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I Want To Feel Good Enough

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    i want to feel good enough to be loved

    unconditionally by a significant other. its like everytime i start to feel even remotely better about my relationship something pops up and hinders it from continuing. i feel worthless to them despite what i say or do. i see the dating app and even if they are just "viewing...
    figmentoftheirimagination figmentoftheirimagination 26-30, F Jun 15, 2014

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    For You-not Me.

    I already know I AM enough. But I don't think I've felt accepted and loved for a very long time. my self esteem operates like a two sided mirror. What I See inside is a reflection of beauty, what I Expet others to see on the other side is ugliness, it prettty mcuh has a makeup...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M May 28, 2012

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    Not Sure If I Ever Will...

    I want to be too many things... I ask for very little... but, I do not think I will ever be good enough for anything, or anyone. All I can do is hope right now. I want to feel good enough for God...I want to feel good enough for love... I want to feel good enough for my family...
    bloodmoon777 bloodmoon777 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2012

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    Main Priority To Feel Good Enough For Men And Courses, Good Paying Jobs And Big Money

    I want to feel good enough for a nice big house and a nice lifestyleI want to feel good enough for a degree in law and whatever reallyI want to feel good enough to travel and stay in nice hotels, and have nice things etcI want to feel good enough for any guy I like.... as a...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 12, 2012

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    We are supposed to not value ourselves based on others'...but noone tell me how to do that. Now, 30 years down my life, I am lost in painful experiences, when friendS left me, when...
    reachoutmydream reachoutmydream 26-30, F 4 Responses May 8

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    I keep wondering why I am a target for abuse, rejection, being shunned, and abandoned by many? I feel no matter what I do or say to people, I'm just not good enough to be their...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't ever feel like I'm good enough.. When it comes to me and my relationship to walking around at school and thinking I'm nothing but meaningless and or worthless. The type of...
    MaayaOliivia07 MaayaOliivia07 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    To be honest it really hurts when you hear your best friend, who is the girl I'm also in love with tell you that she feels alone and unwanted.... It makes me feel not good enough...
    FFPower FFPower 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been with my bf 3 years I know he loves me but he sometimes makes me feel like i'm not good enough. Everything I say or do seems to be wrong or bad.I can understand his...
    littlerunaway littlerunaway 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I want to be a smooth talker ; I want to be taller ; i want to have better hair ... Sometimes I wish I was a man - a very hot dude with lots of money and sleep with as many sexy...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 2 Responses May 7

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    I am kind of new to this website so I don't really know how this works but I'll take a shot at it. I just need to say how I feel and put it all out there. Long story short as you...
    anonymous321890 anonymous321890 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    No matter my mood, no matter how much I try to do what everyone wants. No matter how much I allow everyone to have what they want when they want it I am and never will be good...
    rosesheart rosesheart 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I feel like I am never good enough for him and that my ex best friend is better. But all she do is flirt with other guys, make love with another guy, and cheat on him. I don't want...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 40 years old and I have been through a lot in my life. From my mother wanting to leave me at the hospital when I was born to being in several abusive relationship. I even had...
    Jackiecarter Jackiecarter 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Someone told me to know my own worth but I dont. I can't see it and I can't find it! Where can I find it? On a paper? In the mirror ? Inside myself? Where?? Love isn't everywhere...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 2 Responses May 4

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    For once I just want to be enough for real people. I can attract the model...cheerleader type. But the woman with substance....I dont seem to fit the bill. What causes the need...
    drooniedat drooniedat 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    feel as though not good enough
    atomicbombastar atomicbombastar 26-30, M 1 Response May 15

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    There are signs that remind us of certain things. Being out of breath remind us that you have physical limits, wrinkles and white hairs reminding us that we’re aging, being sick...
    Synapse81 Synapse81 31-35, M 1 Response May 19

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    i am always the last one to be picked at every group activity possible and i was never anyone's first choice and i'm tired of feeling like that it's really tiring yknow why can't i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm not good enough am I.....
    iamalonewolf iamalonewolf 13-15, M 1 Response May 5

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    I thought that I had found my soulmate but I now know that the seventeen years that we spent together had nothing to do with love. This makes me wonder am I good enough for any man...
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 3 Responses May 5

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    why am i not good enough ?? :( im kind caring , allround nice good guy , yet im not good enough :( its heartbreaking :(
    rodwood rodwood 36-40, M May 9

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    That's what I'm afraid of... Not being enough. Not good enough, not smart enough,not pretty enough......
    petya96 petya96 18-21, F 4 Responses May 10

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    I feel like I am not good enough for anyone ...it's just a struggle that I need to get over.just been really worried and stuff like that
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Seriously seems like everyone else is having amazing luck while I am not. I'm good enough for anyone or anything. Such a failure. Life is such a cruel joke :(
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's the worst going to bed upset or sad or angry. I like to feel good before I go to sleep....sex with my hubby definitely helps that!!
    chickengirl14 chickengirl14 31-35, F 1 Response May 19

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    But I never do feel good before I sleep at night .
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 19

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    I have to admit that I don't go dressed like that everyday. But is feels good to wear a suit and tie and I love to see men in business suits. I also love it when in my gym...
    Michi62 Michi62 46-50, M 1 Response May 2

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    I've been sick in bed three days and fever. I don't feel good:(
    KristyJohnson KristyJohnson 13-15, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I don't deserve a lot of stuff. Love is the main thing. I make promises to my girlfriend who I love to bits but I break them. The promises are about me being positive but I always...
    cloudycarnage cloudycarnage 16-17, M 5 hrs ago

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    Personally, I feel like I am a great person. But it seems like others just don't see it. I'm rather attractive and a bit on the nerdy side (like anime and video games) so it's not...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Thats how i feel sometimes. If only the world was perfect😟 but theres no meaning of perfect. Every one has diffrent meaning. I feel like im not perfect enough but thab on the...
    skylerbruhh09 skylerbruhh09 13-15, F a week ago

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    All I need is Love. I need to feel loved. I want to feel that Im special. I need to be told sincerely that Im beautiful. That I dont have to prove anything to anyone. That Im...
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F Apr 28

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    Nothing More Than An Underachiever Growing up in my family was kind of like being a top prospect in the NHL draft, and my 3 older brothers were the other top prospects I was...
    DeathstalkerScorpion DeathstalkerScorpion 22-25, M Apr 29

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    Do you ever feel that there are enough people around you that seem to like you, but that no one seems to actually RESPECT you or take you seriously? Like you're this goofy little...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 1 Response May 6

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    I don't want to feel this awful burden this is too much, i really don't want to live but i know i cant just end my life that easily. every time something bothers me i luk for gud...
    furmal furmal 26-30 a week ago

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    But I am slowly learning that "enough" would mean I am done....I am SO not done
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 7 Responses May 10

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    How could I not when the best I have to offer isn't enough?
    wayward71 wayward71 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    A POEM She's Tired Of Being Her She's so tired of being her Tired of being fat and stuck Staring at the same walls all day Exhausted with no reason Knowing she should move Just...
    staryflower staryflower 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My mind's turbulent enough - I don't need any further fuel for the fire!! Always find a physiological release extinguishes any flames! 😜
    PeterSp8 PeterSp8 41-45, M May 19

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    I want to be happy I truly really do But when it comes to happiness I just can't seem to make that wish come true.
    AwkwardTurtle46 AwkwardTurtle46 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes due to my past experiences, I think like I'm just wasting space on earth like I'm a nothing, not normal. I feel like I don't fit in anywhere.