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I Want to Figure Out the Male Mind

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    I Have a Question

     about monogamy.  Do you think that the female brain is wired for monogamy but the male brain is not?  I have been thinking about this for a while now. A lot of my male friends say that if their partners didn't mind, they would have sex with other women.  My...
    apencilfornow apencilfornow 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 9, 2008

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    I Totally Adore Men

    I mean, not ALL men, you understand, but men in general. I am so totally heterosexual... I love the way men feel, how you talk and walk and carry yourself and smell and smile.... But I have to admit I do NOT always understand you... I just wish sometimes I could figure out...
    SabrinaNYC SabrinaNYC 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 30, 2010

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    Good Luck...

    I can't speak for my other male friends but if you want to take a crack at me, go for it. See if you can figure me out.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 17 Responses Apr 21, 2009

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    Guys Pls. Give Us Insight

     Women always share how they feel and think. I wish guys would share a little more about what goes on inside their minds.  What I really want to know right now is: "Why can't guys and girls be just friends?" I wanted to stay friends with this one guy that...
    reset reset 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 9, 2009

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    A Woman Will Do Anything To Please Her Partner

    So all you male communicating don't turn the table on us. Just tell us what you expect from us in love making. If one girl is not able to satisfy you some other would but we need to know what makes you happy. Be very very specific so we don't go around in circles and circles...
    SunnyBelle SunnyBelle 26-30, F 19 Responses Mar 17, 2010

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    The Funniest Story Ever Told

    The Daily Telegraph claims they know the funniest story ever told.  Huh?  I think its another example of a  male thing.  The most I could manage was a wry grin.    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/tvandradio/5169932/Did-Clement-Freud-tell...
    LilAnnie LilAnnie 56-60, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    While You People Are Working On It

    Can you let me know why I can't help but laugh and feel proud when I gases my old roomates out of the bathroom back in college I can still do now but my wife makes me pay for it so it is not as fun.( I still feel a little pride though)
    mr4553 mr4553 36-40, M Apr 23, 2009

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    Want to Know

    If me and my boyfriend have different opinions on something, he always answers that I am not a guy so I don't understand. After hearing that so many times I really do want to know how guys think. I would love to know how they feel about certain things. Like why can't a guy pass a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    Male Mind VS. Female Mind

    Everybody is different, female V.s. Female is just as Different as male V.S. Male. Yes, it is more complicated than Books, or studies make it. First, you must understand yourself, before you try to understand the opposite sex. Then when you try to figure out the Opposite sex, you...
    Blackstallion76 Blackstallion76 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 23, 2013

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    Me Too - and I Am Male...

    ...and why does it seem that some of us don't have a mind, while others don't mind, and some have a mind of their own?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 21, 2009

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    So I am an Aquarius..and supposedly we are hard to figure out. My guy is sick with the cold, and I care, I really do, but the moment he expects me to help or feel sad for him, I...
    brucewayne87 brucewayne87 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 8

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    If you gurls find yourself getting women's lingerie and clothing that is too small for you, I hope this will help. When I first started dressing, I used Ebay to buy panties and...
    KurtPantyboi KurtPantyboi 56-60, M 2 Responses Dec 16

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    When people especially my man thinks he has me ALL the way figured out, I bring something new to the table ALWAYS, but in a good way! I balance myself out really well & he loves...
    xyxo xyxo 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am nearing the end of my 22nd year, regardless to say the past year saying I'm 21 has been amazing but now that it is coming to a close I am realising that I have been officially...
    rezonance rezonance 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think I am hard to figure out but you know what? I am who I am. I'm not fake, I'm not a liar, I don't lead people on. I recently got chatting to someone who lead me on badly...
    friendlygent friendlygent 26-30, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am very difficult to figure out , I put up my guard so that I don't get hurt. I just wish for once someone wouldn't give up on me, that someone would actually put some effort...
    mwilly mwilly 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 17

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    Like a lot of adolescents, I spent most of those uncomfortable years of change agonising over my own orientation, trying to work out from others around me (without making it too...
    morea morea 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 13

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    I have come across a predicament, I am attracted to the female body, though not so much the female mind (bar a few lesbians/bisexuals I have been with) when I am out and having a...
    Kattastrophe Kattastrophe 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Why are you trying to "figure it out"? Just let it be! Just let yourself be whatever you wanna be. Stop obsessing over which category you need to be in or what people will think of...
    MissyMo MissyMo 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm a negative person. A pessimist at my best! It's tragic. I have no clue why I've let life do this to me for this long. I'm only 21 years old and I am already tired, bitter and...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 26

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    So... Around last year at this time, my boss at the time had started to send me emails & messages, and telling me about personal issues (marriage, kids, family, sex, etc.)... So i...
    poopfantastica poopfantastica 70+ Nov 28

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    Yeah. Go ahead and try! I can't even figure me out!
    Hikingguy Hikingguy 46-50, M 9 Responses Dec 1

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    I seem to be attracted to men, but nut sure yet. Trying to figure it out.
    vldmrt vldmrt 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I can't even figure myself out sometimes.
    janessa94 janessa94 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 11

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    I am pretty sure many people would agree with this statement. I can't even figure myself out so I don't expect anyone else to be able to do it for me.
    Visi0nQu3st Visi0nQu3st 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm 35..seperated after 15 yrs of marriage..no kids..no house..no car..quit my job for various reasons. Was planning to get another job but my mum is ill and by all means insist...
    bird7964 bird7964 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    I am going out with a guy I barley know and I don't want to get attached to someone I don't even know.
    hayhaybown hayhaybown 16-17, F Dec 12

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    I don't know how to start this off... I haven't told anyone I'm attracted to girls. I've been this way since I was 15. I'm also a Christian. I feel like a huge hypocrite and I...
    xjourneyx xjourneyx 18-21, F 10 Responses Dec 14

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    I've only had sex with one person in my life and I've been married to him for 17 years. We've been together for a total of 22. And we're in our late 30's. There are times that I...
    LivingOneLife LivingOneLife 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 30

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    I kinda want to try a mmf 3way
    biventure biventure 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 10

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    I just want a freind..it's like know one understands me,everyone looks at me like I'm sh*t, im different, I know, but does that mean you can't simply say "hello"?
    EmoAngelOfLight EmoAngelOfLight 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    I am really finding it hard to find myself. I feel like I'm trying to keep my head turned left and right and left at the same time. On one side my music life. I'm a drummer in a...
    ultramegagaydrummerboy ultramegagaydrummerboy 18-21, M Dec 18

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    I don't know who I am....I know who I m not....I know what I like and I can assure you that is not normal....Is it normal to want to see others struggle with pain? Is it normal to...
    KLawliet KLawliet 13-15, F a week ago

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    sorry i carnt be a good slave coz im to mischievous sorry i want to die and sorry i carnt do anthing right i might as welll go
    Lasbutterfly Lasbutterfly 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a difficult time figuring out who I am... so whenever people say they know me, they never really do, for how do people know me when I don't even know myself?
    SydneyCrosson SydneyCrosson 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    And so i decided to start a little private gay-ish life. I made an account on a gay dating web and started chatting. I must say i found out success and failure and now i am the...
    BogdanBolinski BogdanBolinski 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    well since I.got away from "you" my mind is way clearer. I can breath. though I do want to experience u. just for the hell of it, if only once! I hope I can. though im really...
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F Dec 14

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    Stop making me feel bad. Go away. I deserve better. - To all of you - we all deserve better! This mindfuck only drives you crazy - don't listen. Merry Christmas to you all...
    meximum meximum 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    I really started to think about this after seeing the movie Lucy. I really want to know if we don't use 100% of our brain, and if not is it possible to do so.
    IndecisiveLateBloomer IndecisiveLateBloomer 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    I don't want to go quite that far but I would sure like for people to have the right to be naked when and where they wanted to be naked.
    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 26

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    I really am. The struggle is real.
    Jc0322 Jc0322 22-25, M 4 Responses Nov 26

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    It is so sture for me. Ever since I could remember of myself; growing up among friends.. I was known to be " the Mysterious one"..
    Cowsir66 Cowsir66 41-45, T 1 Response Nov 27

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    When stressed. Thanks seroquel.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 30

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    Trying to get a grasp of the first steps. Literally, the very first steps. Affirmations? Make 'To Do' lists? Buy a bottle of wine???
    skoo2 skoo2 46-50, F Dec 1

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    I can't explain how I feel to anyone because I don't even know myself.
    Court24 Court24 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 3

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