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I Want to Find a True Best Friend

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    I want to find a best friend

    who is really my friend and isn't using me for anything. I want someone who isn't a ***** and doesn't backstab me. Someone I can tell my secrets to and share my true personality with. Someone I can do crazy sh*t with and laugh until my eyes water about stupid stuff only we...
    xXchaos71Xx xXchaos71Xx 13-15, F 4 Responses May 20, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 16

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    Im waiting and looking

    for my true best friend like people waiting,wishing,looking for their soulmates :')
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F Oct 15, 2014

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    Hello I am happily married with children,

    the problem is I don't have someone who I would call my best friend. I have plenty of what you would call acquaintances but no-one who I can confide it, trust, do girly things with and ask for advice. I see others with close friends and they are so close and I'll admit I'm...
    Jaiholl Jaiholl 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2014

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    Very hard to come by it seems these days

    and times. You find one never let them go!
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    I had a best friend,the first best friend I

    actually connected very well with and felt the closest to anyone I've ever felt even though she's 5 years older than me. But 2 years ago when her father died I couldn't really very there for her and she was very angry with me and I understood that although I've never felt so...
    manykats1 manykats1 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    My relationship with my "best friend" / best

    friend is complicated. One day I'm glad I have her in my life, the next day she shows she's not my true friend, the third day she helps me out when I'm in need, the fourth day I'm jealous of her, sometimes I lose my confidence when with her, sometimes I envy her, sometimes I...
    yarazebian yarazebian 13-15, F May 18

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    My last best friend was an obsessed Directioner

    who always talk about 1D and never listens
    Violetlolla2 Violetlolla2 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    i feel like the loneliest girl in the world.

    i don't know why but i just can't make good friends. when i meet someone, i try to be nice. I never say or do anything that might hurt someone. I'm always there when someone needs me. despite everything, i always feel that they never appreciate my actitud. the word friend to me...
    naatalie naatalie 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Every person I'm associated with

    that is my age is exceptionally annoying. I suppose that they are all at the proper maturity level they should be at for their ages, but as I've always been around adults growing up, I've always been more mature. It's hard for people to get past my age to enjoy a friendship...
    marleynarley marleynarley 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    It seems like every friend I've ever found

    either leaves or we just grow apart. When will find one who wont talk **** about me behind my back or judge me for caring too much about everything?
    Livinglife95 Livinglife95 18-21, F Jan 22

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    There's something to be said

    for true friendship. No, not the kind where you see two girls tripping each other and acting like bumbling idiots. There's something to be said for discussing a good book, making real conversation. Getting past the small talk. Being familiar, open, and genuinely interested in...
    BlindingLight BlindingLight 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Finding a true best friend is IMPOSSIBLE these

    days. I really don't have anyone to reach out to or anyone who will be there for me when I just feel like talking or hanging out or when I feel like I'm about to explode. It's so sad, especially for someone like me who has disabilities and not many other people to lean on (some...
    JK7448 JK7448 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    i want to meet lots of new people i want to

    meet a great pearson that really intrigues me
    uselessfreak uselessfreak 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I hate this feeling. Going day by day with no

    one to talk to. Having no close friends or anyone for that matter to call a friend, to share random stupid things about :( I always feel like I try to talk to others via net & I'm always the one interested in talking & being silly. I never get the same thing in return. I...
    Nikky13 Nikky13 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I have never had a true best friend.

    But that's what I want to find. I feel like it's impossible. Every time I get a new friend, I don't feel they really want me the best. I feel alone.
    2greeneyess 2greeneyess 16-17, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I wish I could make friends more easily.

    I don't really want lots of friends just someone to talk to and share experiences with. I'm like two different people, at work people think I'm chatty and outgoing yet I am painfully shy and don't really know how to make friends. Really struggling with this at the moment. I have...
    lautner141 lautner141 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    The last time I had a true best friens was

    when I was in elementary school. We sleepover every weekend, go places together, and it would be non stop. It was like having a sister (which by the way I dont have) Anyways that was years ago... Hello High School... Well Since I've started High School back a few years ago, I...
    littleittybittytaco littleittybittytaco 16-17, F Jan 5

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    I am super envy to those people

    who is having a one great Best Friend. A person who's attentively listen to you or even pushing you up when you're down. Hoping to Find one here. :)
    kiminion14 kiminion14 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 6, 2014

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    I had a true best friend

    and we lost each other. Almost every day people ask me where she is cause everybody knew that we were like twins and it really hurts having to say that i don't know and to explain and everything. I still love her to death, but i know that it'll never be again as it was..
    stonedalone stonedalone 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    im 17 (: looking a bestfriend.

    had bestfriends before but i've been backstepped on :( i realized that we cant always trust ppl even tho they're near or maybe close to us. i just want a real friend, i dont want ppl near me i want someone who is far away from me, try something new :D kinda lonely bc im done...
    vanillacoke97 vanillacoke97 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    ➰ Let's see, I have have lots of friends come

    and go. I talk a lot with people online because they are easy to talk to and I can't make friends in person because of social anxiety and shyness. 🔱I have had really really REALLY good amazing friends in my life, that have made a big impact on my life or were very important...
    SilentlyExisting SilentlyExisting 18-21, M 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    It really makes me feel like crap

    when you are supposed to have plans with a friend who totally blows you off. Is it really that hard to make a two minute phone call to cancel? Sometimes people really suck.
    ummmnope ummmnope 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    I have never seemed like I really have a "best

    friend" and I just want to meet some people that would be open to me and accept me as a person. I have always had trust issues, and the first sentence says everything!
    Kaiterose Kaiterose 13-15, F 1 Response May 5

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    Both Of Us...

    One day I will meet a true friend! Both of us will share the same likes and dislikes we'll never get tired of hanging out and being together she would listen to my problems and try to help I would love to have a true friend to enter my life anytime soon...
    AnnaSavvy AnnaSavvy 13-15, F Aug 11, 2012

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    My best friend and I planned to spend the

    afternoon together. I spent the whole day waiting for her to finish school and then I texted her asking her when she'll get to my house. She bailed on me and said she won't come because she " doesn't feel like it". We got into a huge fight, I started it, and I told her that I...
    yarazebian yarazebian 13-15, F 2 Responses May 22

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    Someone you click with right from the start.

    Why does it have to be so hard? I'm honestly tired of meeting people I don't feel like I get along with greatly. It feels so meaningless, it's just temporary anyway. Is it just me?
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda 16-17, F Dec 22, 2014

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    I had a best friend,

    and i thought we would be friends forever but we slowly stopped to talk and we're strangers now. It's been few months but i'm so completely lost without her, i realized that she was my only true friend-i barely speak to anyone else, and now i have no one i could talk to, have...
    maliedestinee maliedestinee 16-17, F 2 Responses May 16, 2014

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    Seriously! is this too hard to do

    or something? I've had best friends and they all end up being ******** so I get rid of the toxicity and feel super lonely.
    lusomk lusomk 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Im so sick and tired of being the one reaching

    out. Who is going to reach out for me? Who is gonna delight in my time and attention? So tired of fake people.
    ChocoCherryMousse ChocoCherryMousse 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    Normal teenage girl out there dying to have a

    "purfect" prince charming and here i am just hoping to find a true best friend even just 1 :/
    Unstableteen Unstableteen 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    Honestly, I am not a true believer

    that friends are important, seeing as all mine seem to be absolute *******. But I just wish I had someone I could tell everything. Especially now.
    kyrawtf kyrawtf 18-21, F 2 Responses May 6

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    ♥ Bestie?

    I'm from Minnesota, Still In High-School. 17... Female ... >_> It's about time I've had a best friend like... I'm about to be out of High-School. and I still haven't had a Best-Friend?  -_- I'm too weird I guess. I'm really quiet, I like a lot of Colors, Body Modifications...
    OrisonMadisonti OrisonMadisonti 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Sometimes we need a stranger to talk to him to

    carry our concerns and go away
    darklord777 darklord777 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    i just want someone i can get to know

    and share my feelings and life with. seems like it is hard now a days to become close with anyone,
    ohiomomof2 ohiomomof2 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2014

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    I don't want.. I need a best friend.

    someone to accept me.. any takers?
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 15

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    I want a best friend

    that I can tell anything to. I want someone that will listen to my problems and give me advice. And I will do the same for them.
    uselessfreak uselessfreak 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Are you the person that's supposed to be

    running by my side? Well if you would want to be the actual Sonic's best bud then you probably are. We aren't exactly the same in every way though, I'm like what he could have turned out to be if he had to live in modern America, but close enough. If you're the Tails, or if you...
    justcallmesonic justcallmesonic 16-17, M Jun 26

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    Hi It's Layla

    Hey I am 19 and I'm looking for a friend all mine have stabbed me in the back and I have no friends I have noone to talk too or go shopping with I need a bestie :(
    laylam laylam 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    I'd like to have a best friend

    but am shy. I had one but she married early in high school and left the state. I'm married but lonely. He's been a Casanova, but really doesn't care for my company. Sure could use a friend!
    elsieme elsieme 61-65, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I am looking a friend

    who understand me
    rajnish12345 rajnish12345 26-30, M a week ago

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    Never had a true best friend.

    I thought I married my bf/soulmate.... but that had an expiration date..who knew
    mrsrshaw mrsrshaw 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    zxeii zxeii 13-15, F 3 Responses May 22

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    I want a best friend

    that will be everything that I can't be. I want someone who is pushy, impatient, and loud. I need a best friend who will force me to do things that are good for me that I known I won't do otherwise, like get out of bed before noon. I need someone who will laugh with me and stay...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 31, 2013

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