, like I do pretty much every day, through the weekend...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 51 Responses Feb 17

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    I am a 40-year-old married woman who befriended a 25-year-old man on social media. We spend a year and a half talking about sports and random day-to-day things. A couple months ago...
    flytygal flytygal 36-40, F 19 hrs ago

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    I am miserable with him. We don't have any common Interest. What I find enjoyable he says is stupid and I can't even enjoy it, I.e., tv shows. I just want him out of my life. I don...
    krazykaylove krazykaylove 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    My marriage was a form of betrayal, he didn't support his wife and children. After divorce, I entered into a relationship that held the promise of marriage after the kids were...
    nvr2late nvr2late 51-55, F Feb 10

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    It is the middle of the night and I have just been rejected again last night. Today, my wife flies overseas for 2 weeks and she does not show the slightest inclination to have even...
    Sub305k Sub305k 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 11

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