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I Want to Feel Desired

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    The Most Wonderful Feeling In The World

    I commented on a story in this group and realized that my comment was a story of it's own so here it is. I have just started seeing a woman that is much, much younger than me, above legal age, that I was helping through a bad time with advice and friendly comforting. She...
    funguy1326 funguy1326 46-50, M Aug 26, 2011

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    Am I Ugly? What's The Freakin' Problem Then?!!

    I have yet for this to happen. Why is it that the only people who are attracted to me are old men? Sometimes this gives me the impression that I am ugly and so far the only ones who have disputed that have been my friends and family. That doesn't count because 1. I don't...
    applejackson applejackson 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    Desired

    Desired,That's me,Wanna be,Plenty of friends,Havin' a ball,With all the desirables.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 10, 2011

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    This is just an explanation of how I believe my

    relationship issues began with. With the start of this, I want to explain what I think the reason for me not wanting to be with any girl is. Well first off, I feel complicated with the fact that even If the girl I liked liked me back, I still wouldn't want to be with...
    Cristian1928 Cristian1928 16-17, M Feb 17

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    This Is One Big Thing About Being Sexually Deprived

    the feeling that I am not wanted or desired...No getting around that...no matter how much I **********... you know what I mean? JamesAtlanta
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 6 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    I see your eyes light up

    as I walk into the room. As soon as our eyes meet, there is an electricity between us, an attraction that continually draws us together. There is a fire that has been building for days now. You gently touch my forearm and we both know. There will be a gentle kiss, a tender...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 14

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    By both genders. But decent types of

    both genders. Not those that turn my stomach. Drat. Too picky.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 1

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    There'S Nothing Like It

    To feel wanted, truly desired as if one were an object of pleasure and yet infinitely more, is to experience heaven on earth. I am convinced there is no substitute for it, nothing that can truly come to match the ecstasy and fulfillment of two people mutually being the end and...
    LoftyDreamer LoftyDreamer 22-25, M 1 Response May 7, 2013

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    Looking Forward To 2012

    Well next year will hopefully be the year I get what I've been missing for a long time. Either my wife will go to the doctor and receive some helpful treatment or we will figure out if we will stay together while I find a sex partner that craves the same as me!
    Insearchofmore Insearchofmore 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2011

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    he hears me cry and he just turns

    and ignores me. .. i touch him and he says not now I'm tired, ., when i ask him is it me, he says don't start that **** and just leave it. ... maybe I'm not what he needs or wants anymore.... desperately lonely...
    luvshoesval luvshoesval 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I want to be desired,

    long for another's touch. My wife does not like sex, great for her since there is none. I have a high sex drive and no where to park...it really sucks!! Wish there was a way yo erase or suppress these desires and needs....
    ngnomore ngnomore 46-50, M 2 Responses May 4

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    Worship Me Like The Goddess I Am

    The last thing you think of and want before you settle in for the night The first thing you crave to see at the new days' bright light You can't stop touching me reassuring yourself I am really yours And you know when you put your hands on this kitty really purrs The sound of my...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 12

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    Anyone out there feeling alone too?

    Let's chat about desires and being desired and much more :
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 14

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    To Be Desired Is To Be Fulfilled

    i believe most people want the feeling to be desired and to desire a special one... to know that there is a special one to whom they are indespensible to and so wanted and perhaps loved... i know for me that somewhere in this planet is a special someone...the one the true that...
    handymanjim handymanjim 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2012

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    Is There More I Could Do?

    I keep hair trimmed, just the way you like. My head shaved, my goatee the perfect length (just enough to tickle), body hair short, pubes shaved. I do 50 knee lifts a day, not quite a six-pack, but the love handles are gone, I've lost 30 pounds. I provide for the family, sure...
    2feetApart 2feetApart 36-40, M 6 Responses Jun 24, 2013

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    And I do feel desired by my special lady.

    It does wonders for my self esteem. :-)
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M May 26

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    JennaHurts JennaHurts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    I know I am loved and I am told I am desired

    but I don't feel that way... I realized it tonight while I listen to you snooze and the ocean sleep sounds play that what I am missing is your desire for me. You craved to know about me, my body, to splendor in me. I just feel like people get married and lost in the comfort...
    CallMeFriday CallMeFriday 26-30, F 1 Response May 30

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    Funny Way To Show It...

    You say you want me, but never touch me. You say I am the most beautiful woman, that you only have eyes for me, that you love me and will never love another. I hear the words, but without the touch; they feel meaningless. If you want someone, but never show them, can it really...
    noluvin noluvin 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2012

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    Wanting Something I'll Probably Never Get...

      I want to know that when i walk into a room your heart begins to beat so loud you think others are able to hear it. That all it takes is one kiss from me to send shivers down you spine, and make you weak in the knees. I want to be loved by you, adored, desired and...
    EdenEyed EdenEyed 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2010

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    I Want To Know You Want Me

    I want to see your desire for me in your eyes I want to feel your desire for me in your touch I want to know that you want me "in that way" When we are sitting on the couch, press your body against mine. Touch me tenderly, look into my eyes, smile at me, show me thorough...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 7 Responses Feb 18, 2013

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    I'm having a moment while writing this.

    However this need to be said. I was to feel wanted and not needed. Does anyone else understand what I mean? I mean I'm more than happy to help anyone out, but at the same time, I feel used. I want someone to call me theirs and all that cute stuff. Anyone else feel me?
    SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 SemiAthleticFoodieChick93 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    kaye23e kaye23e 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 1

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    To Be Desired

    I borrowed this from  a story  posted in another  group .  It fits my  feelings  perfectly"God knows, I soooooo miss intimacy. I am sad when I think how much I have forgotten the joy of it. Of drawing close to someones face, of feeling their interest in me. Of hands that...
    Saturn2072 Saturn2072 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2011

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    Getting There

    It's a new day and there is no change in the way things are. I am excepting of this and just waiting to find someone I could hang out with and talk to. I got out today to get a lil touch up to myself i'm just getting so excited about my trip I can't wait to be around people who I...
    siema1201 siema1201 41-45 2 Responses May 7, 2013

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    If Only

    At one point she kept telling me to get here. I did. It only took 3 months for her too loose interest in me. or at least not show any. I fell hard and in that regard im still madly in love with her. How could she turn cold so fast? I just feel hurt, worthless, and unwanted. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 25, 2011

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    I want to feel beautiful.

    I want to be noticed when I walk into a room. I want you to look at me as if you can't hold back, and I'm the only woman you want. I need to feel sexy and alive again. I just want you to want me.
    smhinterrupted smhinterrupted 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I've never felt wanted before,

    in any way. I feel like everyone is either apathetic towards me or dislikes me, and it saddens me. Even if I have people telling me that they want to be my friend, help me, or simply be a part of my life, it's hard to believe. I always feel unwanted and unnecessary.
    lacklongafter lacklongafter 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I Often Feel Taken Forgranted

    I miss the excitement of a new relationship.  I miss feeling wanted and desired.  I miss having the power to instantly turn on my boyfriend. While I appreciate the security that comes with a long term relationship, I draw comfort from knowing he loves me just as I am...
    Creamsicle Creamsicle 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    I Go To Bars And Nightclubs Just To Feel Desired

    I go out to bars and nightclubs by myself to talk and dance with strangers, often ditching my friends in the process. I'll do this once or twice a week. I feel as though these superficial interactions are the only way I can experience being desired.
    AnAesthete AnAesthete 18-21, M Dec 30, 2012

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    Miss feeling that passion.

    Having my body adored and just feeling so wanted from someone who was gentle and genuine
    MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit MissCaraCarnageTheGamingGambit 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    It Looks So Much Better On Other People.......

    Here lately it seems everywhere I look I see couples that are so sweet and loving to each other. When I am walking for exercise on a nearby trail, several times per week I see an adorable couple walking with each other chatting and casually walking hand in hand just enjoying...
    southernheat southernheat 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2011

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    Longing

    it has been so long since i felt the actual touch of a woman. i long to be held and touched, to feel to softness of a woman's touch. i long to be wanted and desired . don't know what to do anymore
    firera firera 41-45, M Mar 13, 2012

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    Can It Be Real?

    I have, so many happy couples in my school, and tehy always walk down the hall hand-in-hand, they try and make out every chance they get in between classes, they hang out with eachother nearly 24/7, and what's worse, they never shut up about each other. So many people are like...
    SilentCircus SilentCircus 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 30, 2009

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    I need that.. wish I had

    that with someone..
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 1 Response May 31

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    Do You Want Me?

    I am sitting here and waiting for YOU! I want you close to my  heart and I want your love. I want you to look at me and feel desired as I am with you. I love you and I want you to be happy with me. I want my man to kiss my ground and worship me. As I can return the favor...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 18, 2012

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    i feel like every girl i meet is out of my

    league that ill nvr hav a chance
    audric audric 18-21, M Feb 3

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    I wish I had someone

    that desired me
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    Time And Space

    I want to know that the ache I feel inside isn't just mine alone ... that you share it ... that you feel it too.That the sweep of desire that floods my body is a feeling you understand ... that we speak the same language ... The night sky stretches between us and it comforts...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 4 Responses Jan 26, 2010

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    One of the best feelings in life is discovering

    that you are appreciated by someone regardless of how unworthy someone else has made you feel. Wouldn't you agree?
    margai margai 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 13

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    Why Don'T You Love Me?

    I'm 6'2. im attractive. I'm constantly sweet to everyone. Id never cheat or lie. id do anything for the one i love. Im a writer. i play sports. so i don't get why i get walked all over, used and abused. I just want someone to love me...
    Arcentine Arcentine 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

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    Wow, they pretty much nailed it! Your Existing Situation Feels there are barriers between herself and the essential things she desires. Your Stress Sources "His stubbornness and...
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    I look depressed on the outside. On the inside I am about to ******* explode. For years I wake up as tired as when I went to sleep. My nightmares leave me frantic. I can't move...
    Tantalustay Tantalustay 22-25, M 12 hrs ago

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    Don't we all? It's human nature to want to be desired and I hate the feeling and try to push it down. I hate that feeling of desperation.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Today again watched movie 'The cast away'. I have watched it many times, but still it makes me feel cry and also happy for this great actor. His emotions and gestures are truly...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Been with my bf for 7 years and I really want to have a baby but I'd like to at least be engaged before I do. I feel like 7 years is enough for him to propose to me like **** we...
    Ohkay89 Ohkay89 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    Even though my boyfriend isn't perfect and I feel that there is a lot left to be desired in our relationship, I must say that he does make me feel special. He loves me...
    MsNobodySpecial MsNobodySpecial 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    As you all know there was a man in my life who persecuted me and made my life a living hell . I wish if I was a talented author to write the whole story with all the details but...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 2 hrs ago

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