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I Want to Feel Close to Someone

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    I'm a lesbian living in England.

    I really want to be in a relationship but I haven't found that special girl yet. I'm damaged from a mental illness but I'm in recovery and doing better than ever. I want to give all my attention to another girl. If you want to get to know me better kik me - rubymaygaughan...
    romanalanski romanalanski 18-21, F Jan 14

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    Another Wish

    i'm lonely. Lonelier than ever, i don't really know how to cope with this anymore. I want to feel so so close to someone, emotionally and physically. I want them to understand me and to hold me close, to move their fingers in my hair and to touch my cheeks as they smile at me. I...
    BlackDiamondFairy BlackDiamondFairy 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2010

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    I'd like that friend

    that I can tell anything to and feel comfortable with. Someone that at least enjoys talking to me a lot, because I'm starting to get depressingly bored.
    GuuIsAwesome GuuIsAwesome 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 13

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    There's nothing in this world

    that compares to the feeling of being loved and cared about. I want to be the best friend, the one he runs to when he feels somebody to talk to, the one that makes everything better, the one that is his first choice before any other girl, the one that he would "take a bullet for...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F Mar 17

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    Cuddling

    I love cuddling with my girlfriend. It makes me feel so close to her on a physical and emotional level. I feel like I'm right at home. Right where I'm supposed to be. I love it. I love her.
    JaredJennings JaredJennings 18-21, M Apr 2, 2013

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    Just Want Someone Who I Can Trust

    I want to have someone who I can poor my heart to. I want to be straight up with everything I say. Tell them everything about my past, present, and what I want for the future. I am not close to anyone cause well I do hold my heart in my sleeves so I pull my sleeves up (i hope you...
    vydyn vydyn 18-21 3 Responses Feb 25, 2013

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    I never feel close to anybody in this world.

    I feel very depressed😑and sad😓😓😓
    kristi9852 kristi9852 13-15, T Sep 2

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    I want a guy that I'm physically attracted to,

    and share similar values, attitudes, interests with me. Fun, interesting, loving, yet nerdy sometimes. Being close emotionally and spiritually first, then physical. Is that too much to ask? Why it's so hard to find the right one?
    liah1 liah1 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I'm trying to have a better relationship with

    my parents. They were talking to me the other night and I just finally told them how I felt about everything. I finally even admitted a secret I never told my mom before. yet I feel like I'm missing being close with someone outside my family. a friend or two who I can call up...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I want to be close to someone,

    be in love and can't stand to be away from one another! I want a real man who isn't afraid of being romantic and in love and WANTS to be,really know,love, and be great to me, because I would be great to him.
    JamieleeEchelon JamieleeEchelon 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    Physical Touch

    I had a spa treatment today complete with a sixty minute massage by some expert hands attached to a greek god... he really knows how to make his clients feel welcome with his soft eyes and attentive listening. He worked on every muscle I knew of and some I didnt know about. Once...
    ShellyHeartAche ShellyHeartAche 36-40, F Jun 16, 2012

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    Emotionally and intellectually,

    not so much physically. I have never felt very close to anyone, and that is my own fault, but all I really need right now is a best friend that is fun and that I can trust with anything. It's been weird making friends at college. I go between feeling comforted and feeling lonely...
    ofnoimportance ofnoimportance 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    Im a bisexual woman who is attracted to my lady

    boss. I guess the feeling is mutual as the signs and signals are clear to me However, i am still curious as she is straight but i can't give it a try to tell her im into her as im scared my job will be at stake. pls help me what to do.im so in love with her and ive been keeping...
    tabz30 tabz30 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 24

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    I would love to have a college buddy

    that I can tell anything to, just like my friends in high school. I really am struggling to adjust in college. I want to do something about it, but I don't know how.
    higalove higalove 18-21, F Dec 4

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    I do have people I love,

    but I love them unwillingly, and I don't really know them. I wonder what it's like love willingly, and to know someone. Is it overrated?
    benson5132 benson5132 18-21, M Dec 3

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    Just Hold Me Close

    Just hold me close And don't ask me why. I don't want to talk about it, I just want to cry. Just hold me close And don't ask me why. There's no greater pain than To be hurt by a friend.
    public public 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2007

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    I'm Very Independent.

    I like driving my car with no passengers.  I don't like working in groups.  I like doing things by myself.  I don't like help from others.  I like my alone time.   But being alone in the car gets repetitive.  Working alone is no fun.  Doing...
    oliveoil2007 oliveoil2007 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 28, 2008

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    Longed to open up to someone in an intimate

    level and be able to express who I am, light and dark side without being judged. Just want to find a close fiend or even lover to be myself around :)
    MonsieurKJ MonsieurKJ 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    I know there are people

    who do love me very much, and I really care about them too, but I can't think of anyone at all that I'm 100% comfortable with.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I Miss..

    I miss being loved and love, I mis being cared and care, I miss have someone and be someone for someone, I miss being importante for someone and have someone important for me, I miss someone that surpraise me with something i like and i miss surpreaise someone with something he...
    marirosi marirosi 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    I'm usually very distant from everyone.

    Even the people I'm closest to have gotten so busy I feel completely alone most times. I'm depressed... I wish there was someone who would look past my imperfections and see me for who I am and stay around to truly know me. I give so much love and care but no one wants it. I...
    neverlandscars neverlandscars 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 3

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    Ok I will come straight out with it Is there

    any1 out there want to get closer maybe a date or something??? Or even just messaging as sort of friends??? I won't expect to much...
    Bullitt147 Bullitt147 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 11

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    I Am Close to Many People, But...

    I am close to many people, but not as close as I could be. I keep alot of myself to myself. I keep my fears, my hopes, my dreams inside of my heart and my mind. Many times in the past my dreams have been crushed and my very heart's desire laughed at as impossible or silly...
    TragicWhispers TragicWhispers 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    I wake up in the morning

    and go to work. I hardly talk with people at work. I come back in the evening and go to gym. I cook my dinner and finish my day by 20 h. After that, until I sleep, my time in hell begins. I have nobody to talk, I have nobody to laugh with me. I have nobody except me. This...
    Iamindarkness Iamindarkness 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    Every time i try to make friends they push me

    off like they never knew me. I'm so lonely it makes me depressed. I hardly have any friends and sometimes I wonder what is the point of living. I just need someone to talk to and care for.
    EdDerpynomnom EdDerpynomnom 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I am close to you in mind

    and heart and desire...I can't and shouldn't ask for more... *sigh
    LoveJaney LoveJaney 36-40, F Sep 28

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    There are some days when I really,

    REALLY desire human touch. I will ask everyone for hugs, and cling onto my best friend but it's usually not enough. I want a guy to hold me during a scary movie and whisper comforting things in my ear. I want someone who won't judge how loudly/messily I eat Doritos. I just want...
    TheUndesirable TheUndesirable 13-15, F 8 Responses May 14

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    Desire

    Empty, hollow, starved of that presence Fill that hole deep inside Pour your love into my soul I need to feel something bigger than me My being is worthless without that connection Help me out of my numbness I know i dont deserve it...... But how it hurts To know theres...
    Imhereverything Imhereverything 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2013

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    When you feel so in love with

    that person you get a warm feeling and you cant help but smile ❤️
    andiloveyou andiloveyou 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 30

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    Love the feeling of knowing

    that someone cares, and doesn't throw you away <3 Waiting for that day when I can feel it again
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F Aug 29

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    The Memory

    The sweet melody of your laugh, the golden glistening of sunset in your eyes. The smooth elegant curve of your neck, engulfed by long strains of soft curls. The steady beating of your soul, deep inside your warm bosom pressed against me. You fill the empty void inside me, make me...
    WillAshton WillAshton 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    I Want YOU......

    Every passing second I want you,In every breath I want you Want you in the silence of the dark..Want you when the night wanes to dawn…Want you at the puberty of the morn…Want you in the indolent evening…Want you there at the norwester’s rage,Want you as the dark...
    trappedwings trappedwings 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2013

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    Yesterday I met a girl.

    She. Was. Perfect. We spent the night together and hell I can't stop thinking about her. This wasn't an usual one-night-stand. But the fact that she lives so far away and I am even moving further away kills me!
    understandmeagain understandmeagain 18-21, M Sep 28

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    I like intimacy, not sexual

    but I'm a total romantic. I've been in a couple different long term relationships but am currently single and I miss having that closeness. I'll get there again someday though, I just have to wait it out.
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    Broken Record Time

    So I've repeated myself over and over again I'm sure on the fact that I want to feel close to someone. Don't particularly feel like looking back at all my stories to see, don't think anyone cares if I repeat. Clearly I want to feel close to someone in the physical aspect of...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    Pressed against you ,

    So close With my face buried in your chest Your arms around me , hands in my hair pulling No.. Crushing me to you .. Til nothing hurts anymore Til I am calm by the scent of you The heat of you The feel of you against me The sound of your heartbeat ..
    Angelofthesilencess Angelofthesilencess 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Many layers

    No one has ever peeled this onion completely and exposed the true delight hidden in the centre.
    charlie1960 charlie1960 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    To Be Loved...

     I want to be loved. People tell me they love me every day. A casual greeting used which really means that they think I'm great, or pretty, or the best. The words I love you are used so much these days. What do I want? I want that one person I can come to and tell everything...
    PorcelainDoll PorcelainDoll 16-17, F 17 Responses Feb 10, 2008

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    I want someone who can understand me,

    who i can talk about life and give me advice!! Is someone there who want to talk to me! I mean girls not boys!! Please message me!! I will love to chat with you!!
    Puppy92 Puppy92 18-21, F Jun 23

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    I want to feel close to Someone new,

    someone far. a stranger i can be comfortable talking bout anything with . Develop a true friendship amidst the distance
    trentoy trentoy 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    When I feel close to someone in my friend

    group They always leave The ones who stay are the creeps I bearly talk to but see when I'm jogging staring or around school
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Sep 28

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    I Want Little Moments To Make Me Feel Close To You..

    Nothing fancy really, just to be able to sit around and read a book with that special someone. Not a single word being said, but silence, no arguments and no incessant "are you OK questions." I believe that if your close to someone, than constant words should not be said. You...
    livelustlove livelustlove 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Everyday I want to feel close.

    Sadly every woman I have ever loved did not love me in return. Love is taken to casually. I want to feel that closeness with a good woman, that will be a friend, but yet a Lover. The older I get the more unlikely I will ever find any real love in this world. I am not talking...
    BlaiddDrwg05 BlaiddDrwg05 41-45, M Dec 3

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    It's hard to want to feel close to someone

    when they want to feel close to someone else that feels close to someone else.
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    *sigh*

    i dunno i guess i just want that feeling of space to go. i want to look at someone and feel my hear beat.. i want to be able to tlak to them without having to hold anything back, to be myself and for thas someone to understand and give me a hug.. i feel alone i need a special...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2007

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    I really want to b close to someone.

    Stay true nd b best of friends
    joyevaa joyevaa 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    michellerocks michellerocks 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    I'm too trusting too soon I suppose.

    .I try to not be that way because all I've encountered is people not worthy of that, and up until about a year ago I stayed with them hoping "lead by example" would pay off..it doesn't BTW
    chioume chioume 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I went through a bad breakup back in April.

    We were both over seas, and she ended up cheating on me. But I found out from her roommate. She never messaged me or texted me back, or returned my phone calls. I really cared about her and fought tooth and nail to get over it. I have been putting myself out there more trying to...
    LilBoyBluu LilBoyBluu 22-25, M Sep 28

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    I miss somebody not being there

    for me when I need to talk to someone, somebody to txt and somebody to cwtch me in when I'm cold.
    katiehad katiehad 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28

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    I want to know what really motivates you.

    Like what's really important to you?
    michaeln41 michaeln41 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 28

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