I Want to Feel Desired

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    Why is it that it always seems

    that a man who wants to have a physical relationship is always with a woman that doesn't want him to touch her? And a woman who wants nothing but to be with a man that wants to touch her cant seem to find one?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    23 Responses May 5, 2015

    So this is crazy... I wouldn't cheat.

    .. But It occurred to me tonight while I was taking a walk that if a girl or group of girls stopped their vehicle on the road and asked if I wanted to get in, I would probably do it. Seems like such a thrill!
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 5, 2015

    So happy at the moment.

    Feel well and truly desired and wanted. But also respected and loved. Trying hard not to let the fear n insecurities seep in. It feels just like the movies n books say it is! Hard to believe it's real n happening to me!!!
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    I want this feeling..

    I don't know what it feels like.. I try so hard to get him to flirt with me..it's fine for awhile then he quits answering my questions or makes smart *** comments.. Why can't he just make me feel that he desires me?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    I just want to feel wanted.

    .. sexy... not worry about life or bills or kids or anything. What happened to that? I just want some physical attention, not my wife watching TV in another room getting bugged when I want to come cuddle or get frisky. I want to be wanted... by anyone! Is that pathetic? I'd just...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 9, 2015
    andreadorian andreadorian
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 18, 2015

    I'm thinking about divorce

    for the first time in 8 years, I can't keep this false marriage, I'm loosing myself and become the worse version of myself. I'm my own worst enemy of myself for not allowing to be happy.
    andreadorian andreadorian
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2015

    Yes, please. I give you compliments all the

    time. I say "I love you," every single day. I do my share of the work at home and raising our child. I try to take care of my appearance and look the best I can. I tell you what I want. I try being aggressive....I try being passive. I tell you I want you. And I get nothing in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    Married but don't feel like I am desired

    or even loved for that matter
    lifepassedmeby lifepassedmeby
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2015

    This has got to be one of the most frustrating

    feelings in life. Nevertheless hopeful is what we should remain. That hope comes from within ourselves. I've learnt that if we love ourselves we can flip the coin.
    SavGotHerGroove SavGotHerGroove
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jan 8
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    he hears me cry and he just turns

    and ignores me. .. i touch him and he says not now I'm tired, ., when i ask him is it me, he says don't start that **** and just leave it. ... maybe I'm not what he needs or wants anymore.... desperately lonely...
    luvshoesval luvshoesval
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 23, 2014
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 22, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    Is There More I Could Do?

    I keep hair trimmed, just the way you like. My head shaved, my goatee the perfect length (just enough to tickle), body hair short, pubes shaved. I do 50 knee lifts a day, not quite a six-pack, but the love handles are gone, I've lost 30 pounds. I provide for the family, sure...
    2feetApart 2feetApart
    36-40, M
    8 Responses Jun 24, 2013

    I day dream of this. I have day dream hours

    and hours through the years about this. Have question myself plenty of times. "Do you know what you are looking for?" "Suppose it's not real." Then I answer with it has got to be. I have heard people say it is. It must be mighty nice to experience it. I think I came close once...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    Aug 12, 2015

    I desire to be with you.

    I miss you. I feel lonely when I can't see you. I am obsessed with you, fascinated by you, infatuated with you. I hunger for your taste, your smell, the feel of your soul touching mine.
    howlergirl18 howlergirl18
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 11, 2015

    My wife has lost her sexdrive to a couple

    diseases, and I wish I was all ok with that, but since she doesn't want me sexually anymore, she has also stopped hugging and caressing me. The double bed feels like the most lonely place on this planet after she falls asleep... Feeling unwanted and undesired is not something I...
    norwegian73 norwegian73
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2015

    We're all hoping we're all hopeless We're all

    thorns and we're all roses We're all looking down our noses at ourselves We're all flawed and we're all perfect We're all lost and we're all hurting And just searching for somebody to love -Kacey Musgraves "Somebody to Love" 😊👏🏻
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    I am so tired of being in a sexless marriage

    not a chance in hell with my wife . hoping someone will show me I'm still desirable .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 3, 2015

    Wow, the title of this group sounds desperate

    and almost pathetic, yet is this not a fundamental and universal human need? No one should be made to feel embarrassed by it. Why should it not be okay to admit that it's hurtful to not feel desired? Especially by someone you expect to desire you. Life is so strange...
    sadlyalone2 sadlyalone2
    46-50, F
    16 Responses Feb 6

    I think it is important to most people to feel

    desired. Atleast for me I know that to be a fact. Sometimes I need the validation of others to feel good about myself. Why do we have this constant need? Wish I could be like others who doesn't ever care what people think about them. Who just go about their daily lives not...
    lostinbeauty lostinbeauty
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 10

    So I finally met this girl I've been talking to

    for the past 3 months. Its been very difficult to meet due to her job, but it finally happened and it was great. Things got physical and well it was unbelievable but the thing I loved the most was the small kisses, holding her hand, just feeling like i mattered to someone. It...
    Godito5 Godito5
    26-30, M
    Jun 23, 2015

    I have pretty much determined my marriage is

    over. Over the past decade we have grown so far apart that the distance is insurmountable. The constant rejection is a reminder of my faults that she cannot forgive and is unwilling to compromise. It has been a decade and some since we have had sex. Now I don't even desire...
    vanessacd5 vanessacd5
    46-50
    5 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    This would be nice to know this feeling again.

    Maybe one day dreams will come true
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 23, 2015

    I want to feel beautiful.

    I want to be noticed when I walk into a room. I want you to look at me as if you can't hold back, and I'm the only woman you want. I need to feel sexy and alive again. I just want you to want me.
    JARSMS JARSMS
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    Funny Way To Show It...

    You say you want me, but never touch me. You say I am the most beautiful woman, that you only have eyes for me, that you love me and will never love another. I hear the words, but without the touch; they feel meaningless. If you want someone, but never show them, can it really...
    noluvin noluvin
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

    It makes me feel special

    and wanted :)
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Nov 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 10

    I've never really felt

    that before.
    Chaosforthefly Chaosforthefly
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2015

    I'm a strong & confident woman.

    I understand & embrace my sexuality. I'm open minded, curious & explorative about new sexual experiences. I'm upfront about my needs & desires. I'm easy to engage with new sexual concepts. I'm encouraging of other people's fantasies. I'm vocal about my thoughts. But my wife...
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 3, 2015

    I want a woman to be able to look at me

    and think of me as a tall piece of meat and be happy with herself and happy to if I look at her in the same way. At the same time I'd like us to mutually desire each other's minds, hearts and souls. I want a woman to feel I can full any kind of hunger she has (that does not...
    Maybeincubus Maybeincubus
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 21, 2015
    mssparkles mssparkles
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    I think everyone desires to be desired just

    fact is ill never be desired or wanted its a fact of life for my past or my likes.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2015
    kaye23e kaye23e
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 1, 2014

    I was so, so happy when you told me you were

    coming to N-------. It sounds corny, but I really did feel my heart leap when you said that you'd like to meet me. . I spent some time making myself ready on the afternoon of your arrival. I showered, of course, and washed my hair. Shaved my legs. But this was not just any...
    SmartKat SmartKat
    46-50, F
    22 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    But this will not happen in my life.

    It's beautiful fantasy I will crave for the rest of my life
    msvanish0 msvanish0
    46-50, F
    17 Responses Apr 30, 2015

    ...Yes but where do we draw the line?

    Ok so your ex gf of 12 years is coming to town. You two have talked about her visit and have gotten the logistics figured out. Because you're still single and have an extra room in the house, you offered the room to her. She mentions that she hasn't had sex in 2 years. You're...
    TheMoonNi TheMoonNi
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    Tomorrow night he'll be here.

    ... The man I was with for over 12 years .... He'll be under the same roof.... Staying the night in my home.... To see his son.... I don't want him to want me, but thwart primal part of me desperately wants him to want me.... Wants him to desire me, no matter how messed up it is...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 1, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 23, 2015

    Want to be pleased. .

    .to feel the hot sensation...be wanted...be love...to be desire....all the time !
    Tsgirl86 Tsgirl86
    26-30, T
    4 Responses Feb 26
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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