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I Want to Feel Close to Someone

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    I know there are people

    who do love me very much, and I really care about them too, but I can't think of anyone at all that I'm 100% comfortable with.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I Am Close to Many People, But...

    I am close to many people, but not as close as I could be. I keep alot of myself to myself. I keep my fears, my hopes, my dreams inside of my heart and my mind. Many times in the past my dreams have been crushed and my very heart's desire laughed at as impossible or silly...
    TragicWhispers TragicWhispers 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    Since I left for Afghanistan a few months ago,

    I've definitely drifted from the few people I was close to back in the states. Now I literally have no one. It's bittersweet seeing the guys in my unit have someone to Skype and Facetime every night after we get off duty; someone who will make an effort to overcome the time zone...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Longed to open up to someone in an intimate

    level and be able to express who I am, light and dark side without being judged. Just want to find a close fiend or even lover to be myself around :)
    MonsieurKJ MonsieurKJ 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    I'm a lesbian living in England.

    I really want to be in a relationship but I haven't found that special girl yet. I'm damaged from a mental illness but I'm in recovery and doing better than ever. I want to give all my attention to another girl. If you want to get to know me better kik me - rubymaygaughan...
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F Jan 14

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    My heart aches. All I ever wanted was someone

    like him to love. But with the Rake hunting me, there's no way I can ever live life the way I want it. Something's sound so fake but our true. I just want to get away but I can't. I don't believe I. Suicude, so I must fight to the death
    JakeSuspence JakeSuspence 16-17, M Feb 6

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    I think something's wrong with me.

    I don’t even know how to explain it 
It’s like I don’t get crushes anymore, I don’t/can’t develop romantic feelings anymore; when I see a guy I don’t think “oh he’s cute” or “oh he’s ugly” anymore. He’s just another guy. I see all my friends getting...
    BeaB24 BeaB24 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't know why but I feel like posting this

    right now. I just don't have much of a large circle of friends where I can be confident of opening myself to them. I'm a deep thinker and opening stuff that probably ruin their fun might not be the best bet for me. I seriously had this urge to find or meet someone who can I...
    alyssa1827 alyssa1827 18-21 1 Response Mar 1

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    I've found that when I feel this way

    and I receive the warmth of human comfort, I relish in it and let the feeling be in that moment. All moments are fleeting so you can't always rely on being close to someone to get you through all the rough times. Sometimes you've gotta experience sadness of being alone to...
    resuelta resuelta 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Just Hold Me Close

    Just hold me close And don't ask me why. I don't want to talk about it, I just want to cry. Just hold me close And don't ask me why. There's no greater pain than To be hurt by a friend.
    public public 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2007

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    Every time i try to make friends they push me

    off like they never knew me. I'm so lonely it makes me depressed. I hardly have any friends and sometimes I wonder what is the point of living. I just need someone to talk to and care for.
    EdDerpynomnom EdDerpynomnom 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'd love to find someone I could show my true

    self to who wouldn't run away but I'm terrified that no one will accept me for who I am.
    bookworm2014 bookworm2014 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Another Wish

    i'm lonely. Lonelier than ever, i don't really know how to cope with this anymore. I want to feel so so close to someone, emotionally and physically. I want them to understand me and to hold me close, to move their fingers in my hair and to touch my cheeks as they smile at me. I...
    BlackDiamondFairy BlackDiamondFairy 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2010

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    I Long To Find A Close Friend Near Me.

    i have been a crossdresser for many  years. in all that time i have never met another  crossdresser living near me. as much as i enjoy being who i am and being a full time girl it get  lonely some times and i wish that i had a friend  that i could share ...
    aniowagirl aniowagirl 66-70, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2010

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    I wanna feel close too someone,

    but I seem to always push people away. What do I do?
    HeythereItsJohn HeythereItsJohn 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    again i live in a small little town.

    But to have someone close to my own age would be nice.
    minecraftwizz minecraftwizz 13-15, M Feb 1

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    There's nothing in this world

    that compares to the feeling of being loved and cared about. I want to be the best friend, the one he runs to when he feels somebody to talk to, the one that makes everything better, the one that is his first choice before any other girl, the one that he would "take a bullet for...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I want to feel close to

    that girl that will love me just like I wound to
    romeo2793 romeo2793 18-21, M Jan 12

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    Broken Record Time

    So I've repeated myself over and over again I'm sure on the fact that I want to feel close to someone. Don't particularly feel like looking back at all my stories to see, don't think anyone cares if I repeat. Clearly I want to feel close to someone in the physical aspect of...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    I am a people person

    for the most part, but I never let anyone get to close I am afraid they will hurt me and because of this I never let people in ....
    lovingmeyousee lovingmeyousee 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Sad

    feeling alone have a big empty space need someone :(
    chris2244 chris2244 18-21, M Oct 30, 2013

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    I forgot what that's like.

    no one ever gets to try to know me anymore.
    lyricblue lyricblue 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I want to be close to someone,

    be in love and can't stand to be away from one another! I want a real man who isn't afraid of being romantic and in love and WANTS to be,really know,love, and be great to me, because I would be great to him.
    JamieleeEchelon JamieleeEchelon 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    I've been a way too many years

    and lost all the emotional feeling of what it's like to be close to a female life's about to change and I want to share it with someone I'm close to!
    mikepanhead1949 mikepanhead1949 26-30, M Nov 29, 2013

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    Want to Feel Close to Someone

    Since my girlfriend passed in aug ot 08 i  have chosen to be alone.  I am starting to feel it is time to move forward in my life, i feel t he need to be l oved held kissed is greaterthan my fear that my ocd will keep a women from wanting to be with...
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 22, 2009

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    I usually thought that being on this would let

    me find closer friends and people I could actually talk to even just for fun but then I realized no one took me seriously and most guys would just message me about sexual things and would send nasty pictures and trick me.... So I'm kind of really done with that. I don't want...
    melanie17 melanie17 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I want that person who is going to come in to

    my life and completely turn it around. Help me be the person I want to be. And teach me that this world isn't the horrible place my mind portrays it as.
    JaneDoe1717 JaneDoe1717 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I wish I could shake this feeling

    but I just can't help but want to be closer to you ... It's unlike anything I have ever felt before.. I force myself to look away from your direction every day ! 🙅 bummer!
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    To Be Loved...

     I want to be loved. People tell me they love me every day. A casual greeting used which really means that they think I'm great, or pretty, or the best. The words I love you are used so much these days. What do I want? I want that one person I can come to and tell everything...
    PorcelainDoll PorcelainDoll 16-17, F 17 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    I Want YOU......

    Every passing second I want you,In every breath I want you Want you in the silence of the dark..Want you when the night wanes to dawn…Want you at the puberty of the morn…Want you in the indolent evening…Want you there at the norwester’s rage,Want you as the dark...
    trappedwings trappedwings 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    I Miss..

    I miss being loved and love, I mis being cared and care, I miss have someone and be someone for someone, I miss being importante for someone and have someone important for me, I miss someone that surpraise me with something i like and i miss surpreaise someone with something he...
    marirosi marirosi 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Complexities.

    I want nothing more than to feel close to someone, but every time I start to, I push them away. I'll find that I really start to like a person. I could even be intensely interested in them. But once they make it known that they are interested in me, I get weirded out, and ...
    M0RGUE M0RGUE 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 6, 2008

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    I'm Very Independent.

    I like driving my car with no passengers.  I don't like working in groups.  I like doing things by myself.  I don't like help from others.  I like my alone time.   But being alone in the car gets repetitive.  Working alone is no fun.  Doing...
    oliveoil2007 oliveoil2007 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 28, 2008

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    Arms That Hold, Mind That Keeps

    I want to feel close to someone...not just intimately, but emotional also. I want his hands to hold my body close..true, but just as importantly...to understand, to listen, to support me. I want to feel close to someone in every aspect of a beautiful relationship.....that is what...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 3, 2012

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    I used to have a good friend.

    ..we would talk for daayssss about anything....everything... I moved away...moved away from all of it and everyone, including her I miss it... Dam I need some friends😆😆
    Laffalott Laffalott 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    What Is Life?my Life Is Nothing At All[real Long Downer Ahead]

    -My Life in Text Form I am 21 going on 22 and I've never been happy with anything in my life.I've had "superficial happiness" that lasts a couple of days.That was like 3 years ago.All I feel now is this heavy weight on my chest for the last 2 years.I've never had any real...
    neverbeenhappy neverbeenhappy 18-21 9 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    Just Want Someone Who I Can Trust

    I want to have someone who I can poor my heart to. I want to be straight up with everything I say. Tell them everything about my past, present, and what I want for the future. I am not close to anyone cause well I do hold my heart in my sleeves so I pull my sleeves up (i hope you...
    vydyn vydyn 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    Part1 He pushes me against the rock solid wall

    and I hear the unevenness in his breath. One minute we are sitting on my bed watching a movie and a second later he's rolling me over with no issue what so ever. He stands up and pulls me towards him with his tongue still sliding in and out of my mouth. He then pins me against...
    Mysterybabe101 Mysterybabe101 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    *sigh*

    i dunno i guess i just want that feeling of space to go. i want to look at someone and feel my hear beat.. i want to be able to tlak to them without having to hold anything back, to be myself and for thas someone to understand and give me a hug.. i feel alone i need a special...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2007

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    Cuddling

    I love cuddling with my girlfriend. It makes me feel so close to her on a physical and emotional level. I feel like I'm right at home. Right where I'm supposed to be. I love it. I love her.
    JaredJennings JaredJennings 18-21, M Apr 2, 2013

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    kanak277sharma kanak277sharma 22-25, F Mar 30

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    New Opening In Life.

    I know I will leave one day from this world and as memories fade with time so will I become a memory of the past which will fade as time will pass by… may be no one will even remember my name or even spare a second to think about me as am not anyone important  nor am a...
    trappedwings trappedwings 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    I actually don't know what it feels like to be

    close to someone. It's really sad.
    TristenJSmith TristenJSmith 13-15, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Lately

    I been feeling lost in my emotions it's like I've done All I could do and I don't have it in me to love anymore. it feels like I need to find that one girl that's going to changed that in me. And feel reassured that she really loves me before I could ever express love. I been...
    four5ivesix four5ivesix 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    Thoughts Written.

    At the moment I am enjoying a great relationship with eventual friends with benefits, and we are happy with sharing each other sexually. I do, however, have hopeful thoughts that sometime not too far in the future one of them, or someone outside our group will want to have a...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F Aug 28, 2013

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    I Feel Like There Is Something Wrong With Me....

    As I don't have that special friend or partner that I feel close to. Someone who will hold me close and who will listen to me and speak to me effortlessly. Someone who will stand by me and who appreciates me for me. Someone who I KNOW values me and who doesn't want me to be...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 3 Responses May 5, 2011

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    I've got plenty of people I'm close too,

    sure, but I want someone that I can be invested 100% into. I want to have someone that will make me put my guard down. I want someone who will make me be vulnerable. Instead, I hide everything. I say nothing. I don't let others get close out of fear they will use it to hurt me...
    maulerrr maulerrr 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    Feeling close to someone is on par with feeling

    love. Actually it is love, I would love to open my heart ,mind, and soul for anyone who opens theirs to mine. Peace and prosperity to all. :)
    LightLeaf LightLeaf 16-17, M Jan 22

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    Physical Touch

    I had a spa treatment today complete with a sixty minute massage by some expert hands attached to a greek god... he really knows how to make his clients feel welcome with his soft eyes and attentive listening. He worked on every muscle I knew of and some I didnt know about. Once...
    ShellyHeartAche ShellyHeartAche 36-40, F Jun 16, 2012

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    Desire

    Empty, hollow, starved of that presence Fill that hole deep inside Pour your love into my soul I need to feel something bigger than me My being is worthless without that connection Help me out of my numbness I know i dont deserve it...... But how it hurts To know theres...
    Imhereverything Imhereverything 13-15, F Aug 12, 2013

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    I honestly think I would be happy forever

    if I found a guy who would stay by my side, romantic or not, and say "that's my girl". Someone who could look at me (sorry, internet!) and say it, and mean it.
    ArguablyLonely ArguablyLonely 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10

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    So every good friend I tens to make pulls away

    or turns out to be a fall need new friends
    boomboomx20 boomboomx20 18-21, M Mar 4

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