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I Want to Feel Desired

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    I want to feel beautiful.

    I want to be noticed when I walk into a room. I want you to look at me as if you can't hold back, and I'm the only woman you want. I need to feel sexy and alive again. I just want you to want me.
    JARSMS JARSMS 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    I want a boyfriend who can make me feel good

    all the time is that to much to ask?
    WizzlexBizzle WizzlexBizzle 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 21, 2014

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    he hears me cry and he just turns

    and ignores me. .. i touch him and he says not now I'm tired, ., when i ask him is it me, he says don't start that **** and just leave it. ... maybe I'm not what he needs or wants anymore.... desperately lonely...
    luvshoesval luvshoesval 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    I wouldn't say "desired"

    but loved... I mean, I just accepted the fact that I might be gay and I just need to know if the love of a guy can make me feel better :/
    WizzlexBizzle WizzlexBizzle 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    One of the best feelings in life is discovering

    that you are appreciated by someone regardless of how unworthy someone else has made you feel. Wouldn't you agree?
    margai margai 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I know I am loved and I am told I am desired

    but I don't feel that way... I realized it tonight while I listen to you snooze and the ocean sleep sounds play that what I am missing is your desire for me. You craved to know about me, my body, to splendor in me. I just feel like people get married and lost in the comfort...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday 26-30, F 1 Response May 30, 2014

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    I feel lonely in my own home,

    in my own bed. The same home and bed I share with my husband of eight years.
    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 11 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I want someone to sit

    and think to themselves about how much they miss me. I want them to smell the hint of perfume I left on their bed and feel engulfed in it. I want someone to yearn for my kiss and the way it tastes. Sadly, no guy has that kind of focus.
    onecutebubbles0729 onecutebubbles0729 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I see your eyes light up

    as I walk into the room. As soon as our eyes meet, there is an electricity between us, an attraction that continually draws us together. There is a fire that has been building for days now. You gently touch my forearm and we both know. There will be a gentle kiss, a tender...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 14, 2014

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    To Be Desired

    I borrowed this from  a story  posted in another  group .  It fits my  feelings  perfectly"God knows, I soooooo miss intimacy. I am sad when I think how much I have forgotten the joy of it. Of drawing close to someones face, of feeling their interest in me. Of hands that...
    Saturn2072 Saturn2072 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2011

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F Dec 12, 2014

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    Is There More I Could Do?

    I keep hair trimmed, just the way you like. My head shaved, my goatee the perfect length (just enough to tickle), body hair short, pubes shaved. I do 50 knee lifts a day, not quite a six-pack, but the love handles are gone, I've lost 30 pounds. I provide for the family, sure...
    2feetApart 2feetApart 36-40, M 8 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    Pondering moment #7533: Sometimes I wonder

    if the level of desire changes the longer you are in a relationship...do you things sound not as exciting as it did 8 years ago? or this is the natural process once you get kids and more responsibility?
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 17

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    Funny Way To Show It...

    You say you want me, but never touch me. You say I am the most beautiful woman, that you only have eyes for me, that you love me and will never love another. I hear the words, but without the touch; they feel meaningless. If you want someone, but never show them, can it really...
    noluvin noluvin 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    I wish I had someone

    that desired me
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2014

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    I Often Feel Taken Forgranted

    I miss the excitement of a new relationship.  I miss feeling wanted and desired.  I miss having the power to instantly turn on my boyfriend. While I appreciate the security that comes with a long term relationship, I draw comfort from knowing he loves me just as I am...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    Anyone out there feeling alone too?

    Let's chat about desires and being desired and much more :
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    It Looks So Much Better On Other People.......

    Here lately it seems everywhere I look I see couples that are so sweet and loving to each other. When I am walking for exercise on a nearby trail, several times per week I see an adorable couple walking with each other chatting and casually walking hand in hand just enjoying...
    southernheat southernheat 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    Do You Want Me?

    I am sitting here and waiting for YOU! I want you close to my  heart and I want your love. I want you to look at me and feel desired as I am with you. I love you and I want you to be happy with me. I want my man to kiss my ground and worship me. As I can return the favor...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2012

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    I need that.. wish I had

    that with someone..
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response May 31, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F Dec 12, 2014

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    JennaHurts JennaHurts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8, 2014

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    And I do feel desired by my special lady.

    It does wonders for my self esteem. :-)
    utahwriter utahwriter 41-45, M May 26, 2014

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    "Love is an irresistible desire to be

    irresistibly desired."
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    It has been a long time

    since I felt that I was desired by a woman. True enough the last year has been personally difficult and I have avoided relationships until I could get things back in order, but I still have needs. My last relationship ended with her stating that she never wanted to have sex...
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    Time And Space

    I want to know that the ache I feel inside isn't just mine alone ... that you share it ... that you feel it too.That the sweep of desire that floods my body is a feeling you understand ... that we speak the same language ... The night sky stretches between us and it comforts...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 26, 2010

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    Tomorrow night he'll be here.

    ... The man I was with for over 12 years .... He'll be under the same roof.... Staying the night in my home.... To see his son.... I don't want him to want me, but thwart primal part of me desperately wants him to want me.... Wants him to desire me, no matter how messed up it is...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 1

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    coccoc coccoc 22-25, M Dec 10, 2014

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    Sad that I don't feel

    that from my husband.
    Puzzledmic Puzzledmic 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    I've never felt wanted before,

    in any way. I feel like everyone is either apathetic towards me or dislikes me, and it saddens me. Even if I have people telling me that they want to be my friend, help me, or simply be a part of my life, it's hard to believe. I always feel unwanted and unnecessary.
    lacklongafter lacklongafter 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29, 2014

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    I am so tired of being in a sexless marriage

    not a chance in hell with my wife . hoping someone will show me I'm still desirable .
    LTBS64 LTBS64 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 3

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    Miss feeling that passion.

    Having my body adored and just feeling so wanted from someone who was gentle and genuine
    MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2014

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    I'm having a moment while writing this.

    However this need to be said. I was to feel wanted and not needed. Does anyone else understand what I mean? I mean I'm more than happy to help anyone out, but at the same time, I feel used. I want someone to call me theirs and all that cute stuff. Anyone else feel me?
    SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I just want to belong to someone again.

    To have that last great love affair, my first great love affair, any love affair where someone loves me as much as I love them. That they could look at me and say, "I need you..." not want... need. I want someone who sits there and watches me smile and say if I don't get to...
    Sparrowlynn03 Sparrowlynn03 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    I want to be desired,

    long for another's touch. My wife does not like sex, great for her since there is none. I have a high sex drive and no where to park...it really sucks!! Wish there was a way yo erase or suppress these desires and needs....
    ngnomore ngnomore 51-55, M 2 Responses May 4, 2014

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 12, 2014

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 1, 2014

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    Definitely didn't start the new year of right .

    I'm in a relationship where I feel like I'm always getting nagged at , I feel like all women desire some love and compassion, especially at night I want to be desired sensually touched and loved . I seriously do love my boyfriend but I feel like he doesn't desire me anymore...
    Bittersweetgl Bittersweetgl 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 8

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