I Want To Feel Love Without Pain

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    How do you know when the pain of staying with

    someone is far greater then the happiness they bring you? I have never had a boyfriend who 'loved' me and didn't want to spend time with me. He played a 'second' hockey game, had to get ready for work, fell asleep, phone died.. Pretty good excuses. The worst is he has cheated...
    PursiutofHappyness PursiutofHappyness
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2016

    When you finally make yourself vulnerable

    and admit how you feel and get knocked back
    sillyduck28 sillyduck28
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    Two Poems From A Broken Hand

    You trapped me with your smile Held me down a lil while Never thought the day would come That you & I would come undone… You beat the love right out of me You beat the love right out of me Tied me up with all those lies Walked away each time I cried Broken Promises, Broken...
    LuhxLeMieux LuhxLeMieux
    22-25, F
    Mar 4, 2011

    But Pain Is Love.

    Love without pain doesn't exist because all relationships have their ups and downs. You are bound to feel some sort of pain while being in love with someone, if you don't, it isn't true love. It probably would be nice to feel love without pain but that would be so unrealistic and...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

    It's hard to see the one I love with the one he

    loves without breaking my heart. Everyday.
    sarahjose sarahjose
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015

    No Matter How Much I Try And Sugar Coat It.

    No matter how much compassion I have in my heart for her. Despite her sweet and gentle spirit. Whether I still love her or not. I can't deny the pain. She hurt me. There's a part of me that wants to lash out - "she's a B*TCH!" How could she hurt me like this!? She knowingly let...
    Anonymouself Anonymouself
    41-45, M
    Nov 8, 2013
    Saya024 Saya024
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    I Am A Rock

      "I want to feel love without pain". I am disillusioned now at the concept of love. I have learned that no matter how deeply you love; how deeply you care; how ever much to try to lift the other person up to where he/she belongs, it is all for naught, for in the end, only God...
    northguy northguy
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Dec 21, 2011
    PierceTheMarua PierceTheMarua
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2016

    It Would Be Nice....

    ......to feel love without the pain of being so far away....
    peanlo peanlo
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Apr 3, 2011

    The Last Time

    The last time i tried to feel loved without pain was only yesterday.. I remembered when  i was 4 till 15 i can feel love with only a slight pain.. Because i get both equal love and pain from both mamma and pappa.. When mamma and pappa are around to give all the attention and...
    Amberstories Amberstories
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Sep 21, 2010

    I can't enjoy anything now

    because of this anti-depressant, which is dulling my feelings and thoughts and is dragging me into a worse state then before I started them. I am taking 300mg of Effexor (Venlafaxine) and I am wondering what the safest option of weaning would be. Cut dosage in half for a week...
    ottoarch ottoarch
    18-21, F
    Dec 23, 2014

    That's all I ever wanted is to feel love

    without having to deal with any pain every time my heart is broken.
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2015

    Just gave a sincere thank you to my past self

    from 20 minutes ago for snagging the snackies. ******* stoneddd.
    ottoarch ottoarch
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2014

    Why are the two always linked together?

    Those who love us the most often times hurt us the most too. Why can't there just be love?
    AboveAllElse AboveAllElse
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Oct 30, 2015

    Will You Rescue Me, Or Will You Fail?

    I’ve been ******** of everything I thought that I loved in life. Left bare & completely disillusioned by everything & everyone around me. When you came back into my life I convinced myself that I could control every emotion that tried to sweep me away, but I was only fooling...
    LuhxLeMieux LuhxLeMieux
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 25, 2011

    Why Pain

    i loved my ex but ill again i changed he wants me to be who was before got ill again i cant i my belifs changed but luv him but i cant tell my belifs changed so i afrraid beinng alone tell him so i in pain i feel ill there telling him also i hut cant see the way out this mess so...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 13, 2011

    I'm Sorry but love without pain?

    ? I don't think it exists, for even when we are at our happiest in our lives, pain dwells within us .-. . Also, theres always to be pain when you love.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    True love is very difficult to get.

    And love without pain seems impossible. Someone who is in love is easier to hurt than anybody else.
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    Please I Know Its Long But I Dont Know What To Do Anymore So Please Help Me

    I have been so confused these past couple of months I don't care who you are I just want someone to help me. It started about 9 months ago when this guy asked for my girlfriends number me and her have been dating for almost 3 years now but of course I didn't like her giving her...
    oldgreg716 oldgreg716
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 9, 2011

    Growing Into You

    You took me underneath your wings of steel with a wayward smile and a casual hello.. I fell down, down, down below your heart & you buried me safely in your chest. Every beat rained down a warm waterfall over every tragedy that had made a visit in my life. With a cocky sweep of...
    LuhxLeMieux LuhxLeMieux
    22-25, F
    Feb 25, 2011

    Love, touching another's heart,

    if painful, it never was love, acceptance of who another be, over what is the premise, if that is absent, love will never be present. Living in Love
    mjoemyre mjoemyre
    56-60, M
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    A long travel with my girl with her love.

    It's really a great thing in life.
    harry8199 harry8199
    22-25, M
    Feb 21, 2014


    ...that's not really possible, is it? Just as with light there's shadow, there's pain with love. Without the pain, sorrow and heartbreak, we wouldn't know just how special and worthwhile love really is. We wouldn't appreciate it, we probably wouldn't recognise it.  But I do wish...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123
    18-21, F
    44 Responses Apr 3, 2011

    i also want to feel love without pain

    but the sad truth is love and pain are strongly connected to eachother and cannot be separated
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    Tumbling Into My Own Destruction

    Oh my darling broken man, you’ll never know how much I love you. You will never see through your own blindness to the love that’s trying hard to shine right out of my heart. You will never be better, because you are consumed by your own unhappiness. You will never be able...
    LuhxLeMieux LuhxLeMieux
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2011

    Feeling The Flip Flop

    I just got out of a relationship three months ago. I was the one that did the braking up, yet I had the hardest time getting over him. But I think I've done good. Now I feel like I want to be in love again and have someone special in my life. Other times like when I am home...
    mybones mybones
    36-40, F
    Dec 29, 2011

    Still I Run For Miles For You

    Have you fallen for me yet? I let you go but i don't know how.. I know its just another night but i feel for you again And i remember when... Still your heart that lifts me And your words that could kill me But still i run for miles to be near you. I cant let go of you right...
    Amberstories Amberstories
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2012

    True Lines.! The First Person Who Teaches You

    The Meaning Of "LOVE" Will Also Be The First Person Who Teaches You The Meaning Of "PAIN"...
    harry8199 harry8199
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2014

    but I have come to the conclusion

    that love without pain is nwarly impossible. cant have love without opening your heart once there you are vulnerable to pain.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015

    Confessions Of A Jester

    I'm in the beginning stages of a love that has no ending written, it’s a story still untold.. In his eyes are promises that reach further then the stars in the sky. I accept the words that fall from his lips like they were words written from my own pen. I believe your...
    LuhxLeMieux LuhxLeMieux
    22-25, F
    Feb 25, 2011

    Love Pains

    Love Pains I wish I NEVER met you, all I do if think of you. I tried so hard to stay away, but you kept coming towards me and I gave you a chance to be mine. That was a huge mistake, because after I let you go I felt guilty! you were so hurt and I didn't mean it but I had to end...
    burninglove16 burninglove16
    18-21, F
    Nov 3, 2013

    I'm So Close To Giving Up On Love

    I feel like I'm always the one putting my heart and soul into relationship but I never get anything in return, and if I do get anything, its only during the beginning of the relationship life span. Then, the guys start becoming distant or starts acting different and the...
    PenelopeParfait PenelopeParfait
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 2, 2011

    I've never even had a first love anyway.

    My first (abusive) boyfriend I only dated because I thought that's all I would get. He cheated on me. He bad mouthed me. (Just learned this last week, we have been broken up for two years now). He threatened suicide if I left him.
    SwedishDoll SwedishDoll
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2016

    I Thought I Found My Soulmate...

    Hi. I am a 41 year-old woman who is in a relationship with a 34 year-old man who I have known for several years. I felt connected to him from the moment I met him, but I was too insecure to let my real feelings be known; he was so young and beautiful, and I felt that I didn't...
    jelloqueen222 jelloqueen222
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2011
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