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I Want to Feel Desired

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    I just want to belong to someone again.

    To have that last great love affair, my first great love affair, any love affair where someone loves me as much as I love them. That they could look at me and say, "I need you..." not want... need. I want someone who sits there and watches me smile and say if I don't get to...
    Sparrowlynn03 Sparrowlynn03 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    One of the best feelings in life is discovering

    that you are appreciated by someone regardless of how unworthy someone else has made you feel. Wouldn't you agree?
    margai margai 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I need that.. wish I had

    that with someone..
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response May 31, 2014

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    I feel like no one will ever love me haha.

    its sad that I judge my self worth based on the opinions of other people but I do...its a bad habit /:
    lunaqueen10 lunaqueen10 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 1, 2014

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    But this will not happen in my life.

    It's beautiful fantasy I will crave for the rest of my life
    Masterskitten503 Masterskitten503 46-50, F 21 Responses Apr 30

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    he hears me cry and he just turns

    and ignores me. .. i touch him and he says not now I'm tired, ., when i ask him is it me, he says don't start that **** and just leave it. ... maybe I'm not what he needs or wants anymore.... desperately lonely...
    luvshoesval luvshoesval 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Funny Way To Show It...

    You say you want me, but never touch me. You say I am the most beautiful woman, that you only have eyes for me, that you love me and will never love another. I hear the words, but without the touch; they feel meaningless. If you want someone, but never show them, can it really...
    noluvin noluvin 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    I haven't had a girlfriend in 4 years

    and since then I haven't felt wanted from any girls the I've met. I'm not sure what to do, I haven't even come close to any sort of relationship.
    ngoggins ngoggins 22-25, M 1 Response May 1

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    Time And Space

    I want to know that the ache I feel inside isn't just mine alone ... that you share it ... that you feel it too.That the sweep of desire that floods my body is a feeling you understand ... that we speak the same language ... The night sky stretches between us and it comforts...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 26, 2010

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    I just want to matter to some one.

    I wish that someone smiles when they think me.
    thatjust thatjust 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    past 30 months have been hell.

    met someone who i thought was genuine. turns out 12 months into being together he still avidly checking out other single women on dating sites and ignores my emails ...seen for myself unread messages from me and profiles searched on his email account. i am still waiting for him...
    norahstime norahstime 41-45, F 7 Responses May 6

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    Miss feeling that passion.

    Having my body adored and just feeling so wanted from someone who was gentle and genuine
    MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    I wouldn't say "desired"

    but loved... I mean, I just accepted the fact that I might be gay and I just need to know if the love of a guy can make me feel better :/
    WizzlexBizzle WizzlexBizzle 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F Dec 12, 2014

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    I want to feel beautiful.

    I want to be noticed when I walk into a room. I want you to look at me as if you can't hold back, and I'm the only woman you want. I need to feel sexy and alive again. I just want you to want me.
    JARSMS JARSMS 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    Is There More I Could Do?

    I keep hair trimmed, just the way you like. My head shaved, my goatee the perfect length (just enough to tickle), body hair short, pubes shaved. I do 50 knee lifts a day, not quite a six-pack, but the love handles are gone, I've lost 30 pounds. I provide for the family, sure...
    2feetApart 2feetApart 36-40, M 8 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    I feel myself reaching a tipping point.

    I'm giving up hope that my wife will ever want intimacy. I feel like in fading away so far that I'm starting to think more about life on the other side of marriage than in it. I'm pretty sure that if another woman showed the slightest interest in me I'd jump at the chance...
    rg3001 rg3001 56-60 May 3

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    Why is it that it always seems

    that a man who wants to have a physical relationship is always with a woman that doesn't want him to touch her? And a woman who wants nothing but to be with a man that wants to touch her cant seem to find one?
    upextraolives upextraolives 46-50, F 23 Responses May 5

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    I am so tired of being in a sexless marriage

    not a chance in hell with my wife . hoping someone will show me I'm still desirable .
    LTBS64 LTBS64 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 3

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    Definitely didn't start the new year of right .

    I'm in a relationship where I feel like I'm always getting nagged at , I feel like all women desire some love and compassion, especially at night I want to be desired sensually touched and loved . I seriously do love my boyfriend but I feel like he doesn't desire me anymore...
    Bittersweetgl Bittersweetgl 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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    I just want to feel wanted.

    .. sexy... not worry about life or bills or kids or anything. What happened to that? I just want some physical attention, not my wife watching TV in another room getting bugged when I want to come cuddle or get frisky. I want to be wanted... by anyone! Is that pathetic? I'd just...
    JustJon707 JustJon707 46-50, M 6 Responses May 9

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    Pondering moment #7533: Sometimes I wonder

    if the level of desire changes the longer you are in a relationship...do you things sound not as exciting as it did 8 years ago? or this is the natural process once you get kids and more responsibility?
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I want someone to sit

    and think to themselves about how much they miss me. I want them to smell the hint of perfume I left on their bed and feel engulfed in it. I want someone to yearn for my kiss and the way it tastes. Sadly, no guy has that kind of focus.
    onecutebubbles0729 onecutebubbles0729 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I'm having a moment while writing this.

    However this need to be said. I was to feel wanted and not needed. Does anyone else understand what I mean? I mean I'm more than happy to help anyone out, but at the same time, I feel used. I want someone to call me theirs and all that cute stuff. Anyone else feel me?
    SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I want a boyfriend who can make me feel good

    all the time is that to much to ask?
    WizzlexBizzle WizzlexBizzle 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    I can't even look at myself in the mirror.

    How disgusting must I be for my wife to continually say she has no passion left? How undesirable I feel! How ugly I feel! How unsexy I feel? Will I ever feel happy , desired, wanted sexually ever again????? I'm 50 and I feel drained of feeling this way
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 27

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    I want to be desired by guys

    so badly. I'm not really sure why I have such a desire like this. I think it may be because I've never been the girl guys want really. I'm not very pretty and I don't have a great body but some guys like the way i look i guess. I like to go on video chat sites soemtimes and show...
    mclovin31321 mclovin31321 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    I feel lonely in my own home,

    in my own bed. The same home and bed I share with my husband of eight years.
    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 10 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I wish I had someone

    that desired me
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2014

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    "Love is an irresistible desire to be

    irresistibly desired."
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 14

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    It has been a long time

    since I felt that I was desired by a woman. True enough the last year has been personally difficult and I have avoided relationships until I could get things back in order, but I still have needs. My last relationship ended with her stating that she never wanted to have sex...
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    coccoc coccoc 22-25, M Dec 10, 2014

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    Sad that I don't feel

    that from my husband.
    Puzzledmic Puzzledmic 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    I know I am loved and I am told I am desired

    but I don't feel that way... I realized it tonight while I listen to you snooze and the ocean sleep sounds play that what I am missing is your desire for me. You craved to know about me, my body, to splendor in me. I just feel like people get married and lost in the comfort...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday 26-30, F 1 Response May 30, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F Dec 12, 2014

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    Tomorrow night he'll be here.

    ... The man I was with for over 12 years .... He'll be under the same roof.... Staying the night in my home.... To see his son.... I don't want him to want me, but thwart primal part of me desperately wants him to want me.... Wants him to desire me, no matter how messed up it is...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    Anyone out there feeling alone too?

    Let's chat about desires and being desired and much more :
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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