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I Want to End My Miserable Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 13 People

    Same Old Pattern - He Ignore's Me - Contront Him And We Fight - He Acts Like Nothing's Wrong - Ignores Me

    I've been married to my husband for almost 20 years now. We have 3 grown children who are set to move out in the next few months. He ignores me completely. When I try to 'talk' about our zero communication problem and that it isn't normal for him to be on his phone all day...
    CupcakeCandi CupcakeCandi 41-45 Nov 23, 2012

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    When Is Enough Enough?

    I am so torn. My husband and I have just shared our 7th anniversary. He was my friend for a long time before we got together, i never saw us a a viable couple, we were so different, he was very laid back, not at all structured a bit lazy, wanted to do things his own way and not...
    Miraclebeauty Miraclebeauty 31-35 Jun 14, 2012

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    I'm Ready To Leave My Husband

    After 20yrs I'm ready to leave. I'm tired of the text messaging from other woman, ****, his put downs. I'm finally ready to walk alone in life. How do I make this smooth for my 2 kids? I can careless if I ever talk to their father again I just want this over ASAP. He belittles...
    FinallyWalkingAlone FinallyWalkingAlone 31-35 Apr 6, 2012

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    Confuse Marriage

    I want to end my marriage.  I was becoming an oldmaid, alone, parents died. Although I have relatives, but I feel alone and tired of working since I left school. In short I though I found mr  right from internet and marriaed an American man. I sold my flat which give me...
    eyesore2010 eyesore2010 41-45, F Jan 2, 2010

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    Not Sure Think I May Need To End My Marriage....advise Please!

    I have been married for close to 16 yrs now and am thinking about ending my marriage! So much has happened over the 16yrs of my marriage, I'm not sure how much more I can take. We got married very young and have 3 wonderful children together. In the begining of the marriage we...
    sweet1011 sweet1011 36-40 May 5, 2012

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    I Am Ending My Marriage...

    I met my husband online and we got to know each other through chats for 6 months, then we became bf and gf. Since he cannot travel. I went to him finally to meet him for the first time in person. We had such a lovely one month and it made us so happy and so sure that we were...
    ange2012 ange2012 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Married and Tired of Feeling This Way!

    Everybody grab a snack this is going to take awhile! Once upon a time I was in a beautiful marriage, with a man who treated me like a queen.  I was strong, independent, goal oriented, happy, and knew I had found my prince charming.  Now, fast forward 15 years.  My...
    crazytrain crazytrain 41-45 3 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    Over the last week or so I have decided I want to end my marriage. Each day that passes makes me more resolved to do so. I just need to find the moment to tell my husband. There's...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy 36-40, F 14 Responses Apr 5

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    As I expected, nothing but horny guys who want to get laid. Any women posting here want love and marriage beforehand. Nothing wrong with that, I think the guys here want to hurry...
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Life keeps proving it to me, only a miracle would make marriage work, it is a dream, something that people dream of but it doesn't happen for them, they get something else instead...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been married for 1 year and We have a 4 month old baby. I'm so miserable in this marriage and I have no one to talk to. I always have to pretend to society (family, friends...
    Honeymonster27 Honeymonster27 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    This is something that is supposed to be a part of me forever..I want to tell u all of this but I know I have no rights..I know u will behave in a manner that will simply be...
    sb3007 sb3007 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    1. I love bird watching. 2. I often do what other people won't. (such as dive bombing into the brambles to save a kitten) 3. have a short fuse of impatience if you think you know...
    favestril favestril 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    I've wanted to be one for a while now and the only thing holding me back is the fact that I have a bf. I don't think he's gonna last that much longer though and when it ends a...
    TheChaoticDreamer TheChaoticDreamer 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    two weeks ago, he stopped answering my calls and responding to my FB chat though he's online, he just posted something that he meant for both of us...i chatted him to say to...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    I have been married for almost 4 months and I am completely miserable. He is a completely different person than he was before the wedding. Everything HAS to be his way or I am...
    unhappilymarried15 unhappilymarried15 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Ok so here it goes I know it's long so bear with me. I was married in 2004 at 21. When I met my wife I really wasn't attracted to her. I know that's sounds messed up but hear me...
    martinezh martinezh 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    There is so much life on the other side. Sure, you may lose the life you've worked so hard to build.. But, you can and will build again. Not from scratch, because you will take...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 24 Responses Apr 16

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    My last serious girl friend had a party where she went skinny dipping with me and another guy after it ended next thing i know i was beating off while he ****** her in the hot tub...
    compilation compilation 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    Update: I know I haven't been saying anything lately, so I wanted to catch you all up. I got my settlement, moved out and filed for divorce. He had a massive heart attack the day...
    Imafreebird Imafreebird 51-55, F 4 Responses Apr 17

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    I hate emotional people, always trapped by misery, I'm just happy over nothing, but also a little scared, I love music, I love the summer grass and the winter club music, I like...
    Denzebarrrn Denzebarrrn 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    The first time I ever heard of les misérables I thought it was kinda dumb i was 7 and my parents forced me to it and after was over I have loved les misérables for a decade My...
    smitlord smitlord 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Before we were married, we had a long-distance, sometimes rocky relationship. He was jealous and didn't trust me completely. I got pregnant so we got married. The first year was...
    mph94 mph94 18-21 1 Response Apr 4

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    disclaimer - im infj. and my fingers are numb and cold so im not typing well, sorry about that. :3 not sure if this is gonna post. i dont remeber what i've written on this site...
    surfnatty surfnatty 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    1. Do any of your parents like any of the music you like? Yeah, my dad likes Christian mainstream music and he likes Mariah Carey's Christmas cd. My mom likes Celine Dion, and a...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    I have made mistakes in my marriage. I worked too many hours and traveled over 100 days out of the year. I always was supportive. I tool an interest in my wife's activities and...
    mysecretstuff72 mysecretstuff72 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Over the last two centuries, women began to rebel against their God given design as a helper for man and began to demand marriages that removed all roles. Instead of women acting...
    biblicalgenderroles biblicalgenderroles 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I am 30 years old, on my second marriage. I entered this relationship shortly after I was divorced from my first husband. I guess you could say I was done with my first marriage...
    MarieM13 MarieM13 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I love my parents. They can be sweet and nice, but they aren't supportive and they can be verbally abusive at times. My parents fight a lot over small things. My mom is a control...
    Lunangelia Lunangelia 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Hi..I am 25 f from India. I haven't posted any personal experience/thought anywhere online yet. I almost despise the idea of letting people who know I am. Here I am doing exactly...
    puntermuniya puntermuniya 22-25, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is a work in progress, I will answer them all in time ! You can request questions to be added. 1. Who is your hero? I dont have any "known" people that are my hero, but...
    cesgensla cesgensla 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Ok, I've posted previously about my marriage and got some great advice. So just an update and hopefully some more advice. I've been evaluating my marriage, we're down to having...
    KFallon92 KFallon92 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I am worthless. Why am I even still here? I should've ended it all years ago. I wouldn't be such a waste of space. People wool be happier. I wouldn't be a burden. I'd be gone and...
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    I think self help is the best help.One can be guided by someone but ultimately ,you have to decide if you want to follow that path.Sometimes,we just let our misery continue and it...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I just want to talk about my life so far. I hope my story is worth reading. I fell in love early on in my life to a married teacher at a Christian school I attended. In this...
    somewearntme somewearntme 46-50, M Apr 17

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    I have been so positive lately until this week. I don't want to get out of bed tomorrow. I couldn't stand class today. It was worse in high school. At least now my classes are done...
    starling156 starling156 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am in love with a married woman whom I deeply admire and want to desperately spend the rest of my life with. We both are pretty much of the same age. Let me tell about this...
    super36 super36 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    We spoke every day. Every. single. day. He was funny. He paid me lots of attention--the naughty kind and the clean kind. I liked talking to him. I liked kissing him. I liked how he...
    lily337 lily337 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 29

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    It is not a side of me that I like much and it is becoming rarer and rarer.It still happens from time to time and when I brood too long, it is then I become miserable.My head knows...
    Sillylittleredheadchick Sillylittleredheadchick 46-50, F Apr 5

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    Hello all, Ok my marriage needs to END. I'm honestly going nuts with her . We have tried to work things out nothing works . It's been 12 years of hell with her . We are absolutely...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 7

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    Well...about a year and a half ago I took a new job and met this guy. I had been married (happily, I thought) almost 18 years at that time and we had a teenage son. This guy has...
    UB2015 UB2015 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    i always figured that on my 18th birthday i would have left my miserable life behind and started having some real fun but it turns out that my miserable life is firmly attached to...
    Cubeball Cubeball 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9