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I Want to Feel Desired

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    I want a guy that I like to actually like me

    back... I'm a little overweight and carry all my fat on my stomach... I feel like guys can't look past that and can't find me desirable...
    19MangoTango95 19MangoTango95 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    I know I am loved and I am told I am desired

    but I don't feel that way... I realized it tonight while I listen to you snooze and the ocean sleep sounds play that what I am missing is your desire for me. You craved to know about me, my body, to splendor in me. I just feel like people get married and lost in the comfort...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday 26-30, F 1 Response May 30, 2014

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    I was so, so happy when you told me you were

    coming to N-------. It sounds corny, but I really did feel my heart leap when you said that you'd like to meet me. . I spent some time making myself ready on the afternoon of your arrival. I showered, of course, and washed my hair. Shaved my legs. But this was not just any...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 34 Responses Jun 2

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    I always wanted to be truly desired

    and have always dreamt of it :( too bad I hate myself enough that I can't see why anyone would want to
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 1 Response May 30

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    I want to be desired by guys

    so badly. I'm not really sure why I have such a desire like this. I think it may be because I've never been the girl guys want really. I'm not very pretty and I don't have a great body but some guys like the way i look i guess. I like to go on video chat sites soemtimes and show...
    mclovin31321 mclovin31321 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    Funny Way To Show It...

    You say you want me, but never touch me. You say I am the most beautiful woman, that you only have eyes for me, that you love me and will never love another. I hear the words, but without the touch; they feel meaningless. If you want someone, but never show them, can it really...
    noluvin noluvin 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 1, 2014

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    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 2 Responses May 22

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    I feel myself reaching a tipping point.

    I'm giving up hope that my wife will ever want intimacy. I feel like in fading away so far that I'm starting to think more about life on the other side of marriage than in it. I'm pretty sure that if another woman showed the slightest interest in me I'd jump at the chance...
    rg3001 rg3001 56-60 May 3

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    I want someone to sit

    and think to themselves about how much they miss me. I want them to smell the hint of perfume I left on their bed and feel engulfed in it. I want someone to yearn for my kiss and the way it tastes. Sadly, no guy has that kind of focus.
    onecutebubbles0729 onecutebubbles0729 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    he hears me cry and he just turns

    and ignores me. .. i touch him and he says not now I'm tired, ., when i ask him is it me, he says don't start that **** and just leave it. ... maybe I'm not what he needs or wants anymore.... desperately lonely...
    luvshoesval luvshoesval 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    My wife has lost her sexdrive to a couple

    diseases, and I wish I was all ok with that, but since she doesn't want me sexually anymore, she has also stopped hugging and caressing me. The double bed feels like the most lonely place on this planet after she falls asleep... Feeling unwanted and undesired is not something I...
    norwegian73 norwegian73 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 5

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    This would be nice to know this feeling again.

    Maybe one day dreams will come true
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Definitely didn't start the new year of right .

    I'm in a relationship where I feel like I'm always getting nagged at , I feel like all women desire some love and compassion, especially at night I want to be desired sensually touched and loved . I seriously do love my boyfriend but I feel like he doesn't desire me anymore...
    Bittersweetgl Bittersweetgl 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    Pondering moment #7533: Sometimes I wonder

    if the level of desire changes the longer you are in a relationship...do you things sound not as exciting as it did 8 years ago? or this is the natural process once you get kids and more responsibility?
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I'm having a moment while writing this.

    However this need to be said. I was to feel wanted and not needed. Does anyone else understand what I mean? I mean I'm more than happy to help anyone out, but at the same time, I feel used. I want someone to call me theirs and all that cute stuff. Anyone else feel me?
    SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    to be honest I feel like no one wants me.

    I want someone who desires me and loves me back
    Chang94 Chang94 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    ...Yes but where do we draw the line?

    Ok so your ex gf of 12 years is coming to town. You two have talked about her visit and have gotten the logistics figured out. Because you're still single and have an extra room in the house, you offered the room to her. She mentions that she hasn't had sex in 2 years. You're...
    TheMoonNi TheMoonNi 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Miss feeling that passion.

    Having my body adored and just feeling so wanted from someone who was gentle and genuine
    MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    I just want to feel wanted.

    .. sexy... not worry about life or bills or kids or anything. What happened to that? I just want some physical attention, not my wife watching TV in another room getting bugged when I want to come cuddle or get frisky. I want to be wanted... by anyone! Is that pathetic? I'd just...
    JustJon707 JustJon707 46-50, M 6 Responses May 9

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    I need that.. wish I had

    that with someone..
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response May 31, 2014

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    past 30 months have been hell.

    met someone who i thought was genuine. turns out 12 months into being together he still avidly checking out other single women on dating sites and ignores my emails ...seen for myself unread messages from me and profiles searched on his email account. i am still waiting for him...
    norahstime norahstime 41-45, F 6 Responses May 6

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    I haven't had a girlfriend in 4 years

    and since then I haven't felt wanted from any girls the I've met. I'm not sure what to do, I haven't even come close to any sort of relationship.
    ngoggins ngoggins 22-25, M 1 Response May 1

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    it would be nice.....

    Even if just for a moment
    EFairy EFairy 22-25, F 1 Response May 25

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    "Love is an irresistible desire to be

    irresistibly desired."
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 14

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Judyccaa Judyccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    I think everyone desires to be desired just

    fact is ill never be desired or wanted its a fact of life for my past or my likes.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    One of the best feelings in life is discovering

    that you are appreciated by someone regardless of how unworthy someone else has made you feel. Wouldn't you agree?
    margai margai 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I really want to, even

    for a second... I'm forgetting how does it feels...
    Healinghate Healinghate 18-21, M May 25

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    I can't even look at myself in the mirror.

    How disgusting must I be for my wife to continually say she has no passion left? How undesirable I feel! How ugly I feel! How unsexy I feel? Will I ever feel happy , desired, wanted sexually ever again????? I'm 50 and I feel drained of feeling this way
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27

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    So happy at the moment.

    Feel well and truly desired and wanted. But also respected and loved. Trying hard not to let the fear n insecurities seep in. It feels just like the movies n books say it is! Hard to believe it's real n happening to me!!!
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I just want to find someone

    who will text me without me having to text them. Someone who will be there for me. Who will make me feel loved and appreciated. Who will cuddle with my when I've had a bad day Sadly a girl like that just doesn't exist near me
    chase667 chase667 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 2

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    I want this feeling..

    I don't know what it feels like.. I try so hard to get him to flirt with me..it's fine for awhile then he quits answering my questions or makes smart *** comments.. Why can't he just make me feel that he desires me?
    RahRah73 RahRah73 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    Why is it that it always seems

    that a man who wants to have a physical relationship is always with a woman that doesn't want him to touch her? And a woman who wants nothing but to be with a man that wants to touch her cant seem to find one?
    upextraolives upextraolives 46-50, F 34 Responses May 5

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    Is There More I Could Do?

    I keep hair trimmed, just the way you like. My head shaved, my goatee the perfect length (just enough to tickle), body hair short, pubes shaved. I do 50 knee lifts a day, not quite a six-pack, but the love handles are gone, I've lost 30 pounds. I provide for the family, sure...
    2feetApart 2feetApart 36-40, M 8 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    I want to feel beautiful.

    I want to be noticed when I walk into a room. I want you to look at me as if you can't hold back, and I'm the only woman you want. I need to feel sexy and alive again. I just want you to want me.
    JARSMS JARSMS 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    mssparkles mssparkles 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 24

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    But this will not happen in my life.

    It's beautiful fantasy I will crave for the rest of my life
    msladyred68 msladyred68 46-50, F 22 Responses Apr 30

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    I just want to belong to someone again.

    To have that last great love affair, my first great love affair, any love affair where someone loves me as much as I love them. That they could look at me and say, "I need you..." not want... need. I want someone who sits there and watches me smile and say if I don't get to...
    Sparrowlynn03 Sparrowlynn03 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    Tomorrow night he'll be here.

    ... The man I was with for over 12 years .... He'll be under the same roof.... Staying the night in my home.... To see his son.... I don't want him to want me, but thwart primal part of me desperately wants him to want me.... Wants him to desire me, no matter how messed up it is...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    So I finally met this girl I've been talking to

    for the past 3 months. Its been very difficult to meet due to her job, but it finally happened and it was great. Things got physical and well it was unbelievable but the thing I loved the most was the small kisses, holding her hand, just feeling like i mattered to someone. It...
    Godito5 Godito5 26-30, M Jun 23

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 23

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    I just want to matter to some one.

    I wish that someone smiles when they think me.
    thatjust thatjust 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    I am so tired of being in a sexless marriage

    not a chance in hell with my wife . hoping someone will show me I'm still desirable .
    LTBS64 LTBS64 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 3

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